[2003] 1/1/2003 12:00:00 AM

purple_stardust

«·´¨`·.¸¸.* HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! *.¸¸.·´¨`·»
   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/1/2003 12:16:31 AM

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 1/1/2003 12:27:49 AM

HAPPY NEW YEARS!!!
From: [info]sjcarpediem
Date: 1/1/2003 3:51:15 AM

ooooh.... pretty blinkie purple writing...
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 1/1/2003 10:27:55 AM

H a p p y N e w Y e a r ! ! !

[dinner - hors d'oeuvres] 1/1/2003 1:05:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |web - neopets.com / tv - nick-at-nite]

Various crackers with cream cheese and caviar and stuff. Cheese. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[note to self] 1/1/2003 2:10:00 PM

purple_stardust

I can add sex to the list of things that I don't have the attention span for.

   

Comments:
From: [info]gypsydance
Date: 1/1/2003 3:54:54 PM

Hee! So glad I'm not the only one. :P
From: [info]bioclaire
Date: 1/1/2003 4:08:42 PM

LOL! After a while, I'm with you guys, too.... :O
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/1/2003 8:09:25 PM

I'm glad too! I'm all, well this was fun, but can we do something else now? *sigh*
From: [info]gypsydance
Date: 1/1/2003 10:07:51 PM

Mine goes more like "JUST sex? Only do one thing at a time? Are you kidding? Isn't there some way I can surf the 'net, watch TV, clean my house, and pay bills while I do this?"
From: [info]sjcarpediem
Date: 1/1/2003 5:43:36 PM

I must say that this is only true for me when my partner is a dork.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/1/2003 8:05:18 PM

And see, I don 't have relationships with NON-dorks! LOL
From: [info]sjcarpediem
Date: 1/1/2003 8:35:04 PM

LoL!

[first shopping of the year] 1/1/2003 7:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |shopariffic]
[Current Music |tv - abc - football game]


We went over to Hagerstown so I could look for Lunar Legend for GBA. I never did find it (everyone was sold out), but I did buy The Phantasy Star Collection. And then we stopped at Petsmart, where I bought a pretty ryukin called Mazel Tov. He enjoys attacking the stray anacharis, and rooting in the pebbles with Simon.
   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/1/2003 8:07:01 PM

He's so cute!!!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/1/2003 8:11:49 PM

He IS! He has a little orange mustache! =D

Have you played The Phantasy Star Collection for GBA yet?
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 1/1/2003 8:16:17 PM

He's so pretty...
From: [info]katarina42
Date: 1/1/2003 9:47:52 PM

He's adorable! ^_^
From: [info]cellio
Date: 1/2/2003 9:59:16 AM

Oooh, pretty!
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 1/2/2003 11:31:40 AM

Ohhh, a real cutie! I'm down to just Marr in the big tank now, Joycey died just after Christmas :( Marr's lonely but I won't get another for a while, at least till I'm sure that the tank is 'clean'. Mazel Tov is lovely though, gorgeous fins!

[less is more] 1/1/2003 9:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |decisive]
[Current Music |tv - abc - football game]

My New Year resolution is LESS: less smoking, less eating, less weight. I would also like to try to de-clutter this place, we keep WAY too much stuff. Less is more, in this apartment.

I would also like to become more active in the Jewish community; go to shul regularly, volenteer for community help projects, etcetera. I also want to study better, and keep kosher more fully.

I think that's it.

   

[dinner] 1/1/2003 10:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |bored]
[Current Music |tv - abc - football game]

Salt n' Vinegar chips with mustard. Regular Coke.

   

Comments:
From: [info]cellio
Date: 1/2/2003 9:56:53 AM

Just out of curiosity, do you ever eat veggies?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/2/2003 10:25:55 AM

They were potato chips, and potatos are vegetables! :-P

No, actually I don't eat vegetables, if I can help it. I only like one, broccoli, and then only the heads, and then only if they're well-cooked, and preferably covered in cheese. And I eat even less fruit than I do veggies.

[today] 1/2/2003 3:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |tv - abc - soap operas]

I feel weird. Not sick, just sort of off. I felt this way yesterday, too. I feel like I have a hangover or something, just sort of blah, and in a stupor. I feel like I'm taking Paxil. Blah.

I did manage to clean the goldfish aquarium this morning. There was gross algae buildup on the underside of the glass plate that goes between the light and the tank, so I cleaned that too - the tank is much brighter now, hooray. I still need to round up the stray anacharis.

They're calling for bad weather for at least the next three days, so I hope Rusty gets home early... I need to go to the store and stock up on food and cigarettes and stuff.

   

Comments:
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 1/2/2003 3:42:57 PM

That's it!

[[I feel like I have a hangover or something, just sort of blah, and in a stupor. I feel like I'm taking Paxil.]]

That is exactly how I've been feeling over the past couple of days...it's like some sort of sleeping sickness or something! (Which I don't know if there is such a thing, but that's what it feels like.)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/2/2003 3:50:51 PM

Re: That's it!

Ugh... I'm sorry to hear that, because this REALLY sucks. :\

[why i hate mid-week holidays] 1/2/2003 4:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |flakey]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

I just got everything ready for Shabbat - candlesticks out, candles in place, tzedakah box on the table, challah rolls ready to go... and then realised that today is Thursday. D'oh!

   

Comments:
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 1/3/2003 11:17:52 AM

I got all excited this morning because I thought "Yaaay, it's Wednesday tomorrow, shopping!!" Then I realised it was actually Friday today... bugger.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/3/2003 11:30:59 AM

We have been screwed up since xmas. Rusty got off work xmas eve and xmas day, so that was a weekend (in my mind). So then he went back to work on a Thursday, which became Monday, and Friday was Tuesday... then the next week, he got paid early because of the holiday, so Monday became Wednesday (his regular payday) and Tuesday became Thursday (the day I usually go to the bank). Of course he was off Wednesday, so that became Sunday. But then yesterday was Friday, for some reason. I'm so confused!!!

[settled] 1/2/2003 8:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |goofy]
[Current Music |tv - fox news channel - the o'reilly factor]

There was some sleet this evening, so Rusty drove me to the supermarket and announced to all the other customers that I had a nice firm ass. My glutorial status aside, we have cigarettes and pet food and even human food to keep us set though the upcoming bad weather.

   

[orders - mostly for my own reference] 1/2/2003 8:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |excited]
[Current Music |tv - fox news channel - the o'reilly factor]

I ordered Lunar Legend last night with overnight shipping... so I hope it comes tomorrow! Via Ebay, I found coloured GBA game boxes, and a faceplate kit so that I can turn my Milky Pink GBA into Indigo. This is assuming, of course, that Indigo really looks as purple as it does in the photos I've seen. And again, I MISS ATOMIC PURPLE!!!

Other outstanding orders: a 1/2" punch from 1stopsquare.com (ordered 12-26-02), and a Meet The Press mug for Rusty (ordered today).

So at least if I'm stuck in the house for a few days, I'll be getting fun stuff in the mail. :)

   

Comments:
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 1/3/2003 5:17:58 AM

You have a GBA huh? I just bought one. I have buyers remorse about it, too, but I sure missed having some sort of video game system. (I compromised with the GBA because a) I don't want to spend the money required for an X-Box or Playstation or whatnot and b) I don't want to hook anything more up to my TV.)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/3/2003 10:42:23 AM

Oh, I love my GBA, I just wish they came in more colours. I like it for when Rusty is using the TV, I can still play my games. Also handy for when we have to go to his parent's house so I have something to DO.

I want to get a PS2 (we already have a ton of Playstation games), but I am waiting for the price to come down.
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 1/4/2003 4:35:31 AM

Re:

I just bought the white one, er, "arctic," which was honestly my favorite.

Yes, I had an urge to play video games, but didn't want to buy a system per se... and thus I compromised with a Game Boy. Thus far I only have the Two Towers game though.

[dinner] 1/3/2003 12:20:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |web - neopets.com / tv - nick-at-nite]

Salad w/honey mustard dressing. Cottage cheese. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

Comments:
From: [info]cellio
Date: 1/3/2003 10:15:03 AM

Salad

Veggies! I have been a corrupting influence! My work is done here. :-)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/3/2003 10:43:30 AM

LOL! Ya know, I DID think of you when I ate it! :)

[friday five] 1/3/2003 10:35:00 AM

purple_stardust

1. Do you wear any jewelry? What kind?
Diamond ring, gold band, ruby/diamond ring, two purple bead bracelets, gold SOD necklace.

2. How often do you wear it?
Every day. There is more that I wear only occasionally.

3. Do you have any piercings? If so, where?
Six ear lobe, three ear cartilage, one navel.

4. Do you have any tattoos? If so, where?
Two; one on my arm and one on my hip/bikini line.

5. What are your plans for the weekend?
Coffee-drinking, monster-slaying, clean the rat cages.

{fridayfive.org}

   

[weather] 1/3/2003 10:45:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sleepy]
[Current Music |tv - abc stuff]

Rusty isn't working today, because of the yucky weather. Unfortunately, this means that he has to work tomorrow, instead. And then who will *I* play with??? Bah.

   

Comments:
From: [info]the_never
Date: 1/3/2003 4:55:55 PM

if you lived closer, you could join my D&D campaign.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/3/2003 5:40:18 PM

Oooh, I haven't played D&D for years (since my early 20's, at least). I still have one of the early sets in my shed...

[the good news] 1/3/2003 11:40:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |excited]
[Current Music |tv - abc stuff]

The FedEx truck containing Lunar Legend is "out for delivery" ...hoo wah!

UPDATE: It's here! Hooray! I lurve the FedEx guy.

   

Comments:
From: [info]bioclaire
Date: 1/3/2003 8:41:13 PM

WOOHOO! How is it????? I want that game too O_O
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/3/2003 9:12:11 PM

I haven't actually played it yet, but it LOOKS awesome! All the old characters are there, even Nash! I am trying to talk my ex into buying it for the boys, so I'll have someone to trade cards with...
From: [info]bioclaire
Date: 1/4/2003 12:12:39 AM

Re:

>.> Where do you live? We could trade cards..... *dork*
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/4/2003 11:01:26 AM

I'm in the eastern panhandle of WV, about an hour north of DC. :(

...Gameboy needs a way that you can email these cards! =D
From: [info]bioclaire
Date: 1/4/2003 11:35:38 AM

Re:

LOL hell yeah. :)

[lion pooping goodness] 1/3/2003 4:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |oogley googley]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

I must have this new PC game: Zoo Tycoon.

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 1/3/2003 5:01:44 PM

Oh, very, very cool. I need this game, too. :)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/3/2003 5:28:25 PM

Isn't that COOL? It's like Caesar 3, but with pretty animals instead of old Roman guys. I've been playing the demo all day, which is nifty, but only comes with four animals. I need more animals! :)
From: [info]bioclaire
Date: 1/3/2003 8:40:17 PM

Me too! Its not really new, but the marine expansion pack is... :D You can have tanks full of sharks that eat people! YAY!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/3/2003 9:08:40 PM

Leave it to you, lol! Actually, I shouldn't talk... I was letting my lions go free earlier, and trapping the people in with them! =)
From: [info]bioclaire
Date: 1/4/2003 12:07:03 AM

Re:

Hahahahaha thats fantastic! :P

[my preciousss] 1/3/2003 4:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |bouncy]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

I've ordered Zoo Tycoon. Now I must put away Happy Fun Card, lest it spontaneously combust.

   

Comments:
From: [info]gypsydance
Date: 1/4/2003 3:27:47 AM

Okay, I've been trying to avoid this, but it must be asked...

Is breeding rats that profitable? Every other day, you're buying tons of stuff. If so, I wanna breed rats. My cats would also be interested in this. Please tell me how to get started. :P

(If not, please teach the rest of us your secrets?)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/4/2003 10:50:52 AM

Oh goodness, no... I spend WAY more money just having rats, than I ever make breeding them.

I have no secrets, other than that I live in an area with a low cost of living, and I prioritise things a bit oddly (only run one car instead of two, for example) because I would rather share a car and have money, than each have our own cars and be strapped for cash. Also, we only buy cars used when we have the cash to buy them outright - I can't imagine having a car payment cutting into my monthly money. We also live in a cheap apartment. Basically, I keep my 'grown-up' expenses low, so that I can afford to buy more 'fun' stuff. :)

[hooray] 1/3/2003 7:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |crafty]
[Current Music |tv - abc - jeopardy]

I did accomplish one thing today - I made a set of beaded thingies for my crystal candlesticks, like the ones that I made for my mom. They are the official Shabbat candlesticks now.

   

Comments:
From: [info]bioclaire
Date: 1/3/2003 8:37:56 PM

They are pretty. :) How did you make them?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/3/2003 8:59:17 PM

Thanks! I cut a piece of beading thread about 18 inches long, and tied a silver seed bead on one end. Then I strung enough silver seed beads to wrap around the top part of the candlestick, and then ran the thread through that first bead. For the vertical part, I strung five silver seed beads, then a clear blue seed bead, then a silver bugle bead, then a clear blue seed bead, silver bugle, clear blue seed bead, silver bugle, clear blue seed bead, and then five silver seed beads. Then I put on one more bead and wrap the thread through it once so that the part you just did is secure, but you still have the length of the thread to work with. Then you just string enough silver seed beads to drape around the base of the candlestick - it should be long enough to drape gracefully but not long enough to fall off. When there are enough on there, run the thread back through the vertical section (for security) and tie it off. :)
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 1/3/2003 9:37:59 PM

That's a cool idea! Pretty.

[zoo tycoon add-ons] 1/3/2003 9:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |boggley]
[Current Music |web - zoo tycoon / tv - fiesta bowl]

And then there are sites like Zoo Admin, where you can download anything you could possibly want for your zoo, right down to the Taco Bell stand! /boggles

   

[dinner] 1/4/2003 2:25:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon demo / tv - nick-at-nite]

Wheat crackers with spray cheese. Miscellaneous chocolate. Diet Pepsi.

   

[random rat stuff - mostly for my own reference] 1/4/2003 5:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |puzzled]
[Current Music |tv - spongebob squarepants]

My sweet girl Bella is having her first real bout with myco (though she still shows no sign of tumours at age 22 months, hooray). A lot of my other rats have been sneezing lately; I think it's a combination of the dry air and the wild temperature changes lately. I have put them all on echinacea... tomorrow I will try to get the humidifier cleaned and set up.

There are a TON of emails that I need to respond too, people asking about the next litter. I don't know what to tell these people, because I don't know what I'm doing, myself. I want to breed Bailey, but if I'm going to do it, I need to do it now, before she gets any older. The problem is, one potential stud (Bleu) doesn't seem to be able, and the other three possibilities (Zootie, Brutoo, Blooberry, and Hoggle) are all still too young! They would be physically able of course, but they are too young to judge their health and temperament accurately. Actually, I would probably be okay with Zootie or Brutie, as I know their lines better, but Blueberry and Hoggle came from another breeder, who I don't know. Argh. I don't know what to do.

Tomorrow, I need to clean cages, igloos, and water bottles. I also want to try to move Minky Beast into the main girls colony, in order to free up the breeding/maternity cage. I hope the transition will go smoothly, sometimes girl rats can be as bitchy as their female counterparts.

   

Comments:
From: [info]astralweeks
Date: 1/5/2003 12:09:32 AM

I am sending you an e-mail. I thought it was better than making a public post here...
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 1/5/2003 1:45:49 AM

You will breed... no, you will CLONE... Blooberry. And you will give him to me!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/5/2003 10:58:00 AM

LOL!

I may have to resort to cloning, as none of these little buggers seem to want to do The Deed! =D
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 1/5/2003 12:32:37 PM

How many little critters do you have?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/5/2003 1:06:09 PM

I have 25 rats. The scary thing is, I know people who have MORE. =)

[dinner] 1/5/2003 1:30:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |contemplative]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - nick-at-nite]

Papa Johns cheesesticks w/ cheese and pizza sauces. Chocolate. Regular Coke.

   

[i need to vent] 1/5/2003 3:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |pissed off]
[Current Music |tv - pittsburgh steelers game]

There is a person on my list who got a rat from me. The rat now has a lump on his throat, which sounds from her description, like an abcess. So she leaves this cryptic message in my journal, that she'll email me about the rat, as if it's some scandelous thing, or I am somehow to blame for this lump. Whatever. So I get the email, in which she says:

"I figured that, as Tucker's breeder, you may need to know these things or something, but it appears as though he has a small tumour on his neck. He is completely healthy, happy, sniffle and porphyril free, moves around just fine and is otherwise quite happy. He still needs to see a vet though, because while it is small and may be benign, I don't really know. Is (about) 9 months old too early for tumors/cancer?"

And of course it is. So I ask her about the lump, thinking I will ask my breeder friends if they have any other ideas. And she emails back and says:

"The lump is pretty solid. It started out very tiny, but it seems that in a matter of DAYS (not weeks or months, days) it has grown quite large. I think he has only had it a few weeks, or at least that is when I noticed it. It doesn't seem to bother him at all, though. Any info you could give me would be much appreciated so I could go to the vet a bit more prepared."

But the thing is, she's lying. It's not a matter of days, and hasn't been there just for a few weeks... it's been THREE MONTHS. She first mentioned the lump on 10-03-02. I knew it had been a while, but I just went back through her old journal to check. She says there that she's going to take him to the vet too, and yet I'm guessing that she never will.

It's people like this that make me reconsider breeding. :\

   

Comments:
From: [info]darqueangel
Date: 1/5/2003 3:16:10 PM

** moans about Current music: tv - pittsburgh steelers game **

Could this game get much worse?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/5/2003 3:26:27 PM

Not much, no.

Oh look! Pittsburgh scored! Amazing...
From: [info]darqueangel
Date: 1/5/2003 3:27:33 PM

Re:

YaY!
now we're only down by 11....

We better friggin win dammnit
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/5/2003 4:41:04 PM

WOO HOO!!!
From: [info]jacquez
Date: 1/5/2003 3:43:57 PM

Ack.

That's sucky. Abcesses aren't uncommon, they're not expensive to treat, and...jeez. [insert standard rant about people not taking proper care of their animals here].
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/5/2003 4:36:31 PM

Yeah, exactly. :(
From: [info]arkady
Date: 1/5/2003 4:42:13 PM

It's sickening when things like that happen, isn't it? As a breeder myself - and particularly in light of my experience with Hayley - you have my sympathies. Venus should be giving birth this week, and I've already got a list of people inquiring (they all want a platinum dumbo, and I suspect they'll all be disappointed!!)...and once the babies are born, I'll be practically putting each one through the Spanish Inquisition!! I have a standard list of questions now that I will send out to all interested parties, demanding to know how many rats they have already, size, style and make of cages, current diet of their rats, any health problems with their current rats, the name, address and contact number of their vet (and yes, I do phone to check up on whether they've actually registered with that vet!), and any other animals they've had!! Also many of us breeders in the UK have a sort of informal "blacklist", and we advise each other if one of us has had a problem with a potential owner.

It's nervewracking sometimes, trying to ensure the best for your babies, isn't it?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/5/2003 5:24:18 PM

Yeah, I figured you could appreciate the situation. :\

There are a few breeders in my area that keep in touch and give each other a heads up if we know of a potentially bad owner, but not on a large scale. The questions sound like a good idea, too... I need to work up a standard set, myself. How do you handle people who give the 'wrong' answer, but you can't tell if it's beginner's ignorance or if they just don't give a shit? Because I don't think this girl is malicious, just... ignorant. I don't know what to make of her. She seems to genuinely care about her pets, but is too wrapped up with her own hang-ups to do what's right for them. Feh.
From: [info]arkady
Date: 1/5/2003 5:37:02 PM

A lot of it, I go on gut instinct. If someone genuinely seems ignorant but is willing to do the best for their babies, I'll try to gently re-educate them. If I think they just don't care or can't comprehend how important it is, I have to be harsh and just say, "Sorry, no."

I'm going to modify the inquiries form on my site shortly to include all my questions, with certain fields flagged so that they have to give me full details. that way, if there's someone I'm not sure about, I can give the old standby answer - "Sorry, that rat's already been reserved." Heh...last time, one of the "blacklisted" people asked me for blue rats, and I said all the blue ones were reserved. She replied, "But they're still listed on the Rat Kittens register!" I pointed out that Estelle Sandford, the register maintainer, probably hadn't gotten around to updating it yet! Estelle found that very amusing. Then there was the agricultural college that wanted a breeding pair for their genetic studies lab. I just sent back a very terse reply stating that I do not provide livestock to scientific institutes.

At the end of the day, sometimes you just have to be blunt - and not let things like an online friendship come in the way of what's best for your babies. Something I wish i'd taken to heart before Hayley ever got her hands on Emily. :-(
From: [info]arkady
Date: 1/5/2003 5:58:40 PM

Oh, by the way; just as a guide, these are the standard questions I ask:

  • What sort of cage do you have/intend to buy (i.e. make if known, size, type of shelving, etc.)?
  • What food do you feed/intend to feed your rats on?
  • What sort of litter do you use/intend to use in the cage?
  • Have you kept rats before? Did you have any problems with them healthwise?
  • Are you registered with a nearby vet; if so, which one? Please provide full details where possible.
  • Are you a member of any rat societies, e.g. National Fancy Rat Society, London And Southern Counties Mouse And Rat Club, Rat Fan Club etc.?
  • Do you have any other animals that might take an interest in the rats - e.g. dogs, cats, free-range ferrets or parrots?
  • Are there any small children in the household, and if so what ages?


No doubt over time I will come up with a few additional questions, but at the moment they're the main biggies!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/5/2003 6:23:42 PM

Those are great! Mind if I borrow some of them for my own use?
From: [info]arkady
Date: 1/5/2003 6:27:35 PM

Not at all, go right ahead and adapt them as you see fit! That is why I posted them! :-)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/5/2003 6:47:02 PM

Thanks! I may post them on my site as a 'before you contact me, fill this out' kind of thing... might weed out some of the riffraff from the get-go! :)
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 1/5/2003 5:15:57 PM

Ugh...I think that would just make me sick.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/5/2003 5:27:20 PM

It is. :(
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/5/2003 7:37:58 PM

ARGH!

I know she's not a bad person, and I KNOW she cares about her pets, so what the fuck is the problem? If she emailed me, she could bring him right to my house, I would give her medication, drain the abscess, and fix it right away.

If you talk to her, tell her that, if you want, since I'm not on her friends list anymore.
From: [info]rattyluv
Date: 1/5/2003 7:38:39 PM

lump

If it's who I think it is you're talking about. She's an idiot anyway. Poor little rattie too. Why the hell didn't she take him to the vet way back then? Loser that she is.

[dinner] 1/6/2003 1:15:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |confused]
[Current Music |pc - breeder's assistant / tv - nick-at-night]

Salad w/honey mustard dressing. Cottage cheese. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[zoo tycoon] 1/6/2003 10:15:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |excited]
[Current Music |tv - abc stuff]

I made a really good zoo with the Zoo Tycoon demo - four exhibits, all perfectly suited to the animals - and then I just let it run... until it had racked up 10 million dollars in sales! Then I saved it, and I'm hoping that I can use that save file when I get the full game. Of course it's the small map (the only one you get with the demo), but still, 10 million dollars with all the animals available, would be very cool indeed. I want to buy elephants! And golden lion tamarins!

Speaking of which, my game made it to Hagerstown MD, and is now 'out for delivery'. Woot!

   

Comments:
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 1/6/2003 6:47:52 PM

So have you tried it yet? Did it let you use your save file with the full version?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/6/2003 7:08:10 PM

Oh yeah! Same zoo, same 10 million dollars... except now I can buy elephants and stuff. :)
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 1/6/2003 9:31:28 PM

Re:

Coool. I've been playing with it this evening. I don't know if I'll bother buying the full game, but the demo was fun.

[wtf?] 1/6/2003 11:00:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |annoyed]
[Current Music |tv - abc stuff]

* delivery attempt - HAGERSTOWN MD 01/06/2003 10:43 - incorrect address *

So I called FedEx customer service, and the very nice lady told me that I had moved. Umm, no. I think I would know if I had moved. So I explained in detail how to get to my specific apartment, and she said she would send the driver back. Jeez. I just want my game, people.

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 1/6/2003 12:57:30 PM

That's so funny... Fed Ex tells you that you moved, like you wouldn't know.

If that fed ex isn't there soon we'll go track him down and kick his ass, ok?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/6/2003 1:04:34 PM

I know! I'm pretty slow at times, but I think I would pick up on something like that! If nothing else, surely Rusty would have mentioned it... now honey, remember, when you get done at the store, don't go back to College Street, because we moved.

I'm going to call them back and tell them that a posse is forming! =D

[waiting] 1/6/2003 12:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |impatient]
[Current Music |tv - abc stuff]

There is one advantage* to living with a land surveyor... Yes, I tied a piece of hot pink flagging ribbon to our gate. Miss that, FedEx Buffoon. I wish he would hurry up and come back; I'm afraid to go pee now. And I want my freaking game!!!

* There are actually three advantages. One is the flagging ribbon. Another is the rebar caps used to mark property corners - they make great rat toys. The third advantage is, Rusty always knows when new stores and restaurants are coming to town. Of course, the disadvantages include muddy jeans and really gross socks.

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/6/2003 12:47:05 PM

What is it with those shipping dorks? I'm convinced that they don't even TRY to deliver things the first time around. They just drive past the house, snicker, and move on, waiting for you to call before they will actually deliver anything.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/6/2003 12:59:23 PM

I KNOW!!! And how stupid is this, really, if you think about it: I ordered this game with overnight delivery. Would anyone order something with overnight delivery, and then move the next day? Duh.
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/6/2003 1:00:59 PM

Re:

Well, apparently you would, you freak.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/6/2003 1:07:11 PM

Hey, *I'm* not the one who lists stapelia gigantea as an interest! :-P
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/6/2003 1:08:43 PM

At least I don't order things and then move the next day just so that I don't have to deal with seeing the delivery man. Ha!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/6/2003 1:15:37 PM

*choking*

Please don't post things like that when I really have to pee but am unable to leave the living room. =-D

[hooray] 1/6/2003 1:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |bouncy]
[Current Music |tv - abc stuff]

It's here! It's here! Zoo Tycoon is here!

   

[zoo tycoons] 1/6/2003 9:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |silly]
[Current Music |tv - hardball with chris matthews]

I just found the community! =)

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/7/2003 10:49:10 AM

I read that as Zooty Coons, and I couldn't figure out WHY there was a community for Zootie Frootie the rat. Er...
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/7/2003 11:38:11 AM

It does look like Zooty Coons, that's what I saw too.

And Zootie thinks that he should have a fan club community!
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/7/2003 12:55:41 PM

Rats are such little egotists. :D

[lions in love] 1/6/2003 11:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - fox news channel - the o'reilly factor]

I have baby lions out the wazoo! Oh my...

   

[dinner] 1/7/2003 1:00:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - nick-at-nite]

Fish and chedder shells. Rye bread w/ cheese sauce. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[oekaki] 1/7/2003 12:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |caffeinated]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - abc soaps]


I made this drawring using Oekaki - thanks to Peter for the link! And now, back to the zoo...
   

[general hospital] 1/7/2003 3:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |shocked]
[Current Music |tv - general hospital]

Woah. Jamie, did you see today's episode of GH yet???

   

Comments:
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 1/7/2003 7:10:35 PM

Yes, why?? Some of the time I wasn't paying attention, or I was flipping back and forth between it and Seinfeld. What did I miss??
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/7/2003 8:14:37 PM

Did you see the very end, when Cameron (Lane Davies, yum) tells Alexis about his son(s)? Oh my.

[unique interests - a meme by me] 1/7/2003 5:05:00 PM

purple_stardust

What unlinked interests do you have that no one else on Live Journal lists?

I have five:

breeders assistant
british coins
gender determination
rat genetics
the shettles theory

How about you?

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/7/2003 5:52:04 PM

I've got 15 of them, and I'd have more except for the fact that a few of the communities I maintain share those interests on their list. So basically I share those interests with myself. =)
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 1/7/2003 7:09:03 PM

The only thing on mine is "cow photography". :)
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 1/7/2003 10:12:21 PM

For some reason, "the whore red honda" is linked, but only to myself.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/7/2003 10:32:09 PM

That is so weird, on so many levels. ;D
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 1/9/2003 3:57:49 AM

I haven't got a clue as to what you're talking about. ;)
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 1/7/2003 10:47:26 PM

Okay, well here's mine:

-'burbs (as in The 'burbs, the movie...I was thinking about changing it earlier today to that. My neighborhood reminds me of it, but not nearly as much after a bunch of my neighbors all moved out. The new ones are kind of boring; they don't do anything exciting...or at least I hope...I'd rather not learn about secret rituals.)
-laughing with my family
-meeting weird folk
-playing with my kid
-talking about my kid
-talking to my kid
From: [info]clarice
Date: 1/8/2003 1:06:22 AM

I have three:

Amaia Montero
General Mindless Merriment
Coffee House Music

and, until recently,
Velvetina.
From: [info]arkady
Date: 1/8/2003 4:28:37 AM

Hmm...I have breeder's assistant on mine actually; just never got around to adding rat genetics. The others I have that are unique are ghost stations, spiritual crises, and vags (which is short for vags.net, the online Goth clothing store run by my friend [info]needler.

[dinner - delivery from anthony's] 1/8/2003 12:55:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |not great]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - nick-at-nite]

Steak and chedder sub w/ mustard. Mozzerella sticks. Ice cream sandwich. Regular Coke.

   

[burning question] 1/8/2003 11:55:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |curious]
[Current Music |tv - nickelodeon]

The burning question of the day is: Is Barry Manilow gay?

Seriously, does anyone know? When I was a kid, I always assumed that he was straight (probably because I had a huge crush on him at the time). However, I've never heard of him being romantically linked to a woman (odd at his age), and then right before xmas, he was on Regis & Kelly, and they never asked him about his love life, which is unusual for them. So now I'm wondering if he IS gay, and I'm the only one who doesn't know.

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/8/2003 12:11:44 PM

I think a lot of people think he is, but he claims to be straight, or else doesn't talk about it.

That's the gist I'm getting from a web search, anyway.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/8/2003 12:15:38 PM

I wondered too, if he would say if he was... I think it would probably be detrimental to his female fan base. If you've ever seen the audience at one of his shows, those women *want* him.
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/8/2003 12:25:13 PM

...you know, I've always wondered about that assumption.

I mean, there are plenty of celebrities and the like that I find very attractive, but I'm pretty sure that none of them are going to be showing up at my door with an armful of flowers and a bottle of champagne, regardless of sexual orientation.

Really, why should it matter, if it's all a matter of fantasy anyway?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/8/2003 12:56:06 PM

I dunno... I tend not to have those fantasies about men that I *know* are gay. On the other hand, men who *might* be gay (Doug, on Trading Spaces is a fine example) are still fair game.

On the other other hand, I also have a crush on Lisa Bonet, and I'm pretty sure neither one of us is gay. :)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/8/2003 12:19:58 PM

I did find one article that says he started out playing piano in the gay bathhouses of New York. What the hell is a gay bathhouse?
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/8/2003 12:24:19 PM

Re:

http://www.gaytubs.com/
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/8/2003 1:01:22 PM

Oh my. That's just weird, no matter what your sexual preference.
From: [info]jacquez
Date: 1/8/2003 1:42:39 PM

It's apparently a matter of some debate. However, in the bio you linked to, there's this:
The highlight of 1999 was the Gay Men's Health Center Benefit for AIDS care at Carnegie Hall. Barry recruited 30 studio musicians to add to his core band, and they played Barry's greatest hits with an amazing live sound. The evening culminated with a standing ovation as the New York Gay Men's Chorus joined Barry for the surprise finale song, "Stars in the Night," the emotional closing song from Harmony.

*shrug* That's not conclusive or definitive or anything, but it's a touch odd.
From: [info]jacquez
Date: 1/8/2003 1:45:00 PM

i asked a friend whose girlfriend is a manilow fan, and he says

she couldn't think of a specific example of hims saying "Yes, I am Gay!"
but he does generally skirt the question when it comes up and does not
deny it. He was married for a while, but that was eventually annulled for
reasons not available to the public. He does gay benefits and works with the
gay men's chior, but has never specifically outed himself. He claims he
wants Barbara Streisand to portray him in the movie of his life

From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/8/2003 2:11:00 PM

{he wants Barbara Streisand to portray him in the movie of his life}

That sounds gay to me... or at least really, really weird. =D

Thanks for the info!
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 1/8/2003 2:29:26 PM

HA! Yeah, if that doesn't scream GAY then nothing does! I've always presumed he was gay.
From: [info]freethinkernj
Date: 1/8/2003 2:47:06 PM

To be honest, I don't think he's gay. I know this will sound weird, but Barry just strikes me as someone who is married to his music. He is just SO into his music and his own talent. He's rather conceited, though he masks it fairly well, but I've heard him make some doozy comments about himself. So it could be the case that women (or men) don't hold the same interest for him as his music does.

Just a thought :)

[rip bella] 1/8/2003 9:00:00 PM

purple_stardust

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/8/2003 9:37:49 PM

=(
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/8/2003 9:41:30 PM

Yeah. The good news, such as it is, is that I don't think it was anything genetic now.

[weird] 1/8/2003 9:50:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |puzzled]
[Current Music |tv - the west wing]

I'm playing with the 'screen comments' feature, and I don't quite get the point of it.

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/8/2003 10:09:44 PM

Is so that only the owner of the journal can view comments left in the journal. I guess if people consistently start fights in your journal, or people wanted to use LJ to communicate private things to each other, it would be useful.

<shrug>
From: [info]johno
Date: 1/8/2003 10:11:34 PM

It's a way of keeping comments, but not letting anyone see them.

Unfortunatily for the journal owner to read it, you have to unscreen it.

Strange.

Also, you end up with a [0 comments posted] on your top level page.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/8/2003 10:18:53 PM

Yeah, I noticed that... weird. Is there anyway to UN-screen a previously screened comment?
From: [info]pinkteabag
Date: 1/8/2003 10:33:56 PM

just click the unscreen button (which previously was the screen button) if that made sense :P
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/8/2003 10:51:00 PM

Cool, thanks! I didn't even see that button the first time I looked. D'oh!

[dinner - leftovers] 1/9/2003 12:45:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - nick-at-nite]

Leftover steak and chedder sub. Cottage cheese. Vanilla wafers. Regular Coke.

   

[smashing!] 1/9/2003 11:40:00 AM

purple_stardust


   

Comments:
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 1/9/2003 12:33:43 PM

heheh

Me too! Although I feel the need to point out that fish and chips is no longer the biggest selling dish in the UK anymore, no, that would be curry!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/9/2003 7:13:14 PM

Re: heheh

Well it's good to know that YOU'RE 100% British! It would be weird if you got 75%! =D
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/9/2003 1:41:43 PM

I, too, am 100% British.

Interesting.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/9/2003 7:16:44 PM

All of the really cool people are. :)

[euthanasia for the terminally annoying] 1/9/2003 6:50:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |annoyed]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]

Rusty has a friggen head cold, and if he doesn't stop snorting and moaning and whining, I swear I am going to take him to the veterinarian and have him put to sleep. Sympathy is in short supply.

   

[for my own reference] 1/9/2003 8:30:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |my feet are cold]
[Current Music |tv - nbc - must see tv]

I still need to check out the Beth Sholom synagogue in Frederick MD.

   

[dinner - delivery from anthony's] 1/10/2003 1:05:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused with my new toy]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - nick-at-nite]

Steak and chedder sub w/ mustard. Mozzerella sticks. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[dinner - leftovers] 1/10/2003 1:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |obsessed w/ the great cat scenario]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - nick-at-nite]

Leftover steak and chedder sub. Croutons. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[a couple of things] 1/11/2003 12:50:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |annoyed w/ the great cat scenario]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - trading spaces]

First of all, I would like to welcome [info]glitterrayne to my Live Journal! I would also like to assure her that I usually do post things other than what I eat for dinner, but lately I have been obsessed with the Zoo Tycoon game, and unable to tear myself away. It happens.

Speaking of Zoo Tycoon, there is a scenario feature, in which you complete various scenarios of increasing difficulty. I have made it to the Great Cat Scenario, in which the objective is to keep ten different species of great cats with an average Animal Happiness of 90 and each exhibit should have a Suitability Rating of 85. I do well with all of them except the black leopards who are nasty ingrates and never happy, and the snow leopards for whom I can't get the Suitability Rating quite high enough. What the hell do these cats want from me??? I have white bengal tigers giving birth left and right, but the stupid leopards are never happy. Feh.

   

[btw] 1/11/2003 1:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |how sen-ti-men-tal]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - while you were out]

I am not going to bother posting the "Livejournal Analasys" thingie that's going around, but I would like to point out that 1-4-2003 marked the one year anniversary of my Live Journal.

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 1/11/2003 2:01:15 PM

H~A~P~P~Y A~N~N~I~V~E~R~S~A~R~Y ! ! !
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/11/2003 2:10:35 PM

Awww, thank you! :)

[gip] 1/11/2003 3:30:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |creative]
[Current Music |tv - saturday night live]

I stopped playing Zoo Tycoon long enough to make an icon based on, well, Zoo Tycoon.

   

Comments:
From: [info]sf_rose
Date: 1/11/2003 4:34:01 PM

Cool...

It reminds me of the Lion from the "Narnia" series by C.S. Lewis...
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 1/11/2003 5:40:04 PM

Isn't he a cutie. Did you say there is a site with a demo of this game?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/11/2003 5:42:24 PM

http://www.microsoft.com/games/zootycoon/downloads.asp#trial :)

[trading spaces] 1/11/2003 9:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |appalled]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Hilde is just plain evil.

   

[gip: the sequel] 1/11/2003 10:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |creative]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - while you were out]

I redid my lion icon... I like this version better, plus it looks prettier with my journal colours.

   

[i feel like ronald reagan] 1/11/2003 11:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |apparently senile]
[Current Music |tv - nbc news]

Where were you?

01. When John F. Kennedy was shot? (11/22/1963)
I am not old enough to remember this!

02. When Mount Saint Helens blew? (5/18/1980)
I do not remember this.

03. When the space shuttle Challenger exploded? (1/28/1986)
I do not remember this.

04. When the 7.1 earthquake hit San Francisco? (10/7/1989)
I do not remember this.

05. When the Berlin Wall fell? (11/7/1989)
I do not remember this.

06. When the Gulf War began? (1/16/1991)
I do not remember this.

07. When OJ Simpson was chased in his white Bronco? (6/17/1994)
I was working at Entech, and Doug and I were in a diner for lunch break, it was on TV.

08. When the building in Oklahoma City was bombed? (4/19/1995)
I remember this happening, but not where I was at the time. We didn't have a good TV then.

09. When Princess Di was killed? (8/31/1997)
We were in bed, and the news came on that the accident had happened, and later that she didn't survive. I watched the television coverage for days; it was such a tragic loss of someone who seemed so genuinely kind. I am still saddened that she didn't get to live out her life in peace.

10. When Bush was first announced President? (11/7/2000)
In my living room, watching the news, being disgusted.

11. When the 6.8 earthquake hit Nisqually WA? (2/28/2001)
I do not remember this.

12. When terrorists knocked over the World Trade Center? (9/11/2001)
I was at my desk, watching Good Morning America. It was unbelievable, and the full impact of what had happened didn't hit me for a few hours. Just the magnitude of seeing something so large and so seemingly permanent destroyed, was numbing, and to consider the human lives within those magnificant stuctures, was too horrifying to think about. We watched the cable news coverage for weeks, even after the networks returned to regular programming - we just couldn't believe it. Even now, it seems surreal to me.

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/12/2003 10:22:04 AM

You know, that looks a lot like my answers would have looked, only I would have had a few more "I don't remembers."

At least now I don't feel bad about it.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/12/2003 10:26:59 AM

Oh GOOD! Now I, too, feel better about my senility. Who are you again?
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/12/2003 10:50:06 AM

Re:

<looks around confusedly>

[dinner - delivery from anthonys] 1/12/2003 12:35:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |obsessed w/ the great cat scenario]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - saturday night live]

Steak and chedder sub w/ mustard. Mozzerella sticks. Vanilla wafers. Regular Coke.

   

[zoo tycoon] 1/12/2003 6:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sick of football]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - a stupid football game]

I finally made it through the Great Cat scenario, hooray! Next up, the Endangered Species scenario - I have to keep 12 well-rated exhibits, and three endangered species need to have babies. I have already successfully bred white bengal tigers and black leopards, but I am not familier with the third species (okapi). Still, I think it will be easier than the great cats, since I don't have to keep those dratted jaguars and snow leopards.

   

[waah] 1/12/2003 11:30:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |frustrated]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - nick-at-nite]

Not only do you have to breed those three endangered species, but there have to be babies when the 18 months is up! Which means if the animals breed early and the babies grow up, you're screwed. I guess the secret is to wait until they're are only a few months left to purchase those three species...? I think I'll play freeform for a while; the scenarios are boggling my brain.

   

Comments:
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 1/13/2003 1:01:09 PM

It's certainly keeping you busy, isn't it?! I considered getting it, but I'm holding out for the big one... Sim City 4! *drools*
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/14/2003 7:55:40 AM

Yeah. Well, it's the obsession du jour, anyway. Hard to say how long it will last.

I hadn't heard about SimCity 4! I love SimCity Classic; I haven't really played the newer ones...

[dinner - leftovers] 1/13/2003 12:04:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - nick-at-nite]

Leftover steak and chedder sub. Cottage cheese. Vanilla wafers. Regular Coke.

   

[stuff] 1/13/2003 5:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |lazy]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

I think my (relatively new) coffee maker is on its last legs. It is making strange and demonic gurgling noises, and this coffee tastes like shit. It did yesterday, too. I suppose I will try giving it a good cleaning later, and see if that helps. It's like all of the water isn't going through, and the coffee is much stronger than it should be. Weird.

In other news, my ex-husband is going to be selling his Bronco soon, and Rusty said I could buy it, hooray! We drove Broncos at Entech, and I've wanted one ever since. It's white, but we could paint it. Even being white, it's still way cooler than the POS car, and I wouldn't be so nervous in bad weather. Also, it has air conditioning, new tires, and a CD player - important things that the POS car lacks. I am going to drive it soon and see if I like it. Yay for Broncos!

Also, because I keep meaning to post this and keep getting caught up in Zoo Tycoon instead...

I miss my old hair. I miss the colour, and I miss the non-styledness of it. This hair is not me. This hair does not belong on my head. I want my old hair back, dammit. Unfortunately, it doesn't seem to be going back to the original colour on its own. I keep getting it trimmed, so I know it's growing, but the roots are reddish, if anything. I may have to take matters into my own hands...

   

Comments:
From: [info]gypsydance
Date: 1/14/2003 5:05:55 AM

On the coffeemaker thing... you're not using any special filters or anything, are you? Haven't switched coffee to a more finely-ground brand? 'Cause both of those make the coffee stronger because the water gets through the filter more slowly, so it has more time to brew before it drips. So check those, and yeah, clean it really well. Run some vinegar and water through it a couple of times, then just water by itself a few times to rinse it.

I know way too much about coffeemakers for someone who doesn't drink that crap. :P Though, I use mine for tea, so I had to learn about stuff like what things affect brew times and such.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/14/2003 7:52:47 AM

Wow. I bow to your coffeemaker wisdom! I did the vinegar thing and it works great, thanks! Unfortunately, there is a ton of lime in our water, so we burn through coffeemakers regularly. :(

I had no idea that you could make tea in a coffee maker!
From: [info]gypsydance
Date: 1/14/2003 3:03:03 PM

Yup. You can use teabags, but I prefer loose tea. And there's less mess with a coffeemaker than with traditional methods. And you don't get weird little teabits floating around in your tea. *shudder*

(Besides, someone gave us a Hello Kitty coffeemaker as an early wedding gift. I don't drink coffee, but damned if I wasn't gonna find SOME way to use it. ;)

As for cleaning... clean it with vinegar and water at least once a month, especially since you have a high lime content. That stuff builds up fast, and even if it doesn't end up killing the coffeemaker, it affects the taste. Blech. (As a side note, you can actually buy coffeemaker cleaning stuff at WalMart, but it's a waste of money in my opinion. Vinegar and water works just as well.)

[uh-oh] 1/13/2003 5:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |nervous]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]

I think I broke the internet. :(

   

Comments:
From: [info]arkady
Date: 1/13/2003 5:54:32 PM

Now how on earth did you manage that?? ;-)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/13/2003 6:28:50 PM

Over-use, I think! =D
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 1/13/2003 6:43:32 PM

Ah well.. I don't think anyone will really miss it!

[for my own documentation] 1/13/2003 9:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |vengeful]
[Current Music |tv - hardball with chris matthews]

A guy from child protective services showed up today; apparently someone called them and claimed that I'm always drunk, and neglect my child! They also claimed that I have cages of gerbils and there is animal shit all over the floor. Now, the place certainly is a mess, but there is NO animal shit on the floor, and I think I've gotten drunk a grand total of TWICE in the last year. The guy agreed that it WAS cluttered, but found no evidence that I drank at all, much less a lot, and of course Sarah was normal and healthy and charming and very smart for her age.

So naturally I want to know who called them... as anti-social as I am, not many people have been here. So far, ALL roads point to Kathy and/or Roscoe, and even Rusty is forced to agree with me. I am too tired and my head hurts, so I am not going to bother writing why I think it's Roscoe and Kathy, but suffice it to say that if it IS, hell will be paid.

*** this is a highly filtered post ***
   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/14/2003 12:22:50 AM

!!!

You are nothing but a wonderful parent to Sarah, and she is nothing but a wonderful child. And your, uh, gerbil cages are nice and clean and why would someone want to sic CPS on you?

What the hell?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/14/2003 1:13:45 AM

Thanks, Laurie.

What I suspect happened is this: Rusty and I had the big fight, and I went out and bought a bottle of vodka, and later told him to leave. He went to Roscoe and Kathy's house, and I assume - although he denies it - that he complained (understandably) about me drinking. He may have even bitched about the cats shitting on the floor (it has happened, though it's not like I just LEAVE it there!). Kathy, who is a busybody anyway, either took what he said in the heat of a fight literally, or just decided to cause trouble, and caused the CPS.

Of course, once Sarah appeared, and was clean and happy and healthy, it was pretty obvious that no neglect or abuse is occuring. She even told him all the numbers and letters on her blocks, and I think it would be fairly difficult to teach her all that in my constant drunken stupor.

It just pisses me off, not just the invasion of privacy (he looked in my refridgerator, for crissake), but also... every time I turn on the news, I hear about how kids are slipping through the cracks because social workers are overworked and underpaid. There are kids being kept in closets and forced to pee in cups, and meanwhile the social workers are at MY house, counting my 'gerbils'! :\

[hair today...] 1/13/2003 9:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |wishy-washy]
[Current Music |tv - hardball with chris matthews]

My mom made an emergency hair dye run, so I now have a bottle of medium blonde with which to rectify the wrong hair situation. Still debating whether to dye it now while my hair needs to be washed, or wash it now and dye it later. Opinions?

   

[dinner] 1/14/2003 1:30:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |i have a headache]
[Current Music |tv - nick-at-night]

Turkey & cheese on rye w/mustard. Cottage cheese and applesauce. Diet Pepsi.

   

[bah] 1/14/2003 7:30:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |headachey]
[Current Music |tv - abc - good morning america]

It is early. I am awake. I have a headache. Argh.

Watched Don Imus for a while, he doesn't amuse me like he used to. Also, watching radio people is weird, because most of them don't adjust properly to being seen, and have a tendancy to do gross things like chew gum or blow their noses on camera. Yuck.

What else is in the news? Pete Townsend is a perv, Joe Leiberman (cute little bugger) is running for president, and Saddam is a nut job. Okay, so none of that is really news.

They sent those formerly-conjoined-but-now-separated twins home to Guatemala. That was a nice story, though frankly, conjoined twins completely freak me out. Come to think of it, all twins kinda freak me out to some extent, but two people attached at the head are particularly disturbing. Still, I'm glad they're okay, and get to go home.

Oh dear G-d in heaven, who told that nasty-ass Tim McGraw that singing Tiny Dancer would be a good thing? I just remembered why I don't watch music awards shows...

Fuck this, I'm going to go lie down.

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 1/14/2003 9:24:11 AM

hope you get rid of that headache.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/14/2003 11:54:21 AM

It's a lot better now, thanks! :)
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 1/14/2003 11:12:49 AM

Bahh! Tim McGraw is singing Tiny Dancer? Some things just SHOULD NOT be done. You know who I think is a cute lil bugger? Tony Blair. He's sooo adorable!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/14/2003 11:52:19 AM

Tony Blair is ADORABLE, and I love his voice. If I lived in England, I would definately vote for him, just so if he won, he would have more reason to speak publically. I live fairly close to Camp David, and the last time he was there to see whats-his-face, the whole day I was like, "Tony is within driving distance!" ...I've had a mad crush on him since he spoke at Diana's funeral. /swoon

[i'm ba-a-ack] 1/14/2003 12:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sleepy]
[Current Music |tv - nickelodeon]

Took three aspirins and a nap. Dreamed that I was in a supermarket, looking for garlic bread. WTF? I rarely remember my dreams, and when I do, I get garlic bread? No naked guys, just plans to make spaghetti. Even my dreams are boring. Anyway, the headache is much better, though now I am sort of slow and out of it (more so than usual!)... why does sleep always make me sleepier than I was when I went to sleep? Am I not doing it right?

Time for coffee, I suppose, and then hair dying, and then house cleaning. Assuming, of course, that I don't just keel over from the rampant excitement that is my life. Feh.

   

[still kvetching] 1/14/2003 2:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |cranky]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

Another thing that sucks about waking up early is, I run out of coffee early, too. Now what the hell am I going to drink all day? Grrr... I think Rusty is drinking too much coffee in the morning. He should either drink less so I will have more, or - because I am not an unreasonable person - he should come home at noon and make me another pot. That is all.

   

[ooops] 1/14/2003 3:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |shocked]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

Oh hells bells. I am not yet certain, because it is still wet, but it appears that my hair is now Deborah Messing red, instead of the medium ash blonde as depicted on the hair dye box.

UPDATE: It is not Deborah Messing red, but it isn't medium ash blonde, either. Now it's like a medium reddish brown, somewhere in between the darker colour that it was, and my original hair colour. I want my old hair back, dammit! Oh well, it says I can do it again in 4-6 weeks. :\

   

Comments:
From: [info]sjcarpediem
Date: 1/14/2003 3:52:09 PM

Condition it w/one of those ultra-damage repair conditioners and you can do it again later today w/o trouble. I've been dyeing (and redyeing) my hair since I was eleven-ish, so I can speak w/authority. If you have a sensitive/dry scalp regularly, you'll want to use a good mousturizing conditioner after the second bleach.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/14/2003 8:40:07 PM

Oh cool! I will get another box this week, thanks! :)

[he kinda looked like a hippie but...] 1/14/2003 8:30:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |tv - foxnews - the o'reilley factor]



Jesus 'Healed Using Cannabis'

Duncan Campbell in Los Angeles - Monday January 6, 2003 - The Guardian

Jesus was almost certainly a cannabis user and an early proponent of the medicinal properties of the drug, according to a study of scriptural texts published this month. The study suggests that Jesus and his disciples used the drug to carry out miraculous healings.

The anointing oil used by Jesus and his disciples contained an ingredient called kaneh-bosem which has since been identified as cannabis extract, according to an article by Chris Bennett in the drugs magazine, High Times, entitled Was Jesus a Stoner? The incense used by Jesus in ceremonies also contained a cannabis extract, suggests Mr Bennett, who quotes scholars to back his claims.

"There can be little doubt about a role for cannabis in Judaic religion," Carl Ruck, professor of classical mythology at Boston University said.

Referring to the existence of cannabis in anointing oils used in ceremonies, he added: "Obviously the easy availability and long-established tradition of cannabis in early Judaism... would inevitably have included it in the [Christian] mixtures."

Mr Bennett suggests those anointed with the oils used by Jesus were "literally drenched in this potent mixture... Although most modern people choose to smoke or eat pot, when its active ingredients are transferred into an oil-based carrier, it can also be absorbed through the skin".

Quoting the New Testament, Mr Bennett argues that Jesus anointed his disciples with the oil and encouraged them to do the same with other followers. This could have been responsible for healing eye and skin diseases referred to in the Gospels.

"If cannabis was one of the main ingredients of the ancient anointing oil... and receiving this oil is what made Jesus the Christ and his followers Christians, then persecuting those who use cannabis could be considered anti-Christ," Mr Bennett concludes.

   

Comments:
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 1/14/2003 9:46:11 PM

I love it. Yay, cannabis!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/14/2003 10:51:50 PM

Can you imagine the conversations with the disciples?

"Jesus Christ, look at the size of that joint!" =D

[dinner - delivery from anthonys] 1/15/2003 12:05:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Steak and chedder sub w/ mustard. Mozzerella sticks. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[update] 1/15/2003 2:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |pissed off]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

I talked to the guy from CPS again. He wants to come over Friday evening and talk to Rusty. That should be interesting. I am so sick of this, already. The guy asked me if I knew my kids' birthdates, for crissakes. My house may be a mess, but that does not make me some sort of white trash scum that doesn't have a clue what's going on in my own home or with my own children. I know this jackass is just doing his job, but the "friend" who started this ridiculous ball in motion is so going to pay. I'm not a neglectful drunk as alleged, but I AM a vengeful bitch.

*** this is a highly filtered post ***
   

[argh] 1/15/2003 10:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |grrrrr]
[Current Music |tv - nbc - law & order]

I have the world's shortest attention span. That is all.

   

[dinner - leftovers] 1/16/2003 12:05:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |indescribable]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Leftover steak and chedder sub. Cottage cheese. Vanilla wafers. Regular Coke.

   

[today] 1/16/2003 12:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

Got up at way-too-early o'clock, and drove to the bank, yada yada yada.

We stopped at Target where I spent WAY too much money. Most of it was non-frivolous purchases though; cleaning supplies, toiletries, diapers, boring stuff like that. I got a Swiffer Wet Jet (this damn thing better work!) and some storage boxes. Oh, and I did pick up another box of hair colour (ash blonde), as well as the Zoo Tycoon: Marine Mania expansion pack.

And we stopped at Petsmart, where I bought, well, pet stuff.

   

Comments:
From: [info]bioclaire
Date: 1/16/2003 12:43:51 PM

Oooh, tell me what the Marine expansion pack is like. :) I think I'm actually going to go out and buy this game...
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/16/2003 12:52:45 PM

You should; the full game is SO much cooler than the demo! There are tons more animals (white bengal tigers!) and more maps and trees and stuff. Will let you know about Marine Mania, but it looks cool too; I bought it mostly for the manatees and dolphins.

BTW, I keep meaning to tell you, Lunar Legend ROCKS!!! =)
From: [info]bioclaire
Date: 1/17/2003 6:19:38 PM

Re:

Oh my god, I did it. I BOUGHT IT! :D I bought LUnar Legend and Pocky and Rocky (with becky)... I can't wait to start playing it tonight! :) You're a bad influence! *hugs* but i thank you for it.... mmmm... video games...
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/17/2003 7:19:36 PM

LOL! It wouldn't be the first time I heard that... let me know how you like LL. I have only just started it (I'm stuck in the Weird Woods), but I think they did a pretty good job! =)
From: [info]bioclaire
Date: 1/17/2003 8:03:05 PM

Re:

Yes. It was strange to meet Nash so early on, but I'm open for a new version. :) I'm in the Weird Woods too... Where are you stuck?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/17/2003 8:47:29 PM

Well, I have found one slab, and a door, but I can't find the other two slabs so that I can get OUT of the Weird Woods! :\
From: [info]bioclaire
Date: 1/18/2003 1:03:15 AM

Re:

I found two... There are 3? O_O Oh jeez... BTW, the pocky and rocky game I bought sucks. its so hard :(
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/18/2003 10:56:03 AM

That's what Rusty says; he's been playing it in the other game slot. He said there are three slabs, and then you go to the door and you have to put what the slabs said in order. Except, I can't find the third slab to activate the door! Maybe I will look for a map later...

I hate it when games are TOO hard. A challenge is good, but if it looks like I'm *never* gonna get through something, I just say the hell with it. :\
From: [info]bioclaire
Date: 1/18/2003 12:16:05 PM

Re:

I FOUND IT! :D The first slab is on the other side of the bridge - before you took the nap, do you remember? Then the other two are on the same side as the door. Whee! Off to Quark and dragon poos. ;)

[the object of my affection] 1/16/2003 3:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |in love]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]


This is the Bronco II that I may be getting. Jamie said he would take off the lift kit (I'm 4'11" for crissake). Right now I'm just waiting for him to decide if he's definately going to sell it.
   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 1/16/2003 4:26:47 PM

Nice truck. I hope you get it. :)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/16/2003 4:36:45 PM

Thanks! I hope so too... I know he'll come off of it eventually; I don't think he's ever kept the same vehicle for a whole year. I am mostly just hoping that the timing works out. :)

[dinner - papa johns] 1/16/2003 11:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sleepy]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Cheese sticks with cheese and tomato sauces. Reese's Cup. Regular Coke.

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 1/17/2003 6:41:37 AM

I love mozzarella (sp?) sticks. Yum.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/17/2003 8:34:52 AM

Me too! I love cheese anything, come to think of it... ;)

[friday five - jobs] 1/17/2003 9:50:00 AM

purple_stardust

1. Where do you currently work?

I am a professional slacker.

2. How many other jobs have you had and where?

I have worked as a waitress, a secretary, a newspaper composer, a teacher's assistant at a daycare center, and a chainman for a land survey crew. I decided that I didn't like working.

3. What do you like best about your job?

I like staying home.

4. What do you like least about your job?

The pay sucks.

5. What is your dream job?

I used to think that I would like to be a veterinarian. However, I don't like puss, blood, poop, vomit, or drool, plus sick and injured animals make me cry, and I could never put an animal to sleep, so I'm thinking I would probably suck as a vet. Also, I would have to leave my house.

::: fridayfive.org :::

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 1/17/2003 12:40:41 PM

I went through the same thing about being a vet (actually, I don't have such high aspirations; I was thinking about becoming a vet tech.). I also thought about being a nurse and how nice that would be, but like you said I'd have to deal with all the blood and spit and everything else those kinds of jobs are about. Yick.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/17/2003 12:43:04 PM

Ohh, I could never be a nurse... people are WAY more gross than animals! More whiney, too. LOL
From: [info]s8venus
Date: 1/17/2003 12:49:40 PM

Same here on the vet thing. Although with my evil rat Sam, I've delt with blood and all that on a fairly "ohmygodohmygodohmygodohmygodohmygod" emergency basis. So Iguess once you're put in the situation you could prolly deal with it, but still I'd have to many emotional things to deal with. I like animals to much.

So far Sam has nearly killed all 4 rats and his sister has done some fairly bad damage to my neighbors CAT! THE CAT! My friend Erica has his sister and she ripped her cat a new one. Poor kitty!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/17/2003 6:52:37 PM

Yeah, I've treated rattie wounds... although the couple times we've had to drain absesses, I've made my husband do it! lol

I would be too emotional, too. The first time a kitty came in with leukemia or an animal had to be put to sleep, and I would be a complete wreck. :\

[today] 1/17/2003 2:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

Jamie came over with the boys, so I got to sit in "my" Bronco. It was very exciting.

   

[ewwwww, meteor shit] 1/17/2003 7:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |irritated]
[Current Music |tv - jeopardy]

I've been cleaning all day, so of course my skin is all broken out, like it always gets when I use cleaning stuff... I look like I have mange, or something. I knew that you'd all want to know that.

Bonus points to anyone who gets the reference in my subject line.

   

Comments:
From: [info]thanny
Date: 1/18/2003 1:16:15 AM

creepshow.

(never saw it-- i cheated! thank you, yahoo)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/18/2003 9:58:06 AM

LOL! Well you SHOULD see it... Stephen King is the the one who gets to deliver that line, and it's HYSTERICAL. =)

[fab!] 1/17/2003 8:35:00 PM

purple_stardust





Strawberry Fields Forever
(Lennon/McCartney)

Let me take you down
cause I'm going to Strawberry Fields
Nothing is real
and nothing to get hung about
Strawberry fields forever

Living is easy with eyes closed
Misunderstanding all you see
It's getting hard to be someone
but it all works out
It doesn't matter much to me

Let me take you down
cause I'm going to Strawberry Fields
Nothing is real
and nothing to get hung about
Strawberry Fields forever

No one I think is in my tree
I mean it must be high or low
That is you can't, you know, tune in
but it's all right
That is I think it's not too bad

Let me take you down
cause I'm going to Strawberry Fields
Nothing is real
and nothing to get hung about
Strawberry Fields forever

Always know sometimes think it's me
But you know I know when it's a dream
I think I know I mean, ah yes
but it's all wrong
that is I think I disagree

Let me take you down
cause I'm going to Strawberry Fields
Nothing is real
and nothing to get hung about
Strawberry Fields forever
Strawberry Fields forever
Strawberry Fields forever

What Beatles' song are you?
   

[zoo tycoon: marine mania - for bioclaire] 1/17/2003 9:30:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |silly]
[Current Music |tv - msnbc - hardball with chris matthews]

Zoo Tycoon: Marine Mania seems a lot more complicated than the original ZT, but the graphics are nice, and it's fun to watch the orcas and dolphins perform. I haven't played it much yet, so I will reserve judgement until after I get the hang of the controls. For you Claire, I will keep playing this game until I can make an accurate assessment. Because I'm real helpful that way.

   

[dinner - papa johns] 1/18/2003 12:25:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sleepy]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Cheese sticks with cheese and tomato sauces. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[feh] 1/18/2003 12:30:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |cynical]
[Current Music |tv - nick-at-nite]

It doesn't matter what religion you are; the whole world is just screwed.

   

Comments:
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 1/18/2003 4:32:18 AM

I totally agree.
From: [info]topi
Date: 1/18/2003 12:34:02 PM

wish I could argue against that....

[weight watchers for lizards] 1/18/2003 6:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |moody]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]


I got to watch Jesus shed his skin today. It was really cool; he shed and ate the body and tail part of his skin first, and then he pulled the skin off of his little hands and feet, one by one.

Laurie: see how fat he's getting? He's a tubby little gecko...
   

Comments:
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 1/18/2003 7:20:43 PM

Like taking socks and mittens off? Awww! He's very cute!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/18/2003 8:18:09 PM

Yes, it's JUST like that! He tugged on each finger to loosen it, and then pulled it off at the wrist. It was pretty interesting to watch; he sheds often, but usually he does it when I'm asleep.

[note to self] 1/19/2003 12:25:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |cold and sleepy]
[Current Music |tv - saturday night live]

I need to re-read my friends page tomorrow morning. I skimmed it tonight, and there are a few entries that I want to comment on, but am too tired right now. I need to go back as far as Laurie's disgusting dead-spider-in-the-peach post where I left off this afternoon. That is all.

   

[dinner - delivery from anthonys] 1/19/2003 1:35:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Steak and chedder sub w/ mustard. Mozzerella sticks. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[affirmative action] 1/19/2003 11:15:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |annoyed]
[Current Music |tv - nbc - meet the press]

I should be cleaning, but Joe Lieberman is on Meet The Press, discussing affirmative action. I love Lieberman, but we part ways on this issue. I do not believe in affirmative action. I do not think that students applying to the University of Michigan should get 20 points for being black, any more then they should get extra points for being tall or thin or good-looking. This is not because I happen to be white. One of these days, I will have a Jewish daughter applying for college, and I hope that she will be evaluated like any other potential student, and not given preference because she would happen to be a minority. In fact, I think if I were a black (or whatever) student, I would be offended if they gave me those 20 points - as if black people aren't smart enough to get in on intellectual merits alone. Bah.

   

Comments:
From: [info]alison_says
Date: 1/19/2003 12:33:44 PM

I halfway agree with you. I don't think that anyone should be judged based on race, gender, or religion. However, I believe in a class-based affirmative action. For instance, those in the lower 20th percentile of parental income should be given help in qualifying. So many studies have shown that children from poor backgrounds have fewer opportunities to broaden their horizons and come to school already behind the curve. America has a big problem with widening gaps in class. The rich have been getting richer and passing the benefits of their wealth is passed on to their children. Our current President is a great example of this (Not that this is the first time in American history that relations have helped elect Presidents) but he is only one of many examples. I am in business and I see this every day - connections and referrals passed on to the next generation. It is natural for parents to want to help their children get ahead in the world, but 'the system' needs to help compensate.

Now that there are a good amount of middle-class, upper-middle class, and even upper-class blacks, as well as every other group of minorities, it is time to change the parameters in which we think about affirmative action. If affirmative action is only based on race, the upper-middle class black kids will have advantages over the lower-class blacks who need the help more. And I have seen this in action, for one of my good friends from high school got a great scholarship this way when his parents could have easily afforded tuition at any college.

What do you think about class-based affirmative action?
From: [info]cellio
Date: 1/19/2003 12:54:58 PM

For instance, those in the lower 20th percentile of parental income should be given help in qualifying.

Wouldn't it be better to give this help in the form of better education, supplemental tutoring, and so on, before college, rather than in reduced admission standards? Colleges that are teaching remedial students stuff that their students should already know are not spending those resources teaching what they're really there to teach. The result is less-educated graduates, which does a disservice to the students and to the employers who will be hiring them.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/19/2003 1:00:57 PM

I think supplemental tutoring would be a great idea, and also programs to help guide poorer students in the direction of college to begin with. Let's face it, there are a lot of really poor kids who don't even consider college an option, no matter how smart they are. If you're the child of an un-educated single mom who has to work 2 or 3 jobs to put food on the table, you're probably not thinking about if you can get into college, you're wondering what job you can get now to help out.
From: [info]alison_says
Date: 1/19/2003 1:04:33 PM

Re:

When I said "given help in qualifying" I didn't necessarily mean lowering admissions standards. I agree that better help in qualifying would be better education and supplemental tutoring before college. In fact, I think that the system we have to fund public education is a joke.

The fact that it's based on income for the area and not an average for the country and not a national average makes the playingfield inherently uneven. For instance, my siblings are in high school now. They are very lucky and go to a well-funded school. They have an amphitheater, indoor batting cages, Olympic-style running track, etc. They also have a whole lot of AP classes where you get college credit. Everyone wants to send their kids there, so they also have trailers, which are not heated or air-conditioned (no air-conditioning in Florida is a very bad idea).

The schools across town don't have any of those amenities, but they do have weapons inspection and razor-wire fences. They look very much like prisions.

This could all be avoided if they were equally funded. Everyone would get a better-quality environment to learn in, and the education levels would be equal.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/19/2003 12:55:13 PM

I certainly think that it is more reasonable than race/gender/religion-based affirmative action! I'm not sure how much it would help, however, since there are means (scholarships, grants, etc) to get into college if someone really wants to. Or do you mean for schools like Harvard or Princeton, where grades aren't as important as who you know? I think it would make a lot more sense for ivy league schools than for universities like WVU where just about anyone with decent grades and a means to pay can get in.
From: [info]alison_says
Date: 1/19/2003 1:20:48 PM

Re:

Well I think the Ivy League needs help with that along with some private universities that specialize in specific things, and excel at what they do, but are extremely expensive.

And I think all states need to have the scholarship to a state school for anyone with a B-average or better kind of deals. And those scholarships need to include tuition, books and some kind of living stipend.

Teachers need to have hefty monetary incentives for teaching at schools with underprivileged kids, because it is a larger responsibility to teach kids who start out behind the curve.

If America wants to continue to be a superpower we need to pay the taxes it takes to support a quality education. The rest of the first-world countries have already far surpassed us. And democracy doesn't work with citizens who aren't interested in their communities and who are too lazy to keep up with current events.

Sorry to vent here, I've just been annoyed at the general public here in Georgia who simultaneously chant 'Lower Taxes' and 'Better Education'.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/19/2003 1:40:58 PM

I definately agree that we need to pay for ALL students to get a better elementary and high school education. I also think, however, that the schools themselves need to reorder their priorities in some cases. For example: I went to a high school with raggedy out-of-date books, falling apart desks, and no air conditioning. There was a local levy that gave a large amount of money to said high school. Did we get new books, new desks, or air conditioning? Hell no. Instead, they spent that money on a new field house for the football team. :\

From: [info]alison_says
Date: 1/19/2003 1:42:34 PM

Re:

Hehe, that's why local control is not always great. And that kind of crap is so common!
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 1/19/2003 1:23:03 PM

Here are my thoughts on Affirmative Action. I agree with you that getting points based on skin color is just as absurd as getting them based on, to use your example, height. And I wish we lived in a world where people didn't judge people based on mere physical appearance, but we don't. There is still a lot of racism and bigotry in the world. Ultimately I hope affirmative action won't be necessary, but I think right now it is. Too many racists have too much power for there not to be some form of checks and balances.
From: [info]topi
Date: 1/19/2003 2:38:06 PM

You nailed it!

I don't like AA (I've never even overtly benefited from AA to my knowledge...but you nailed it so solidly on the head!

Yosef
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/19/2003 3:13:32 PM

I also agree that there IS a lot of covert racism in this country, and that there ARE too many rich white Christians in power... but is lowering the standards or enrolling minorities for the sake of quotas the best way to fix that? Wouldn't it be more logical (and less insulting to the minorities in question) to install and enforce equality laws in colleges and universities?

And Yosef, since it applies to you... if you wanted to go to U of M, how would you feel about being "given" 20 bonus points because of your skin colour?
From: [info]topi
Date: 1/19/2003 3:40:51 PM

Ah, license to bring my skin color into this...

Nessie,

I think that I should get points for being Jewish, Souix Indian, and Colombian also! We can set around being pithy about a policy that is clearly unfair, a policy that is a response to a bigger societial scope of past unfairness, a policy that has roots originating with President Richard Nixon (but exploited by the Liberals and Political Left), but what are we going to do about it? Here is what I'm gonna do about it...

I plan to apply to U of M's History PhD program later this year. I plan to apply to many other colleges also, who have no policy of handing out points for skin color. I did not even realize that U of M had such a program, but heck, never count those academic Liberals out for "uplifting those poor minorities."

It is not fair to someone non-Black who is just as qualified as I am, that I gain such an advantage. However, I will make no apologies for recieving special favor over something as incredulous as my skin color.

Additionally, I do not think it fair that U of M gives those with higher SAT scores (assuming a similar gpa), additional points over those with lessor SATs. However, if I had those perfect SATs you can bet your butt I would take the extra 12 points for that also.

In short, I am going to do what my vision of a good Conservative would do; take advantage of the stupid Liberals.

Yosef
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/19/2003 5:12:20 PM

Re: Ah, license to bring my skin color into this...

LOL! Yeah, you ought to start out with about 80 points, eh? According to their scoring system, you should be able to get in with a low D average! =D

I do not think it fair that U of M gives those with higher SAT scores (assuming a similar gpa), additional points over those with lessor SATs.

Why IS that, exactly? I know that some people feel that the SAT scores are biased in some way, but no one has ever really explained why. Wouldn't they be as unbiased of intellectual assessment as the GPA is?

From: [info]topi
Date: 1/19/2003 5:27:28 PM

Re: Ah, license to bring my skin color into this...

I don't even remember which I took in high school...I think it was the ACTs, but no one ever told me what my score was...you think I'm dumb now, I was a big dope in high school. The ACTs, SATs, GREs, LSATs, MCATS, GMATs, etc., are basically tests to gauge if a person has even heard about the subject area that they are interested in. They do not measure real success, or brain smarts. However, these various army of tests do provide tons of $$$ for the test-makers, test-facilitators, oh, and the colleges and universities across the nation.

Yosef
From: [info]cellio
Date: 1/20/2003 12:45:32 PM

Re: Ah, license to bring my skin color into this...

Standardized tests are a better measure of academic ability than GPA, because GPA varies by local standards. Think about it up one level: all else being equal, would you hire the Harvard grad with the 3.75 or the community-college grad with the 4.0? High schools are varied like that, too.

Note that I didn't say that standardized tests are a good measure. They're just better than anything elase we've come up with so far, short of extensive personal interviews (which can work as a later-stage filter, but not initial-stage).

[random stuff] 1/19/2003 9:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |tv - golden globe awards]

I cleaned rat cages today; that was a hoot. Then this afternoon, I fixed them parmeson rice with peas, so they're very happy rats at the moment. I put Bleu and Blossom in together... I don't think he's, erm, functional in that department, but it's worth a try, and I have a lot of people wanting rats. I wish she would get pregnant; I'd really like to have a Bleu baby.

Tried to clean a bit, accomplished little. Does anyone know what housekeepers charge?

Right now we're watching the Golden Globe Awards, which is fairly stupid since we've never seen the stuff that wins. We get to mock Sarah Jessica Parker though, so it's all good.

   

[note to self] 1/19/2003 11:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |broken and yucky]
[Current Music |tv - nick-at-nite]

Call a dentist tomorrow, you idiot.

   

[dinner - leftovers] 1/20/2003 12:50:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Leftover steak and chedder sub. Leftover cheese sticks. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[today] 1/20/2003 8:50:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |grouchy and mean]
[Current Music |tv - fox news channel - the o'reilly factor]

Today I cleaned the kitchen, which was almost as fun as it sounds. Fuck it, I am throwing everything out. The less stuff I have, the less stuff I have to clean.

   

Comments:
From: [info]alison_says
Date: 1/20/2003 10:45:09 PM

I just did that this weekend. Now that my kitchen is really clean though, it gives me hope for the rest of the house. I am damn determined to keep it *really* clean.

Keep track of how much you give to Goodwill/throw out. www.flylady.com has a weigh-in contest to see who can get rid of the most junk :)

[dinner - green giant] 1/21/2003 12:45:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |really freakin' hungry]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Pasta alfredo with broccoli. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[arts and crafts] 1/21/2003 7:30:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |groggy]
[Current Music |tv - abc - good morning america]

If any of you are into craft projects, I was looking for seed beads this morning and stumbled upon a selection of Jewish charms, instead! Dreidels and grogers and seder plates, oh my!

   

[commercials] 1/21/2003 7:45:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |not offended]
[Current Music |tv - abc - good morning america]

So... has anyone else heard about the big flack concerning Miller Lite's latest beer commercial? It features two attractive women having the old tastes great / less filling argument. During the course of this, the women fall in a water fountain, rip each other's shirts open, and end up wrestling in a mud puddle. It is, the critics say, quite offensive to women. According to my gynecologist, I am a woman, and yet, I fail to be offended by this commercial. I have tried. It just isn't offensive to me. I don't care if my kids see it. I am far more offended - or at least grossed out - by Jane Krakowski's orgasmic Clairol commercial. That is all.

   

Comments:
From: [info]shann
Date: 1/21/2003 8:37:31 AM

I agree. Personally I think the cat fight commercial is hilarious!!
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 1/21/2003 9:05:41 AM

I haven't seen the Miller commercial. I'll have to keep my eye out for it.

The Clairol one should be rated x... =o)
From: [info]alison_says
Date: 1/21/2003 9:55:42 AM

I am not offended by it, but it is irritating. Last weekend I was with a large group of people watching the Eagles/Falcons and they played it around 100 times. All of the other ladies got pretty annoyed after a while. That is the kind of thing that makes me not want to buy Miller Lite. I vote for Herbal Essence.
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 1/21/2003 9:57:42 AM

I've never seen it...but I HATE that hair commercial. Can't remember hating a commercial so much (except for when I was preggo, there was a dancing-tomato jumping into bottles commercial by heinz that made me horribly sick). But I don't think the beer one would invoke any emotions one way or the other.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/21/2003 1:14:50 PM

The Clairol commercials, and particularly the Jane Krakowski one, are NASTY. They were saying about the beer commercial, what if kids see it? ... I would rather my kids see women mud-wrestling than THAT!
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 1/21/2003 12:59:41 PM

Lady mudwrestlers? Doesn't sound offensive to me...! We get those Clairol ones here too and they make me squirm, they're awful! Ugh, it's shampoo, get over it!!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/21/2003 1:09:39 PM

Aren't they nasty??? Rusty and I want to buy some of that crap, not have orgasms, and then sue Clairol for misrepresentation. But seriously, one of the things I keep hearing about the beer commercial is what if a small child sees the ad and you have to explain what the women are doing? ... I would WAY rather explain two women wrestling than what the woman in the Clairol commercial is doing!
From: [info]gypsydance
Date: 1/21/2003 1:37:45 PM

I haven't seen it, but it sounds amusing. Not only that, but it's an incredible marketing ploy. Women + wrestling + mud + ripped shirts + beer = nearly every male human's ultimate fantasy. I don't much like that piss-in-a-can, but if I were a guy? It'd at least make me glance at it. ;)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/21/2003 1:50:05 PM

Yeah... and by the end, one is on top of the other, so not only do you have half-naked chicks, but you have the ever-popular Lesbian Fantasy. I think a lot of women feel threatened by it, but I just don't see it. I don't care if Rusty sees gorgeous muddy women on TV; it's not like he's going to *get* them... if you go with the lesbian fantasy, he sure as hell isn't! It's *just* a commercial. And you know, they used to run those diet soda commercials with the half-naked GUY and all the women looking at him, and no one ever said a word.

PS - I don't like beer either, no matter how much muddy girl-on-girl action they show me! ;)
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 1/22/2003 2:32:35 AM

I love beer, but I hate Miller Lite. ANY beer connoisseur would agree that Miller Lite = urine. So who cares WHAT they put in their commercials? They are grasping for the lowest common denominator! :)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/22/2003 11:52:11 AM

LOL! I think ALL beer tastes like urine, but you're right... the ads definately aren't aimed at the MENSA set. :)

[woo hoo] 1/21/2003 12:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |productive]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

I worked on cleaning Sarah's room this morning. I packed up almost all of the boys' remaining toys and clothes to send over to their father's house, packed up or threw away her little baby toys and stuff that she (and/or I) never really liked anyway, threw away extra computer peripherals, threw away one of her dressers, and vaccuumed. After her nap, I need to hang her window blinds, tackle her bookcase, closet and the remaining dresser, as well as rearrange the furniture and hopefully hook up and reformat her computer. I'm on a roll!

   

Comments:
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 1/21/2003 12:49:41 PM

Oooh, can I fly you over here while you're on this cleaning spree, you'd come in veeeery handy!!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/21/2003 12:56:27 PM

Are you on drugs? LOL

Actually, I guess if I'm going to be house-cleaning, it would be more fun to be house-cleaning in the UK...

[my own personal cleo awards] 1/21/2003 1:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

The best commercial on TV: the credit card commercial where Charlie Sheen is in the video store, and by the time they check out his ID to pay for the videos, he's turned into Martin Sheen. That one still cracks me up every time I see it.

   

[hooray!] 1/21/2003 5:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |purpley good]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - while you were out]

Today I ordered seed beads in eight shades of purple. I can't wait to make more bracelets!

   

[for the record] 1/21/2003 6:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |thoughtful]
[Current Music |dvd - teletubbies - baby animals]

Despite the fact that we're both heterosexual, occasionally Rusty and I have hypothetical but complex discussions on who we would lust after, if we were gay. He prefers Denzel Washington and that guy who played Sisko on Star Trek: DS9. My list usually consists of Lisa Bonet and Lolita Davidovich. I hereby add Laurie Hickson-Smith to my list. And possibly Tori Amos.

   

Comments:
From: [info]blairmaru
Date: 1/21/2003 7:59:49 PM

But...Genevive's WAY hotter than Laurie!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/22/2003 10:03:53 AM

You think? Gen seems really fun, but I can't picture her as an object of lust. Laurie's hair, however, does it for me. I have a thing for redheads, apparantly. =)
From: [info]gypsydance
Date: 1/22/2003 1:05:52 AM

Straight or not, I think I'd still do Tori Amos. She's yummy.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/22/2003 10:05:38 AM

=)

Yeah, she is just about perfect. She reminds me a lot of Laurie; they both have that gorgeous red hair and perfect porcelin skin. So unfair...

[dinner - delivery from anthonys] 1/21/2003 8:30:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - fox news channel - the o'reilly factor]

Steak and chedder sub w/ mustard. Mozzerella sticks. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

Comments:
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 1/22/2003 7:38:18 AM

I wish Anthonys delivered here...
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/22/2003 9:19:43 AM

LOL! Keep watching; they're spreading fast up here (7 locations already), so maybe someday... :)
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 1/22/2003 7:34:33 PM

Re:

Well I've never heard of them but what you have always sounds good LOL

[cps - the conclusion] 1/22/2003 11:15:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |relieved but vengeful]
[Current Music |tv - pbs - teletubbies]

The guy from CPS came back today; said everything was okay and a case will not be opened. This is good, because now I can concentrate on making other peoples' lives into a living hell.

*** this is a highly filtered post ***
   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/22/2003 12:24:24 PM

What will you do to them?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/22/2003 1:25:01 PM

I plan to have them similarly investigated (there is more substance abuse in that house than I've EVER had, even if you count my mis-spent youth), audited (I doubt they're claiming the drug money on their income taxes), and ultimately arrested (just for my own entertainment value).

I do very few things really well, and being a good mother to Sarah is one of them - I don't appreciate having that questioned. I also don't like having my trust betrayed or my privacy invaded. There are a lot of things you can do to me and get away with it, but you threaten my family, and you're toast.

}:-(
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/23/2003 12:20:59 PM

Re:

I'm not entirely sure why someone who did as much drugs as you say they do and who deals would make the incredibly stupid move of calling CPS on someone who KNOWS they deal and who is capable of figuring out who called CPS. I mean, that's just plain stupid.

Happy vengeance!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/23/2003 1:33:53 PM

Well, Kathy doesn't do the drugs, only Roscoe. Still. I have a feeling that she didn't think I could figure it out. They have a weird lifestyle; people are always wandering in and out of their house (without even knocking, sometimes!), so if she didn't know that I don't have any other local friends, she could have believed that an anonymous call, really was. She had no way of knowing that they're the only people who've been in here except my mother and Jamie. I also have a feeling that Rusty said a lot of things when we had the big fight, and she isn't bright enough to distinguish things that are said in the heat of a fight, from day-to-day reality.

Still, not the brightest move.

[instant karma is gonna get you] 1/22/2003 11:35:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |vengeful]
[Current Music |tv - nickelodeon - blue's clues]

I do not take kindly to having my life tampered with. That is all. No, that's not quite all. Also, people who live in glass houses should watch for falling boulders. THAT is all.

   

[email drama] 1/22/2003 12:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |annoyed]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]

So this morning I was having problems with my email server; it would send email, but not recieve any. Now it will check, and I've even gotten a few, but I know I haven't gotten all of them, because I've gotten LJ comments, but the notifications never showed up. Is my email from this morning just floating around cyberspace, lost forever? Will it ever come back? Stay tuned...

   

Comments:
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/22/2003 12:23:00 PM

*just testing my email*

[argh] 1/22/2003 12:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |really annoyed]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]

I just posted a comment to see if I would get notification... nada. I sent myself a test email from AOL... nothing. My mom sent me stuff... zip. I want my freakin' email, dammit!!! This sucks.

   

Comments:
From: [info]gypsydance
Date: 1/22/2003 4:30:40 PM

Erm. You don't get notification for comments from youself. So we can call this one a test, too. :)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/22/2003 4:50:30 PM

Really? I didn't know that! Well, I got yours, so all is well. Thanks!

[ah-ha] 1/22/2003 1:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |relieved]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

We are extremely sorry for all of the problems you may have been experiencing with mail recently (last night and this morning). A database error caused many (approximately half) of the users on your mail server to be set up incorrectly. This caused mail for those users to bounce with an "Unknown User" error. We have corrected the cause of the problem to prevent a repeat occurance and are currently in the process of rebuilding the mail server configurations. Everything should be back in working order within the hour. Again, we cannot apologize enough for the problems, but are confident the issues are resolved and mail stability will improve.

Dreamhost Mail Ninjas

   

Comments:
From: [info]shann
Date: 1/22/2003 1:15:54 PM

Hmmm...

I use DreamHost too, but my mail has been okay today. Guess I got lucky and my server was okay!! Eek!!

[et oh] 1/22/2003 6:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |puzzled]
[Current Music |dvd - teletubbies - baby animals]

I just noticed, Dipsy isn't nearly as cute as the other Teletubbies. How very odd.

   

Comments:
From: [info]mysticpenguin
Date: 1/22/2003 7:29:51 PM

He has a ::cough:: rather symbolic antenna, too. I wonder that it was Tinky Winky's purse that got the right wing perverts all worked up instead of Po.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/22/2003 8:49:28 PM

Oh geez, I hadn't even noticed THAT, until you pointed it out.

(And I always wondered what sort of perv watched these kids shows and thought about such things... ;)
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 1/22/2003 7:37:05 PM

No, but he is the coolest. When the skirt comes out and Tinky Winky's all excited to wear it, Dipsy always runs away!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/22/2003 8:41:22 PM

He is Sarah's favourite, too. And Rusty just likes his hat. =D
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 1/22/2003 9:29:35 PM

Re:

I'm a LaaLaa girl myself.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/22/2003 9:34:02 PM

Laa Laa is cute, but little Po is MY favourite.

Sad, too, that I'm 33 years old and have a favourite Teletubby. =D
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 1/23/2003 7:16:38 AM

Re:

Tell me about it. I'm 39 and I don't have KIDS!

[yet another shining example] 1/22/2003 8:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |i hate this town]
[Current Music |tv - fox news channel - the o'reilly factor]

I absolutely hate this town; you cannot accomplish the simplest thing here. All I wanted was a bloody Teletubbies DVD for my daughter. Amazon.com pissed me off yet again - even with two day shipping, the DVD wouldnt be here until January 28! So I canceled the order and went to the mall. Went to FYE. Went to the toy store. Went to Walmart. Went to Kmart. No Teletubbies DVD. Freaking Target has it, but then, Target is a real store. We don't have those here.

Anyway, I did get the Best of Bowie DVD for me, and Quadrophenia for Rusty.

   

[dammit janet] 1/22/2003 10:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |cursed]
[Current Music |dvd - the who - quadrophenia]

I bought and used yet another bottle of ash blonde hair colour, and now my hair looks even redder than it did before. Son of a bitch. /screams violently

   

Comments:
From: [info]sjcarpediem
Date: 1/23/2003 12:13:31 AM

WoW.... Maybe HaShem wants you to be a redhead?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/23/2003 12:17:09 AM

LOL... I'm starting to wonder! It had reddish tendancies to begin with, but nothing like this.
From: [info]gypsydance
Date: 1/23/2003 3:22:05 AM

Hee. Okay, here I am again to rescue you. First, don't do this right away, unless you want your hair to pretty much fall out... give it a few weeks. In the meantime, go in like, right now, and shampoo your hair a few times. The color shouldn't have had time to set really well, so that should at least get some of it out. Next, after waiting a few weeks (while intensively conditioning the entire time), use a color stripper instead of a dye. Your hair's too dark now to use a dye without it going red. Good ones to try are L'oreal Feria. Expensive, but nice. Find one that conditions well, at any rate. You'll know it's a color stripper because it will actually say so. Either that, or "color remover" or something similar. You might have to do it twice to get it completely blonde. Once it's there, wait another week or two, THEN use a dye to get it where you want it. (Also known as double- or triple- processing.)

*squeak*
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/23/2003 9:48:34 AM

Hair goes through stages of color when you strip the color -- from brown to reddish to orangish to blonde. So it sounds like you haven't stripped enough of the color to get to blonde.

Blonde dyes are typically a lot gentler than bleach/color strippers. I've bleached my hair three times in a row within the space of a week, and it left my hair feeling a bit frizzly, but nothing that conditioning couldn't fix. You might be able to get away with bleaching it again, but then you might want to wait for a few weeks. Does your hair feel dry or damaged at all? If it does, you should wait, but if it still feels the same, you'll probably be fine.

So what you need to do is pick up a box of lighteners or bleach -- not a dye color, because that's not strong enough. Then you can probably get your hair to the color you want. If it gets lighter than you want, you can just dye it to the darker color.

[trading card] 1/22/2003 11:00:00 PM

purple_stardust

 
 
madnessie
Name: Mad Nessie
User: 429785
Created: 01-04-02
Post Count: 1,845
An elusive internet-dwelling creature, the Madnessie is known for its antisocial behaviour and occasional outbursts.
Strengths: sharp tongue, sense of humour
Weakness: short attention span, foul temper
Special Skills: loafing and procrastination
Weapons: weilds magic happy plastic card
Allies: hordes of rats, alternate personalities
 
   

[dinner - leftovers] 1/23/2003 12:35:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |madly in love with mister bowie]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / dvd - the best of bowie]

Leftover steak and chedder sub. Goldfish Crackers. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[and so it goes] 1/23/2003 1:15:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |cynical]
[Current Music |dvd - the best of bowie]

It's a god-awful small affair
To the girl with the mousy hair
But her mummy is yelling "no"
And her daddy has told her to go
But her friend is nowhere to be seen
Now she walks through her sunken dream
To the seat with the clearest view
And she's hooked to the silver screen
But the film is a saddening bore
For she's lived it ten times or more
She could spit in the eyes of fools
As they ask her to focus on

Sailors fighting in the dance hall
Oh man! Look at those cavemen go
It's the freakiest show
Take a look at the Lawman
Beating up the wrong guy
Oh man! Wonder if he'll ever know
He's in the best selling show
Is there life on Mars?

---David Bowie, Life on Mars?

   

[bowie bowie bowie] 1/23/2003 10:50:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |babbling]
[Current Music |dvd - the best of bowie]

Everyone who reads this should immediately run out and buy the Best of Bowie DVD. I had forgotten how much I love this guy. Even the older footage looks great, and Bowie himself is always incredible, and it's great fun to watch the chronological transformation of the ever-changing Bowie. He looks so sweet and innocent as Ziggy Stardust, and so cheeky and cheesey in the 80's videos, and so freakin' damn-I'd-like-to-take-his-pants-off in the 90's.

Another thing I like about Bowie is, he actually sings with a British accent. It bugs me when Brits adopt that G-d awful American accent to sing, like - and I do love him but - Mick Jagger gets that freaking twang. I could hear that at the local Walmart, I don't want my pretty UK-ers doing it. And speaking of his voice, it's such a good voice for a pop singer. It makes me swoon.

And his teethhis teeth. I love . There are only three people that I can honestly say have cute canines - David Bowie, Artie Garfunkel, and Sean Evans. In fact, I think everyone should go to their orthodontist and have their teeth UN-straightened, just like Bowie's. And his eyes, and his nose... urk! And we won't even talk about the bulge lurking under that spandex, holy crap.

The truly sad thing is, if given the opportunity, I don't think I would even want to have sex with him. Fortunately, it wouldn't be neccessary. He could just talk, and I would be a puddle of gooey mush. Although strictly as a matter of curiousity, I wouldn't mind if he freed the bulge.

What was my point, again? Oh yes... go buy the
Best of Bowie DVD!

   

Comments:
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 1/23/2003 11:17:11 AM

:oD I probably will...I know it's bound to happen sooner or later...
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/23/2003 1:47:03 PM

If you like Bowie at all, you will not regret it. Yummy... :)
From: [info]jacquez
Date: 1/23/2003 12:07:30 PM

The DVD is *great*. I love the old television appearances! I had the old Bowie video collection (I gave it to [info]basingstoke when I got the DVDs) and it didn't have the TV appearances or any videos past Fame '90.

I *love* the video for I'm Afraid of Americans, which is an interesting commentary on American gun culture from an outsider's perspective, and the creepy puppets in the Outside-era videos are...well, creepy.

And you're so right about Bowie's teeth. Rowr.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/23/2003 12:45:04 PM

They ARE creepy! I'm still getting used to the post-Fame '90 tracks... they were made after I stopped watching video channels, so I hadn't seen any of them. I don't even have any of his CDs past Black Tie White Noise; I need to rectify that.

Hey! Have you found the "Easter eggs" mentioned in the Amazon reviews?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/23/2003 12:50:42 PM

PS - I also have The Video Collection on VHS, so I can ditch that, and also Labyrinth. I need to replace Ziggy Stardust: The Motion Picture, still, it's on DVD now. That only leaves Serious Moonlight and The Glass Spider on VHS, and I'm pretty sure they're not out on DVD. :(

I have to keep Glass Spider, too, even in the annoying VHS format... that was the first concert that I saw him at. It has the nostalgic value, plus he looked DAMN fine during that period.

[my blonde roots are showing] 1/23/2003 1:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |flakey]
[Current Music |dvd - the best of bowie]

Good grief. It all started because I wanted to buy the Teletubbies: Silly Songs and Funny Dances DVD for Sarah. If you'll recall, I ordered it from Amazon, canceled the order, looked all over town, came home and ordered it from Barnes & Noble. I was just looking at the DVD collection, checking to make sure that I did have Labyrinth on DVD before I got rid of the VHS copy, and found that we already have Teletubbies: Silly Songs and Funny Dances on DVD. Oops.

Hey, now I have an extra twenty bucks to spend on Ziggy Stardust: The Motion Picture! =)

   

[just so you know] 1/23/2003 1:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |silly]
[Current Music |dvd - the best of bowie]

White people really can't, as a general rule, dance. Bowie is an exception to this rule. I am the cliche. Not that I am deterred by this fact, however, when I am alone in my living room with the David Bowie videos. Of course, the dogs are staring at me like I'm retarded, but they eat out of the cats' litter box, so I am not taking their opinions too seriously.

   

[for future reference] 1/23/2003 8:30:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |drooling]
[Current Music |tv - fox news channel - the o'reilly factor]

There IS a G-d... David Bowie's Glass Spider Tour on DVD!

   

[it figures] 1/24/2003 12:25:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |befuddled]
[Current Music |tv - nick-at-night]



I took a test to find out what color line I was. Instead, I come up with a circle.
Yeah, something is wrong with this picture.

This test taken @ TheAeroZone.com, where you can take more tests than any human should.

   

[dinner - delivery from anthonys] 1/24/2003 12:45:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Steak and chedder sub w/ mustard. Mozzerella sticks. Vanilla wafers. Regular Coke.

   

Comments:
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 1/24/2003 1:33:11 AM

These posts always give me the munchies! hehe

[aerial photography - where i live] 1/24/2003 12:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |tv - nickelodeon]

I love aerial photography. I had a friend tell me once that I should BE an aerial photographer because I'm small enough to fit in the little photographer's space in the plane. I never looked into it, although when I worked on the survey crew, I got to lay fly points with Rusty.






This is the town of Martinsburg. It sucks.


This is the downtown area of Martinsburg. It also sucks. The red X marks my house. On the corner to the north-west of my house, is Anthony's, and to the far west you can see the old Round House (it's a train station). I don't know what the rest of that crap is.


This is a close-up of my house. See my big yard? At the end of the block you can see our synagogue (Beth Jacob)... it is pretty much defunct and has no rabbi, but it IS a synagogue. It looks like it would be really pretty inside.


This is the neighbourhood where I grew up; the red X marks my father's house. The large circular area in the top left is a massive cemetary, built on a huge hill. When I was a kid, we used to go up there to watch fireworks.


Here is a close-up of Dwight's house... I will get this house if he ever dies. He has a big yard too, and I plan to yank out his precious garden and put in a goldfish pond. The trapezoid-shaped area to the left is a small park.

Aerial photographs provided by TerraServer.
   

[general hospital] 1/24/2003 3:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |annoyed]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

Will the who-killed-Alcazar storyline EVER end? He's dead. Who cares. Get over it. Bah.

   

[like a crow with a credit card] 1/24/2003 4:10:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |happy]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Found on Ebay: a Jewish traveler's prayer pendant/amulet. Ooohh, shiny...

   

[just out of curiousity...] 1/24/2003 7:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |curious]
[Current Music |dvd - teletubbies - baby animals]

Is it illegal to send urine through the US postal service? More specifically, would it be illegal to urinate on a piece of mail and then return it to the original sender?

[Edit] From the USPS website:

The following items are NOT acceptable for transport UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES:
* Medical samples (e.g. diagnostic specimens, blood, urine, bodily fluids, tissue samples)


So is peeing on something for non-medical purposes okay?

Of course, the site also lists jewelry, cash, and most money orders as being prohibited, and I know people send those things on a regular basis.

   

Comments:
From: [info]astralweeks
Date: 1/24/2003 6:24:10 PM

I don't even want to know the conversation (or train of thought) that led up to this...
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 1/24/2003 7:41:40 PM

I wouldn't do it. Innocent postal people will be handling the mail.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/24/2003 8:07:28 PM

Ewww, no... it would be dry and well-wrapped. You would have to open it to touch anything gross. *gak*
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 1/24/2003 8:55:55 PM

Re:

Oh, well then... go for it. Although I'd just go the dead flower route, myself.

[gip] 1/24/2003 10:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |now with more purpley goodness in every bite]
[Current Music |pc - photoshop / tv - pbs - steeley dan concert]

I updated my LJ userpics. Some are new. Some are just improved. All contain purple.

   

Comments:
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 1/25/2003 9:59:12 AM

My dad laughed at me the other day because I'd been explaining the new DSL connection to him, all techie-like, then the modem came in the post and I screamed, "Yaaaay, it's PURPLE!" From one extreme to the other...

The rattie icons are so sweet, especially the Zootie one, because he looks like he's sitting listening in to a conversation!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/25/2003 11:57:42 AM

LOL! A purple modem would be WAY cool. When I had the Gateway, I had a purple CD-burner...

(that poor dog, I crack up every time I see that picture)
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 1/27/2003 4:48:22 PM

Re:

I got some purple CD-Rs a few weeks ago, they were expensive but very pretty!

Poor Jessie-dog, she loves the attention reall, and I've stolen her special idiot-crown now, to wear while I'm using my webcam!

[for my own reference] 1/24/2003 11:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |tv - pbs - steeley dan concert]

Cat Age Calculator: http://www.hhforcats.org/calculator/calculator.asp!

   

[dinner - green giant] 1/25/2003 12:25:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |narfy]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Pasta alfredo with broccoli. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[egad] 1/25/2003 11:05:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |appalled]
[Current Music |tv - vh1 - video countdaown]

What the hell happened to Rob Thomas??? He used to be pretty cute and now... yuck. He looks like a really ugly woman, or something. Too thin, too much makeup... something. It's not good.

   

[monkey love] 1/25/2003 3:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |green with envy]
[Current Music |tv - vh1 - celebrity pets unleashed]

I will probably sound like a pervert when I say: I want Jacob Underwood's monkey.

   

[so bored] 1/25/2003 4:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |boredboredboredboredbored]
[Current Music |tv - vh1 - celebrity breakups]

I spent the day working on graphics for the not-yet-live new version of the rattery website. I should really go through and make all the photos uniform (same width, same font, etcetera), but I don't know if I will ever feel that industrious. It works for now, but it would look a lot nicer (and satisfy my anal tendancies) if all of the photographs were more uniform.

   

[stay tuned] 1/25/2003 11:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |accomplished]
[Current Music |pc - photoshop / tv - tlc - trading spaces]

I did it! I made all the rat photos the same size. A few of the older rats' text is still in Cricket, but most of the newer ones are done in a better font. I *think* I have all the graphics in order for the new version of the website; now all I have to do is lay out the pages and upload them. I was a bit brighter this time, and made a template, so it should go quickly, and appear a lot more uniform in the end. It won't be a tremendous change, but I think it will look a lot nicer.

   

[note to self] 1/25/2003 11:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |fuzzy-brained]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

I need to read back over my friends page in the morning. I skimmed it this evening, and some of the posts looked interesting, but my brain is still fried from Photoshop overload, and now I just want to sit here and vegitate with my yummy dinner and mindless television. Wheeeee.

   

[dinner - delivery from anthonys] 1/26/2003 12:35:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |friggen starving]
[Current Music |tv - nick-at-nite]

Steak and chedder sub w/ mustard. Mozzerella sticks. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[whooo wah] 1/26/2003 1:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |dvd - the best of bowie]

Judging from the red spandex bulge in the Rebel Rebel video, David Bowie appears to be circumsised! Not that I am staring at Bowie's bulge, or something.

   

Comments:
From: [info]wampithesilver
Date: 1/26/2003 2:13:43 PM

lol!
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 1/26/2003 2:49:56 PM

LOL! You are a sick woman! [And he is a sick man for wearing something SO tight as to reveal the answer to "cut or uncut!"]
From: [info]jacquez
Date: 1/26/2003 7:46:25 PM

you? stare at bowie's bulge?

never.

not you.

[i am webmaster, hear me roar] 1/26/2003 7:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |damn proud of myself]
[Current Music |tv - stupid superbowl]

The new version of the Ziggabella Rattery website is now up! What I've done:

* Re-did the colour scheme... new and better shades of purple!
* Re-did the title graphics seen at the tops of the individual pages.
* Re-did page layout and re-sized the rat photos so that all are uniform.
* Updated rat, remembrance, and nursery pages; added the new rat photos.
* Added rat book reviews, a new wallpaper, and a cute little text hit counter.
* Switched from re-directing to Geocities to being fully-hosted by Dreamhost.com!

I still need to work on my prices and policies page, and make a rat care page, but this is good.

   

Comments:
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 1/26/2003 11:04:54 PM

Yay! No more pop-ups! And cute new rats too!

[bored] 1/26/2003 8:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |bored bored bored]
[Current Music |tv - stupid superbowl]

Now that I am done working on the website, I don't know what to do... I could work on the rat care or policy pages, make bracelets with my new beads, or start on Sarah's website. I think I will play a game, instead. My brain might explode if I try to use it more than once per day.

   

[a preview] 1/26/2003 10:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |creative]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Coming soon... Sarah's Website!

*** this is a semi-filtered post ***
   

[dinner - leftovers] 1/27/2003 12:05:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired and hungry]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Leftover steak and chedder sub. Cottage cheese w/ salad toppings. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[okay, i have to ask...] 1/27/2003 11:00:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |curious]
[Current Music |tv - abc stuff]

Jonah, who are all these anonymous people that keep posting in your journal lately?

*** this is a private post ***
   

[mail call] 1/27/2003 11:50:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |easily amused]
[Current Music |tv - nickelodeon]

Today was a good mail day; I got the amethyst "power beads" bracelet that I ordered. The ad copy says that amethyst Calms the mind and dissolves anxiety. Raises your vibration to a level of peacefulness and provides clear communication with the divine. ...Somehow I doubt it will do all that, but it IS purple! Of course, if it did do those things, I wouldn't object.

   

[meowmi] 1/27/2003 7:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |tv - abc - jeopardy]

   

[dinner - delivery from anthonys] 1/28/2003 1:25:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused with my game]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Calzone with pepperoni (egad). Mozzerella sticks. Reese's Cups. Diet Pepsi.

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 1/28/2003 5:32:58 PM

yum. calzones. =o)

[skipping well ahead] 1/28/2003 12:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |contemplative]
[Current Music |tv - nickelodeon]

My daughter is clearly a superior baby. She is only two years old, but already she can count to 13 (before skipping ahead to 17), and she knows all the letters of the alphabet, and all the shapes and colours. I have no doubt that she will be reading well before kindergarden.

The problem is: what to do with her. Obviously, I can't send her to Catholic school, like I did with the boys. The education is superior to the public school system here, but I have *issues* with Saint Joseph's, and I want to raise her strictly Jewish anyway. There is a really good non-religious private school in this area too, but I think it's well out of our price range. The public schools here suck; I tried them briefly with my older son before I gave up and sent him to the nuns. If I send her to public school, her education will have to be heavily supplemented at home. The last option is home-schooling, which I would be willing to do, but I'm not sure I have the neccessary faculties at this point, much less the patience, to attempt such a thing. Hmmm...

   

Comments:
From: [info]angel_renewed
Date: 1/28/2003 12:31:58 PM

Thoughts

I went to Catholic school as a Jewish/non-religious kid and didn't have a problem. There were lots of Jewish/Muslim kids there, actually. Maybe where you are is different, but if the school teaches 'religion' as opposed to stricty 'Catholicism' that might not be so bad. Are there any Jewish day schools where you are? Even fairly small towns often have one. Regardless, it may be easier to supplement her religious education than to supplement her public-school education.

As for non-religious private schools, you could always try financial aid. I certainly was on it at my private school.

I'm actually against homeschooling in most cases. I think that most parents who homeschool their kids aren't prepared to do all the work necessary to be a teacher (as a former teacher I know how much that is), plus supplement the child's education with the necessary socialization. Homeschooling is the realm of the ultra-religious right and anti-government wackos and a few elitist snobs.

Just my random thoughts.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/28/2003 12:59:41 PM

Re: Thoughts

I also went to Catholic school, even though my family wasn't Catholic. Saint Joseph's teaches religion, and while it wasn't just Catholic (though they do take the kids to mass on a regular basis), but it was definately Christian. Obviously it didn't "take" with me, but I would prefer to not confuse her. The other thing is, and I know it sounds trivial, but there is a five-foot-tall crusafix hanging in the stairwell there now, and as you go up the stairs, you're eye-level with his crotch, and damn that thing creeps me out!

The synagogue that I go to has a school, but I am not sure if it's an all-the-time school, or the equivelant to Sunday school. I will have to look into that... I will also check into the financial aid for Country Day. They have such a fabu curriculum (French for kindergardeners!), I would love to send her there, if we could swing it.

I tend to agree with you as far as homeschooling, and most peopel that I know who've tried it, eventually gave up. Also, we would have to join some sort of social group for hs-ers, as we have no friends with kids. I like the *idea* of it (control freak that I am), but I'm definately not sure that it's practical for us.

Thanks for your input!
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 1/28/2003 9:16:22 PM

I know what you mean...I've mulled it over quite a bit, and I still don't know.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/28/2003 9:32:25 PM

Me either. :\

Of course, I think we *are* getting a bit ahead of ourselves... we were discussing this evening whether she should go to Princeton or USNA. We might want to wait until she's potty-trained to make the final decision.
From: [info]cellio
Date: 1/29/2003 10:57:02 AM

How large is the Jewish community where you are? If it's not tiny, I'd bet there's a Jewish day school tucked away somewhere. Your synagogue should be able to give you information. If they can't, call the nearest Orthodox shul and ask where they send their kids.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/29/2003 11:20:37 AM

It's not tiny; it's non-existant. The synagogue that I go to (Reform) is 30 miles away, and there is no Orthodox shul at all. :(

You wouldn't believe how not Jewish this place is. The only kippah that I have ever seen in this town, is the one that I bought for Rusty to wear. There is no bakery, and kosher meat is out of the question, save an occasional package of Hebrew National franks. In my 33 years here, I have talked to a grand total of TWO people who were Jewish. It sucks, I tell you.

The Reform synagogue has some sort of school; I will have to ask if it's a full-time school or not. What do you mean by "day school"? Would that be like a regular school, or like sunday school?
From: [info]cellio
Date: 1/29/2003 12:28:35 PM

"Day school" means all-day school, a replacement for public school. Many congregations have supplementary programs, usually Sunday mornings plus 1-2 days after regular school. I would guess that this is what the Reform shul has. Most congregations don't have full-day curricula, because they're too small to have the necessary student base.

Good luck.

[because dead rats are sooo sexy] 1/28/2003 7:30:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |i have a headache]
[Current Music |dvd - wallace and gromit]

I recieved this email today:

This was sent on behalf of someone you know who likes you.

Hello-
You've waited so long, your crush may be in someone else's arms by now.
Now quit slacking and find out who it is.
Best Wishes,
The SomeoneLikesYou Matchmaker


This wouldn't be particularly odd, except the email was addressed to brutus@ziggabella.com. Brutus, if you recall, was a rat. Now he's a dead rat. And I thought *I* had weird taste in guys.

Idiots.

   

Comments:
From: [info]pinkteabag
Date: 1/28/2003 7:46:09 PM

LMAO

[dinner - green giant] 1/29/2003 12:45:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Pasta alfredo with broccoli. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[hiv] 1/29/2003 11:50:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |saddened]
[Current Music |tv - abc stuff]



A friend of mine recently met the guy of her dreams - funny, smart, all of that stuff that makes a girl's heart go pitter patter. They had gone out for a few times, and then he broke the news to her that he was HIV-positive. He wasn't homosexual, and he wasn't a drug-user... he was someone who had simply trusted an ex-girlfriend. Now what probably would have been a lovely romance, will be a romance filled with waiting for the inevitable end. So sad. So stupid.

I have wondered, in the course of listening to my friend tell her story, why HIV/AIDs is such a touchy subject for me. To the best of my knowlege, I have never even known anyone who was HIV-positive, but yet it's the only human-related cause that I feel really strongly about. I think I've figured it out - because there is no reason why *I* shouldn't have it. I was sexually stupid for years; so stupid that I won't even tell you how stupid I was, but suffice it to say that it's a bloody wonder that I don't have the AIDs virus or at least 27 kids. I did stupid things with stupid people, and all because they "looked" healthy, or I thought I "knew" them.

This guy did the same thing, except now he's HIV-positive.
   

Comments:
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 1/29/2003 11:54:57 AM

How sad. It freaks me out too. I've definitely had my sexually stupid phase too, lucky that I didn't get anything either.
From: [info]topi
Date: 1/29/2003 1:29:12 PM

"A friend of mine recently met the guy of her dreams - funny, smart, all of that stuff that makes a girl's heart go pitter patter. They had gone out for a few times, and then he broke the news to her that he was HIV-positive."

In my eyes your friend is a victim here. It is unfortunate that her friend has HIV, but it is criminal bad taste for him to not have made this known before she "fell" for him to a degree. Now she's in a Jerry Springer romance. I would be so angry.

Yosef
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/29/2003 1:53:26 PM

I just disagree with you here. While most people who contract HIV will eventually develop AIDS and die from it, medications (for those who can afford them, anyway) are becoming better and better at controlling the disease, and people can live many many years AIDS - and symptom - free. It's not an instant death sentence, and with safety precautions people can still have a fulfilling sex life. The relationship could end YEARS before the person with HIV even gets sick.

Should people have to tell each other about every disease they have before they start dating?

AIDS is of course in a different category than many diseases, just because of its nature, but how many dates don't turn out well at all? I just don't see that someone needs to disclose that information to every potential date -- I think it only needs to be told if the relationship is starting to get a little bit past the "hello what's your name" stage.

But that's just what I think.

(Though I agree that it's pretty sad and tragic anyway. And also that someone who DIDN'T EVER tell their partner this was doing something seriously wrong.)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/29/2003 2:15:57 PM

I don't know *when* you would tell someone that. For the record, their relationship started out pretty casually (they're co-workers), and they had only gone out a few times when he told her. It would be hard to know when is the right time. Of course you'd want to tell someone before they "fell" for you, but that's a lot to assume on the first date! "I know this is our first cup of coffee, but just in case you might fall in love with me, you should know that I'm HIV-positive." I just don't know. :\
From: [info]thanny
Date: 1/29/2003 3:36:49 PM

christ that is sad. about the 'well he looks clean' kinda thinking...

that reminds me of my best friend in college-- one of the most smart, opinionated, independent women i knew at the time, but she would use that line constantly. never mind that she knew her 'boyfriends' were druggies or sleeping around. 'oh he's clean-- he looks clean. i just know'. it would turn my stomach.

personally, i thought she said it a lot to reassure herself, bury herself further in denial.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/29/2003 4:45:29 PM

Yeah. The really sad thing is, your friend isn't alone, and I'm not alone - people use that rationalisation every day. It's that old "it will never happen to ME" mentality, that I think we all have a little of. :(
From: [info]thanny
Date: 1/29/2003 6:02:52 PM

Re:

hehe yeah. luckily (??), i'm a complete paranoid hypochondriac, so i am not a part of that. I AM CONVINCED IF IT IS BAD AND CONTAGIOUS, IT WILL HAPPEN TO ME!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/29/2003 6:13:17 PM

LOL! Ya know, that's probably a really good way to be at this point!
From: [info]tues
Date: 1/29/2003 4:12:43 PM

I continue to be "sexually stupid", and yet all of a sudden I have this tremendous will to live. HIV/AIDS didn't use to phase me, but now I realize the infection that is destroying humanity. now this virus scares me more than anything else.
I am acquainted with a man whom I am afraid to befriend. he WAS a bugchaser, and has therefore condemned himself to death. I can't become attatched to someone with such a close death sentence. sometimes it's too much to think about, and I just break down.
thanks for spreading the banner.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/29/2003 4:34:27 PM

I can't even say that I have a tremendous will to live, but I definately have a tremendous desire to not get sick! I saw 'Philadelphia', and I don't know how accurate it was, but it scared the bejeezus outta me. :(

Has your friend been tested? Because that was one of the biggest moments of relief for me, when I was pregnant with my daughter they tested for HIV (as well as a billion other things), and I was clean. I would recommend that anyone who's been "stupid" to get tested, and then if you're clean, do whatever you can to STAY clean. It really is a good thing, to know that you're safe, and unless you go back to doing stupid things, you're always going to be safe from this awful thing! Yeah, condoms are a pain in the arse, but they're WAY more fun than dropping dead.

Thank *you* for posting the banner! It was amazing timing on your part, because my friend had just told me her news a few days ago, so it was already on my mind.

[cedar-smelling nostalgia] 1/29/2003 2:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

I was telling Laurie about a quilt I made some time ago, and felt compelled to drag it out of the shed to look at it again. It was 99" x 99" and made out of squares of fabric that had some relevance to me at the time: band tee-shirts, my own and my kids' baby blankets, a boyfriend's shirt, etcetera. The other squares were painted with band names, quotes, pictures I drew, and song lyrics. I don't use it anymore because it is so dated, but it still amuses me.





This is the front, or at least, as much as would fit on my sofa.


This was a tee-shirt that I had. I still love Pink Floyd.


This is a great example of how dated the quilt is.


States I'd been to at the time. I can't believe I drew the whole damn country!


My car at the time. I loved that car. I can't believe I drew a car!


Bands that I liked at the time, and Mozart. I'm such a dork.


This is the back of the quilt.
   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/29/2003 2:10:08 PM

I can't believe that you quilted it on both sides!!!

Pretty cool. It's like a time machine!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/29/2003 2:22:10 PM

I can't believe I did either!!! =D
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 1/29/2003 2:34:45 PM

Wow and it's sooo huge...and looks so comfy & inviting...I just want to flop right down in the middle of it. It's cool though; I never heard of anyone making a band quilt. A friend of mine from college would have loved that thing.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/29/2003 4:50:24 PM

It IS pretty comfy, I'm glad I dragged it back out!

I think the idea was formed when I found a piece of my baby blanket and wanted to keep it. It seemed like a good way to use the boys' recieving blankets too, and old tee-shirts - and then it just grew (so to speak) from there. It's kinda like a big fabric scrapbook. :)
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 1/29/2003 5:37:25 PM

What a great quilt! I love it. I admire anyone who can do quilting. I can't even "darn my socks". :)

[for my own reference] 1/29/2003 2:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

http://www.worldofpets.org/

   

[zzzzz] 1/29/2003 2:40:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

I would really like to make a macrame bracelet, but I think I would like to take a nap, more.

   

[bah] 1/29/2003 4:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah blah blah]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Well, the nap didn't "take" and now I'm back. That quilt is really warm, I found out, as it was the closest blanket handy. I may have to put it back on the bed; it's been so cold lately.

Mazel Tov died, and I don't know why. He's been acting funny since I brought him home, but I don't know if he was sick when I got him or if he got sick here. I swear this tank is cursed. The only fish that stays alive in there is mean old Simon, and that retarded catfish. I've thought about just draining the water and starting over, but I've got nothing to do with Simon in the meantime. I don't know what to do, except just give up trying to keep goldfish altogether. :(

I'm getting a headache.

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 1/29/2003 5:30:54 PM

I had 2 fish that lived for a few years then about 25 that kept dying within days. I think half of them are sick when we buy them.

From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 1/29/2003 7:01:37 PM

Poor Mazel Tov... My big tank is like that, Marr is the only fush who seems able to live in there, he seems very lonely but I'm scared to put another fish in there in case they both end up dead.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/29/2003 8:48:47 PM

I wonder what causes it...? I feel so bad for Simon, being all alone. :(
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 1/30/2003 9:18:48 AM

Same here.. I play little games with Marr, but I know it isn't the same as having a live-in buddy. :(

[get off me cheese!] 1/29/2003 6:20:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |dvd - wallace and gromit]

My daughter loves Wallace and Gromit. I told you she was smart! :D

   

[a random thought] 1/29/2003 8:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |distressed]
[Current Music |tv - fox news channel - the o'reilly factor]

Clearly, my life would be much better if my clipboard were clear purple instead of clear red. Why IS my clipboard red, anyway? I do not like the colour red. Oh wait. This clipboard was purchased during my vampire phase. I was writing a novel called 'Bloodletting'. Red clipboards work fine for writing vampire stories. To make purple macrame bracelets, however, one really needs a purple clipboard. And now you know.

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/29/2003 10:21:00 PM

You know I love you -- but you are a deeply strange woman. :D

(I say, pretending as though I wouldn't do the exact same thing.)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/29/2003 10:26:58 PM

It's part of my charm, remember? =)

::: already planning a trip to Target :::

[csi: renee] 1/29/2003 10:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |poopy]
[Current Music |tv - msnbc stuff]

Anyone care to speculate on what happened to Laci Peterson, and her husband's involvement?

I should point out, I have a sick fascination with murder cases. I always like to decide who I think did it and why, or at least decide whether the main suspect is guilty or innocent, and then see if I'm right. I'm usually not, according to the courts, though I like to imagine that I'm still right. For example, OJ Simpson - guilty. Patsy Ramsey - guilty. I also think that Gary Condit is still behind Chandra Levy's murder, even if he didn't do it himself. Anyway.

That being said, I don't think Scott Peterson had anything to do with it. I know the evidence is well stacked against him, but I'm saying he's innocent. I'm thinking she may still be alive, and is teaching him a lesson for having an affair. Remember, you heard it here first.

   

Comments:
From: [info]jacquez
Date: 1/30/2003 9:54:21 AM

I guess the thing is - if she is, why is she torturing her family? Or do you think that they are involved, too?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/31/2003 8:36:46 PM

That's true... I guess my theory is based on the old 'hell hath no fury...' addage. You're right though, I would hope she wouldn't be that cruel to her parents and brother. And I guess it's possible that she's alive and being held somewhere, though it seems unlikely that they would keep her for over a month without asking for ransom.

Do you think he killed her?
From: [info]jacquez
Date: 1/31/2003 8:47:44 PM

I don't know. I thought he might have, but did you see this article?

http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2002/12/31/national/main534801.shtml
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/31/2003 9:51:28 PM

VERY interesting... the reason *I* don't think he killed her (other than gut instinct and the fact that his pupils remain dilated when he speaks about her) is because he seems a lot smarter than that. I mean, the neighbour saw him carrying something out to his truck in a tarp, there were bags of cement in his shed - surely he would have had sense not to do anything that dumb, if he had something to hide. I would hope. :\

[dinner - delivery from anthonys] 1/29/2003 11:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - msnbc]

Steak and chedder sub w/ mustard. Mozzerella sticks. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[all i wanna do is hire a decent songwriter] 1/30/2003 1:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

I went to the bank, yadda yadda yadda. I wasn't in the mood to go to Petsmart or Target, will have to do that that later. I still need catfood, ratfood, and a purple clipboard.

Anyway. I found a box of cassette tapes this morning, and decided to listen to one of them on the drive to and from the bank. The tape that I picked turned out to be angsty chick music, I think that I taped from my Jamie's CDs. Wow. The most annoying song on the tape was one by Heart, the song where the chick picks up a hitchhiker to impregnate her. Yeah.

It was a rainy night when he came into sight,
Standing by the road, no umbrella, no coat.


No job, probably, but that's okay because she only wants him for his seed.

He brought the woman out of me, so many times, easily.

Umm, gross. Harlequin-esque allegory, how attractive.

I told him "I am the flower, you are the seed.
We walked in the garden, we planted a tree."


I've been pregnant several times now, and I still don't know what the hell she's talking about.

Then it happened one day, we came round the same way
You can imagine his surprise when he saw his own eyes.


I can't imagine that this scruffy guy who has no car and randomly sleeps with women who pick him up along the road, remembers her, much less recognises his own genetic makeup in some kid that he had no idea even existed. And where the hell did she see him? It sounds like she and the kid were driving along the same road where she first picked him up - are we supposed to believe that this guy sees the kid, in the car, from the road, and figures this all out?

I said "please, please understand I'm in love with another man,
And what he couldn't give me was the one little thing that you can."


Let's think about this. Does this other man not know that he's infertile? The only way that I know to find that out, is through testing his sperm count, and that would be a bit difficult to do without his knowledge. If he DOES know that he's infertile, doesn't he think it's a little odd that his woman goes for a drive and comes home knocked up???

Yeah, I know, it's just a song. But it's a STUPID song.

   

Comments:
From: [info]angel_renewed
Date: 1/30/2003 2:11:10 PM

Ya know

I've always been bothered by that song. It just seems kinda sleezy. I'm sure the Rebbe would not approve. Sorry, I'm on a 'mess with the Hasidim' kind of day. They made our flight to Israel....less than comfortable.
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 1/30/2003 9:39:31 PM

I don't think I've ever heard that song...but maybe I did & just didn't know better...or maybe I did & I just *blocked* it out. It sounds disturbing; and it kind of sounds like a Springer episode.

[for my own reference] 1/30/2003 10:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |crafty]
[Current Music |tv - nbc - er]

A future project: kiddush cup charms!

   

[dinner - delivery from anthonys] 1/31/2003 12:25:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |i am a zombie, koo koo kachoo]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Steak and chedder sub w/ mustard. Mozzerella sticks. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[alas, i have no mantra] 1/31/2003 11:05:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |purple]
[Current Music |tv - abc stuff]

This amethyst mala makes me wish I were a Buddhist. Oooh, pretty beads...

   

[more goodies from the beadbox] 1/31/2003 4:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |purple]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

I've been to the Beadbox again. This time I ordered Swarovski crystal beads in dark amethyst, light amethyst, and tanzanite colours, as well as more seed beads, a purple cloisonne star bead, and the findings and charms to make a set of kiddush cup charms. Pretty!

   

Comments:
From: [info]mysticpenguin
Date: 1/31/2003 4:49:44 PM

Guh. ::salivates:: I have to get a job. I left all of my stone chips back in Dayton, and these are just too tempting.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/31/2003 5:15:00 PM

Aren't they pretty??? The beads that I ordered from them before were really nice too. They cast a bit more, but the selsection is WAY better than Fire Mountain Gems. Just one word of warning if you do ever order from them: go by the description of the colour, rather than their photos - a lot of them are way off, at least on my monitor. :)

[today] 1/31/2003 4:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |anxious]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Egad, I just realised that I haven't checked my friends page all day!

Come to think of it, I didn't do anything today, except shop for beads. Oh, and I cleaned all the old pictures off of my camera card - there were pictures as far back as Halloween on there! I wanted it empty, as we're supposed to go to a pet expo tomorrow with Sandy. There is going to be a petting zoo, so I want to take pictures of Sarah with the animals, she'll love that.

Of course, whether we go at all depends on whether Rusty can take off work tomorrow, and if the roads are okay. It was snowing today, and I'm afraid that they might freeze. Speaking of him, I wish he would come home now; I hate having the car (and him!) out if the roads might be bad. I need to get more catfood, too, and even if I can't drive to a "real" store, I could walk over to our sorry excuse for the neighbourhood store. I could walk over now, but I'd rather wait for Rusty, so that he can watch the baby. Yes, I'm babbling.

Oh hells bells, I drank way too much coffee today. And I still need to play catch-up with my friends page. And I need to feed the fish and take care of the rats. But first I have to pee.

   

[dinner - leftovers] 2/1/2003 1:05:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |anxious]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Leftover calzone and mozzerella sticks. Miscellaneous chocolate. Regular Coke.

   

[rip] 2/1/2003 7:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |saddened]
[Current Music |tv - fox news channel]

I would love to say something eloquent about the loss of Ilan Ramon and the rest of the crew of the space shuttle Columbia, but words escape me. I have lit a candle in their honour.

   

[today] 2/1/2003 8:10:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

We went to the pet expo today in Timonium MD. It was cool; we saw cats and dogs galore, as well as rats, ferrets, a wallaby, a coati mundi, a miniature horse, a goat, rats, a possum (a representative of The National Opossum Society even!), and a TON of reptiles.

For Laurie and Claire: Photo #1 and Photo #2. :)

And I got my siamese girl Stellaluna back from Sandy; she was borrowed to breed but it never happened. We had fun, but I was anxious all day, and am glad to be home.

   

Comments:
From: [info]bioclaire
Date: 2/2/2003 4:59:28 PM

Aww, the photos didn't work for me!! :(
From: [info]bioclaire
Date: 2/2/2003 8:58:35 PM

Re: Snakies!

>( still didn't work
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/2/2003 6:09:05 PM

Snakies!

From: [info]muridae
Date: 2/2/2003 8:03:50 PM

Re: Snakies!

love adore want
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/2/2003 8:25:44 PM

Re: Snakies!

OMG Laurie, you would have been in SO much trouble... they had the green boa AND the green python, and a million babies of each. There were teensy tiny itsy bitsy leopard geckos, maybe an inch long, tail included. There were a couple of kinds of chameleons, big and small. Oh! They had tiny little rainforest-type frogs in bright blue, osha orange, and safety yellow. They had baby ball pythons that made me crazy... There were like, five long tables of nothing but reptiles. I thought he was a sucky breeder though, the animals were all in tiny boxes and overcrowded, and they had to be stressed out by the crowds. None of them had water to drink, and I think a couple of the lizards had MBD. :(
From: [info]muridae
Date: 2/5/2003 2:51:13 PM

Re: Snakies!

Argh. Need. Want. Am still conflicted over whether I could manage to feed them, though. I dunno.

I know the show you went to wasn't only reptiles... I am always shocked by reptile shows, because you'd imagine that the animals there would be healthy and well-kept. But no, every time I go to one I can find literally dozens of obviously ill or malnourished animals. There are more healthy ones though, but still. It makes me sick to go to a reptile show and even there see overpriced sulcata with serious pyramiding, or lethargic animals, or just plain stressed animals... That sucks.

I think that many shows require that the animals be kept in those little plastic containers, though, so that at least might not be the breeder's fault.

I am so terrible once I get to reptile shows. I practically throw my money at people. I don't seem to ever get out of there without spending less than $200 on books and supplies and junk and animals and... stuff.
From: [info]bioclaire
Date: 2/2/2003 9:00:02 PM

Re: Snakies!

AUGH! CHONDROS!!! *dies* Soooooooo pretty! A biak baby, a normal baby, and a juvie!Next time I go to the herp show in NY I'll remember to take out the camera too... ;) Thanks for the pix though, they're awesome.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/2/2003 9:13:05 PM

Re: Snakies!

Aren't the babies ADORABLE??? They looked so cute, all curled up with their perfect little coils.

::: sigh :::
From: [info]bioclaire
Date: 2/3/2003 10:26:44 AM

Re: Snakies!

with their adorable prices of $400! lol. They are absolutely beautiful though.

[dinner - papa johns] 2/2/2003 1:15:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |there is a shooting pain behind my eyeball]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Cheesesticks w/ cheese and pizza sauces. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[this morning] 2/2/2003 1:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |happy to not be at walmart]
[Current Music |cd - led zeppelin - kashmir]

I went to Walmart, even though I would have much prefered to rip out my own liver with a rusty utensil and then eat it whilst watching Donahue. Have I mentioned that Walmart is eeevil?

Anyway. I bought a purple clipboard, though it's not exactly what I wanted - this one is like a shallow case for papers, as well as the clip part, but I guess I could put all the pretty purple embroidery floss in there, and maybe the pattern booklet and a small tape measure.

I also bought an adorable little grandpa cactus, only one inch tall. His name is Wilbur. :)

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 2/2/2003 2:24:36 PM

Wilbur is a cutie.
From: [info]kimikohime
Date: 2/2/2003 3:03:34 PM

Walmart is very eevil.. I used to work there.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/2/2003 3:05:53 PM

Oh jeez, I'm so sorry. Are you okay now? ;)
From: [info]muridae
Date: 2/2/2003 8:29:31 PM

Wilbur! He's so cute!

(Did you see my new aloe? Huh? Huh? Didja?)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/2/2003 9:10:33 PM

I did! It's so HUGE!!! I need another aloe, too - they're so pretty.

I re-potted Wilber, the cute lil bugger. The new pot is clay, and still tiny, but wider. I need to add pebbles to the top and make a little raffia bow for the pot. Maybe I will buy him a little hat, and... Huh? Why yes, I have lost my grip on reality. Why do you ask?

Oh! Our lithops seeds came! I planted mine this evening, since I had the stuff out, and I will mail yours this week. :)
From: [info]muridae
Date: 2/2/2003 11:01:19 PM

I don't think that cacti like to wear hats...

I don't like those plastic pots! I like clay pots, especially for cacti.

I keep forgetting to mail your seeds, but I'll try to do that tomorrow. =)

[for the record] 2/2/2003 3:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |infatuated with opera]
[Current Music |cd - the wallflowers - invisible city]

I downloaded Opera 7 (final), and it completely rocks. I love this browser. I would love it even more if I could get the email client to work, but even without M2, the browser is so worth it!

I Opera.

   

Comments:
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 2/2/2003 6:26:22 PM

I love the tabbed windows, no nasty cluttered up taskbar, whoopee!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/2/2003 7:21:47 PM

I know, isn't that awesome??? I also love the toolbar button that lets you turn images on/off with one click, and the one that lets you override an author's web colours (in case they're awful, lol), and the Google/Amazon/Ebay search fields. Opera is so cool. :)

[verdi] 2/2/2003 9:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |oooh, pretty pictures...]
[Current Music |tv - law & order: criminal intent]


Also directed at Laurie and Claire: it just occured to me that since you guys don't have children, you may be missing out on Verdi by Janell Cannon. The illustrations are so friggen GORGEOUS.
   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 2/2/2003 9:54:15 PM

Oh! It's by the same woman who did Stellaluna. I love Stellaluna. I think I need that book! :D
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/2/2003 10:06:47 PM

You DO need it! The pictures are just beautiful, I would own this book even if I didn't have kids.

PS - Trupp is adorable too!

[dinner - green giant] 2/3/2003 12:55:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |oooh, prism flowers!]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Pasta alfredo with broccoli. A lovely chocolate truffle (a gift from Rusty). Regular Coke.

   

[for my own reference] 2/3/2003 4:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |curious]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

I want to order this book: 'Mysteries of the Kabbalah' by Marc-Alain Ouaknin.

   

[weirdness] 2/3/2003 9:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |confused]
[Current Music |tv - abc - the practice]

I just talked to someone that I've known since second grade, but hadn't talked to in a while...

Laura: I have HUGE news
Me: you killed sid?
Laura: no, but I got rid of him!!!!!
Laura: my big news is..................... I have a girlfriend!!!!!!
Me: a girl who is a friend, or an ellen-type girlfriend?
Laura: the whole ellen-type girlfriend
Me: dang. well. you think you know someone...
Me: I've been watching the drama that is your lovelife unfold for some time now...
Me: and I never saw that one coming!
Laura: I KNOW, who woulda thought, cause I LOVE men
Laura: I really feel I am straight, I just happen to love a woman
Me: are you doing *things* with the woman?
Laura: yes, we have sex
Me: I'm pretty sure you're not straight, then.

I just hope that she doesn't try to pawn the girlfriend off on ME, when she decides that it's too much trouble to take care of. That IS why I have the rats, you know...

   

[scary harry] 2/3/2003 10:45:00 PM

purple_stardust

Hey Sheila, shouldn't we remove Harry as moderator for the JBC community? I noticed that his name is still on the user info page, but he has deleted both accounts (justharry and borracho).

*** This post is only visible to [info]sf_rose and [info]grimkitten. ***
   

Comments:
From: [info]sf_rose
Date: 2/3/2003 10:51:18 PM

Yes...I was thinking of doing that.... I'll go take care of it right now...
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/3/2003 10:53:37 PM

Cool, thanks! :)
From: [info]sf_rose
Date: 2/3/2003 10:58:09 PM

WAH!!!

I misplaced the password...do you mind going in and making the changes or can you email me the password to moi?

Thanks... I'm such a weeny about these things.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/3/2003 11:20:56 PM

Re: WAH!!!

I went ahead and removed his name from the user info page, but for future reference, I was right about the password. Something occured to me, though - to remove his moderator status, wouldn't we just need to change the password? I don't think there IS a "remove moderator" function (like there is with Yahoo Groups, for example).

[oh poop] 2/3/2003 11:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |i hate live journal's free servers]
[Current Music |tv - msnbc - hardball with chris matthews]

So Opera 7, which I dearly love, has its own portal through Lycos, and I decided to give it a try. I was willing to overlook the abundance of non-movable ad blocks at the top of the page, and I tried not to notice that their purple theme contains too much blue, but the final straw came this evening, when I reloaded the friggen page and found the same "news" as was there yesterday! Has nothing new happened in the whole world, since yesterday? I want new news, dammit!

   

[dinner - delivery from anthonys] 2/4/2003 12:55:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |i love battle #36]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - msnbc]

Steak and chedder sub w/ mustard. Mozzerella sticks. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[for my own reference] 2/4/2003 1:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |i have to pee]
[Current Music |tv - fox news channel - columbia memorial]

For 2000 years, Jews have rejected the Christian idea of Jesus as messiah. Why?

   

[time for a change] 2/4/2003 3:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |bored]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

I've decided that I want a new username for Live Journal. The question is, do I go back to one of my old identities, or make up a new one? Also, should I go through the hassles of actually changing the username for my current account, so that I can keep this same journal and all of its entries, or should I start a new account and an entirely new journal? Decisions, decisions...

   

Comments:
From: [info]freethinkernj
Date: 2/4/2003 3:39:56 PM

Hey renee..
I think you should leave this one as is and create a new one. We write what we write when we write it because it's who we are at that moment. So maybe all those previous entries should remain as your madnessie 'identity' and begin a new one under a 'new identity'.

whatever you do, make sure you let us know!!!!!

-Dave
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/4/2003 4:16:56 PM

Will do, Dave! :)
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 2/4/2003 4:02:53 PM

what names are you thinking about using?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/4/2003 4:11:49 PM

Well, my old favourite (and first personal) username was stardust95, and I would *like* to go back to it... unfortunately, someone else took that for Live Journal. The good news is, the journal has been deleted, so I'm kinda just watching the name to see if it becomes available again. I grabbed stardust_95 myself, so if the other doesn't become available, I would have to switch journals entirely. Otherwise, I would need to come up with a totally new username, in which case, I have no idea. =)
From: [info]freethinkernj
Date: 2/4/2003 4:30:17 PM

Renee..
Did you see One Life to live Yesterday and today? I missed yesterday's. Can ya fill me in?!?! Yeah I know, I'm a queer...
-Dave
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/4/2003 4:47:52 PM

Don't worry; Rusty is queer too - he watches the soaps when he's home AND Trading Spaces! ;)

Yesterday, Sam showed up with the very-much-alive Suzanne, and told Blair how Todd had made up the whole mob scare thing just so he could save her. Needless to say, Blair hit the roof, kicked them all out, and when Todd came back (it IS his penthouse, after all), she took the kids and left. Which sucks, because I really like Todd and Blair together.

Mitch promised Natalie in exchange for some signed papers to some very old man on oxygen - not sure who he is yet. Christian and Natalie went away to some secret cabin, where they did the wild thing and she talked him into drawing again - he chose her nekkid body as his subject. Meanwhile, Mitch caught Jennifer snooping through his papers. He was about to strangle her, I think, but she threw hot tea in his face and escaped, only to fall in the snow, where she still is, unconscious.

And Norah went to Lindsey's art gallery/apartment, only to find her and Troy in bed together! Norah told Troy that she never wanted to see him again, and now Lindsey think she's going to get him back.

I think those were the main points. :)

From: [info]freethinkernj
Date: 2/4/2003 4:55:52 PM

geez, you, rusty, helene and I should get together and watch trading spaces, while you were out, and one life to live marathons! LOL

Thanks for filling me in! Yeah i like todd and blair together too. they need to either shit or get off the pot with that one. and what's with blair anyway? she loves sam, no todd, no sam, no todd... oy...

natalie nekkid... yum! that's all i've got to say about THAT! LOL

i'll have to watch to see who the old guy on oxygen is. i'll catch up tonight and tomorrow.

Thanks again!
-Dave
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/4/2003 5:15:36 PM

Well, since I have an overwhelming desire to move to Jersey, maybe someday we can! :)

And the thing with the old guy was pretty weird... I'm thinking that they're wanting to sacrifice Natalie, or something! I read that they've only scratched the surface of Mitch's evil agenda, and the Natalie/Christian on the run story is going to tie in Blair, Todd, Jessica and Viki. Jessica and Viki I can see, obviously, but I am curious as to how they'll tie in Todd and Blair!

No doubt this will all score another Daytime Emmy for that annoying Erika Slezak. Ick!
From: [info]freethinkernj
Date: 2/4/2003 6:06:23 PM

Well, if you DO come to Jersey you make sure you let me know! LOL

A sacrifice?? That seems a little too far-fetched even for OLTL!

If it does tie in Viki, Jessica, Todd, and Blair there is some merit to Todd and Blair. AFter all, Todd IS Viki's brother. There may be 'something' there. Blair may just be getting pulled in for the ride. I guess we'll see, right?

Hey Renee, would you mind terribly if I had your AOL IM name? Talking "live" would be easier at times like this rather than posting back and forth all the time. If not, that's totally fine, but if you don't mind, you can email it to me at FreeThinkerNJ@aol.com. Thanks!

-Dave
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/4/2003 8:03:25 PM

I would love to live in Jersey, it's a matter of talking Rusty into it, lol. I told him about this conversation, and he said to tell you that Trading Spaces is the "best damned show on television." He also said to tell you that you can't trust my soap opera recaps, because while I do indeed have the tv set on, I never pay attention to them. Sadly, that's usually fairly accurate, however I have been particularly interested in OLTL because of the Todd/Blair thing.

And the AIM name is ziggabella 2001 ... for now, anyway. ;)

[an experiment] 2/4/2003 4:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |curious]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

I planted some lithops seeds on Sunday. I used a clay pot, and they're sitting on my desk, as it is very cold and overrun with window-dwelling felines in the kitchen. I found an older package of lithops seeds too, and I think I will plant those in another pot and set them in a shallow dish of water on the radiator, just to see if they germinate any faster (or at all). Yes.

   

[rusty spike and the warheads!] 2/4/2003 8:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |happy happy happy]
[Current Music |tv - fox news channel - the o'reilly factor]

My most wonderful friend Dave says that he can transform a cassette tape into *voila!* a CD!

The cassette tape in question is one of Rusty singing loverly songs when he was in a band, years ago. I will have to post an MP3 of one of the songs; those of you who've met Rusty, will find it strange - I still find it strange - because the voice just doesn't match the guy. But it's GOOD.

Of course, I may be a bit biased. :)

   

[the pigmentally-challenged duo] 2/4/2003 9:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |tv - nbc - frasier]

Data (StarTrek:TNG) and Lillith (Cheers) as a couple. Wow.

[/geeky television references OFF]

   

Comments:
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 2/5/2003 11:43:35 AM

Wow... any potential offspring would be so white that they'd emit a kind of eerie glow! I'm pale.. maybe if I got together with Lilith... heheheh
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/5/2003 11:54:48 AM

LOL! Hey, Lilith was pretty hot, back in the day...

[new username - to be announced] 2/4/2003 10:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |pondering]
[Current Music |tv - abc - nypd blue]

I have purchased a Rename Token. My old favourite username - stardust95 - has been taken, so now I need to decide on a new one. It should include one or more of the following elements: Jewishness, purpleness, ummm... vague allusions to mental illness? Ideas? Anyone? Beuller?

   

Comments:
From: [info]topi
Date: 2/4/2003 10:25:59 PM

A poll! We must have a poll on this matter! =)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/4/2003 10:27:43 PM

LOL! So far I only have one idea, so it wouldn't be much of a competition! =D
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 2/4/2003 10:36:14 PM

PurpleConverse
MadStarDust
PurpleRats
MadStar95
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/4/2003 10:42:28 PM

You missed your calling as a Username Consultant! Thanks for the input! =)
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 2/5/2003 8:58:40 AM

You're welcome. Actually, the first one is sort of what I already call you in my head. ({Look! It's Purple Converse Girl!}) But I really like MadRatter that [info]allmyvoices suggested.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/5/2003 11:32:16 AM

[[ the first one is sort of what I already call you in my head. ({Look! It's Purple Converse Girl!}) ]]

I'm really not sure how to take that... I bring you cute rats, and you remember my SHOES??? ;)
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 2/5/2003 6:32:58 PM

Re:

I do sometimes think of you as 'Rat Mom'. It depends on your icon.
From: [info]cellio
Date: 2/4/2003 10:58:42 PM

What is it about your current user name that you don't like? An absence of most of those elements, or something more significant?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/4/2003 11:20:49 PM

It's not that I don't like "madnessie" ... I just do this once in a while. I don't know why I stopped using the stardust95 in the first place, but ever since then, I haven't been really satisfied with any of them. My current one was concieved when I decided to get a LJ on the spur of the moment, and I couldn't think of anything else, lol. It's just never quite fit, KWIM?
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 2/5/2003 7:14:40 AM

how about...

PurpleCraze
LilacRat
JewishJewel
MadRatter
FullMoonWine
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 2/5/2003 8:55:45 AM

Ooo, I like MadRatter!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/5/2003 11:29:34 AM

Heee! MadRatter is CUTE! I'm still not sure about the Live Journal username, but mad_ratter @ziggabella.com is definately my new rat stuff email! =D
From: [info]cellio
Date: 2/5/2003 12:02:47 PM

Here's another vote for Mad_Ratter.

[dinner - leftovers] 2/5/2003 12:45:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |still on battle #36]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Leftover steak and chedder. Cheese Nips. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[random thoughts] 2/5/2003 11:50:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |ugh]
[Current Music |tv - nickelodeon]

My stomach really hurts.
Maybe I just have to poop.
Hmmm. The last time I said that, I had a baby.

   

Comments:
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 2/5/2003 6:54:22 PM

LMAO. You kill me.

[it's there, in the castle...] 2/5/2003 4:50:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |excited]
[Current Music |tv - trading spaces]


I saw this castle/desk/puppet theater/storage thingie on Trading Spaces recently, and I must have one for Sarah's room. It's obviously the coolest thing ever, though I would paint it a much lighter shade, either a sand colour, or light grey, or a pale pink or purple. My friend Jeff says he'll come down from Pittsburgh and help us build it, hopefully this spring. I Jeff.
   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 2/5/2003 5:07:20 PM

very kewl!
From: [info]tues
Date: 2/5/2003 6:20:25 PM

oh that is so awesome! I want one for my room!
From: [info]thanny
Date: 2/6/2003 12:19:58 PM

ahh i dig gen's stuff! i thought that was the cutest room.

[prognosis: jewish] 2/5/2003 10:30:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |tv - law & order]



Prognosis: Jewish
Are You Jewish?


Mazel Tov!  You are a Mayven!
What is your JEW IQ?
   

Comments:
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 2/5/2003 10:57:57 PM

Kewl. I got the same result on the second quiz. Due at least in part because I lived in FL for 6+ years.

[dinner] 2/5/2003 11:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - seinfeld]

Pasta Roni (four cheese). Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[posting limits] 2/6/2003 3:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |grouchy]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

Yesterday, Brad proposed posting limits for Live Journal, and added:

"But, don't fear... the limits are all being researched, looking at historic data, so we don't disrupt normal usage patterns. An incredibly small percentage of people will be negatively affected. However, the end result to everybody else using the system normally is less spikes of bad performance, when we're under attack by an idiot with a 10 line Perl script."

Now, I'm no expert, but wouldn't it make more sense to not allow "extras" like Perl, than to try to limit how often people post? Or here's a thought: limit how much stuff the paid users can do with style over-rides! Sometimes I go to look at someone's journal, and all the friggen bells and whistles bog down my browser, I can't imagine what it must be doing to the LJ servers.

Today he posted an update, in which he says:

"I'm not quite sure what it'll be yet, but it'll be more like 5 posts/day for free users, and 50 posts/day for early/paid/perm. 50 is pretty much "no limit", which so many paid users were wanting. We might even make it 70/day, and just manually check out anybody going over 50/day (or so much disk usage/day) for abusive behavior."

I just have a problem with the idea of posting limits for paid users, period. It's not that I want to post more than 50 times per day; it's the principle of the matter. It's that we're already paying for a service that other sites offer for free. Or as one friend pointed out:

"I kind of feel taken. I paid for one thing, and now it's something else."

It just seems like it would be more sensible - and more beneficial - to cut out the extraneous crap, than to put a limit on legimate posts. Yeah, but what do I know.

   

Comments:
From: [info]johno
Date: 2/6/2003 3:31:49 PM

>>we're under attack by an idiot with a 10 line Perl script."

> wouldn't it make more sense to not allow "extras" like Perl,

Users are not running perl ON livejournal servers, there are script kiddies running Denial of Service attacks using short little perl scripts they found.


> limit how much stuff the paid users can do with
> style over-rides! Sometimes I go to look at
> someone's journal, and all the friggen bells
> and whistles bog down my browser, I can't imagine
> what it must be doing to the LJ servers.

Styles are just text to the livejournal servers. Very little in a style causes extra load on the servers. Most of the bells and whistles that bog down you browser are running in your browser.

Flashing and moving text, animations, marquees, text that runs away, large graphics, etc, none are controlled by the live journal servers.


> I just have a problem with the idea of posting
> limits for paid users, period. It's not that I want
> to post more than 50 times per day; it's the principle
> of the matter.

Everybody needs limits, because some abusers are paid users.

Besides, I can't even see a news blog doing 50+ posts a day. I'm got some VERY active syndication feeds (slashdot and tech bargains) and they don't top 30 a day.

> It's that we're already paying for a
> service that other sites offer for free.

My standard response to that type of response is:

Then go use the other services.

> "I kind of feel taken. I paid for one thing,
> and now it's something else."

Boo Hoo, and I though college would be one long party, that that the military would take me really cool places, that I would find my "One True Love" on my 18th birthday and I would live happily ever after.



> It just seems like it would be more sensible - and more
> beneficial - to cut out the extraneous crap, than to
> put a limit on legimate posts. Yeah, but what do I know.

Your extraneous crap is someone else's treasured feature.


From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/6/2003 4:33:39 PM

{Boo Hoo, and I though college would be one long party, that that the military would take me really cool places, that I would find my "One True Love" on my 18th birthday and I would live happily ever after.}

Please don't be rude to me or my friends in my journal. You want to take issue with me in your own journal, that's fine, but this is my journal, and I would ask to be treated with respect here.

That aside, I said nothing derogatory about Brad or Live Journal in general. I stated my opinion in my journal; I don't know why that is causing you to be so defensive. I'm sorry if you were disillusioned with college or military life, but that really doesn't change the fact that if a person pays for a product, they expect to get that product.
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 2/6/2003 3:36:17 PM

Hrmmmm..interesting. I can actually see why this would be practical, maybe it would even improve the infamous LJ down time...hopefully. I don't really love the idea or anything, most people I know on here, including myself, wouldn't really be affected with a post limit of 5 per day. In fact even if it were one per day there is still a way around it by just adding to a journal entry instead of making a whole new one. The big problem that I see with this is the limits on community posting. I think they should be immune from the limits, but according to that guy they aren't. When they start limiting comments is when I'm going to be in kill mode. I think I'd actually move to another Journal site if I couldn't post comments as much as I wanted.
From: [info]johno
Date: 2/6/2003 3:57:18 PM

No limits on comments, only original posts.

It is the user that is limited to the number of posts they can make.

So 40 users can posts to a community a day, but a free account holder can only post 5 total posts day (whether to their own journal or a community).

From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 2/6/2003 5:27:20 PM

Re:

ooh I see. Well that's not quite as bad then. I could deal with that. Hell, I barely update my journal weekly sometimes. Thanks for the clarification. :)
From: [info]muridae
Date: 2/6/2003 3:42:46 PM

I think the limits totally suck. I'm a paid user because I like the site, I want to be able to modify my journal, I want access to faster servers, and I want to support what the LJ folks are doing. But I haven't always been a paid user, and if I came here, and found that I had to pay just to post more than 3 or 5 times a day, I never would have stayed -- I'd have a blog, or go to DiaryLand or DeadJournal. I try to keep a paid account, but sometimes I have to let it slip for a month or two because I've got other things to worry about.

The posting limits are annoying especially because AFAIK they still count for posts to communities -- one user's post in a community counts against their limit and against the community's limit. That completely sucks! I keep my own journal paid for, but I don't have or want to pay the extra money for my communities too! Dude! That sucks!

The whole thing makes me mad.

(You know, it's a lot like when James wanted to limit posts to the ratlist to a few per day, because he didn't like how much traffic there was. Everyone suffers.)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/6/2003 4:48:25 PM

I have been a paid user for MOST of my time here - it's free now because I didn't get the reminder when my email address was down recently - plus I just gave them $15 to change my username. I don't know that I would have (or will in the future) support them financially, if they plan to restrict the service that I have paid for.

And the thing is, who knows what else they'll decide to restrict? If restricting the number of posts isn't enough, will they begin to restrict the size of posts? The number of comments?

I still say, it would make more sense to ban the users who are causing the abuse, than to punish everyone.
From: [info]marlowe1
Date: 2/7/2003 10:13:50 AM

BUt just a quick glance at your calendar shows that you really never posted more than 8 posts a day. The only people that would be affected by the limits would be the ones that do the one line posts--

10:00 My moms a bitch
10:06 I hate that bitch
10:46 Brad said hi to me today. He is so cute but I thought he liked Amanda
10:59 He does like AManda but Amanda is so totally into Jeremy
11:43 Guys stop posting insults on my journal, that is like so Gay
12:39 I am not homophobic. Phuc U - u thnk ur smrt but yr not
1:38 Amanda told me to back off with Brad - fuck u Amanda
1:57 How Goth Are you - here's my quiz result
1:58 Which Albanian Beauty Contestant are you?
1:59 Which 70s pop song are you
2:03 - (Five more quizzes)
3:10 Schools over but my mom wants me to go to some family thing - what a bitch
4:10 I'm bored
4:46 My mom just came in and totally blew up at me for nothing. Bitch
4:59 AManda called and apologized - I don't think I'm going to accept it
5:16 War is bad. Fuck you warmongers
5:30 Josh called and asked me out on Saturday - gross. I thought he was gay
5:40 would everyone stop telling me that I'm homophobic
11:39 I hate myself. I want to die. But I hate all u fckers more!


Personally I thought that 20 posts a day limit was generous. The 50 posts a day? Uhuh. That's not even a limit. I personally think that free users should be limited. It's a FREE service. If they want to post more often, let them pay. I would say that if I was free or paid (I'm currently paid but most of the time I'm not) because this is a great service and despite the ocassional crash I really don't see how they can make money off it.

Or in other words - would you prefer popup windows?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/7/2003 10:33:21 AM

Re: the limits on paid users - it's the principle of the matter. No, I don't want to post 50 times per day, and I don't know anyone who would. I wouldn't have someone on my friends list who did. But paid users make up a VERY small percentage of Live Journal users, and I don't think it would hurt for them - in theory anyway - to have UNLIMITED access. It isn't like someone is actually going to sit there and post as many times as they possibly can! It's not a buffet.

I just think that their time would be better spent by thwarting the people who are actually causing a problem, rather than restricting the people who aren't. Ya know?
From: [info]muridae
Date: 2/7/2003 10:44:25 AM

Actually, pop-up windows don't bother me in the least, but that's only because I don't use either of the big browsers -- I use Opera, which I have set to block all pop-ups. But that's not really the point.

I don't think that the limits for paid users make any difference. I mean, 50-70 posts, I've never ever posted 50 posts in a day and I can't imagine needing to do so. That's like not having a limit at all. It's the limits for free users, and free communities. I'm so sick of hearing all the paid users complaining about how free users do nothing but slow down the servers and take what other people are paying for. They make a community here. Many of them are nice and interesting to read and I don't like the fact that they were planning on limiting posts to only a few day; I keep in contact with a lot of my friends here, and I don't like the idea that many of them might leave to find a free-er place, and that I won't get to read them here anymore.

Sure, you get what you pay for, and it costs a lot to run LJ. Sure, many people won't ever hit the posting limits. I don't know what a better or more efficient way would be to do things. I have no suggestions. I just don't like the idea of not getting to read my friends, and I've heard more than a few people saying that they will leave.

I also don't like the fact that the LJ folks seem to have a tendency to implement changes without telling anyone that they're planning on doing so. This is not the first time they've made a change without notifying any users. That's just not good business sense.

At least they turned it back off and gave us a few days to get used to the idea, and are taking into account the complaints of the users.
From: [info]thanny
Date: 2/6/2003 9:40:57 PM

i totally agree with you-- i was thinking this morning, after i read through the posts, that they should really implement these changes AFTER a person's paid time is up, because you are getting something different. you aren't getting the service that you paid for. and if someone really wanted to go out there and fight it, they'd probably have a decent shot.

i don't know who'd go through all that trouble for $25, but i agree with you. it's the principle of it all. it's not how you run a successful business.
From: [info]marlowe1
Date: 2/7/2003 10:19:47 AM

And how would you run a "successful business"?
From: [info]thanny
Date: 2/7/2003 10:26:12 AM

Re:

well for one, i wouldn't have a 23 year old tech guy in charge of it, who turns off comments cuz it's his berfday and he doesn't want any headaches. who ends business polls with 'are you mad at us?!' he's a great technical guy, but he has zero PR or business sense. it's been said before, and i agree: they have to decide if this is just a money-making hobby or an actual business.

if it were my business, i'd create a plan for it and STICK WITH IT. i wouldn't drastically change the service of what people have already paid for, i wouldn't purposely slow the site down to carry more users, i wouldn't have so many users frustrated with the service. if he wanted things to run smoothly and successfully, he should have anticipated problems like growth. and if he doesn't want free users on this site, then he should just ban them or end their service. then the 5% or so of the site who does pay for this can use it as it should be used.
From: [info]samuraikitty
Date: 2/6/2003 9:43:55 PM

A limit of 50-70 posts/day sounds like a pretty fricking reasonable compromise to me. I mean, if someone suddenly told you there was a limit found to infinity would you suddenly feel cheated? It's not like you would ever hit that limit. I have yet to meet anyone who could possibly break that 50-70 barrier, and if they did they'd certainly be off MY friends list in a flash.

Also, I'd feel much more 'cheated' as a paid user if they somehow limited my abilities to put up scripts or whathaveyou, than if they just limited me to 50 posts/day.
From: [info]alison_says
Date: 2/6/2003 11:55:43 PM

I can see the argument of waiting for the paid time to expire before implementing changes to the user agreement. Otherwise I am very much for the changes. It is far more irritating to me to have downtime than to not have the hypothetical ability to post infinitely.

LiveJournal is very generous to provide free accounts in the first place, so free users should feel lucky. They haven't sacrificed anything, why should LiveJournal do anything for them in the first place? I feel lucky to have any kind of free service. Besides, most other free services also limit you in some ways. For instance, Yahoo! Mail limits you to what, 6 megs? LiveJournal will give you a whole lot more, total, plus you can personalize it more and you don't get advertisements.

I am a paid user, and I feel like they are doing me a service by limiting posts and creating more efficiency in the server.

But that's just my take.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/7/2003 9:59:56 AM

[For instance, Yahoo! Mail limits you to what, 6 megs? LiveJournal will give you a whole lot more, total, plus you can personalize it more and you don't get advertisements.]

But this is exactly my point... Yahoo groups and Yahoo Mail USED to be good too. There used to not be nearly as many ads as there are now. They used to offer pop3 email; now you have to pay for that. I'm just afraid that Live Journal won't stop with the post limits, and in a few years, it will be as much of a pain in the ass as Yahoo is now.
From: [info]marlowe1
Date: 2/7/2003 10:23:14 AM

But it's FREE!! Of course you have to pay for extras if you want them but right now Livejournal users have little reason to get a paid account besides guilt and extra pictures. A company has every right to cut costs and customers have every right to leave when the company no longer serves them. It's not an enroaching tyranny. It's a limit based on what people normally post. If they get too much into the limits then people will leave. It's a balancing act.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/7/2003 10:40:10 AM

But it's not free if you have a paid account, which I normally do. I have no problem with them setting a reasonable limit on free accounts. Actually, in answer you your post above, I have no problem with them using pop-up ads.

(Of course, I use Opera, so I wouldn't see them anyway. You should try Opera, Marlowe - there's a little button on the toolbar that you can use to turn all the graphics on/off - you'd never have to see all those quizzes. ;)
From: [info]alison_says
Date: 2/7/2003 11:33:16 AM

Re:

Well, Yahoo is still not terrible. And you can pay to add the service.

And I agree that they should wait until the paid time is up to implement the changes to an account.

But it is still just a slippery-slope argument that if they do this, then they will do something else. I think we should all look at each change that comes along and respond to each individually. That way we can rebel against the bad and keep the good. And if we react very strongly to all changes then they won't know which we really take issue with. It's like crying wolf.

I didn't mean any offense by my comments, and I hope you take none. These are all just my opinions in reaction to your post, and meant as friendly dialogue. I am sorry if it didn't come out that way.

I really enjoy reading your journal and getting to know you.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/7/2003 12:19:52 PM

None taken. :)

[bah] 2/6/2003 7:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - jeopardy]

I still haven't switched to the new username. I may just delete the whole journal and start over.

   

Comments:
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 2/7/2003 12:51:06 PM

The new name rocks :D

[actually] 2/6/2003 7:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - jeopardy]

I am inclined to delete about half of my friends list, when I do switch to the new username. If you can read this, then you are here to stay, unless you let me know otherwise. I'm not sure how I'll do it; keep my friends list when I switch and then delete people manually, or delete the whole list and then re-add the people I want to keep. In any case, that's what is going on, so if you notice that I've deleted you, I will be adding you back, and I hope you'll do the same. :)

*** This is a filtered post. ***
   

Comments:
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 2/6/2003 7:53:33 PM

yay :) thanks :)
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 2/6/2003 8:10:33 PM

glad I made the cut. You still owe me a rat, anyway.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/6/2003 8:29:48 PM

Fair enough. :)
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 2/6/2003 8:30:45 PM

Alrighty... ;o)
From: [info]sf_rose
Date: 2/6/2003 10:36:33 PM

yay! I'm glad you're here... =0)
From: [info]cellio
Date: 2/6/2003 10:57:02 PM

I'm glad you're sticking around.
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 2/7/2003 1:02:03 AM

thank you for keeping me on. :)

[voila] 2/6/2003 9:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |satisfied]
[Current Music |tv - nbc - will & grace]

I have a new username. I didn't delete the whole list, but instead will post only to this select filter for the time being. Since the last thing everyone else saw was the post that said "I may just delete the whole journal", maybe they'll just assume that I left Live Journal in a huff.

Yes, I am a big weenie.

   

Comments:
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 2/6/2003 10:53:47 PM

Glad I made it to this list! :)

You aren't being a weenie, you're being nice!
I've been so tempted to do that too because I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings by dropping them but 'grimkitten' is my moniker all over the web so I ended up just being a big meanie instead.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/6/2003 11:22:38 PM

Yeah, and most of them I don't have an actual problem with; I just added them because they added me, or it seemed like we had more in common at the time, or now that I can see their friends-only stuff, they skeeve me out. With Semagic I can not only post just to certain people, but I can read only certain people too. I'll whittle it down for real at some point, but for now, no-one will be offended, and my contact with them is minimised. :)
From: [info]arkady
Date: 2/7/2003 2:41:35 AM

You so totally caught me on the hop there - I was wondering what the hell was going on when I checked the "Friends" menu on Semagic and saw that there was apparently a mutual befriending taken place between some mysterious "purple_stardust" and I'd been dumped off the madnessie list! Now all is clear however. :-)
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 2/7/2003 4:29:01 AM

Purple_Stardust is a great name. =o)

[dinner - delivery from papa johns] 2/7/2003 12:15:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |web - download.com / tv - nick-at-nite]

Cheesesticks with spray cheese and pizza sauce. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

Comments:
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 2/7/2003 8:00:49 AM

Spray cheese?

Love the new name!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/7/2003 11:54:29 AM

Thanks!

Spray cheese: it's Kraft Easy Cheese, comes in a whipped cream type dispenser. Papa John's changed their cheese dipping sauce, and it tastes spoiled now, so I just buy my own cheese sauce now - unfortunately, this was all the convenience store had.
From: [info]muridae
Date: 2/7/2003 10:08:59 AM

Cheese sticks WITH extra cheese on the side? Yoinks! Dammit, now I really want some mozzarella sticks. Do you think they deliver in six inches of snow? =D
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/7/2003 11:56:04 AM

You can never have too much cheese, I say!

They SHOULD! Of course, they may be like DC-area cabs and charge you twice as much...

[my last open post] 2/7/2003 10:05:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |pissy]
[Current Music |tv - abc stuff]

To those that I offended by my whining about the post limits: I'm ever so sorry. You're right, I was wrong; people have absolutely no right to expect to get what they pay for.

And hey, why stop with software and online services? I think everyone should start running their business this way! The phone companies can start limiting your phone calls; that's fair, right? Electric companies, gas companies, hell, even the cable companies should start putting a cap on how much television people are allowed to watch. No problem!

Thanks so much for pointing out the error of my ways. In the future, I will just bend over and take it up the ass, lubrication not required.

   

Comments:
From: [info]gypsydance
Date: 2/7/2003 12:32:12 PM

You've got to be kidding. "Get what they pay for"? They're getting exactly what they paid for, if they'd bothered to read the Terms of Service beforehand.

And I don't see where you're "taking it up the ass"... I'd hardly call being limited to FIFTY posts per day "getting screwed". Electric companies, gas companies, phone companies... they all DO put a cap on your usage, they HAVE TO, because there ARE people who would use it excessively to the point of causing problems. The cap is phenomenally high, so the vast majority of people never reach it. Hee, I only happen to know about the one on phone service because I've reached it before. :P

You certainly have a right to your opinion, but so do the people who posted opposing views.
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 2/7/2003 12:34:03 PM

You have heard that the new proposed limit for *pay* customers is 50, right?

And the phone companies want to start charging you per minute for local phone calls. Don't think they won't, since people are getting used to it with their cell phones.

[the filtered version] 2/7/2003 10:10:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |definately pissy]
[Current Music |tv - abc stuff]

Sarcasm aside, it's the fucking principle of the matter.

   

Comments:
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 2/7/2003 11:35:58 AM

and yes, I agree...ethics in business has to start somewhere...

[trying this again] 2/7/2003 1:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |bored with the whole issue]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

I have hidden all offending posts. Could we please drop this?

I've decided that I really shouldn't give a rat's ass what Live Journal does. *I* have the software and plenty of webspace if I want to have an online journal. I have the email addresses of the people here that I care about. If they want to ruin a good thing, why should I care?

Whatever.

   

Comments:
From: [info]gypsydance
Date: 2/7/2003 1:34:46 PM

*lix*

You're weird.
From: [info]sf_rose
Date: 2/7/2003 1:36:49 PM

people still have their panties in an uproar?

jesus.

a pox on their computers...
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/7/2003 1:43:27 PM

Who knew... the sad thing is, I could post that my father died, and wouldn't get nearly so many comments. Weird. The irony is that this controversy (in general, not just in my journal) is sucking up WAY more bandwidth than before they brought it up.

*snickers*
From: [info]thanny
Date: 2/7/2003 1:41:35 PM

haha it's so ridiculous. i never realized how rabid people were about this site. silly!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/7/2003 1:45:00 PM

Word. See my comment right above this one.
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 2/7/2003 5:56:37 PM

Damn I missed it.
From: [info]samuraikitty
Date: 2/8/2003 6:46:31 PM

Ness ~

If my comment was an offending one, I apologize. My intention was not to offend, but rather to lend an opinion to a casual debate. Sorry if it was over the top or anything..

Sammy Kitty
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/8/2003 6:50:38 PM

It's all good. :)

[argh] 2/7/2003 2:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |caffeinated]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

You would think that a 12-cup pot of coffee would be enough for two people, especially when one of the aformentioned people is only here for about an hour in the morning. Well it's NOT.

Disclaimer: this post has been made with no disrespect to the fine folks at Mr Coffee, or their subsidiaries.

   

[image hosting] 2/7/2003 7:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |tv - jeopardy]

I know some of you don't have a place to host images, so I created a subdomain if anyone wants to use it. Feel free to create your own folder within the directory, and please don't delete anything that doesn't belong to you. Direct-linking is fine, no size or use limits, although I would rather you not start a big warez site there or something. Otherwise, it's all yours.

You'll need FTP software, available at download.com.

Hostname: purplepeople.ziggabella.com
Username: friends
Password: pooperscooper

Once you have uploaded a photo you can link to it here:
http://purplepeople.ziggabella.com/yourphoto.jpg ... have fun! :)

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 2/8/2003 9:28:59 AM

that is really really nice of you. i don't know anyone who has ever done that before. thank you!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/8/2003 10:34:09 AM

No problem ... you were one of the people I was thinking about (and I want to be able to see your photography!) :)

[or not] 2/7/2003 8:50:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |tv - fox news channel - the o'reilly factor]



I got this email today:

DEAR IN CHRIST,

CALVARY GREETINGS IN THE NAME OF OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST. I AM john wilson, A MEMBER OF REDEEMED PILLER FIRE MINISTRY. BASICALLY A PRAYER AND DELIVERANCE MINISTRY CHRIST. DURING A PRAYER AND FASTING SESSION IN MY MINISTRY I DEMANDED FROM OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST TO GIVE ME THE OPPORTUNITY TO REDEEM MY LIFE AND PURIFY WHAT REMAINS OF MY WEALTH. GOD DELIVERY REVEALED TO ME TO INVEST IN HIS KINGDOM THROUGH YOU AND YOUR MINISTRY/CHARITY ORGANISATION. YOU SHOULD IMMEDIATLY CONTACT ME WITH MY E-MAIL ADDRESS. THE WAY JESUS MINISTERED TO ME,THE FUNDS WILL BE EXPANDED.

REMAIN BLESSED.
John Wilson


My response:

Dear John,

A) I am Jewish, and you are wasting your time.
B) If you ever send me this sort of drivel again, I will send you every computer virus known to man.

Thanks so much.

Renee

   

[a birthday gif] 2/8/2003 12:45:00 AM

purple_stardust

   

[dinner - comfort food] 2/8/2003 3:00:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |i have a headache]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Matzoh ball soup. Cheese Nips. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[glass spider] 2/8/2003 1:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |definately verklempt]
[Current Music |dvd - david bowie - glass spider]

And she had blue eyes, almost like a human...

I got my DVD from Brazil; very nice. The subtitles are in Spanish and the sound/video is a bit off, but who cares when Bowie looks this good. Egad, I love the Glass Spider era.

/collapses in a puddle of drool

   

[today] 2/8/2003 2:30:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |still swooning]
[Current Music |dvd - david bowie - glass spider]

Other than drooling over the new Bowie DVD, I've accomplished little. I overslept and drank much coffee, which seems to be doing Bad Things to my kidneys. Rusty is working today, and Sarah is napping, so I have the apartment (and the DVD player!) all to myself for a few hours.

On a related note, I really dislike this DVD player. For those who missed it, we had a really cool DVD player with speakers and stuff, but it died, and so we got this cheap Apex thing at a pawn shop to hold us over until the first one was repaired. Except, it would have cost more to repair the old one than to just replace it, so we're still using the Apex one. And I dislike it, immensely.

Note to self: must buy new DVD player with tax return. Another note to self: must files taxes.

Anyway. In gardening news, I have TWO lithops seedlings poking up! They germinated faster than I thought they would; I only planted them last Sunday. I need to buy them a grow light though. I can't put them right in the windows because of those friggen cats, so now they are sitting on my desk with the blinds cracked. They need more light, I'm sure.

Also, my new beads came in the mail, so now I should be making things. Possible projects include: kiddush cup charms, purple bracelets, and pot decor for Wilbur. And I still haven't started the macrame bracelets. I am so motivationally challenged.

   

[bowie bowie bowie] 2/8/2003 3:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |still verklempt]
[Current Music |dvd - david bowie - glass spider]

   

[time] 2/8/2003 4:30:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |strange]
[Current Music |dvd - david bowie - glass spider]

You'd think there would be a limit to how many times I could hear David Bowie sing Time.

But there isn't.

The sniper in the brain, regurgitating drain,
Incestuous and vain, and many other last names.
I look at my watch, it says 9:25, and I think "Oh God, I'm still alive."
We should be on by now.


It's a bit strange to hear this song whilst reading this scene from Schindler's List:

Schindler: I could've got more. I could've got more, if I'd just... I could've got more.
Stern: Oskar, there are eleven hundred people who are alive because of you. Look at them.
Schindler: If I'd made more money. I threw away so much money, you have no idea. If I'd just...
Stern: There will be generations because of what you did.


Or maybe it's just me.

   

Comments:
From: [info]the_never
Date: 2/8/2003 6:20:51 PM

My favorite part of that song is the break where you can hear him breathing.

[an unbiased poll] 2/8/2003 6:50:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |curious]
[Current Music |dvd - david bowie - glass spider]


And by "best voice" I mean just that - range and quality, not style or who you like, neccessarily. And by "rock 'n roll" I mean the very loose definition; classic rock, pop and 'top 40' all count.

I say it's David Bowie; Rusty thinks it's Freddie Mercury of Queen. What do you think?

   

Comments:
From: [info]jacquez
Date: 2/8/2003 8:23:17 PM

I'm unsure *how* loose you mean; I think that Jennifer of Grey Eye Glances is a tossup with Mary Fahl (of October Project), but may be too folk for what you mean.

And I think that they are both better than Bowie, but that it's a close race; he would be my top male "best voice in rock'n'roll".
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/8/2003 8:47:41 PM

You know what, I'm a doofus. Rusty and I were talking about male singers, and females never entered my mind until someone answered "Tori Amos" ... one of those cases where *I* knew what I meant, so I assume everyone else does too. Duh.

Gender aside, I was trying to leave out folk, simply because if I included it, then I would have to change my answer to Art Garfunkel. :)
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 2/8/2003 8:51:59 PM

Oh and Rob Thomas.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/8/2003 8:59:31 PM

Oooh, I love Rob Thomas!
From: [info]jupiterjuniper
Date: 2/10/2003 9:17:56 AM

tough one...
because i really can't, with any confidence, choose a singer who hasn't stood up to the test of time [i.e tori amos, rufus wainwright, jeff buckley--all amazing singers that i was thisclose to choosing]. to be THE best voice of ROCK N ROLL really has to be...well, a classic.

and bowie... ::swoons:: does the trick.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/10/2003 11:02:27 AM

Mmmm, Rufus. I don't know how well he sings, I'm too busy drooling. =)

You have a good point though: with people like Bowie (especially Bowie), you've gotten to hear them not only over a longer period of time, but also doing a lot of different styles.

[dinner - delivery from papa johns] 2/9/2003 12:10:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |woot]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Cheesesticks with spray cheese and pizza sauce. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[short attention span theatre] 2/9/2003 3:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |peeved]
[Current Music |CD - Simon and Garfunkel - The Concert in Central Park]

Shit. A friend of mine (Anna, from The Ratlist) wants me to make some beaded flowers for her wedding. I was going to practice making one, except, I have no floral tape. Actually, I DO have floral tape, but it's gone missing. I'm pretty sure that it's with the rest of the floral supplies* out in the shed, but I couldn't find it there. I will just buy some more, next time I'm out.

* For about a week, I was a floral designer; I took a mail order course, bought all the stuff, did one wedding... and got completely bored with it ! Now there are three huge boxes of silk flowers, grapevine wreaths, vases, baskets, and floral foam out in the shed.

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 2/9/2003 7:38:05 PM

Anna's getting married?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/9/2003 8:56:01 PM

Yup, to that guy she met on the internet. I'm not sure that anything will actually come of it, but that's the plan.

[compliments of thanny] 2/9/2003 5:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amazed]
[Current Music |dvd - wallace & gromit]

This is so completely cool: Helper Monkeys! I little monkeys.

   

Comments:
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 2/9/2003 7:47:25 PM

Monkeys rock.
From: [info]muridae
Date: 2/9/2003 8:14:57 PM

They have them on eBay! Only they're stuffed and dead, but... uh...

Look over there! It's Elvis! With a monkey!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/9/2003 8:37:47 PM

You've been talking to the crack pigs again, haven't you? =D
From: [info]muridae
Date: 2/9/2003 8:40:49 PM

Re:

http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=2910065481&category=1469

YOU, TOO, COULD HAVE A MONKEY.
From: [info]muridae
Date: 2/9/2003 8:41:34 PM

JUST LIKE ELVIS!!!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/9/2003 8:47:40 PM

And you have the nerve to call ME weird?!? :-P
From: [info]muridae
Date: 2/9/2003 8:48:53 PM

Um.... yes?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/9/2003 8:52:13 PM

Well... I'm not alone, I can tell you that!
From: [info]muridae
Date: 2/9/2003 8:59:08 PM

There, there. I don't imagine you are. I'm sure you have LOTS of tiny little monkey friends with you.

Do any of them sing?!? You know, crazy monkey songs?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/9/2003 8:45:20 PM

Umm... I kinda wanted a live monkey. I'm real picky like that.

Dead monkeys = no fun at all.
From: [info]muridae
Date: 2/9/2003 8:48:03 PM

Re:

http://intercity.darkslayersinc.com/Classes/necro.html

There you have it!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/9/2003 8:51:10 PM

You want me to have an UN-dead monkey??? Do you know what sort of havoc they could cause?

HAVE YOU NOT READ PET SEMATARY???
From: [info]muridae
Date: 2/9/2003 8:56:21 PM

<sniffle>

I was jus' trying to help.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/9/2003 9:02:40 PM

Oh sure... get me slaughtered by a crazed monkey-zombie. THAT'S helpful!

Jeez. With friends like this, etcetera. ;-P
From: [info]tues
Date: 2/9/2003 8:58:57 PM

holy crapuchin! I guess there a good side to ever bad ailment. no, really!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/9/2003 9:04:36 PM

Yeah... I'd certainly never want to become quadropaligic (obviously!), but if I did, I would definately want a helper monkey!
From: [info]muridae
Date: 2/9/2003 9:15:42 PM

Alive, dead, or un-dead, helper monkeys are still really cool.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/9/2003 9:21:59 PM

I *think* the live ones would smell better...

Oooh! Look! http://www.nfobase.com/assets/images/cactus_flower.JPG =O
From: [info]muridae
Date: 2/9/2003 9:36:22 PM

Re:

Wow, is that made entirely out of beads? That's COOL.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/9/2003 9:39:04 PM

Isn't that AMAZING??? But personally, I want to make THIS.
From: [info]muridae
Date: 2/9/2003 9:42:48 PM

You have far more patience than I ever will. =O
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/9/2003 9:55:54 PM

I don't know if I'll have the patience OR the attention span, but I want to try. Wouldn't it look pretty in a little bonsai pot?

(Ha! Mighty big plans for someone who couldn't stop bouncing from thing to thing today, long enough to make a simple beaded glass spider!)
From: [info]the_never
Date: 2/10/2003 1:19:57 AM

This is a quite famous charity when I was in the military. Not for any good reason, either. Every year, instead of allowing individual charities to make their pitches, we have something calle dthe 'Combined Federal Campaign'. You get a booklet with about a zillion little charities in it and basicly you are encouraged to pick one and it automatically gets deducted bit by bit and you get it all back because you don't make that much in the military anyhow.

In nearly every unit I've been too, it's been like a popular thing with the guys to go through the book and find the weirdest charity possible to sign up for. Nearly always, 'Helping Hands, Monkey Helpers For the Disabled' is one of the top picks.

During my time in the Army I also picked a dolphin charity one year and BCI (Bat Conservation International) twice.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/10/2003 10:50:45 AM

How freakin cool! I guess it IS a pretty weird concept, but still a good thing. My mom works for the IRS, and they have that Combined Federal Campaign thing too; I will ask her to see if the Helper Monkeys are still on the list!

And good for you, picking BCI! A lot of people will support "cute" animals; bats, not so much. Personally, I think bats are adorable, but a lot of other people have seen too many movies. :\
From: [info]thanny
Date: 2/10/2003 2:41:40 PM

haha that's how i found out about the helper monkeys! i was flipping through that booklet. i never knew they were real. i'm still enthralled.

[note to self] 2/9/2003 6:10:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |ambitious]
[Current Music |dvd - wallace & gromit]

stuff I need for near-future projects:

lanyard clips
purple embroidery floss
4 or 5 mm jump rings (silver)
eyeglass holders (black/silver)
6 mm high-quality amethyst beads
4 mm crystal bicones (assorted colours)
floral tape and wire(light gauge)
wire (30 and/or 32 gauge)
coloured craft wire

links

joanns.com
parawire.com
lilaproductions.com
gardenofbeadin.com
jewelrysupply.com
beadinpath.com


(to be added to later)

   

Comments:
From: [info]jupiterjuniper
Date: 2/10/2003 9:37:49 AM

oooh! :)
one might wonder what "projects" might be in need of such goodies...do tell :)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/10/2003 10:33:40 AM

Well!

One thing would be a beaded "glass spider" - I need better wire for that.
Also, a friend of mine is getting married, and is thinking about getting me to make her beaded flowers for that - so I thought I might want to practice a few of the patterns - the floral tape, floral wire, and coloured beading wire is for that.
The jumprings and crystal bicones are to make wine charms.
The amethyst beeds are *probably* for a prayer mala, although you can't have too much amethyst.
The embroidery floss is to macrame bracelets; I have some but I want better colours.
I also need the hardware to make a beaded badge holder (lanyard) for my mom, and a beaded eyeglass chain for me.
Other things I'm beading: a 3-strand purple bracelet for me, and some sort of pot decor for my favourite cactus.

I have many things to do, I just need to get away from the computer long enough to DO them! =D
From: [info]jupiterjuniper
Date: 2/10/2003 11:00:46 AM

Re: Well!

how wonderful!

i have this 5 drawer craft cabinet of goodies--gel pens, beads, glitter glue, etc. i'm so addicted to all of it.

everything you're making sounds awesome! :)

[dinner - green giant] 2/10/2003 12:10:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Pasta alfredo with broccoli. Vanilla wafers. Regular Coke.

   

[jewish wisdom] 2/10/2003 11:15:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |half-awake]
[Current Music |tv - pbs - teletubbies]

In seeking wisdom the first step is silence, the second: listening, the third: remembering, the fourth: practicing, the fifth: teaching others. - Solomon Ibn Gabirol

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 2/10/2003 11:56:58 AM

i really like that quote.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/10/2003 12:04:08 PM

Isn't that nice?

Of course, putting it into practice is more difficult. I'm still stuck on stuck on the first step...
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 2/10/2003 7:30:39 PM

Thanks for sharing that. I like that. Hard to do. I am really trying to make myself work on those 1st two so I can get to those other ones.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/10/2003 7:38:33 PM

DEFINATELY. If I could get my brain to just settle down and pay attention, I think I'd have a good chance at the rest. :\

[new aim name] 2/10/2003 12:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |purple]
[Current Music |tv - nickelodeon]

For those of you in the extra-special loop, I have a new AIM username: purplestardust95. :)

   

Comments:
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 2/10/2003 1:26:01 PM

Okay, well...I put you in my buddy list then: artmomzIM

[project #1 - glass spider] 2/10/2003 3:35:00 PM

purple_stardust

   

Comments:
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 2/10/2003 4:57:22 PM

Oooh, that makes my skin crawl, but it's so beautiful!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/10/2003 5:05:33 PM

Thanks! I made it because of the whole Bowie "Glass Spider" thing, even though I usually *hate* spiders.
From: [info]jacquez
Date: 2/10/2003 6:08:33 PM

wow. that is astoundingly neat.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/10/2003 7:11:41 PM

Thanks! I'll bring you one whenever I make blue rex/dumbos! :)
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 2/10/2003 7:07:16 PM

Yikes, that frightened me half to death when it loaded! It's cool though, did it take you long?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/10/2003 7:13:18 PM

Hmm. Maybe an hour? It's hard to tell with me, because I check email and refresh my friends page and wander around while I'm doing it.
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 2/10/2003 7:19:32 PM

That's really cool. Is it your own pattern? Was it difficult to make? From the size it seems promising... I've always wanted to try beadwork.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/10/2003 7:26:23 PM

It's a combination of a pattern with a few of my own adjustments. It isn't difficult at all, just a bit tedious (the wire has a tendancy to kink, and the beads are so tiny). It's pretty fun, you should try it! :)
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 2/11/2003 6:13:34 AM

Re:

The word 'tedious' scares me. Almost as much as 'patience' does.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/11/2003 11:16:34 AM

Hahaha! Me too, which is why I rarely make them! But they ARE one of my favourite FINISHED crafts, so occasionally I muddle through one.
From: [info]kimikohime
Date: 2/10/2003 7:20:01 PM

as much as I dislike spiders, that one is awesome! You have an awesome talent.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/10/2003 7:28:55 PM

Thanks! I don't like them either, but it was a Bowie thing. :)
From: [info]the_never
Date: 2/11/2003 12:23:31 AM

Well done! You should build miniatures scenery for my D&D campaign. :)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/11/2003 11:13:24 AM

Little beaded dragon caves? =D
From: [info]the_never
Date: 2/11/2003 12:18:52 PM

You should see my scenery collection. :) Here's the first piece I ever did- it's a waterfall for a battle scene. It's about 8 inches tall I guess.
(Http://the-never.net/molesfork/waterfall.jpg )

I usually only create pieces to have general use or if they serve a specific complex need. Like a battle that takes place at a waterfall with two sets of villians and a 40' drop in between. Plus it just looks cool when your'e running the game and you throw one of these on the table.

The reason I say this is, you could do statuary type pieces easily. You know your way around a craft store, you can handle a hot glue gun. and you can make things go from idea to creation pretty fast.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/11/2003 12:47:56 PM

Cool waterfall!

By "general use", do you mean stuff that could be used over and over, things that are likely to occur in any scenario?

Yeah, I always thought the scenery and pewter figurines were part of the fun! I had friends in high school who used nothing, just paper/pencil and dice, and it looks so boring that way!

And I LOVE hot glue guns. Also nail guns. And staple guns. :)
From: [info]the_never
Date: 2/11/2003 1:01:52 PM

Yeah- I made some general use 'hills', a general use 'tower' and a guard tower on stilts (I pieced it together from cardboard from a 12-pack of mountain dew and q-tips).

Anyhow, back to spidery stuff. Check this piece out:
http://www.arrakis.homeip.net/gallery/album09/abh

I made it from foam-core, string and "spray webbing' that is usually used to texture paint for a "webbed finish". The black beads were used to represent goblin-spiders. I didn't have 106 goblin spider miniatures.

Anyhow, there are other creations here: http://www.arrakis.homeip.net/gallery/molesfork

that document last years campaign, and you can see we put a lot of attention into making the battles look good as they played out.
One of the other players (Joel) built most of the nicest pieces. He hactually has a sculpture degree.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/11/2003 2:15:22 PM

Hey, I like that spider tower thingie! I was going to make a wire web for my guy, but the string and spray webbing is a lot more realistic. The other stuff is cool too; how did you make the fire?

Is Joel the one who made the ships?
From: [info]the_never
Date: 2/11/2003 2:38:59 PM

The ships are actually just regular old wooden model ships, meant for display that we just took over. The one with all the rigging is mine. The one with a single mainsail belongs to my friend Joe. I guess Joe is probably my best friend at this point.

Joel made most of the 'wall' pieces and the fire was made from poly-fiber pillow stuffing that was painted with a dash of flourescent red and a bit of black.

I wish you lived closer! Making stuff for the game is like half the fun.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/11/2003 2:48:13 PM

Ooohhh... I always thought it would be fun to build model ships, but I am fairly certain that I don't have the patience OR the attention span. Do they take a long time to build?

I know what you mean; I doubt I could ever do serious gaming, because I would get all caught up in the scenery and the figurines, and collecting all the dice (I still have a terrible fascination with gaming dice) ... I would never actually PLAY anything. Do you paint the pewter figures, too? I tried that at one point, but "the shakes" prevented me from doing it well.

Where IS Columbia, anyway? DC metro?
From: [info]the_never
Date: 2/11/2003 3:05:02 PM

Shakes are not, I could teach you to paint miniatures. I taught several members of the group to paint- many of them complete non-artists. It's actually kind of gimmicky- but if you learn a few simple tricks and techniques, (washes and drybrushing- really simple stuff) even a complete non-artist can have killer looking miniatures, just because the miniatures they make now are so detailed. Washing is just sloshing a lot of wet paint at the miniature and drybrushing is you just kick a brush with a hint of almost dry paint over the miniature like you were cleaning it with a toothbrush- and the tiniest flecks of paint immediately pick up in all of the detail areas. They look great.

We actually bought the ships pre-assembled! Hows that for work? I *thought* I would have to assemble mine, but it came out of the box fully assembled. It was meant as a kids-room display piece.

Columbia is accessible to metro, but not really. I usually drive to Silver Spring to catch the Metro. It's about 20-30 minutes away. I'm close to Baltimore and between DC and Baltimore.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/11/2003 4:09:23 PM

Oooh, Baltimore. We used to go down there once in a while to the Inner Harbor. I love boats. I'd like to go back when the weather gets a bit better, now that Sarah is old enough to appreciate it.

The painting sounds cool; I should learn to do that! I haven't seen the miniature figures they sell now... my brief foray into the world of D&D was in the early 90's. I have a boxed D&D game from the late 80's (I think) but the pewter figurines aren't very detailed. :\

[dinner - delivery from anthonys] 2/11/2003 12:50:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |tv - nick-at-nite]

Steak and chedder sub w/ mustard. Mozzerella sticks. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[yup] 2/11/2003 1:00:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |tv - nick-at-nite]

I am somewhat annoying. Not bad!

I am somewhat annoying.
Don't worry about it; it's probably just a phase.

   

Comments:
From: [info]slow_like_honey
Date: 2/11/2003 8:02:22 AM

I am moderately annoying. Dammit.
You are moderately annoying!
Congratulations! There's hope for you, though
not much.


You are probably a nice person, but that doesn't
make up for all this. Yet.


PS - No one cares about your AP History class.


How Annoying Are You In Your Online Diary?
brought to you by Quizilla
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/11/2003 11:29:25 AM

Oh, you are NOT, either! You hardly ever post, how annoying can you be? Stupid quiz...

[dinner - stouffers] 2/12/2003 12:35:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |cold]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Fish fillet with mac and cheese. Rye toast. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[dreams] 2/12/2003 9:55:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |disoriented]
[Current Music |tv - abc stuff]

I've been having really weird dreams, the last few mornings. I never remember what they were about, but I can tell that they were weird.

   

[oh yay] 2/12/2003 10:55:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |itchy]
[Current Music |tv - abc stuff]

I got a catalog in the mail called 'The Source for Everything Jewish' ... everything? Alrighty then! I will be shopping for a seder plate, a haggadah, and a nice Jewish husband.

Hey, they said EVERYTHING.

Actually, they DO have the most gorgeous purple and pink hand-painted silk tallit set - I know I can't have it yet, but egad it's pretty.

   

[ack] 2/12/2003 3:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |annoyed]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

There is a frustrating irony in badly-organised ADD websites.

   

Comments:
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 2/12/2003 4:37:51 PM

A similarly ironic thing aired on TV here a while ago. It was a programme about narcolepsy, and all the people on the board of the Narcolepsy Association (or whatever it was called) were sufferers, and they showed footage of one of the weekly meetings... you can probably guess the rest. They needed 4 people just to take down the 'minutes' of each meeting. Poor things, trying to combat their problem but too busy sleeping do be able to!

[compliments of allmyvoices] 2/12/2003 4:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Make the kitty's head boggle!

   

[feng shaun] 2/12/2003 7:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |greatly amused]
[Current Music |dvd - wallace & gromit]

   

Comments:
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 2/12/2003 7:31:47 PM

I want!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/12/2003 7:34:42 PM

Isn't that cute??? I love Shaun.

[dinner - delivery from dominos] 2/13/2003 12:05:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |boggled by beads]
[Current Music |tv - tv - nick-at-nite]

Thin crust cheese pizza with extra cheese. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[it's that time again...] 2/13/2003 2:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

That's right boys and girls, it's time for the obligatory every-two-weeks-renee-leaves-the-house post! And that's what I did, of course - went to the bank to deposit Rusty's paycheck. It kinda sucked, because the cassette player in my car wasn't working today (sometimes it doesn't, no idea why), and it's a long drive. On the other hand, I've noticed that I can actually think when I drive, as there aren't the distractions that I have at home or around people. Anyway...

We stopped at Petsmart where I bought food for all the critters, and a full-spectrum bulb for my lithops seedlings, and then on to Big Lots where I bought purple socks for me and new work socks for Rusty because I'm too lazy to wash the old dirty ones. Actually, I kinda like this disposable sock method that I've got going. I may never wash socks again.

Anyway, next stop: the craft store! I bought floral tape and wire, beading wire in 30 and 34 gauges, jump rings, lanyard clips, and a ton of new seed beads. I chose colours that I don't normally buy: bright transparent red, yellow, and green, AB blue, purple, and green, and a 100 gram bag of ABs in really cool colours. I am going to make beaded dragonflies with them.

And then I stopped to pay the [bleep] phone bill, bought cigarettes and a few groceries, and came home. I am starting to get a headache, so I want to take some aspirin and hit the coffee pot before it has a chance to get worse. Ahh, coffee...

   

[no doubt] 2/13/2003 5:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - while you were out]


You will perish of fits. Repeat this to yourself:
"Things can work out even if I don't get my way."

What horrible Edward Gorey death will you die?

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 2/13/2003 8:53:34 PM

I've seen people posting the results to the quiz, but I'm so confused.. who is Edward Gorey?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/13/2003 9:19:23 PM

He was a very twisted (but funny) author/illustrator, most notabley of The Gashlycrumb Tinies. :)
From: [info]blairmaru
Date: 2/13/2003 11:52:22 PM

GOREY!!!! Oh, man.. there are these Gorey notecards I'm trying to talk myself out of buying but I want soooooo bad: the Neglected Murderesses collection.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/13/2003 11:56:39 PM

You neeeeed them!!! Trust me.

[feh] 2/13/2003 11:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |tv - seinfeld]

I really should start working on beaded flowers since I finally have all the stuff to make them, and yet I'd rather just sit here and play video games and be blobbish.

   

[speaking of beads] 2/13/2003 11:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |still blah]
[Current Music |tv - seinfeld]

I need colour combinations for beaded lizards: two colours each, realistic or fantasy colours. Anyone have any thoughts pretty/cool/funky lizard colours?

   

Comments:
From: [info]the_never
Date: 2/13/2003 11:24:52 PM

turquoise and tangerine!

From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/13/2003 11:34:15 PM

Dolphins fan?

Oooh, and I just happen to have those colours in the AB mix that I bought today! =)
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 2/14/2003 6:54:54 AM

Purple (primary color) and green.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/14/2003 10:09:32 AM

Oooh, very nice! Have you ever been to wererat.net? She does her site in purple and green, and it looks really pretty together!
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 2/14/2003 6:32:24 PM

Re:

I hadn't before, but I just did. {g} That is very pretty!
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 2/14/2003 12:53:00 PM

Someone beat me to it, tsk! heheh. Purple and green, purple and orange, turquoise and orange, midnight blue and silver. Erm.. that's about it!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/14/2003 8:36:12 PM

Oooh, midnight blue and silver would be REALLY pretty!!! =)
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 2/14/2003 5:22:37 PM

lime green and bright orange?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/14/2003 8:16:41 PM

Everybody seems to be a big fan of orange, lol! Not sure if I have lime green beads though, will have to check that out... :)

[dinner - delivery from papa johns] 2/14/2003 12:45:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |still on battle #36]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Cheesesticks with cheese dip and pizza sauce. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[valentines day] 2/14/2003 8:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |mushy]
[Current Music |tv - fox news channel - the o'reilly factor]

Happy Valentine's Day!

Rusty gave me another brass trinket box with Swarovski crystals, and a very beautiful card with an even more beautiful sentiment inside. Sometimes I love him so much that it makes me sick. =}
   

[cell number] 2/14/2003 9:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |goofy]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - while you were out]

For those of you in my extra-extra-special filter, my new cell number is 304-671-5392. Heh.

   

[dinner - delivery from anthonys] 2/14/2003 11:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |battle #36]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - seinfeld]

Steak and chedder sub w/ mustard. Mozzerella sticks. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[snowbound] 2/15/2003 9:30:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |snowed in]
[Current Music |tv - fox news channel]

For those of you not in the eastern US, there is a ton of snow here, and more to come. I am not good at being prepared for such things, so we have like, one meal in the freezer, and of course my body has decided that now would be an opportune time to have its period. Naturally, I have no tampons. Bah. I guess I'm gonna have to walk downtown and get some. Dammit.

Anyway, Rusty rented some DVDs for the occasion - A Beautiful Mind, Signs, and The Mothman Prophecies - and I have beads galore, so I might as well enjoy being snowed in for the weekend.

   

Comments:
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 2/15/2003 10:43:55 AM

Ugh I'm SO sick of winter! Possible 6 inches by sunday here.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/15/2003 11:04:41 AM

ME TOO!!! It's gotten so bad that I'm starting to make cracks about moving to Florida, and I am NOT a big fan of Florida.

Do you think it would work, if we were to pray for some sort of wacky front to come in and send all the snow and sleet elsewhere?
From: [info]muridae
Date: 2/15/2003 11:08:55 AM

You could just send it all here! Yay snow! =D
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/15/2003 11:37:04 AM

You are welcome to it! I will go look for some BIG boxes...

[the obsession du jour] 2/15/2003 2:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |crampy and miserable]
[Current Music |cd - bob dylan - simple twist of fate]

I ordered a couple of beaded flower patterns: a magnolia to make from Swarovski crystals and pretty lilacs made of seed beads. They're French-beaded, which I haven't tried (I use the Victorian technique), but it doesn't look too difficult. Famous last words, I know.

   

[dinner - delivery from anthonys] 2/16/2003 1:05:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |still on battle #36]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Steak and chedder sub w/ mustard. Mozzerella sticks. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[today] 2/16/2003 12:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |cold]
[Current Music |mp3 - alphaville - forever young]


Now we're really REALLY snowed in, and getting more snow all the time. They're calling 25 inches before it's all said and done. Normally I would be panicking, but it's kinda fun being snowed in! We've been making beaded butterfly patterns together. :)
   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 2/16/2003 1:56:40 PM

I love snow. The more snowed in the better in my opinion. :)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/16/2003 3:31:20 PM

I'm fine with it until I run out of cigarettes! =)

[mona lisa and mad hatters] 2/16/2003 3:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |i love this song]
[Current Music |mp3 - elton john - mona lisas and mad hatters]

Until you've seen this trashcan dream come true
You stand at the edge while people run you through
And I thank the Lord there's people out there like you
I thank the Lord there's people out there like you
While Mona Lisas and Mad Hatters
Sons of bankers, sons of lawyers
Turn around and say good morning to the night
For unless they see the sky
But they can't and that is why
They know not if it's dark outside or light

---Elton John

   

[now playing on short attention span theatre] 2/16/2003 9:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |spazzed]
[Current Music |dvd - a beautiful mind]

We're watching A Beautiful Mind. Or to be more accurate, Rusty is watching it. Unfortunately, movie-watching is one of the many things that I don't have the attention span for. Instead of watching the movie, I am glancing at the movie occasionally whilst bouncing between fixing dinner, emailing with my mother, researching geneology on the internet, thinking about the shape of butterfly wings, and typing this. I've gotten out of my seat 10-15 times so far (we're about an hour into it), not to mention what my brain has been doing this whole time.

Rusty jokes about me never having seen a whole movie, but it's starting to sort of upset me, because I am missing some really good movies. :(

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 2/17/2003 9:08:48 AM

If it makes you feel any better, I do the exact same thing. I can't sit still long enough to get through a 30 minute sitcom, let alone a whole movie. Usually Sean puts them on, and then I clean or fold laundry or do something else entirely.

[snow update] 2/16/2003 11:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tundrafied]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]

Holy shit. We've gotten 19 inches of snow so far, and it's still going strong.

   

Comments:
From: [info]jamaicanjungle
Date: 2/17/2003 12:12:10 AM

wow!!! Where the hell do you live?!?! It hasn't even begun to begin snowing here in CT.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/17/2003 12:17:59 AM

I'm about 75 miles north of Washington DC - and EVERYTHING is covered down here! There are some areas in the region with more than us even; I think Frederick MD had 22 inches last count. And it's STILL snowing. =O
From: [info]the_never
Date: 2/17/2003 1:14:41 AM

I didn't get an accurate measurement but I just went out to haul some trash to the dumpster. The snow is easily up to my crotch in the paved area that was cleared this morning- and in some cases much higher. My car is completely buried in a snow-drift- I can only see the antenna.

[for future reference] 2/16/2003 11:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |curious]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]

Jewish Records Indexing - Poland

and

Grandpa Lied! A Family's Jewish Origins Uncovered

   

Comments:
From: [info]topi
Date: 2/17/2003 1:27:49 AM

Is this your family perhaps? =) Don't leave me hanging here.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/17/2003 1:49:38 AM

Not that I know of, BUT, Ludwig (as mentioned in the first link) is my maiden name. Unfortunately, I haven't been able to track my father's side of the family back very far.
From: [info]topi
Date: 2/17/2003 2:12:06 AM

Ah, ok...still cool info wise.

[dinner - green giant] 2/17/2003 1:05:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |baffled]
[Current Music |tv - rerun - the practice]

Pasta alfredo with broccoli. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[snow update] 2/17/2003 9:15:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |snowed in]
[Current Music |tv - cbs news]


This is my car, or rather, this is where I left my car - I assume it's still under there somewhere. Our official count is 27 inches, though Rusty swears it's closer to 30" in some spots. It's a lot of snow, at any rate, and now there is much shoveling to be done...
   

Comments:
From: [info]topi
Date: 2/17/2003 9:20:06 AM

You are so lucky!
From: [info]muridae
Date: 2/17/2003 10:07:20 AM

Ah ha ha ha ha ha ha! Look at the poor cars!

Do you still need to feed the meters? =D
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/17/2003 10:08:44 AM

OMG! I don't know! I hadn't even thought of that... Maybe I should, just in case?
From: [info]muridae
Date: 2/17/2003 10:14:44 AM

Re:

Well, if you see a meter reader plodding very slowly down the street, you'll know to run outside and feed the meter!

=D
From: [info]goljerp
Date: 2/17/2003 10:50:57 AM

Hmm... We don't have that much here (NYC) yet, but it's coming down...
From: [info]bioclaire
Date: 2/17/2003 11:29:52 AM

LOL um... Jeez that's really scary. The snow storm just started up here. :/
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 2/17/2003 1:14:24 PM

!!!!!!!HOLY BAJEBUS!!!!!!!!

I'm only 2 hours south of you and we didnt get one lil drop of snow...although we got 2 inches of ice. Looks like you're snowed in for a few days!
From: [info]mysticpenguin
Date: 2/17/2003 2:51:42 PM

Geez. And I thought ours was bad.

[still snowbound] 2/17/2003 7:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |happy]
[Current Music |tv - jeopardy]

We shoveled the sidewalk this morning, and then had a nice day together. We watched Signs, which I really liked but Rusty thought was silly, and then I worked on my beaded butterfly patterns some more. I like being snowed in with Rusty. :)

   

[a fleet of tiny beaded lizards] 2/17/2003 11:35:00 PM

purple_stardust

   

Comments:
From: [info]the_never
Date: 2/18/2003 12:29:14 AM

I claim the tangerine and turquoise one in the name of the kingdom of Frozen Mountain! He will guard the passage to Cloudland!

From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/18/2003 12:45:21 AM

He's all yours! :)
From: [info]slow_like_honey
Date: 2/18/2003 10:08:43 AM

*awww* They're so cute! I wish I was that crafty :)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/18/2003 12:05:39 PM

Thanks! :)

(They're really not hard to make!)
From: [info]kimikohime
Date: 2/18/2003 11:02:24 AM

Yay! so cute!! I like the purplish one. ^^
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/18/2003 12:07:37 PM

Thanks! The purple one is my favourite too; he matches my rattery website. :)
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 2/18/2003 11:08:43 AM

You need your on TV show or something... then the beaded lizards can take over the world! They're ace :)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/18/2003 12:04:45 PM

Yes, but are they SMASHING??? Hmm, maybe that can be the name of the show - The Smashing Beaded Lizard Show! =)
From: [info]cellio
Date: 2/18/2003 12:59:15 PM

Ooh, pretty!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/18/2003 1:18:57 PM

Thanks! :)

[dinner - marie callender] 2/18/2003 12:50:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Fish fillet with mac and cheese. Broccoli. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[out and about... sort of] 2/18/2003 11:30:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired of snow]
[Current Music |tv - nickelodeon]

The day I dreaded came today; I ran (almost) out of cigarettes. I was low on cash too, and the corner store doesn't take checks or credit cards. Rusty went in to help around the office today, so I had walk to the nearest ATM machine, Sarah in tow. It would have been a lot easier without the baby/stroller, but it was a mess out there by any standards. A lot of people hadn't shoveled their sidewalks yet, and even when they had, you couldn't get TO the sidewalks, for the snow. So we ended up walking in the street for the most part, and even then I spent much of the trip carrying the baby/stroller. Ooof. At any rate, I made it to the bank and got cash, and to the store to get cigarettes, and now I am home and I have coffee, and I am so not venturing out again until some of this shit melts. Time to catch up with my friends list...

   

[my favourite piece so far] 2/18/2003 10:10:00 PM

purple_stardust

   

Comments:
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 2/18/2003 10:27:32 PM

purty! So where do you get the patterns?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/19/2003 2:21:03 PM

Thanks! This is one that I bought and am altering as I go along. :)
From: [info]kimikohime
Date: 2/18/2003 10:35:45 PM

ooh, I like! The purple is awesome :)
From: [info]sf_rose
Date: 2/18/2003 11:27:49 PM

very nice! I like...
From: [info]jupiterjuniper
Date: 2/19/2003 8:40:12 AM

how very cool! :) so *that* is what all those supplies were for ;)

[dinner - delivery from dominos] 2/19/2003 12:30:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |battle #37]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Thin crust pizza with anchovies. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

Comments:
From: [info]the_never
Date: 2/19/2003 2:09:20 AM

Are we related?

Nobody else in the world that I know likes thin crust with anchovies, except for me.

Probably seperated at birth or something.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/19/2003 2:00:34 PM

Oooh, that may be! Anchovies are NOT a popular topping; but I love 'em! :)

[belly button tragedy] 2/19/2003 1:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |annoyed]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

I lost the bottom ball of my navel barbell, and I can't find it anywhere, and I'm afraid the barbell will fall out and the piercing will close if I don't find or replace it soon. I know I've seen the replacement balls for sale, but I can't remember where.

   

Comments:
From: [info]darqueangel
Date: 2/19/2003 5:30:02 PM

Spencers/Hot Topic will have alot of jewerly, if you need something quick

[the belly button saga continues] 2/19/2003 4:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

I found a new circular barbell on Ebay - it's externally threaded, but I'm cheap and desperate. I also ordered a replacement ball and a navel retainer (for future emergencies) from an online store... I just hope that this barbell stays in until one of them arrives.

   

[today] 2/19/2003 8:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |missing time]
[Current Music |dvd - the mothman prophecies]

What the hell happened to it? I worked on my butterfly pattern some, and drank a lot of coffee, and now it's after 8pm! And I haven't checked my friends page all day, egad...

   

Comments:
From: [info]kimikohime
Date: 2/20/2003 12:08:26 PM

hehe, I had livejournal withdrawals all night. :)

[dinner - marie callender] 2/20/2003 12:50:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |battle #37]
[Current Music |pc - adobe photoshop / tv - nick-at-nite]

Fish fillet with mac and cheese. Broccoli. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[argh] 2/20/2003 9:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |annoyed]
[Current Music |tv - will & grace]

Live Journal has been a complete prick for the last 24 hours. It finally let me see my friends page, but not go earlier or comment, and so finally, I am giving up. I did see this notice:

LiveJournal is currently under a Distributed Denial of Service attack, and has been since about 5:30pm PST (1:30 AM GMT) on 2/19. We have been working with our upstream providers (including several major backbones) to filter traffic as quickly and effectively as possible.

Due to the fact that a DDOS attack involves potentially tens of thousands of hosts all working together against a single target (in this case, us), it is extremely difficult to find one group of IP addresses to block to prevent the attack from affecting our services any further. Our upstream providers are currently filtering somewhere around 1/4 of the IPs on the internet from reaching LiveJournal. Unfortunately, these filters also block legitimate traffic from some users. When the attack has subsided we will remove the filters.


Whatever. I don't want to whine or anything, but this is a pain in the ass. And I pay for it.

In other news, I've finished four new butterfly patterns, as well as one whole new wing shape. I want to order more beads; I really like the ones that I got from beadbox.com.

   

Comments:
From: [info]cellio
Date: 2/20/2003 11:38:45 PM

Whatever. I don't want to whine or anything, but this is a pain in the ass. And I pay for it.

It's not LJ's fault. Holding them responsible for being the target of a DDOS attack would be sort of like holding the city responsible for not delivering safe water when some radical nut blows up the water-treatment plant.

[dinner - delivery from papa johns] 2/21/2003 12:35:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood | battle #37]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Cheesesticks with cheese dip and pizza sauce. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[death and taxes] 2/21/2003 11:15:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |contemplative]
[Current Music |tv - pbs - teletubbies]

I'm not sure what brought it on, but I was just having thoughts of death and aging... the thoughts of what it would be like to get old, break hips randomly, lose bowel function, and babble about kittens on the ceiling. I really can't see myself as old, and I don't think I want to. I have seen old people, and it doesn't look at all pleasant. I've decided that I want no parts of aging, and instead, I plan to die tragically while I'm still vaguely young. Not in the immediate future, but before I get really decrepit. A car accident maybe, or a drowning. No, not a drowning, it would suck to drown. I wonder what it's like, being shot? I am adverse to pain and suffocation.

Here is another advantage to having a short attention span, however - I can't dwell on these things, for I just remembered that I still need to file our taxes.

   

Comments:
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 2/21/2003 6:00:40 PM

People laugh at me for saying I never want to get old, I don't though, I've had enough of my dignity taken! I also would like to die in a very immediate, unusual way, that would be remembered. I'd hate to choke on a spoonful of mush in a Raisin Ranch ;)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/21/2003 7:49:51 PM

Exactly! I do NOT want to have to have someone else wipe my ass. So what are these unusual ways to die? Being hit by a chocolate truck would be good...
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 2/21/2003 9:55:42 PM

Unusual ways to die:

I've always hoped to soar off of a cliff in a flaming semi-truck. Really, I mean always.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/21/2003 10:07:35 PM

Re: Unusual ways to die:

I've always thought that when I start to age badly, I should drive my car very quickly off a very high cliff - something so high that I would be dead on inpact (no chance of it being painful). I hadn't considered the flaming part though; how dramatic! =)

Would the flames be in the trailor part or in the cab?
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 2/22/2003 1:22:17 AM

Re: Unusual ways to die:

Well, I'd daydreamt that the flames stemmed from some sort of insidious chemical in the trailor, but of course I'd like them to create a massive fireball...

[damn cats] 2/21/2003 11:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |aggravated]
[Current Music |tv - drew carey rerun]

I realise that the cats don't care, but I think it's pretty damned rude to dart around underfoot, and then complain when your tail is stepped on! Friggen feline freaks...

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 2/22/2003 7:12:04 AM

:D

[dinner - by kraft] 2/22/2003 12:15:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |battle #37]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Extra cheesey mac and cheese. Assorted chocolate. Regular Coke.

   

[today] 2/22/2003 1:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |scattered]
[Current Music |cd - billy joel - captain jack]

Rusty took me to the store to get cigarettes and groceries; that was annoying as usual - somehow the grocery bill is always twice as high when he comes with me. It's like having an extra kid along. Anyway, we went to a different store this time; they have a better kosher secion than Weis. I bought canned kreplach; that should be interesting, as I've never tried it before. Oooh, new food - scary! Now we're working on the second pot of coffee, Rusty is playing Chrono Cross, and I am getting ready to work on a beaded dragon pattern. Fun!

   

[woo hoo] 2/22/2003 3:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |accomplished]
[Current Music |cd - billy joel - piano man]

I have finished my first beaded dragon pattern, hooray! I'm not entirely happy with it yet, but it's something to work with. And now, on to the actual beading...

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 2/22/2003 5:40:39 PM

I love the butterfly in your icon. did you make it?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/22/2003 5:43:17 PM

Yeah, the full-sized pic is here: http://purplestardust.ziggabella.com/butterfly1.jpg :)
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 2/22/2003 6:12:38 PM

It's so pretty. That must take a long while to do.
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 2/22/2003 6:20:39 PM

that's awesome. how long does it take to make them?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/22/2003 6:29:08 PM

The butterfly and the dragon took quite a while! The butterfly is actually made of five separate pieces, and four for the dragon, so it took me a couple of hours to make them. The spider and lizards are one piece, so they don't take nearly as long.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/22/2003 5:45:14 PM

PS - did you get my email? I've been having so many SMTP problems lately, I get paranoid. :)
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 2/22/2003 6:23:30 PM

Hmmmm... no, I checked. I didn't get an e-mail.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/22/2003 6:30:43 PM

Oh hells bells. I just resent it from another address, but if you still don't get it, let me know and I will post the info in my journal. :)
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 2/23/2003 8:36:26 AM

Both were in my mailbox this morning. I go through the stmp thing once in a while, too. It's frustrating. Thanks a bunch. Your directions are awesome. I really, really appreciate it.

[beaded dragon v1] 2/22/2003 5:10:00 PM

purple_stardust

   

Comments:
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 2/22/2003 5:35:57 PM

Ooooo!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/22/2003 5:41:32 PM

Yah. The wings still need some work, but I was pretty happy with this one, for a first attempt. :)
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 2/22/2003 5:45:30 PM

The picture hadn't loaded yet so I saw your butterfly icon, but no dragon. I love the dragon! That is so cool. Very cool.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/22/2003 5:48:51 PM

Thanks! :)
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 2/22/2003 5:55:47 PM

How cool!
From: [info]the_never
Date: 2/22/2003 7:41:55 PM

That is awesome! You should do a two-headed guy too!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/22/2003 8:18:00 PM

I could probably do that, but then you would have to take him, because things with more or less limbs than normal, really skeeve me out. Whew. That was a really long sentance.
From: [info]kimikohime
Date: 2/22/2003 9:59:11 PM

OMG he's so cute! It looks like he's trying to look mean, but no luck. :)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/22/2003 10:01:29 PM

Hahaha! I thought he looked like he was terribly amused by something! =)

[more beadiness] 2/23/2003 12:45:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |i have a headache]
[Current Music |tv - saturday night live]

I still haven't perfected the wings, but I did make a second beaded dragon - now in purple! :)

   

[dinner - delivery from papa johns] 2/23/2003 2:30:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |battle #37]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Cheesesticks with cheese dip and pizza sauce. Reese's Cups. Regular Pepsi.

   

[mommy stuff] 2/23/2003 12:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Rusty got Sarah up this morning and kept her occupied while I slept in to almost 11:30! He said that she kept coming over to me and saying "Mama get up!" and then she'd look at him and say "Shhh!" ... she's a funny little girl. Speaking of the daughter, I found a Fisher Price Noah's Ark that I am going to get for her. She already has the Town, the House, the Farm, and the Zoo and Train sets, so she really needs the coordinating Little People Ark.

   

Comments:
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 2/23/2003 1:44:15 PM

Wow, 11:30! I don't know what horrible hour I got up, but I was awaken to the sound of "Wake up Mee!, Wake up!" and some snickering in the hallway. And I want some Little People! However, I'd probably be the only one playing with them...and I would most likely get made fun of because of this. The little people train set might go over well though. Anything train related is good.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/23/2003 2:04:15 PM

Oh! If he would like the train, he might also like The Airport or The Quarry or The Garage! They have a TON of the Little People sets that are more "boyish"... Look! :)
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 2/23/2003 2:16:56 PM

Oh...and even a floaty boat! The big birthday month is coming up. (I say 'birthday month' because we tend to go a little over board...we can't help it.)
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 2/23/2003 3:00:27 PM

Sarah is such a cutie patootie. :)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/23/2003 3:06:52 PM

Thanks! :)

[meme - things i don't like] 2/23/2003 2:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |lazy]
[Current Music |cd - alanis morissette - jagged little pill]

01. Are there any classes of food you won't eat?
Oh geez, it would be easier to list the classes that I will eat. Okay... I don't eat any vegetables except broccoli, I don't eat any fruit except grapes, and I dislike any meat that isn't processed to the point that I can't tell that it's meat, and even then I only like it with cheese. I also dislike anything mushy (ie oatmeal) and most things crunchy (ie water chesnuts), as well as yogurt, hard candy, and food that is unattractive or mixed together or looks like vomit.

02. Are there any whole genres of TV you won't watch?
Sports, shopping channels, religious programming, cheesy sitcoms, and television for women.

03. What colours will you never wear?
Brown, orange, yellow, red, teal, and I try to avoid white for practical reasons (I'm a slob).

04. Music styles you won't listen to?
Hip hop, rap, boy bands, and most country music.

05. Actors whose movies you refuse to see on principle?
Not really, though there are certainly actors that I don't like to see.

06. Categories of film that you avoid like the plague?
Comedies, for the most part. Westerns. Action films. Movies for women.

07. Types of cuisine you won't eat?
Didn't we cover this already? I don't eat "homestyle" cooking, or Japanese food, or steak.

08. Breeds of dog or cat you would never own?
I would never ever own a weiner dog. Or a corgi. Or an athsma hound chihuahua.

09. Household chore you hate enough to offload on the innocent and unsuspecting?
All of them, thank you.

10. Most hated sport, either to play or to watch?
Football, football, football. I hate football unless Navy (college) or the Pittsburgh Steelers are playing. I don't really like to watch any sports except figure skating or hockey.

[gakked from [info]catmoran]

   

Comments:
From: [info]blairmaru
Date: 2/28/2003 6:43:00 AM

bwa! asthma hound chihuahua! ..but REN!

hey, email me your address, I have a card for you (blair_g @ yahoo.com)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/28/2003 10:22:42 AM

Steeempy! =)

Ooh, coolness! I sent my address... I even sent it from my Hotmail account, so you might actually get it! If not, let me know - my SMTP stuff has been all screwed up lately.
From: [info]blairmaru
Date: 3/1/2003 6:46:46 PM

Re:

I didn't get it. Stupid email.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/1/2003 7:18:13 PM

Stupid email. I sent it again from my AOL account. :)

[this evening] 2/23/2003 9:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |bummed out]
[Current Music |tv - tnt - seven]

We watched Fiddler on the Roof again - egad, that's a depressing movie.

I fed all the beasties, including leftover cheesesticks for the rats, and now they're crazed. It was motivated by guilt; I had to give them Ivermectin, as they seem to have gotten mites. Yuck.

I guess I'll go make a bracelet or something. Doesn't matter; in the end, my daughter will just marry the wrong guy and I'll have to leave all my stuff and some Russian farmer will get the rats. I don't even have an imaginary fiddler to keep me company...

   

Comments:
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 2/24/2003 2:02:29 PM

Heheheh, I can play the violin! *fiddles the theme from the Simpsons*
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/24/2003 6:15:04 PM

Oh cool! Want to come to the States and follow me around? =D

[ebay treasures for generation x] 2/23/2003 11:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |nostalgic and completely bummed out]
[Current Music |tv - nick-at-nite]

The Tribute to Kurt Cobain and Nirvana Live on DVD, Pearl Jam - Alive And Unplugged on DVD, and Guns 'n Roses - Welcome to the Videos on VCD. Hoo-wah.

   

[dinner] 2/24/2003 12:25:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |battle #37]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Mrs Paul's fish cakes w/ malt vinegar. Leftover mac and cheese. Reese's Cups. Regular Pepsi.

   

[today] 2/24/2003 8:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |disgusted]
[Current Music |tv - fox news channel - the o'reilly factor]

I spent the day cleaning out old e-mail. I still didn't read most of them, but I went through and marked all the rat group posts read, and moved all my rat adoption queries (all 83 of them, from as far back as August!) into their own folder. I'm trying to clean out the mailing list folder now; it was the worst with over 600 unread e-mails! There is still a lot of old stuff in there to delete.

Also, I found this group today: Messiness-and-ADD. I have only one problem with this theory...

In his excellent book, ADD Success Stories,Thom Hartman states, "People with ADD are often disorganized and cluttered and can benefit tremendously from learning organizational strategies that teach them how to impose order and systems on their schooling or work."

Except I can't read the fucking book. Otherwise, it makes a lot of sense.

   

[for future reference] 2/24/2003 9:30:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |still disgusted]
[Current Music |tv - msnbc - hardball with chris matthews]

Some books to look into...

* Adult Add: The Complete Handbook
* Women With Attention Deficit Disorder
* You Mean I'm Not Lazy, Stupid or Crazy?

   

[dinner - odds and ends] 2/25/2003 12:15:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |depressed]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Fish cakes with malt vinegar. Chicken kreplach and matzoh balls. Reese's Cups. Regular Pepsi.

   

Comments:
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 2/25/2003 12:46:56 AM

MMMMM nummyness!

Wish I'd have come to yer house for dinner! :)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/25/2003 5:22:56 PM

Well you should have! It was yummmmmy... :)

[stuff and nonsense] 2/25/2003 7:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |getting a headache]
[Current Music |dvd - wallace & gromit]

Rusty and I had a bit of a row last night. I was excited to find that a lot of my problems - no concentration, bouncing from task to task or obsession to obsession, losing or forgetting to pay bills, compulsive spending, not keeping the house neat, etcetera - might all be connected to one fixable problem. He told me that we were both screwed up and that I was never going to fix this. I thanked him for his support before saying "fuck you" but he's probably right. I've known about this for months and still haven't made an appointment to get tested, much less treated. Apparently making/keeping appointments is also common problem with ADD...

   

Comments:
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 2/25/2003 11:29:49 PM

I dated a guy with ADD for a long time a few years ago. It's a tough thing to deal with but there is medication for it, and according to him it works pretty good.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/25/2003 11:49:04 PM

That's good to know, thanks! At this point, I'm ready to try anything...

[rat news] 2/25/2003 11:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |plotting]
[Current Music |tv - the drew carey show]

I have decided almost certainly to breed Wysiwyg to Blossom or her daugher Beezus when he is mature. His health seems great so far, plus he is such a sweet squishy boy! He is mink (I think) but carries blue, so I should get a few blues in the batch (not sure what other colours), and all dumbo. And I need new blue blood... [/silly Dracula voice off]

   

[dinner - delivery from papa johns] 2/26/2003 12:25:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |tv - nick-at-nite]

Cheesesticks with cheese dip and pizza sauce. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

Comments:
From: [info]jupiterjuniper
Date: 2/26/2003 2:56:50 PM

mmmmmm.
cheeese sticks.

yum.
i've just concluded my week-o-gluttony. but cheese sticks always beckon me back ;)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/26/2003 2:59:58 PM

Cheesesticks are very difficult to resist. You KNOW you want them. ;)
From: [info]jupiterjuniper
Date: 2/27/2003 10:32:27 AM

Re:

oh I KNOW i want them :)
but i like to think i'm a healthy eater ;) so it contradicts. ha!
From: [info]jupiterjuniper
Date: 2/27/2003 10:32:50 AM

Re:

i would take cheese over chocolate. cheese IS MY chocolate.

yum.

[more] 2/26/2003 1:00:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - nick-at-nite]

From add.org:

In other ways it's like being super-charged all the time. You get one idea and you have to act on it, and then, what do you know, but you've got another idea before you've finished up with the first one, and so you go for that one, but of course a third idea intercepts the second, and you just have to follow that one, and pretty soon people are calling you disorganized and impulsive and all sorts of impolite words that miss the point completely. Because you're trying really hard. It's just that you have all these invisible vectors pulling you this way and that which makes it really hard to stay on task.

That's it, exactly.

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 2/26/2003 9:34:00 AM

the description of it given on the web site really helps a person without ADD understand what it's like to have this disorder.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/26/2003 11:14:16 AM

Yeah. I know that's it's the best description of ME that I've seen so far... :\

[hypersensitivity] 2/26/2003 11:15:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |facsinated]
[Current Music |tv - pbs - teletubbies]

I find it fascinating how many things can be connected to this. For example, I have these weird little quirks like, I cannot wear a bra. I can't stand clothing tags, or tight clothes, or clothes that "touch" me. I won't use metal utensils because I can't stand the noise. I freak out in stores and crowded places. I don't like to be in a car without the windows cracked, and I can't stand having the shower curtain pulled shut. I can't stand noise, or heat, or bright light. And I always thought it was just me being being weird, ya know? But then I read this: ADD & Hypersensitivity - wow. I'm not just a freak... I'm a freak with a REASON!!!

   

Comments:
From: [info]the_never
Date: 2/26/2003 1:26:41 PM

I have a lot of the same problems. I always assumed it was just my social anxiety. But I have the same problem about clothing, crowds and bright light. I also can't stand noises like washing machines or vaccum cleaners.



From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/26/2003 1:56:22 PM

OMG, I *hate* vacuum cleaner noise, to the point that I have to make Rusty do it and I actually go outside during it. Washing machines don't bug me nearly as much, but I do find constant noises like washing machines, HEPA filters, and aquariums filters, annoying. It's the higher pitched noise like vacuums that really set me off, though.

[terramax] 2/26/2003 5:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |easily amused]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - while you were out]

Oooh, look! I have my very own Rogue Nation! :)

   

[the more things change...] 2/26/2003 7:30:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |getting a headache]
[Current Music |tv - fox news channel - babbling bush]

I was just rifling though my journal, and found my very first entry. Far out.

   

[mardi gras camels] 2/26/2003 9:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |must have]
[Current Music |tv - the west wing]

   

Comments:
From: [info]wampithesilver
Date: 2/26/2003 10:39:16 PM

yAy! for mardi gras stuff!!!

[d'herbe-aux-chats] 2/26/2003 11:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |tv - nbc news]

I got the kitties all stoned. Hopefully they'll chill out for the night...

   

[dinner - green giant] 2/26/2003 11:50:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - drew carey rerun]

Pasta alfredo with broccoli. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[on a snowy day in the neighbourhood...] 2/27/2003 8:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |dont tell mom, the babysitter is dead]
[Current Music |dvd - mary shelley's frankenstein]

Mister Rogers died. I never cared for his show, but he seemed like a really nice guy. And then, it turns out that Mister Hooper is also dead. Nobody ever tells me anything.

   

[argh] 2/27/2003 8:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |i have a brain cramp]
[Current Music |dvd - mary shelley's frankenstein]

Someone please look at this: http://www.swbm.fsnet.co.uk/argh.htm - and tell me how it works? I've figured out that everytime you do it, the symbol for each number changes, and I assume that that's the key to it, but I can't figure out how. Argh!

   

Comments:
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 2/27/2003 9:00:58 PM

It's math. The equation they have you do always results in a multiple of nine, and the multiples of nine are all the same symbol. Mixing the symbols around each round makes it harder to spot.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 2/27/2003 9:08:33 PM

BLESS YOU woman! *kisses you right on the lips*

(I thought I was gonna be up all freakin night) :)
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 2/27/2003 10:20:34 PM

:::sigh of relief::: That's was kind of creepy for a moment...
From: [info]alison_says
Date: 2/28/2003 10:33:03 PM

Thank you for posting why! I got fixated on that about 2 weeks ago and almost paid for the solution!

[dinner - delivery from anthonys] 2/27/2003 11:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - drew carey rerun]

Cheese sub w/ tomato and mustard. Cheesesticks. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[it could be worse] 2/28/2003 11:15:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |tv - pbs - teletubbies]

Which happy bunny are you?
cute but psycho
You are the cute but psycho happy bunny.
You are adorable, but a little out there.
   

[links - for my own reference] 2/28/2003 12:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |tv - nickelodeon]

I found Alicia's page (again) about the care and breeding of Hairless Rats.

   

[also] 2/28/2003 12:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |tv - nickelodeon]

Rattopia Rattery has a website now.

   

[politically incorrect] 2/28/2003 8:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |tv - fox news channel - the o'reilly factor]


   

[beaded bracelet with swarovski crystals] 2/28/2003 11:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |oooh shiney]
[Current Music |tv - seinfeld]

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 3/1/2003 6:49:57 AM

that is sooooo pretty! :) you do great work.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/1/2003 3:21:46 PM

Aww, thank you! :)
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 3/1/2003 10:55:18 AM

Oooo pretty!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/1/2003 3:20:19 PM

Thanks! :)

[dinner - leftovers] 3/1/2003 12:15:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - welcome back kotter]

Cheese sub w/ tomato and mustard. Matzoh balls. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[today] 3/1/2003 3:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |bored bored bored bored bored]
[Current Music |cd - the rolling stones - forty licks]

Rusty and I went to the bank; the weather was crappy last week so I didn't go Thursday or Friday. His check was pretty pathetic because of the missed snow days, so I didn't stop at Petsmart or Target, as my finances are going to be be a juggling act for the next two weeks.

We came home and found that one the cats had knocked the cricket box off of the back of the stove, so now there are who-knows-how-many live crickets loose in my kitchen. I caught a few near the box (it must have happened just before we walked in), and I'm hoping that the kittens caught (and ate) some of them too. And in case anyone wonders why I keep the crickets in the kitchen, it's because they make that horrid cricket noise when they're in the living room and it drives me insane(r). Why won't my retarded gecko just eat the friggen mealworms?

And I cleaned rat cages, which is almost as much fun as it sounds. I really don't like to do it on Saturday, but Rusty is tying up the television (to play his stupid video game) AND my computer (to play this CD), and I was bored. Perhaps when this CD is over, I shall play Truly Awful Music to encourage him to hurry up and turn regular TV back on.

   

[jewish vegetarianism] 3/1/2003 4:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |gearing up for the big diet]
[Current Music |cd - the rolling stones - forty licks]

Israel has the second-largest number of faith-based vegetarians in the world...
...this and more at jewishveg.com.

   

[meow] 3/1/2003 5:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |mp3 - joni mitchell - big yellow taxi]

My official goth name is Chaotic Kittie... that fits, eh? Get your own.

   

[sprint pcs] 3/1/2003 6:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |oogley googley]
[Current Music |tv - animal planet]

This is the coolest phone, ever.

   

[this evening] 3/1/2003 10:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

I made another beaded bracelet; a triple strand of light and dark purple seed beads.

Also, I spent some time admiring my lovely rat Wysiwyg. I MUST breed him; he's the squishiest lap rat since Mason, and he gives me sweet little whiskery kisses. There is definately a pretty blue dumbo chick in his future...

   

[dinner - delivery from anthonys] 3/2/2003 12:10:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |battle #37]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Cheese sub w/ tomato and mustard. Mozzerella sticks. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

Comments:
From: [info]kimikohime
Date: 3/2/2003 1:20:06 PM

every time I read these posts I get hungry. :)

[ewww, exercise] 3/2/2003 10:25:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |gearing up for the big diet]
[Current Music |tv - nbc - the chris matthews show]

Rusty was watching infomercials this morning and came across one for the Bodyflex system. He thinks that we should give it a try, since we don't have enough unused exercise equipment sitting around. I think this one involves breathing techniques and weight resistance via the uber-funky gym bar. Have any of you fine folks tried this or something similer?

I am also considering that Atkins Diet, if I can find the information online. I don't have much hope for that one though, as I also intend to stop eating meat. I also seem to recall that you're not supposed to drink even diet soda, which pretty much renders it un-usable for me; I can give up regular soda, much as I'll hate it, but I cannot give up diet soda too.

Also, has anyone tried the Weight Watchers online program?

   

Comments:
From: [info]angel_renewed
Date: 3/2/2003 10:33:36 AM

Atkins

Major *thumbs down* to the Atkins diet. I think if you are _morbidly_ obese, it might help. Otherwise, you *will* fall off of it (NO bread. NO pasta) before you hit your goal weight. However, all the information from the book is at www.atkinscenter.com. I've used Ediets (online system) with much success. It's more flexible and holds you accountable (weekly weigh ins).
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/2/2003 10:45:56 AM

Re: Atkins

Thanks for the input! Yeah, the Atkins thing looks like a royal pain in the ass. My sister-in-law tried it for a while, and I remember what a hassle it was when she went out to eat, dissecting sandwiches and such. She said that she lost about ten pounds right off the bat and then it slowed way down (and she fell off, like you said), so maybe the trick is to just do it for a week or two (for that initial weight loss) and then switch to a more reasonable plan?
From: [info]angel_renewed
Date: 3/2/2003 11:03:55 AM

Re: Atkins

I tried the 'do it two week thing'. I didn't have THAT kind of success, to be honest. I need to lose 10-15 pounds, so maybe that's why I only lost 3 pounds in 10 days on Atkins. I figured I can eat sensibly, exercise and lose at that pace - so why kill myself. And, yes, eating out is a nightmare unless you REALLY like steak.

Given that you're not trying to lose 100 pounds or anything, I'd just pick a reasonable plan and go with that. You'll tend to lose fast the first couple weeks anyway, and the weight you lose from Atkins WILL be put back on when you leave THAT plan. And exercise. I'm learning exercise allows me to eat more and that's a good thing. =)

Good Luck!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/2/2003 12:06:36 PM

Re: Atkins

I hate steak, lol. I want to lose about 35 pounds, most of it is leftover "baby" fat. But I look at it like this: you've seen my current diet - surely just eating reasonable foods after that will help SOME, right? I mean, if I gave up Reese's Cups and switched to diet soda, that should count for something. Thanks for the good wishes!
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 3/2/2003 11:52:25 AM

I've been doing Atkins for 3 months, and I've lost 40lbs. (Yay me.) I've also had no problem sticking to the diet. If you do the induction right, you won't have much of a problem with cravings. I still want pasta, but never enough to do anything about it. Except for a noodle or two at Chinese buffets. {g}

That said, if you don't have a lot of weight to lose, you probably won't be on Atkins long enough to stick to maintenance the rest of your life.

Oh, and diet soda isn't entirely off the menu. It's generally agreed that Atkin's rule of no caffeine really isn't neccessary. Some people have a problem with aspartame (the most common diet sweetener) but if you do, there are a few diet sodas that use the Splenda sweetener. (I think Cheer Wine and Diet Rite are on the list, but I don't drink soda.)

You can get a lot of good advice at .
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/2/2003 12:25:40 PM

Damn, you GO girl! =)

That's good to know, too, especially the caffeine/soda part - I hadn't heard anything about caffeine in general, just soda. I think I could give up pasta without problem; I'm more concerned with breads - they're what holds the cheese together, ya know! And I could give up chocolate, but I'm not so sure about the other sugars - like what I put in my coffee.

Still, 40 pounds in three months... wow. That's REALLY impressive. Are you exercising, too?
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 3/2/2003 2:53:04 PM

Re:

After the first two weeks you don't have to give up chocolate! There are a lot of low-carb chocolates in the 'health' stores. You do have to be a little careful; the sugar alcohols they use won't stop the fat burning process, but it will 'divert' it, if you eat too much.

Other than the pure habit of 'hey, shouldn't this cheese have bread around it?' I haven't missed bread much. Weird, since I was a total breadholic.

I am exercising, but not much. Pretty much a 20 minute walk per day.
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 3/2/2003 12:16:59 PM

I've been doing Weight Watchers though I'm not part of the online or f2f meetings. I got the books from someone and doing the points system has been easy for me over all. Maybe once or twice a week, I splurge, but I figure, in the long run, that just keeps me sticking to the diet better. What's good about the Weight Watcher's Diet is you can eat anything.

(I think there are points books for sale on ebay, but I don't think you get them when you do the online program).
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/2/2003 12:40:03 PM

Oh, that's good to know, thanks! I am definately into easy, and I definately want something that I can occasionally splurge - there are limits to how many nights per week I'll want to eat lettuce and tuna. :)
From: [info]jupiterjuniper
Date: 3/3/2003 10:25:02 AM

well...

firstly, my mom has been on atkins for over a year. she's lost a considerable amount of weight [from a size 16 to 6] and has also gotten off of 2 out of 3 high blood pressure medicines...

that being said, you pay your price. no, i don't think you can do it for 2 weeks then switch. like any weightloss program, MAINTENANCE is more the key. as soon as you'd have your first slice-o-bread, your body would store onto it like crazy. if you can't stick with atkins [the meat-cheese-etc thing], i wouldn't recommend it.

i on-and-off do weight watchers. my g/f is a pro: she's been doing it for 2 years [there was a 7 month lapse, but she's now back on it] and has lost 65 lbs. weigh-ins weekly. point system so you know what you NEED to eat. that being said, there is room for LOTS of treats...you just budget your points accordingly and eat what you want. you have a daily point range [mine is 18-25] and exercise/activity buys you additional points.

what happens is after a while, you opt for the 3 pt sandwich [or something healthy/filling] over the 3 pt. star crunch. but it's sooooo nice you have the option of either one ;) when the craving calls.

i can give you some low-point ideas if you start ww. they have 2 books: one with general food point values, and one called DINING OUT that gives point values for diff places. i.e. STEAK N SHAKE: 9 pts for a hamburger & fries [not bad!]. MCD: 3 point ice cream cone. etc.

lmk.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/3/2003 10:46:19 AM

Wow, 65 pounds. I think I would like to do WW without the meetings, weigh-ins, etcetera. You know, use their point system but weigh myself at home. I am going to look for the point books on ebay, but heck yeah, I'll take any tips you have!

Also, is your daily point range figured without factoring in any exercise? Because I would rather eat less and not exercise. I need to see if their website has how to come up with the daily point range, too...

Thanks for the info!
From: [info]jupiterjuniper
Date: 3/3/2003 12:00:21 PM

Re:

i'll have to see if we have an extra set o-books...i could snail mail 'em, if so. i'm not sure.

exactly--i do the ww without all of the above. i just use it as a guide [i'm prone to EXCESSIVE gluttony & overeating...so, it's good for me to know what is ENOUGH food and try to stick to it...like a formula]. i try to go out to eat once every week or so, so i don't feel restricted. i love food. even with a few splurges, i think i've lost about 10 lbs in a month+.

my points are just for lethargic, day-to-day use. 18-25 pts a day where i don't leave my house, etc. i don't really factor in activity points b/c i'm not *that* active. we recently started walking [about 20 minutes a day] and i usually just let myself slide by NOT measuring/counting, say, cool whip, or butter. i am not in it 100% dedecated-ly, just in it for self-restriction [and moral support :) ] and control.

from home i'll send you a link with wonderful out-to-eat stuff.
i could email it to you, but i don't think i have your email...

From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/3/2003 12:50:34 PM

Oh, that's great! I'm not active AT ALL right now (how many calories does typing burn, lol), but eventually I want to start walking or using the AbSlide or *something*. I am also into excessive gluttony (it's a wonder that I don't weigh well more than I do), and also I eat the worst possible foods and I eat them at the worst possible times - late at night and then promptly go to bed. I think I'll be okay with the measuring and counting (I'm pretty anal that way), though I do have a tendancy to not count stuff like coffee additives or a bite of my husband's dinner, etcetera. I'll definately need to work on that...

My email addie is stardust95 at ziggabella dot com. :)
From: [info]jupiterjuniper
Date: 3/6/2003 10:11:30 AM

Re:

you've got mail.

[grocery list] 3/2/2003 12:59:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |plotting and planning]
[Current Music |tv - fox news channel]

Here are the foods that I need to obtain:

Gorton's grilled fish fillets
Canned green beans, canned corn
Frozen broccoli

Tuna - lots and lots of tuna
Mustard - lots and lots of mustard
Lo-cal honey mustard salad dressing
Iceburg lettuce and tomatoes

Rye bread and spray butter

Diet Pepsi
Deer Park water and lime juice

It won't be long now; my guess is tomorrow...

   

[now playing on short attention span theatre] 3/2/2003 2:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |confused]
[Current Music |mp3 - hole - gold dust woman]

I am trying to learn how to play Chrono Cross with Rusty, but it seems *really* complicated. The gameplay is completely different from my regular RPGs. Even the items and magic are different. New and different things freak me out...

   

[35 phrases and poseable ears] 3/2/2003 3:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |enthralled]
[Current Music |mp3 - matchbox twenty - push]

Needless to say, I MUST have this adorably rude Stitch plushie.

   

Comments:
From: [info]angel_renewed
Date: 3/2/2003 4:10:42 PM

It was $35 at the Disney Store. People online are trying to sell it for much more, so beware ;-P
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/2/2003 4:15:19 PM

Great, thanks for the heads-up! I am definately getting one as soon as we recover from the snow crisis...

(I gotta love it when people on ebay pay WAY more than the retail value, without checking to see what the retail value IS)

[a new obsession] 3/2/2003 5:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |my stomach hurts]
[Current Music |dvd - stuart little]

   

Comments:
From: [info]the_never
Date: 3/2/2003 11:40:45 PM

My DAD used to build working wooden ships like this all the time. He built his last ship when I was like 4 or so.. he's not very creative anymore. But I remember quite well when one of the ships got broken. It was green, and he had set up a working model airplane engine in the ship as a propeller. He had no idea how to set up the radio-controls for it so he never finished it. I remember him helping my brother and I build model rockets and other ..like.. plastic models when I was a bit older. 5th grade or so at the latest. I still build models and stuff. I don't exactly get along great with my dad or anything, but those are some of my favorite memories today. I hope I can share something like that with my boys.

That ship got broken by falling off of a shelf. I may have been involved but I can't remember.

Anyhow- I especially love the tugboat on that page, "The Toad". That is a pretty little boat.

From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/3/2003 12:11:08 PM

Oh, what a cool thing to share with your kids! My dad made the model rockets too, and he had the coolest miniatue train set with the tracks (and trees and buildings and stuff) all permanently mounted on a huge piece of plywood. He never let me play with it, the bastard.

Do you know, is there a way to make a boat like this radio-controlled?

[gip] 3/2/2003 10:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |productive]
[Current Music |tv - msnbc]

I edited my user pics to reflect my new username and the interests du jour.

   

[dinner - leftovers] 3/3/2003 12:15:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - nick-at-nite]

Cheese sub w/ tomato and mustard. Fish cakes. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[almost like a grownup] 3/3/2003 1:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |pathetic]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

I'm sitting here being all proud of myself because I managed to write checks and pay the electric and gas bills, and even call Allegheny Power and tell them that the checks were on the way. Of course, the reason that I had to take care of it today was because they were both scheduled for termination, but still. I took care of it. Yay me.

   

[dvds on the way] 3/3/2003 3:30:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |giddy]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

Paid via Paypal today:

* Nirvana Live (United States)

* The Tribute to Kurt Cobain (Brazil)

* Guns n Roses - Welcome to the Videos (Asia)

* Pearl Jam - Alive and Unplugged (United States)

   

[dinner - delivery from anthonys] 3/3/2003 11:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |the last hurrah]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - the drew carey show]

Cheese sub w/ tomato and mustard. Mozzerella sticks. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[ugh] 3/4/2003 12:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |i have a headache]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]

I woke up early and then went back to sleep after Rusty left and slept way too long, and now I have a headache. Worse than that, I really HAVE to go to the supermarket this evening and I am dreading that. I hate going anyway, and now I need to find healthy lo-cal foods, plus now I need to be careful about how much money I spend. Ugh.

   

[quest for the holy grail] 3/4/2003 12:00:00 PM

purple_stardust




I am the killer rabbit of Caerbannog!
I am a foul, cruel, and bad-tempered rodent who attacks all who approach
with intent to kill and who strikes fear into the hearts of men!

Mwahahahaha.
   

[ugh continued] 3/4/2003 5:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sick]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]

The headache rages on; I think it wants to turn into a migraine, as I am nauseated too, and light is more annoying than usual. I took some aspirin in the hopes of warding off the inevitable, but so far it's still here. At least it isn't a full-blown migraine yet.

I wish that Rusty would hurry up and come home with the car so that I can go and get this grocery shopping travesty over with. Better yet, I wish I was rich - this is definately one of those things that I would pay someone else to do.

   

[ugh part three] 3/4/2003 8:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |it's a migraine alright]
[Current Music |tv - fox news channel]

I went to the store, it was awful. I bought tuna and salad stuff. It's really hard to find kosher salad dressing. And I stopped at Sheetz and bought cigarettes. A guy cut in front of me in line and I had to inform him that he was a jackass. The cashier carded me, which I found somewhat amusing but mostly annoying since I had to stand there in the brightly-lit store and dig for my stupid drivers license which is always lost in my purse. When I got out to my car, some little twerp was parked next to me and playing Eminem way too loudly. I drowned him out with AC/DC, which was bloody hell on the headache, but personally satisfying.

   

Comments:
From: [info]blairmaru
Date: 3/5/2003 7:35:45 AM

Stupid gelatine. Check a health food store, most vegetarians won't eat gelatine, so the dressing's more likely to be Kosher.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/5/2003 10:04:44 AM

Ooh, I bet you're right... that's a great idea, thanks! :)

[note to self] 3/4/2003 9:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |keep on playing those mind games]
[Current Music |tv - msnbc]

You are fat, and you are stupid. Now, since you'll ever do anything about the stupidity, because you are so lazy, the least you could do is stop being so fat. Yes, fat. Not chunky or chubby or zaftig, but full-blown disgusting fat. You are probably the fattest person in the entire fucking world, and if you think people are staring at your fat disgusting self, it's because they ARE. If you don't want people looking at you, then lose the poundage, you bloated piece of shit.

I should be a motivational speaker when I grow up.

   

Comments:
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 3/4/2003 10:27:47 PM

You are not stupid or fat, but you ARE crazy! *hits you with a cube of tofu*
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/5/2003 11:40:31 AM

Ewww, tofu. Now *that* is an effective diet aid!
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 3/4/2003 10:48:06 PM

wow, take that little voice in yer head and glue it's mouth together. It is only there to torment you, it is full of shit. If you don't you'll...END UP LIVING IN A VAN DOWN BY THE RIVER!! hehe


I've seen pics of you...YOU ARE NOT FAT!

*hugs*
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/5/2003 11:39:25 AM

{LIVING IN A VAN DOWN BY THE RIVER}

*chokes*

=D
From: [info]wampithesilver
Date: 3/4/2003 10:55:10 PM

U are not fat! be nice to yourself! you are the only you you'll ever have (in atleast this lifetime)
*huggles*
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/5/2003 11:41:06 AM

Thanks. :)
From: [info]cellio
Date: 3/4/2003 11:50:19 PM

That's not how motivational speaking is supposed to work.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/5/2003 11:41:55 AM

I never said that I would be a *good* motivational speaker.
From: [info]thanny
Date: 3/4/2003 11:53:51 PM

OH MY GOD I WAS SCREAMING THE SAME DAMN THING TO MYSELF TODAY!!!

...creepy. and sad.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/5/2003 11:34:23 AM

Holy crap, that's one seriously creepy icon! What the hell IS that?
From: [info]thanny
Date: 3/5/2003 12:18:16 PM

Re:

haha it is, isn't it?? i typed 'scream' into altavista's image search engine a few years ago, and this picture popped up. it's a screaming statue, but i'm unsure of it's origin. i blurred it a little, and threw it up on the splash page of my website.

http://www.8ung.at/restless

one of a kind, most definitely!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/5/2003 12:33:53 PM

It IS! Nasty. Neat website though; I like the navigational style, and the B&W photography.
From: [info]thanny
Date: 3/5/2003 10:36:32 PM

Re:

thanks...;0)
From: [info]muridae
Date: 3/5/2003 8:30:48 AM

Oh please. I'm fatter than you, goddammit. =P

Also, you're one of the smartest, sharpest people I know, goddammit.

love, laurie
From: [info]muridae
Date: 3/5/2003 8:31:06 AM

(goddammit)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/5/2003 11:33:36 AM

*sniff*

Stop it before you make me cry, G-ddammit.

:)

[daily calorie intake] 3/4/2003 9:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |fat on fat tuesday]
[Current Music |tv - msnbc]

Several glasses of leftover Regular Coke.
Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Dinner - 1/2 can of tuna w/ mustard. Lettuce, tomato, cucumber w/ lo-cal dressing.

   

Comments:
From: [info]cellio
Date: 3/4/2003 11:49:02 PM

I've found http://www.fitday.com to be helpful in tracking this stuff.

[i am twisted] 3/4/2003 10:35:00 PM

purple_stardust



   

[wow] 3/5/2003 11:15:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amazed]
[Current Music |tv - pbs - teletubbies]

It never ceases to amaze me when I pray for something, and it works. For instance, we're short on cash this pay period because of the missed snow days, and I prayed for help, and this morning, my grandma sent me $50 in the mail. Tres cool. Of course, G-d (and my grandma) may just feel sorry for me. But still, wow. This prayer thing is cool.

Of course, I sometimes wonder that G-d might have a really twisted sense of humour, and so I'm always very careful about what I pray for, because it always lurks in the back of my head that if I pray to G-d to make me thin, I will get stomach cancer.

Yes, this is how my brain works. But just because you're paranoid...

   

[da rules] 3/5/2003 11:55:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |serious]
[Current Music |tv - nickelodeon]

Rule #1 - No eating after 10pm. You don't eat by 10pm, you don't eat. Period.

Rule #2 - No eating alone. You may only eat in the presence of others, so you won't be tempted to stuff your face like the gluttonous slob that you are. No exceptions.

Rule #3 - You must use the AbSlide. Every day. Even if you have cramps. No AbSlide = no food.

The rules of water and diet aids will be addressed later, when I have more disposable income.

   

Comments:
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 3/5/2003 7:41:38 PM

"No AbSlide = no food" probably a bad idea. When you don't eat your metabolism slows way down and burns as little fat as possible.

[daily calorie intake] 3/5/2003 9:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |tv - msnbc]

Two glasses of leftover Regular Coke.
Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Dinner - 1/2 can of tuna w/ mustard. Lettuce, tomato, cucumber w/ lo-cal dressing.

AbSlide - 50 reps.

   

[downunders, mate!] 3/5/2003 11:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |in love with spotty tummies]
[Current Music |tv - drew carey rerun]

Eeek! Downunders in the US! Tara, I am *thisclose* to moving to Washington/Oregon. ;)

   

Comments:
From: [info]arkady
Date: 3/6/2003 12:40:11 AM

My Amice is a silver fawn downunder; she was one of the first in this country. She descends from the Carawatha lines; however the reason I have Amice is because her previous owner retired her from breeding after she had a kitten born with no eyes. The Downunder line has since been stopped in the UK, as the Downunder gene seems to bring with it a whole host of previous unsuspected problems.
From: [info]s8venus
Date: 3/6/2003 1:42:41 AM

no eyes?

ahhh poor baby!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/6/2003 9:13:55 AM

Oh, the poor baby! I didn't realise that they'd already been in the UK. I wonder how the DU gene will do when combined with our lines... they landed on the west coast, so who knows when we'll get them here in the east. They're awfully cute though... I'm a sucker for tummy spots. :)

[daily calorie intake] 3/6/2003 8:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sick]
[Current Music |tv - the president - yadda yadda yadda]

Diet Pepsi.
Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Dinner - Lemon pepper fish (200 calories). Green beans. Corn.

AbSlide - 50 reps.

   

[random notes] 3/7/2003 9:35:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |bouncy]
[Current Music |tv - abc stuff]

* I read Choosing a Jewish Life again. I am starting to wonder if Anita Diamant has ADD, because for some reason, I have no problem reading her books. I still get distracted by the TV, and occasionally I wander off, but for the most part, I find her format fairly easy to read.

* So I'm all riled up again. I need to call Rabbi Garfunkel and set up another appointment. I also need to remember to write questions down as they occur. I thought of a ton of questions while I was reading, but of course I won't remember them when I'm actually with the rabbi.

* One thing that I know I want to ask her is, exactly what am I supposed to be learning: history, specific prayers, Hebrew (egad), holidays and life cycles, or all of the above. I really wish someone offered formal conversion classes around here. I need the structure, dammit!

* On 03-03-03, I swiped a piece of pepperoni from Rusty's pizza, but since then, I have kept shomer kosher, except for my plates. When I have money, I want to buy single plates in two colours/patterns; one set for me and one for Rusty. As long as he keeps his food off of my plates, keeping kosher should be pretty easy now, since I'm only eating fish and veggies.

* Except, I'd like to still be able to order out occasionally. Of course I wouldn't order a pizza with bacon or something, but even a cheese sub or mozzerella sticks wouldn't be considered kosher, since I'm sure that Anthony's doesn't use kosher cheese, and it probably comes in contact with meat at some point. No way to get around that one, I guess.

   

Comments:
From: [info]goljerp
Date: 3/10/2003 9:59:04 AM

I also need to remember to write questions down as they occur.

This is a very good idea.

As far as learning goes, that's a good question. Of course, one aspect of Judiasm is that there's always more out there to be learned. I was going to speculate about which of the categories you mentioned was "highest priority", but then realized that I could make a case for all of them. And you left out some areas - like sociology, Jewish observances, philosophy, physics... (OK, maybe I was joking about physics...)

When I have money, I want to buy single plates in two colours/patterns; one set for me and one for Rusty

Don't forget the silverware... and pots... and then, the most fun part: the stove. Actually it's not so bad kashering a stove/oven. For the burners, just clean them thoroughly and then turn 'em on high for... um... I forget how long. At least 15 minutes, not more than an hour... but I forget what the exact time is supposed to be. If you've got a self-cleaning oven, then you just need to put that through one cycle; otherwise same thing. I'd probably leave it on for an hour to be safe. Luckilly, Microwaves are really easy to kasher: clean the inside and then heat a cup of water to boiling inside it. Oh, and counter tops. For that, boiling water is your friend. (I'm thinking about this right now because I'm starting to think about kashering my kitchen for passover... I won't start for a while yet, but it's weighing on my mind...) Also, I should mention the fact that I'm writing off the top of my head and don't have my reference books open in front of me.

Except, I'd like to still be able to order out occasionally.
This is a problem. I'd suggest discussing this with a Rabbi who you feel comfortable with. (Because, of course, there are different opinions about what is and isn't acceptable...)

[for my big pumpkin-headed cat] 3/7/2003 11:35:00 AM

purple_stardust



Happy 8th Birthday, Maxie!!!
   

Comments:
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 3/7/2003 4:18:39 PM

Happy Birthday Maxie! You can tell from his photo that he has an interesting personality...
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/7/2003 4:53:11 PM

That's ONE way of putting it, lol! I'm not so polite, and usually call him a cantankerous old fart.
Thanks for the birthday wishes; I will pass them along with some catnip! :)

[daily calorie intake] 3/7/2003 9:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |i honestly have no idea]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - while you were out]

Water w/ lime juice and ice.
Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Dinner - 1/2 can of tuna w/ mustard. Lettuce, tomato, cucumber w/ lo-cal dressing.

AbSlide - 50 reps.

   

[nowhere else to go] 3/8/2003 1:35:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |it's all laurie's fault]
[Current Music |tv - nick-at-nite]

My ex-husband brought money earlier, and I wanted cacti and needed groceries, so I made a late-night trip to Walmart. I bought a 2-foot wide utility shelf and grow light for the cacti and succulents, as well as two new cacti: "Mexican Pincushion" and "Pincushion Mammillaria" and also a tiny succulent that wasn't labeled. I also bought new clay pots for them, as they were already root-bound. I'll re-pot them tomorrow, I guess.

I also bought a new phone - I smashed the old one a few months ago and it's been held together with duct tape since - I never think to replace it because I am so adverse to using the damned thing, but I finally remembered to do it. It's cordless too, so if I ever did want to talk on the phone, I could go to the bathroom at the same time. Yup, we're hi-tech, here.

And I bought other not-so-fun stuff: a purple night light with cut-out moons and stars, clean socks for Rusty, ping pong balls for the rats, and groceries, of course.

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 3/8/2003 10:29:52 AM

I'll get an id on that succulent for you later on, if you want it. I think it's definitely some sort of crassula, but there are like 600 of them, so... it might take a few minutes.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/8/2003 10:37:53 AM

That would be great, thanks! Is that a good enough picture?

I really like that "Mexican Pincushion", and Rusty wants to get a snowboll cactus. Other than that, I still want an aloe and that cactus from Irsael, and lots o' lithops, and that should make a fine cactus garden for my little shelf. Coolness!

Now, finding someplace to mount the shelf... I hate this apartment. Hey! Since I have the grow light, do they still need to be near a window, or will the artificial light be sufficient?
From: [info]muridae
Date: 3/8/2003 10:50:15 AM

I think that the artificial light should suffice, but I'm not really sure about that. I've got some plants that get very indirect sunlight but they're doing great underneath the lights. I think that grow lights need to be replaced every so often, though. Not really sure.

I think that picture will be fine. I know I've seen that plant before, so it shouldn't be too hard to pick up a book and ID it.

Isn't having a little indoor cactus garden great?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/8/2003 10:58:40 AM

It IS! You know how the wire shelves have holes in them where the wires aren't? Well, I want to go to Lowe's and buy two squares of linoleum tile in sand colour and put them on the "floor" of the shelf... that way, tiny pots won't fall through the cracks AND I thought it would be cool to put some rocks amongst the cacti, like a little desert. Tres cool, no?

Our biggest problem right now is WHERE to mount it. We have two kinds of walls here - flimsey panelling and solid concrete. I may have to move those betta fishes and set it up on the kitchen counter for the time being...

[i suck] 3/8/2003 12:10:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |fat and disgusting]
[Current Music |tv - tnt - some movie]

So, I screwed up. I was up late last night and got the urge to munch, and ate almost a whole bag of microwave popcorn. Dammit. I must be punished for this...

   

Comments:
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 3/8/2003 1:07:23 PM

Bad Rene! No cookie! Really. No more cookies. Although, popcorn isn't so bad in the grand scheme of things.
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 3/8/2003 1:13:06 PM

they say it's good to go off diets now and then and satisfy munchie attacks. In the long run, it helps a person stick to the diet better. So I think it was good you took a break. I take a break from the weight watchers diet once or twice a week. It just seems more realistic that way. I still lost 15 lbs.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/8/2003 5:50:51 PM

Really? Wow. Not to be completely nosey (but I am), but how long did it take to lose 15 pounds with WW?
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 3/9/2003 9:13:28 AM

It was the very beginning of February I started it and, as of last Wednesday, I have lost 15 lbs..
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/9/2003 11:10:23 AM

Wow, that's great! Congratulations!!!
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 3/8/2003 3:45:38 PM

Popcorn can't be that bad, can it? Of course, I had a bag yesterday, and I poured like a cup of sugar all over it.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/8/2003 5:44:09 PM

You put sugar on popcorn, really? I've never known anyone to do that!
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 3/8/2003 9:49:18 PM

Yes, and made sure I was alone so I wouldn't get scolded. (Not that I have, but I wasn't taking any chances.)

[more plants] 3/8/2003 3:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |productive]
[Current Music |tv - tnt - girl interrupted]

I went out to Lowe's to look for more plants. They had no cacti or even aloe, just one small jade plant like the one that I already have. I did buy three new foliage plants: a purple passion plant, a varigated philodendron, and a lovely little varigated ivy plant.

And I got the cactus soil, as well as another clay pot and a bunch of drainage saucers and plant food and "cobblestone" linoleum to put on the floor of the plant shelf.

I put the betta fishes back into individual containers and moved them into the bedroom this morning, and now I need to drain the 10-gallon aquarium and move it out to the shed so that I can set up the shelf and grow light on the kitchen counter.

   

Comments:
From: [info]blairmaru
Date: 3/8/2003 4:34:43 PM

I kill plants by glancing at them. I have the brownest thumb ever.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/8/2003 5:38:31 PM

I often kill them too; of course, I have A LOT of help from these crazed felines! That's the theory behind the plant shelf - I want to get them out of the window sills so the cats (who MUST be in the window sills!) will stop knocking them down behind the radiator.

And also... I got the card; thanks so much! I do love Gorey! =-D

I would love to see the baby moors; you should take pictures of them! How big are they now?
From: [info]blairmaru
Date: 3/9/2003 9:00:13 PM

Re:

ah, the babies are huge, almost as big as their parents were when I bought them almost a year and a half ago. I think I took some decent pictures earlier, I need to charge my camera battery and I'll see how they turned out. My guppies had ANOTHER batch of babies, this one being #4. Those things are probably getting so inbred by now.. guppies have so much shorter lifespans than goldfish, the oldest ones are slowly dying off and the first round of babies are breeding. The kuhli loaches just lump together and look adorable but don't have babies. I'm getting hooked on loaches, I just got two more.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/9/2003 9:07:43 PM

OMG I didn't know they grew that fast! My mom had kulis when I was a kid; those things were so funny! I think if I ever went to a tropical tank (and with the luck I've been having with goldfish, I probably should), I would definately get a couple o' kulis. I liked guppies too; the males are so pretty and colourful!

[diet stuff] 3/8/2003 8:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sad]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

I don't know if it's the lack of food, the diet aids, or just random hormones, but I have been fluctuating between cranky and crying all day. Rusty is being less than supportive of the diet/exercise effort, and that isn't helping. I don't even feel like summarising the conversation, but it ended with me telling him that I would do this like I do everything else: by myself.

Tonight is our "splurge" night - scheduled to coincide with Trading Spaces, of course.

Whatever.

   

[daily calorie intake] 3/8/2003 9:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |disgusted]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Microwave popcorn (last night).
Two cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Water w/ lime juice and ice (lots of water today!).
A few baby dill pickles.
Dinner - Papa John's cheesesticks w/ pizza sauce (about 600 calories). Diet Pepsi.

AbSlide - 100 reps.

   

[more green] 3/9/2003 10:45:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |getting a headache]
[Current Music |tv - nbc - meet the press]

I went to Kmart this morning to buy Dexatrim, and ended up with more succulents: a nice aloe plant and some odd thing that looks like a Martian pod creature. I keep waiting for it to open its mouth and demand to be fed, but so far it's kept quiet.

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 3/9/2003 11:01:32 AM

Eeee hee heee heee heeee!

You got the plant bug too!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/9/2003 11:09:32 AM

I was thinking on the way home, I should start a separate journal just for my obsessions.
I think the new username will be all_lauries_fault.

:)
From: [info]muridae
Date: 3/9/2003 11:10:52 AM

:D

<3
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 3/9/2003 8:08:45 PM

Dexatrim? =\ Are you sure that's a good idea? I tried that in high school and it made my heart beat really weird.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/9/2003 8:25:45 PM

Ahh, good old-fashioned chemical Dexatrim. This is the "natural" version, so it doesn't do the funky side effects so much. :)

[who did i piss off?] 3/9/2003 4:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |miserable]
[Current Music |tv - amc - moonstruck]

I swear I'm cursed. As I wrote yesterday, I bought a utility shelf and a grow light, with the original intention of hanging it on the kitchen wall, and making a little cactus/succulent garden that would be out of the way of the heathen cats. Unfortunately, that wall turned out to be flimsey paneling, and not nearly strong enough to support the weight of the shelf plus multiple clay pots and dirt and pebbles. All of the other walls in my kitchen are solid concrete, naturally.

I have a counter in the kitchen with an electrical outlet, so I thought, I could just set the shelf on that counter and mount the light underneath the cabinet above it for the time being. Problem is, there was a divided 10-gallon aquarium and a 2-gallon aquarium with betta fishes already there. So I put the bettas into individual tanks and moved all of them back into the bedroom. I emptied the aquariums and carried them outside. I threw out all the old fish stuff (old pumps, pieces of airline tubing, etcetera) and scrubbed down the counter. Because the counter was a hideous yellow colour, I covered it with wood grain contact paper. We plugged in the grow light, and nothing happened. That outlet no longer works. No idea why, but it doesn't.

I ended up attaching the grow light directly to the shelf with wire, and it's now sitting on the kitchen table, where it looks fairly stupid, and I'm sure the cats will jump up there and lay in the plants and knock them off onto the floor and render the whole idea of having a nice plant shelf, pointless. Like everything else, this was all just pointless.

   

Comments:
From: [info]blairmaru
Date: 3/9/2003 9:02:29 PM

How about turning the 10 gallon into a terrarium? I've got an old leaky 10 gallon I'm considering trying that with. Either that or I might just have to buy the black bear hamster that's been taunting me at the pet store lately.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/9/2003 9:13:14 PM

Oooh, it *would* make an awesome terrarium... or a nice warm place to start seedlings! Come to think of it, that little 2-gallon tank would be PERFECT for my lithops seedlings! =)

I think you should get the black bear hamster. They are the cutest things EVER, and since I already have maximum capacity of rodents, YOU should get one. And take cute pictures of it for me. ;)
From: [info]blairmaru
Date: 3/9/2003 9:30:48 PM

Re:

They're supposedly the nicest hamsters, too. Actually, I really would like a rat, but seeing though guinea pigs are my only rodent experience, I think I need to work my way up. I was a great guinea pig keeper, though. Bear, my gorgeous Peruvian boy lived to be over 6!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/9/2003 9:52:12 PM

Oh, if you kept guinea pigs, there's no reason that you couldn't keep rats! They're really pretty simple; I've had hamsters, mice, guinea pigs, and gerbils over the years, and rats are no more trouble than any of them. Also, rats have a lot more personality than other rodents. Of course, I may be a bit biased. ;)

[furthermore] 3/9/2003 5:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |still miserable]
[Current Music |tv - amc - moonstruck]

I guess to make me feel better, Rusty fixed me a grilled cheese sandwich. He cut it into four triangles the way I like, and served it with pickles. I didn't want to eat the fatty calorie sandwich, but it was a sweet gesture, and he was watching me, and so I took a few bites. Fortunately, Sarah is up and about, and so I fed the bulk of it to her.

   

Comments:
From: [info]blairmaru
Date: 3/9/2003 8:56:16 PM

yeah, but pickles have 0 calories. Pickles are the perfect food, I swear. Especially Claussen Kosher dills.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/9/2003 9:15:17 PM

They ARE!!! They're definately the perfect diet food - you can eat a whole jar of them for like, 50 calories! I like 'em too because they have some taste to them...
From: [info]blairmaru
Date: 3/9/2003 9:31:29 PM

Re:

Man.. I'm out of pickles. damnit.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/9/2003 9:39:44 PM

LOL! =D

[daily calorie intake] 3/9/2003 8:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |stuffed up and sick]
[Current Music |tv - tnt - screen actors guild awards]

Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Water w/ lime juice and ice (lots of water!).
A few baby dill pickles.
Three bites of a grilled cheese sandwich.
Dinner - Garlic butter fish (200 calories). Green beans. Diet Pepsi.

AbSlide - 100 reps.

   

[whine] 3/10/2003 11:45:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sick, dammit]
[Current Music |tv - nickelodeon]

Rusty dragged wretched cold germs home from work, and now I'm sick. I usually don't complain when I have a simple cold, but this bug is nasty. I went through about half a box of Kleenex last night alone, and worse than that, I feel like shit. I'm coughing like I've got TB and that's getting on my nerves too. I swear I hate to complain about a damn cold, but I almost never get sick, so when I do, it probably seems more awful than it would if I were used to such things.

To make matters worse, I also have a headache and I'm freezing cold, so all I really want to do is curl up on the sofa with a warm blanket and sleep, but I have things that I need to do today. I need to exercise, and repot cacti, and clean house. Ugh.

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 3/10/2003 12:26:32 PM

sounds like you need to put off the to-do list and get some rest.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/10/2003 12:57:02 PM

You may be onto something there. I really wanted to exercise *every* day, but considering that I can't change the baby's diaper without stopping to blow my nose, it might be too much trouble.

I can see it now... slide, slide, HONK! slide, slide, HONK! :)

[smells like norm] 3/10/2003 5:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |snuffley]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - while you were out]

Someone in the community said that you could "age" clay pots by painting them with beer and setting them outside. So I dragged the beer out of the shed (yes, we keep our beer in the shed - that's because the stuff is only fit to kill bugs, as far as I'm concerned) and have spent the afternoon soaking clay pots in a bowl of beer and then microwaving them. I don't know if it's accomplishing anything other than making my home reek like a brewery, but that's what I've been doing, anyway. Yeah, I really need to get a life.

   

Comments:
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 3/10/2003 7:14:19 PM

You can also use a mixture of yoghurt and water, and paint that on the pots. Bah, I'm almost ashamed that I know that!

[daily calorie intake] 3/10/2003 8:57:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |stuffy and spacey]
[Current Music |tv - fox news channel - the o'reilley factor]

Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Water w/ lime juice and ice.
A few baby dill pickles.
Dinner - Matzoh ball soup (330 calories). One challah roll. Diet Pepsi.

AbSlide - 50 reps.

   

[Retarded Rat Request of the Day] 3/11/2003 11:05:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |pissy]
[Current Music |tv - pbs - teletubbies]

I got this email this morning...

I am searching for a science project for my 4th grade daughter. She would like to do something with her rat. Her rat is kind of jumpy, so we might consider buying one that has been handled more... I tried to go to your pricing page, it says this page will be here soon... can you send me a price list and any science project ideas?

So since they haven't handled their current pet rat enough, they want to buy one of my sweet handled-from-birth babies so that they can use it for a science fair project and then probably never handle it either?!? And on top of that, *I* am supposed to come up with the idea for the science project? Here's a project for you, lady: try socializing the rat you already have!

Grrr.

   

[daily calorie intake] 3/11/2003 9:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |annoyed with my orcas]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - msnbc - hardball with chris matthews]

Water w/ lime juice and ice.
Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Dinner - 1 can of tuna w/ mustard. Lettuce and tomato w/ lo-cal dressing. 12 croutons.
Diet Pepsi.

AbSlide - 50 reps.

   

[diet progress] 3/12/2003 10:35:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |disgusted]
[Current Music |tv - pbs - seseme street]

It's been a week. I've lost about three pounds.
This isn't happening fast enough for me.
I wish I could afford surgery.

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 3/12/2003 10:44:25 AM

That's GREAT! That's a healthy rate of weight loss. If you keep it up at this rate, you'll be your ideal weight in a month or two.

Seriously, that's a really good rate of loss.

And okay, when it starts to seem like it isn't happening fast enough, think about three pounds of butter. That's what you've lost already. Whoaaaaa... three pounds of butter!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/12/2003 10:53:41 AM

I know you're right, and I know it's healthy... I just wanted it to be faster. I have 30 pounds to lose, it will take forever at this rate. And I'm eating vegetables, for crissake. Shouldn't I be entitled to more weight loss, for enduring the vegetables? :{
From: [info]muridae
Date: 3/12/2003 10:57:14 AM

No it won't! At this rate it'll take ten weeks, which is NOT forever. It's 2.5 months. The time for one rat litter to be conceived, born, and raised up to adopting age, more or less. Not that long at all.

=)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/12/2003 11:04:17 AM

Are you sure? I mean, I guess I'll trust you because I don't want to do the math myself, but it SEEMS like an impossibly slow rate. That's what, late May? Not SO bad, I guess. Still, the surgery would be quicker. :-P
From: [info]muridae
Date: 3/12/2003 11:06:11 AM

And then you'd spend ten weeks recovering from surgery!

30 lbs / 3 lbs a week = 10 weeks

It only seems slow because you probably can't see the loss yet. Next week or the week after I bet you'll start to be able to see the results.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/12/2003 11:17:29 AM

That's true, I suppose. I found a pair of jeans from The Gap that were snug right before I started this; I thought I would try them on occasionally to see if there was any progress. Of course, I won't be TRULY happy until I can wear my favourite jeans (http://www.madnessie.ziggabella.com/mypants.jpg). I loved those pants. *sigh*

One rat litter, huh? /eyeballs Wysiwyg...
From: [info]jupiterjuniper
Date: 3/12/2003 11:11:36 AM

ditto that: 3 is fabulous.

did you ever get that email i sent with the point values?

From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/12/2003 11:19:40 AM

Yeah, I did, thanks. I take it you didn't get my reply? My SMTP server has issues sometimes... lemme find it and resend it from another addie. Grrr...
From: [info]jupiterjuniper
Date: 3/14/2003 10:01:00 AM

Re:

no, i never got it...
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 3/12/2003 12:29:43 PM

3 lbs.! That's great! You don't want to lose it too fast. They say that people who lose more than a couple pounds a week have more trouble keeping it off after.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/12/2003 3:35:22 PM

Really? Well, that's good to know then. Thanks! :)
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 3/12/2003 3:36:12 PM

3 pounds in a week is GREAT!!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/12/2003 3:39:42 PM

Thanks. I guess I'm just impatient. :)
From: [info]gypsydance
Date: 3/12/2003 4:15:49 PM

Don't gauge your progress by poundage, m'dear. You're excersizing, which means you're building muscle. Muscle is MUCH denser than fat, and, as such, weighs more. Which means that you may well be losing inches, but the scale won't reflect this.

Instead, mark progress by how you feel, and how much less tired you are. (And how great those jeans from the Gap look on you now, as opposed to before.)

Trust me on this one. (Says the girl who shocks people when she tells them she weighs 165, since she looks more like she weighs 135.)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/12/2003 5:03:16 PM

That's a good point, thanks. I guess my biggest [mental] problem is now, I'm *only* doing the AbSlide, and I'm not sure I'm doing it right. I have this overwhelming fear that a few months will pass and I will realise that it was all for nothing. I guess I need to find something else to do, as a backup plan...

[questions] 3/12/2003 6:50:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |panicking]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]

We're out of food, and I need to order dinner. So the question is, which is worse, a cheese sub and mozzerella sticks from Anthony's, or thin crust cheese pizza from Domino's?

Also, Laurie, what was that website again? Gardenweb.com?

   

Comments:
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 3/12/2003 8:44:22 PM

Get some sort of grilled chicken and throw away the bun/roll.
From: [info]thanny
Date: 3/12/2003 8:53:00 PM

the cheese sub and mozzerella sticks sound worse :0|

DAMMIT EVERY TIME I READ YOUR JOURNAL I CRAVE BREADSTICKS!!! oh hot steaming breadsticks from pizza hut... my new achilles heel.
From: [info]muridae
Date: 3/16/2003 9:19:43 AM

It is http://www.gardenweb.com and it's great!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/16/2003 3:04:25 PM

Yay, thank you! I won the Israel cacti auctions, btw...

[daily calorie intake] 3/12/2003 9:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |eh, it's a mood alright]
[Current Music |tv - fox news channel - hannity & colmes]

Five cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Water w/ lime juice and ice.
Dinner - about 1/3 cheese sub w/mustard and tomato. 3 mozzerella sticks.

AbSlide - 50 reps.

   

[like a rat in a cage] 3/12/2003 9:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sick]
[Current Music |tv - msnbc - hardball with chris matthews]

My landlord stopped by; they're doing code inspections for all the rental housing in this town. Ours is next week, so I need to get the apartment cleaned up this weekend. Fucking peachy. I should be on exhibit more often; I've certainly lost my appetite. I want to move, I really do. I want to pack up my stuff, or even just leave it, and run away.

In other diet news, I see that I'm starting my period, so maybe I would have lost more than just three pounds, if not for PMS...

   

[this morning] 3/13/2003 11:15:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - nickelodeon]

I went to the bank and the post office, picked up some books that I'd ordered:

101 Crafts Under $10, and
Simply Handmade Gifts to Make, and
Mary Engelbreit's Crafts to Decorate Your Home, and
The Can Opener Gourmet and Slow Cooker Recipes, and a few others.

And then I stopped at CVS, where I bought another bottle of blonde hair colour and various chemical diet aids, including a bottle of Metabolite (the old kind with ephedra, hooray), which was really freaking expensive, so I really hope it helps.

   

Comments:
From: [info]wampithesilver
Date: 3/13/2003 12:12:36 PM

i have the 1st three... never used 'em... :/
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 3/13/2003 12:48:57 PM

Erm.. isn't ephedra/ma-huang that really freaky stuff that can kill you?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/13/2003 5:40:24 PM

That's the one! But - I have a freakishly high drug tolerance. Seriously, I would be embarrassed to admit how much of this stuff I've ingested, and without any adverse effects. :\
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 3/13/2003 6:19:45 PM

I'm a total hypocrite because I'm like that with paracetamol (tylenol?) and ibuprofen, "6 a day? Pah! I'll see your six and raise it!". It's why I don't do recreational drugs, they just don't work, I'd rather spend my money on Lipton Ice Tea instead!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/13/2003 6:28:56 PM

Yah, same here. I'll take three aspirin at a time, and then an hour later I'll take three more. It seems to only work on pill-type drugs, though I used to be able to drink any full-grown man under the table... =D

[daily calorie intake] 3/13/2003 9:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |itchy]
[Current Music |tv - will & grace]

Five cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Water w/ lime juice and ice.
Dinner - Papa John's cheesesticks w/ pizza sauce (about 600 calories). Diet Pepsi.

AbSlide - 50 reps.

   

[friday five - the phone] 3/14/2003 1:35:00 PM

purple_stardust

1. Do you like talking on the phone? Why or why not?

As a general rule, I hate it. I hate calling to make appointments, I hate calling people for information, I even hate calling for pizza. I like talking to my mother and Laurie.

2. Who is the last person you talked to on the phone?

The pizza wench, last night. Before that it was my mom, and before that, Laurie.

3. About how many telephones do you have at home?

One land phone that I never answer, and one cell phone that only five people know the number.

4. Have you encountered anyone who has really bad phone manners? What happened?

If you call me, and I don't know you, I think you have bad manners. If you are a telemarketer, I will treat you with the contempt that you deserve. And before anyone says to me "telemarketers are just doing their job!", so are hitmen - it doesn't make them deserving of my respect.

5. Would you rather pick up the phone and call someone or write them e-mail or a letter?

None of the above, for the most part, but email is the least annoying of the three.

[fridayfive.org]

   

Comments:
From: [info]gypsydance
Date: 3/14/2003 2:15:40 PM

You actually call to order pizza? I thought Papa John's had nationwide online ordering?
From: [info]the_never
Date: 3/14/2003 5:36:40 PM

Geez, I'm the same way, and they told me I had hardcore social anxiety. I just came off of paxil after about a year on

But yeah- papajohns.com has 'order pizza by website'. It rules. You just click click and click and wait 45 minutes to answer the door.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/14/2003 7:50:24 PM

Yeah, I'm sure I would get the same diagnosis - but then I would have to talk on the phone, leave the house, AND see people - eek! Kind of a viscious circle, huh? I keep thinking that I should see someone about the ADD, but people with ADD tend to be bad about making/keeping appointments...

I took Paxil in the early 90's (for depression). It made me nuts(er).

[news from the couch] 3/14/2003 8:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - the o'reilly factor]

My mom told me today that I had issues, that I still wanted to look like a 12-year-old boy. I'm pretty sure that she was kidding, but she has a point. I hate having breasts. I hate having an ass. I hate having curves. I don't want to be a woman. And before someone says it, no, I don't want to be a man, either. I don't want to be a grown-up...

   

[daily calorie intake] 3/14/2003 9:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sick and tired]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - while you were out]

Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Water w/ lime juice and ice.
Three baby dill pickles.
Dinner - chicken soup with matzoh balls and kreplach (365 calories).

AbSlide - 50 reps.

   

[today] 3/15/2003 8:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |disgusted]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - tlc - trading spaces]

We were unproductive as ever. Dammit. We REALLY need to get this place cleaned up.

In plant news, I bought some lithops on Ebay last week, to be shared with Laurie and my mom. Today, I bid on three cacti - gymnocactus knuthianus, thelocactus bicolor, and thelocactus schwarzii - from Israel, no less. Because Jewish cacti are far superior to the gentile varieties sold here in the states, ya know... they're the chosen cacti. ;)

   

[daily calorie intake] 3/15/2003 9:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Water w/ lime juice and ice.
Dinner - about 1/2 cheese sub w/mustard and tomato. 5 mozzerella sticks.

AbSlide - 50 reps.

   

[birthday wishes] 3/16/2003 8:10:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |i want to watch the talking heads]
[Current Music |tv - amc - some stupid movie]




Hope you have a great day!!! :)

   

Comments:
From: [info]wampithesilver
Date: 3/16/2003 4:55:09 PM

OH MY FUCKING G-D! YESSSS! WOOOOOOOT
does he come gift wrapped?!
*happy joy joy!*

[daily calorie intake] 3/16/2003 9:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |grrr - orca show scenario]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - tnt - stir of echoes]

Two cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Water w/ lime juice and ice.
One small dill pickle.
Dinner - chicken soup with matzoh balls and kreplach (365 calories).

AbSlide - 50 reps.

   

[random babbling] 3/17/2003 3:30:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |disjointed]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

I need to get off my ass. I need to clean the apartment. I need a fucking maid. In fact, I think I'm going to get one. As soon as I get some of my junk out of the way, I think I'm going to start hiring someone to come in occasionally and tackle the actual dirt.

My mom sent me an email to tell me that Queen Latifah was born in 1970, making her a full year younger than I am. I would have guessed that she was at least 40. I want to know what she's doing, so I can be sure not to do that. On the other hand, maybe it's that her gigantic breasts make her look more matronly, or something. We saw her at the SAG Awards, and she could hurt someone with those things. I don't want any parts of those, either.

Are we officially at war yet? We watched the summit yesterday; dear G-d, I do love Tony Blair. Can we elect HIM president? I swear, I'd be all for attacking Florida, if he said it was a good idea. I used to have political opinions. Now I just wish they'd shit or get off the pot. I know I wouldn't be so cavalier if my sons were older, or Rusty were younger, but as it is, I'm just sick of the whole concept. I'm sick of the debate and the speculation and the protests and the propaganda. And the truly sad thing is, sick of it as I am, I'll be watching Fox News all evening, waiting to see if anyone has speculated anything new.

   

Comments:
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 3/17/2003 10:44:26 PM

I like Queen Latifah's boobies.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/17/2003 10:50:49 PM

Oh, they're quite impressive, for sure! I guess I just tend to think of giant boobs as a more mature thing (probably because I don't usually have them, and I'm not mature, lol).
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 3/17/2003 11:52:13 PM

Queen Latifah rocks my socks. I've been a fan ever since she first came out on MTV in the early '90s. Of course, being the big gal that I am, I think she is gorgeous in all her non-waifyness but DAMN GINA, I'd get those babies scaled down a few sizes. I mean, what does she wear a triple F?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/18/2003 1:08:32 AM

I KNOW!!! I have only had truly big boobs once (when I was attempting to breastfeed my daughter), and those suckers were a PAIN! I don't know how she stands it; aren't they uncomfortable? Where does she put them when she sleeps? Eesh.
From: [info]gypsydance
Date: 3/18/2003 1:55:25 AM

Yes, they're uncomfortable, and one tends to sleep on one's side a lot.
From: [info]gypsydance
Date: 3/18/2003 1:59:26 AM

Worth noting: Tony Blair ran on a liberal platform in order to get elected, then completely changed to a more conservative viewpoint. The majority of his citizens see him as more of a follower than a leader, and many refer to him as "President Bush's poodle".

[daily calorie intake] 3/17/2003 10:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - fnc - hannity & colmes]

Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Water w/ lime juice and ice.
Dinner - nothing - I had company and didn't eat by 10pm.

AbSlide - none. I've pulled a muscle, or something. I suck.

   

Comments:
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 3/17/2003 11:44:39 PM

I didn't excersise today either. I'm still sore from dancing my ass of this weekend. I've felt like poo all day.

[more random stuff] 3/17/2003 11:30:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |getting a headache]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - fnc - on the record]

I told Rusty that I wanted a maid. He said okay, not that I was exactly "asking" him. It was more like, I recognise that the place needs to be cleaned, and I also recognise that I'm not really interested in doing it. And no, I don't have anything better to do, but not having a job doesn't neccessarily mean that I want to spend the day vacuuming. And yes, I am spoiled.

I didn't use the AbSlide today. The last couple of days, I've had a sharp pain in my abdomen when I've used it, but not the good "feel the burn" type. Because of that, I've not been doing it well anyway, so I'm going to give it a rest for a day or so, so that I can go back doing it the right way, which would obviously be more effective in the long run. And I didn't make my "no eating after 10 pm" rule because of company, so I got no food today, dammit...

Ron (a friend of my mom's) stopped by. He gave me a wad of money, as he wants me to do the website for a book that he's written. I am going to have to type the word "clitoris", so I better start getting used to it now. Clitoris. Ewww. I also need to find out how to make a shopping cart system, so that people can pay for this book using Paypal, and then a PDF file would be automatically emailed to the person. Can anyone point me in the right direction?

   

Comments:
From: [info]thanny
Date: 3/18/2003 12:44:35 AM

i looked into maid service, for a co-worker who had a family tragedy. that shit was expensive :0| then again, if you get someone who maybe isn't bonded and all that, because you'll be there, it might be cheaper. i've considered going that route as well, but i have no where to put everything :0|

are you stretching? i sneeze and i get a side cramp.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/18/2003 1:14:47 AM

I will definately look into someone cheaper/non-bonded... so far I've only looked at places like Maid Brigade (chains that have websites). It IS expensive, but worth it, at least to have it done really well at least once.

What do you mean, stretching? Is this normal? I had the discomfort at 2-3 days (you know, the part where every muscle I own went "WHOA! What the fuck do you think you're doing???") but this is different, like I actually injured myself. I am SO out of shape...
From: [info]thanny
Date: 3/18/2003 10:44:32 AM

Re:

yeah, those chain maid services are killer. i know a lot of guys who employ people from smaller companies around norther va., and it's a lot more affordable.

well, you know, just do some toe-touches or try to stretch your legs and stomach out, so you don't overwork muscles that aren't used much. if you don't stretch, you'll definitely have more pain. it'll take a while to get into the groove of things. i used to be active, i know!

[daily calorie intake] 3/18/2003 9:50:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |i hate dinosaurs]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - abc - less than perfect]

Two cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Water w/ lime juice and ice.
One small dill pickle.
Dinner - Garlic butter fish (200 calories). Green beans. Diet Pepsi.

AbSlide - none.

   

[zoo tycoon] 3/19/2003 12:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |non-productive]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

I found a really cool Zoo Tycoon forum... I'm a Snow Tiger! Also, I did my first intermediate Dino Digs scenario last night - DD is hard, because in Zoo Tycoon and Marine Mania, I have a general idea what "real" animals are like - I know not to put penguins in a field of savannah grass, for example. With dinosaurs, I have no clue. Some of the prehistoric animals are pretty cool, though. My wooley mammoths had babies; tres cute. :}

   

[if all else fails...] 3/19/2003 4:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |unmotivated]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Lower your standards. I still haven't gotten the apartment cleaned up. At this point, I've given up on "not embarrassing" and am now striving for "not a fire hazard". Bah.

   

[daily calorie intake] 3/19/2003 9:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |really sick]
[Current Music |tv - msnbc - hardball with chris matthews]

Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Water w/ lime juice and ice.
Dinner - about 1/2 cheese sub w/mustard and tomato. 5 mozzerella sticks.

AbSlide - none.

   

[war] 3/19/2003 10:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |surreal]
[Current Music |tv - msnbc - hardball with chris matthews]

We're officially at war. It doesn't seem real.

   

[blah] 3/20/2003 9:25:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sick and tired]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - war coverage]

I had a can of Sobe Adrenaline Rush this morning. It isn't working. In fact, I'm thinking that my body is actually allergic to adrenaline. I want to go back to bed.

For a while, I had the television on ABC, as I usually do during the day. It was too weird watching Regis Philbin and that obnoxious Lisa Rinna chitchat about the Oscars and yoga, like nothing else was going on in the world, so now I'm flipping back and forth between Fox News Channel and MSNBC. I'm not sure that's any less weird.

I really just want to go back to bed.

   

Comments:
From: [info]blairmaru
Date: 3/20/2003 10:53:35 AM

That stuff is so ick. Try the Starbucks Espresso in a can thing. Pure caffeine, I tell you! Ah, I finally found Penguin Caffinated Mints! In three flavors, even. Penguins, caffeine, and sugar. All I need in life....
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/20/2003 12:23:37 PM

It WAS ick! You know what it tasted like? When you're pregnant, they give you this orange-flavoured glucose crap to test for gestational diabetes... SoBe Adrenaline Rush tastes just like that! /gag

The Starbucks, I could definately do. Caffeine and sugar are a nutritious part of my daily breakfast! Actually, caffeine and sugar ARE my daily breakfast...
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 3/20/2003 3:22:37 PM

mmmm I love that sobe stuff.

[panic attack] 3/20/2003 1:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |stressed out]
[Current Music |tv - msnbc - war coverage]

In three hours, it will all be over. In three hours, it will all be over. In three hours, it will all be over. In three hours, it will all be over. In three hours, it will all be over. In three hours, it will all be over. In three hours, it will all be over. In three hours, it will all be over...

I wish for Valium.

   

[inspection] 3/20/2003 4:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |i have a headache]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - war coverage]

It went badly. The guy seemed nice enough, but told John (the landlord) that a lot of things needed to be painted or fixed. The only thing he really said to me was that the place smelled like cat pee, which thanks to Max, I'm sure it does. I was worried that he might have a problem with the rats, but he said that he did not, and specifically said that he couldn't smell them.

After he left, however, John came back and told me that I needed to either get rid of the pets (all of them) or find a new place to live. He says that after they went outside, that the inspector told him that the rat cages DID smell, but that the guy was just being polite with me. Now, I could understand the guy being polite and not saying anything, but not outright lying. John also said that the crappy torn-up linoleum is from the pets, which is complete bullshit. You can see by the colour (harvest gold) that the linoleum hasn't been replaced since the 70's, and the most of the holes fall within the normal traffic pattern for the room.

So anyway, I need to find a new place to live.

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 3/20/2003 6:43:51 PM

I'm pretty sure that smelling like cat pee is not a violation of... health... codey... thingies...

You hate your crappy apartment and you hate your landlord. See? Your landlord is being a jerk because he doesn't want to repair anything! You're better off without that pathetic loser. It's a good thing! =P

Move to NJ or Lancaster county!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/20/2003 6:59:23 PM

Well, get this... I wanted to see how bad it really was (since I can't smell), so I asked my mother to stop by. She went through every room in the house and said she could smell it *a little bit* in the bathroom, and that was it. I asked Rusty to do the same (without telling him what my mom had said, even) and he said the same thing: a little bit in the bathroom, but not at all in the bedrooms. And my mother also said that she couldn't smell the rats at all.

I think it's a combination of John getting written up for code violations and wanting to pass on the grief, plus maybe he wants/needs to raise the rent and it would be easier to start over with new tenants. I am going to call the inspector tomorrow and see if he said *any* of the things that John says he did.

I *do* want to move - I may have to give up my pets to do it, but I WON'T give them up for that ass.

[compliments of samuraikitty] 3/20/2003 7:30:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |dvd - wallace & gromit]



Axis of Evil Wannabees? by John Cleese

Bitter after being snubbed for membership in the "Axis of Evil," Libya, China and Syria today announced that they had formed the "Axis of Just as Evil," which they said would be more evil than that stupid Iran-Iraq-North Korea axis President Bush warned of in his State of the Union address.

Axis of Evil members, however, immediately dismissed the new Axis as having, for starters, a really dumb name. "Right. They are just as evil... in their dreams!" declared North Korean leader Kim Jong-il. "Everybody knows we're the best evils... best at being evil... we're the best."

Diplomats from Syria denied they were jealous over being excluded, although they conceded they did ask if they could join the Axis of Evil. "They told us it was full," said Syrian President Bashar al-Assad.

"An axis can't have more than three countries,"explained Iraqi President Saddam Hussein. "This is not my rule,it's tradition. In World War II you had Germany, Italy, and Japan in the evil Axis. So, you can only have three, and a secret handshake. Ours is wicked cool."

International reaction to Bush's Axis of Evil declaration was swift, as within minutes, France surrendered. Elsewhere, peer-conscious nations rushed to gain triumvirate status in what has become a game of geopolitical chairs.

Cuba, Sudan and Serbia announced that they had formed the "Axis of Somewhat Evil," forcing Somalia to join with Uganda and Myanmar in the "Axis of Occasionally Evil," while Bulgaria, Indonesia and Russia established the "Axis of Not So Much Evil Really as Just Generally Disagreeable." With the criteria suddenly expanded and all the desirable clubs filling up, Sierra Leone, El Salvador, and Rwanda applied to be called the "Axis of Countries That Aren't the Worst But Certainly Won't Be Asked to Host the Olympics."

Canada, Mexico and Australia formed the "Axis of Nations That Are Actually Quite Nice But Secretly Have Some Nasty Thoughts About America," while Scotland, New Zealand and Spain established the "Axis of Countries That Want Sheep to Wear Lipstick." "That's not a threat, really, just something we like to do", said Scottish Executive First Minister Jack McConnell. While wondering if the other nations of the world weren't perhaps making fun of him, a cautious Bush granted approval for most axis, although he rejected the establishment of the "Axis of Countries Whose Names End in 'Guay," accusing one of its members of filing a false application. Officials from Paraguay, Uruguay, and Chadguay denied the charges.

   

Comments:
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 3/20/2003 7:37:12 PM

That's great!
From: [info]sf_rose
Date: 3/20/2003 7:43:33 PM

Oh oh oh...that made me laugh...Thanks to you and samurai kitty!
From: [info]muridae
Date: 3/20/2003 8:02:56 PM

=D

Chadguay!

Okay, well it hurts too much to laugh, but I'm definitely chuckling happily. :)
From: [info]sjcarpediem
Date: 3/20/2003 8:57:49 PM

I remember this... Still just as funny now as it was, then.

[daily calorie intake] 3/20/2003 9:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - will & grace]

Sobe Adrenaline Rush (140 calories).
Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Water w/ lime juice and ice.
Dinner - Papa John's cheesesticks w/ pizza sauce (about 600 calories). Diet Pepsi.

AbSlide - none.

   

Comments:
From: [info]gypsydance
Date: 3/21/2003 12:24:26 AM

Can't help but notice that you're only eating once per day. That's a bit unhealthy, not to mention, it's likely to backfire. If your body thinks that you're starving, it starts storing fat. Instead of reducing calorie intake by eating only once per day (and only eating high-fat, high-calorie foods when you do), you should try eating regular meals with a slightly lower fat and calorie content. And you could stand to up that calorie intake a bit. It's terribly unhealthy, and you're setting yourself up for failure with unrealistic expectations and the strain you're putting your body under.
From: [info]samuraikitty
Date: 3/21/2003 12:30:02 AM

Wanted to comment on that too.. it's prolly why you've been feeling sick n' stuff. :S You know, when I was trying to diet, a thing I did was I had nothing but fruits in the morning, rice and veggies during the day, and then for dinner I'd have a big chicken caesar salad. I diluted the caesar dressing with lemon juice (which tastes amazing) and caesar salad is like my favorite so I didn't feel like like I was dieting, really. I didn't like fruit in the morning much, but I did feel full. *shrug* Just an idea.

[seems fitting] 3/21/2003 8:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |homeless]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - war coverage]

   

[daily calorie intake] 3/21/2003 9:10:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |whatever]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - tlc - while you were out]

Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Water w/ lime juice and ice.
Dinner - Green Giant pasta alfredo and broccoli (600 calories). Diet Pepsi.

AbSlide - none.

   

Comments:
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 3/22/2003 4:39:54 PM

Get back on that abslide!!!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/22/2003 5:14:44 PM

I can't. I've torn/pulled a muscle, or something. I need a new exercise...
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 3/22/2003 5:50:58 PM

Re:

Torn where? In your abs? IM me sometime and we'll talk about it. In my recent foray into excercize I have read much about abs.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/22/2003 7:35:09 PM

Yeah, I think so - it's a sharp pain (not the "oh wow, I have muscles there!" good kind of burn). I try it every couple of days, but the thing is, I can't stretch out far enough for it to do any good, and I am thinking that doing it anyway would just aggravate it and prolong the doing-nothingness. :\

I didn't realise that you'd had a foray into exercise...
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 3/22/2003 8:19:02 PM

Re:

Yes. I've vowed to have six-pack abs by the summer. I don't know if I'll make it, but I've got a noticeable improvements.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/22/2003 8:30:45 PM

Cool! What have you been doing?
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 3/22/2003 8:50:17 PM

Re:

3 sets of 15 crunches each
3 sets of 15 jackknife situps each
3 sets of 10 side crunches (each side, for a total of 6 sets)
And I'm still testing out other exercises for my obliques. Plus other stuff so I'm not an otherwise un-muscular person with a rippling six pack. So I also do pushups, squats, etc.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/22/2003 10:42:31 PM

Wow! You go. I need to start doing the crunches, too - I'm always paranoid that the AbSlide won't work because it was one of those "as seen on TV" things. I don't remember jackkife sit-ups, but I know I suck at the regular kind...
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 3/23/2003 12:00:36 AM

Re:

regular sit ups are bad anyway. They work your hip flexors more than your abs.
Eh. Any exercise regimen will work as long as you stick to it. Not eating so much papa johns might help too ;)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/23/2003 12:07:07 AM

I eat less than 900 calories per day, even on PJ nights. And that includes the three cups of coffee. :-P
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 3/23/2003 12:41:03 AM

Re:

Yeah, I need to start doing cardio. Thats the real way to lose weight.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/23/2003 1:47:55 AM

Ugh. I took aerobics once; HATED it. You would not believe how uncoordinated I am.

You don't look like you need to lose any weight...
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 3/23/2003 2:19:02 AM

Re:

No, I don't. But I want a six pack for the summer. And you can work you abs all day long and you wont have one unless your body fat is below a certain point.
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 3/23/2003 12:01:33 AM

Re:

And, by the way: Crunches hurt. A lot.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/23/2003 12:11:08 AM

I have tried them before, and I always wondered if I was doing them right. I have this huge paranoia that I am going to exercise for a few months, it will do no good, and THEN I'll find out that I was doing it wrong all along.

{...}

Holy fuck, they DO hurt!

Well, at least I must be doing them right...
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/23/2003 12:14:31 AM

Also, I don't seem to be coordinated enough to do the side crunches. But I did 15 of the regular sort!
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 3/23/2003 12:39:57 AM

Re:

yeah, whenever I do side crunches i feel like I'm flopping around like a fish. thats why I'm looking for other oblique exercises.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/23/2003 1:51:08 AM

Have you ever tried Pilates? I haven't, but someone I know said they helped a lot for toning.

[a change of scenery] 3/22/2003 1:50:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |weird]
[Current Music |dvd - pearl jam - alive and unplugged]

Having watched solid war coverage for the past two or three days, I thought I take a break and gaze upon the beautiful insanity that is Eddie Vedder.

"Is something wrong?" she said. Of course there is.
"You're still alive," she said. Oh, and do I deserve to be?
Is that the question? And if so, who answers? Who answers?

   

Comments:
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 3/22/2003 2:59:27 PM

Oh I.....I.....I'm still alive. :)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/22/2003 3:28:09 PM

Such an awesome song. That and Black. I've been listening to those two songs all afternoon. ::: sigh :::

[for the record] 3/22/2003 3:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |black]
[Current Music |dvd - pearl jam - alive and unplugged]

Anything worth doing, is worth doing to excess.

And now my bitter hands cradle broken glass of what was everything...

   

[daily calorie intake] 3/22/2003 8:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |fuzzy]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Water w/ lime juice and ice.
Dinner - Papa John's cheesesticks w/ pizza sauce (about 600 calories). Diet Pepsi.

AbSlides - 50, Crunches - 15.

   

Comments:
From: [info]blairmaru
Date: 3/22/2003 9:02:46 PM

Okay, thanks. Now I had to order Papa John's! Hurray for online ordering, though. Didn't even pick up the phone.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/22/2003 10:32:43 PM

LOL! Sorry! If it makes you feel any better, [info]closertofine has been giving me wicked turkey bacon cravings...
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 3/22/2003 9:10:13 PM

Alright! Back on the abslide! woo hoo!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/22/2003 10:39:27 PM

Bah. *grumble*

[woot! - an update] 3/23/2003 4:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |happy happy joy joy]
[Current Music |tv - msnbc - war coverage]

I just put on a pair of jeans... size *8* Calvin Klein petite jeans, to be exact. They're tighter than I would normally wear, but they zipped! I know that's not great, but it's better than my land whale sweatpants. Next goal: my size 5 Palmettos...

   

Comments:
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 3/23/2003 4:52:02 PM

YAY! That's wonderful!! Congrats!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/23/2003 5:01:37 PM

Thanks! I don't even want to wear the jeans, but it's nice to know that I CAN... :)
From: [info]samuraikitty
Date: 3/23/2003 5:20:55 PM

Waitaminute. You're a size EIGHT and you were saying you were FAT?? Dude. Last time I checked that was quite a nice size. Hell a size 12 is quite a nice size. Gratz though for being happy :)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/23/2003 5:50:38 PM

Thanks. :)

Well, keep in mind, I'm only 4'11", so if I weigh 120 pounds, I'm well overweight, where as a taller woman would be thin at 120. I would look better if the weight were more stretched out. Also, I'm going by what I used to weigh. I still weigh about 30 pounds more than I'd like.
From: [info]gypsydance
Date: 3/24/2003 1:49:05 AM

Wow. I'm only three inches taller than you, and I weigh 165 pounds and wear a size 16. I must be a fucking whale.
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 3/23/2003 5:42:26 PM

Abslide! Abslide!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/23/2003 5:52:28 PM

What are you, my personal trainer? For your information, I already DID the AbSlide for the day, as well as *50* crunches. So there. :-P

(I'm gonna be in hell tomorrow, aren't I?)
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 3/23/2003 7:59:09 PM

Re:

I dunno. Abs are surprisingly resiliant. They go through so much work every day just keeping us standing.
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 3/24/2003 8:28:58 AM

Good for you!

[lets talk about sex, baybee] 3/23/2003 9:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |asexual]
[Current Music |tv - abc - the 75th academy awards]

There's a meme going around in which you list ten things that turn you on. I can't think of ten things that turn me on. I can't even think of ONE thing that turns me on. I just realised: I am not heterosexual. I am not homosexual. I am an amoeba.

   

Comments:
From: [info]the_never
Date: 3/23/2003 9:22:15 PM

You should read Deadeye Dick by Kurt Vonnegut.

From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/23/2003 9:27:27 PM

Will that fix the problem? Or turn me on?
From: [info]the_never
Date: 3/23/2003 9:31:01 PM

Re:

No, neither. But that main character has the same problem.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/23/2003 9:39:59 PM

Cool! I'll see if we have it; I know there are several Vonnegut books laying around...
From: [info]arkady
Date: 3/24/2003 8:47:55 AM

You're not an amoeba, you're just asexual - I have the same problem. I can enjoy certain parts of physical affection (regardless of gender) if I'm comfortable with that person - but sex and that kind of physical intimacy does nothing for me, and I do not get "turned on". There are certain things I find attractive, that I find visually stimulating and think about - long silky hair on men for example; I like to daydream about playing with it, but there's no sexual undertone to it.

I don't even really think of myself in terms of gender any more. I feel pretty much androgynous. I've even stopped wearing skirts and dresses again now...they don't feel right any more.

[daily calorie intake] 3/23/2003 9:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |carbie]
[Current Music |tv - abc - the 75th academy awards]

Two cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Water w/ lime juice and ice.
Dinner - Ramen noodles (380 calories). More water.

AbSlides - 50, Crunches - 50.

   

[impeach the shrub] 3/24/2003 8:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - the o'reilly factor]


Note: I do not neccessarily oppose the war. I think Saddam should be taken out. I support and pray for our military troups. I just don't like this freaky little weasel.
   

[daily calorie intake] 3/24/2003 9:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - the practice]

Two cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Water w/ lime juice and ice.
Dinner - about 1/2 cheese sub w/mustard and tomato. 5 mozzerella sticks. Diet Pepsi.

AbSlides - 50, Crunches - 50, Pushups - 10.

   

Comments:
From: [info]s8venus
Date: 3/25/2003 12:36:36 AM

Mmmmmmmmmmmmm mustard!

[whine] 3/24/2003 11:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |whiney]
[Current Music |tv - msnbc - war coverage]

My back hurts. I assume that I am exercising wrong. Keeping in mind that I am 33 years old and have never had a backache, I can only deduce that exercise is bad for me.

   

Comments:
From: [info]gypsydance
Date: 3/25/2003 4:08:13 AM

Or that you're slightly out of shape and stretching muscles that were previously used primarily for sitting upright in front of a computer? ;P
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 3/25/2003 4:31:20 AM

[info]gypsydance may have a point there. :D

[housing woes] 3/25/2003 9:00:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |irate]
[Current Music |tv - msnbc - war coverage]

Well, I guess I need to write about this for the general public, otherwise the rest of my journal won't make any sense (yeah, as if it would anyway)...

Last Thursday, we had a routine rental inspection. It went okay, except that the inspector said that he could smell catbox odor. This was not shocking to me, as I have a crabby male cat and no sense of smell. I was concerned that he would say something about the rats, but he specifically said that he had no problem with them, and that the cages did not smell. Cool.

After the inspector left, my landlord came back in and said that the place "reeked", and that I needed to get rid of ALL of my pets, or get out. Naturally, I reminded him of what the inspector had just said, and he told me that after they'd gone outside, the inspector reemed him out and said that the rats DID stink, and that even the bedrooms smelled of cat piss. All the while he was talking about the cat odor, he was looking at the rat cages.

He also said that the pets had damaged the apartment, and specifically mentioned the worn linoleum in the kitchen. You can tell by looking at the colour (harvest gold, for crissake) of this linoleum that it hasn't been replaced since the 70's, and the worn parts are within the normal traffic pattern of the room, but he says the cats did it. Yeah, right.

Speaking of things that reek, after telling me what a dreadful stinky tenant I am, he said that he'd give me a good reference if I wanted to look for another apartment! Hmmm...

So anyway, that evening I asked my mother, who can smell, to come over and walk through all of the rooms. She said that she could detect some odor in the bathroom, but none in the living room or bedrooms. When Rusty came home, I didn't tell him what John or my mother had said, but asked him to go through and sniff the rooms. He said the bathroom was a little funky, but there was no smell in the bedrooms. I should also point out that John knows that I have no sense of smell, so I guess he thinks that he can tell me anything and I'll just take his word for it.

Fast forward to Monday morning. I called the fucking rental inspector, and asked him what he'd said to John after they left my apartment. He said they'd just reviewed what had been said when they were IN the apartment. I asked him if he'd said anything about the rats. He said that John had said something to him about the rats, and that he had said "so what, they're pets."

So John is lying... I don't know if he was freaked out that I have rats (he knew I had cages, but not exactly what was in them), or if he wants us out so that he can start fresh with new tenants and a higher rent (he just raised ours, but he is facing a lot of major repair bills after these inspections). At any rate, I need to find a new place to live... I may ultimately have to give up some of my pets to find a place, but I *won't* give them up for that asshole.

So yeah. I'm a homeless person. It's been a fun week.

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 3/25/2003 10:13:05 AM

Did you tell the inspector that John is trying to evict you? Is that legal? Can the inspector fine John for that? I mean, not that it would make your situation any better, but it would sure be fun.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/25/2003 12:06:12 PM

Well, theorhetically, I guess it's John's property and he can have or not have who he wants here. The thing is, he says that the lease says "no pets" and it DOES... except, we never signed the fucking lease. A few years ago, he talked me into showing apartments for him, and when he gave me the leases for new tenants, I was shocked, because I didn't know there WAS a lease. And the thing is, he told me I could have cats, and he's seen those cages plenty of times and never said a word about them.

As for fun, that's what I'm going to have when I tell the building inspector what's really wrong with this place, things he missed, like that the ceiling looks like it's about to fall through, and the wiring being screwy. Now THAT will be fun! :}
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 3/25/2003 11:01:07 AM

I think I would bring it up to the landlord that you know he is lying and that you spoke with the inspector. I really dont think this is legal.

:( I'm sorry. I hope you get things worked out soon.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/25/2003 12:15:10 PM

Oh, I WILL be bringing it up to the landlord, just to watch him squirm. I assume it's legal, since it IS John's property, and we DO have a lot of pets... it's just pretty damned redneck of him to use that as ammo when they aren't the issue at all. :\

It's all good though - we needed the motivation, otherwise we'd stay here forever, and it IS a dump.

Although, since he obviously doesn't know what urine smells like, I think I will make it a point to piss on the living room carpet *myself* before I leave... >:}
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 3/25/2003 1:56:34 PM

lol!! You should!
From: [info]thanny
Date: 3/25/2003 4:07:35 PM

man that sucks, to put it mildly :0|

but hey, this could be a good time to look into buying something. anything. i'm shocked how easy it is, how little it cost. i'm trying to get everyone i know to buy a house or condo or something. it's so goddamn nice to not have to deal with landlords, raising rents, bullshit inspections, etc. not to mention being able to decorate or fix it up anyway you want. even if you don't have stellar credit, all you need is to get a rate at a few points higher than the average (which is so damn low now anyway) then refinance after you show that you're stable.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/25/2003 4:35:51 PM

Hahahaha!!! You must be a mind reader! That's what I was thinking, ya know, the economy sucks for people with REAL money - WE should jump in and try to find a place! I called a realtor this morning, and they're going to get back to us toward the end of the week with houses in our price range. I just hope that we can get a loan with Rusty's credit - mine is shot and his is just non-existant. :\
From: [info]thanny
Date: 3/25/2003 5:18:23 PM

Re:

i really hope it works out for you. even with bad credit, i'm tellin' ya, it's better than renting. even if you have to pay 8% rates, you'll still make out like bandits. after a year of paying that and the weasely pmi, you'll have great credit, and able to move down to a much better rate.

especially if the housing market where you are is like ours. if i had waited two months, i would have never made it into this neighborhood :0|
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/25/2003 5:52:45 PM

PMI? ::: blinks :::

I would love to have a house - almost any house. I *hate* renting (and the inspections and rules and most of all not being able to paint or redo the floors or whatever because it would be stupid to improve HIS property).

Thanks for the good wishes! :)
From: [info]thanny
Date: 3/25/2003 8:04:28 PM

Re:

hell, i was even going to bid on a garden-style condo, if i couldn't find a townhouse i liked in the area. anything other than renting.

pmi = private mortgage insurance. it's a bullshit excuse to charge people $40-50 a month, to 'ensure' that you won't stiff them. most lenders require it if you don't put 20% down (who the hell can do THAT??), and if you have an fha loan, they'll never remove it (thus my NEED for refinancing).
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/25/2003 8:44:58 PM

Ohhhh... gotcha. Do you know, is that the one that also covers the mortgage if the person who is the source of income dies? Because I'm thinking that's not such a bad idea, since Rusty is older than (and not so indestructable as) I am...
From: [info]thanny
Date: 3/26/2003 4:42:40 PM

Re:

Actually, that's insurance for the mortgage lender, not for you. I'm not sure how it all works out-- i just know it's a total scam :0|

i think you're thinking of something else, because i thought i've heard of policies like that, to protect someone's income.
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 3/26/2003 8:04:06 AM

I'm so sorry you are going through this. I know this will lead to something better, where you will be happier. Maybe you can buy a house (I see you are already looking into that). It is very confusing but whoever you go with as a lender will help you through it.

I will be sending you positive energy!!! *hugs*
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/26/2003 8:09:28 AM

Thanks! :)

The realtor we would be going through is really nice (my mom went with them when she bought her house, and the guy was great on the phone, very helpful and funny)... I am hoping his opinion would have some weight with the lender.
From: [info]slow_like_honey
Date: 3/26/2003 8:04:42 AM

I wish I could help you but I'm young & naive and know absolutely nothing about how much housing costs or much about mortages or anything :/ But I do hope that all works out well for you in the end & that you and your pets find a nice safe new home soon :D
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/26/2003 8:07:10 AM

Thanks! :)

[freida's boneless cat] 3/25/2003 4:25:00 PM

purple_stardust






Mazel was VERY tiny at first, and could only eat off of my fingers.


She fattened up quickly though, and became very mellow.


And now she has turned into a very beautiful girl!


But she still likes to flop out on my lap and show her belly. :}
   

Comments:
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 3/25/2003 4:47:44 PM

Oh she's so big now! I love looking at cat-paws, I was staying with a friend till yesterday, she had a kitty and I used to spend ages just looking at her paws and playing with them!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/25/2003 4:51:39 PM

Hahaha! You and Max should get together - He has HUGE orange paws, and he will sit with you FOREVER if you'll scratch between his fingers and toes... yes, my cats are spoiled.
From: [info]thanny
Date: 3/25/2003 5:12:50 PM

that is the cutest little thing...!!

my first cat was a black cat, but short-hair. awww pepe! i miss you sooooo!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/25/2003 8:48:03 PM

Black wouldn't be my first choice (I'm partial to orange and calico), but she IS a sweet little thing, and just as soft and silky as can be. And, I swear this cat has NO BONES. I can carry her around upside down like a baby, roll her over and rub her tummy, and she just flops and purrs. :)
From: [info]clarice
Date: 3/25/2003 7:25:51 PM

What a gorgeous kitty!

So much cuter than our obnoxious rescue.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/25/2003 9:34:30 PM

LOL! Thanks, but she's an obnoxious rescue, too! ;)
From: [info]katarina42
Date: 3/25/2003 11:35:07 PM

My, what yellow eyes you have! She's a lovely gal ^_^
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/26/2003 1:11:08 AM

Thanks! They ARE really yellow, and sometimes her pupils almost disapear, and she looks completely posessed.
Which I'm sure, being a cat, she is. :)
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 3/26/2003 8:02:12 AM

Oh my - I thought Roscoe was the most beautiful kitten ever, but Mazel is! She's so beautiful! I want to hold her!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/26/2003 8:06:27 AM

You should!!! She's very soft and silky and... well, boneless. :)
From: [info]cellio
Date: 3/26/2003 11:48:23 AM

Ooh, pretty!

Boneless cats are so much fun!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/26/2003 11:58:18 AM

Thanks! She IS fun... I can wear her as a scarf! :)
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 3/26/2003 12:48:45 PM

Oh... she's such a sweetie. She's beautiful.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/26/2003 1:04:17 PM

Thanks. :)

[daily calorie intake] 3/25/2003 9:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |my back hurts, dammit]
[Current Music |tv - msnbc - war coverage]

Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Water w/ lime juice and ice.
Dinner - Fish, mac and cheese, broccoli (400 calories). Rye bread w/spray butter. Diet Pepsi.

AbSlides - 50, Crunches - 50, Pushups - 10.

   

[fuck fuck fuck] 3/26/2003 12:35:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |stressed out]
[Current Music |pc - realtor.com / tv - fnc - war coverage]

I think I'm going to cry. Or kill someone. Or both.

   

[i don't want to grow up] 3/26/2003 12:55:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |anxious, stressed out, and really not well]
[Current Music |pc - realtor.com / tv - fnc - war coverage]

I am playing with mortgage calculators. I can barely balance my own checkbook, and my cable was turned off multiple times in the last year, not because I didn't have the money to pay the bills, but because I was too flakey to remember that I was supposed to. I don't know what the hell escrow is. I don't know anything about interest rates. I don't think I should be allowed to operate appliances, much less mess with such scary things as mortgages.

And worse than that, I'm sure that it doesn't even matter, because if we even get up the nerve to apply, they'll probably just say "you suck!" and kick us out. I hate my life. I'll hate it even more if we have to pack up all this junk and move into another shithole apartment.

I just want to be left alone and not have to deal with any of it.

   

[landlord update] 3/26/2003 7:55:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |vengeful]
[Current Music |tv - abc - good morning america]

The landlord stopped by yesterday, and said he didn't know if I'd thought about what we'd talked about, but now he'd decided that it would be better if we just moved. Well, duh. So to "make things official", he gave me a piece of hand-written notebook paper that says:

(3-25-03) As per your lease, this is to inform you that your lease will not be extended. I would like the apartment back within 30 days. -John DiCarlo

Again, I never signed a lease, and I certainly didn't sign anything that says that I acknowledge his silly piece of notebook paper. So if I'm not ready to move in 30 days, I'm going to tell him that I want a copy of my signed lease (which doesn't exist), and a real eviction notice.

I'm wondering how much of this is happening just because he's a predjudiced motherfucker... When he was here for the inspection, he saw the Hanukkah menorah that's still sitting on my bookshelf, as well as the Judaism books... and he hadn't been here since I got those things, and had no idea of my religious leanings. I know he's a racist - when I was showing apartments for him, he told me that he'd rather not rent to black people because they trashed the places and didn't pay rent. Maybe he doesn't like Jews either. Maybe he's just an asshole.

But it's all good. I'm stressed out but I DO have faith. I will be out of this dump one way or another, and John will come to regret this event far more than I ever will.

   

Comments:
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 3/26/2003 8:43:07 AM

Ugh. This totally just makes me sick for you, but I do hope you can 'move on up' and blow off this creep. He seems to have given you nothing but grief any how.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/26/2003 8:56:20 AM

Thanks. It's a pain in the arse right now, but I'm sure we will be happier once we're out of here. :)
From: [info]blairmaru
Date: 3/26/2003 9:04:03 AM

Actually, I used to work for a person who rented apartments. In West Virginia, that notebook paper is not legal, period, unless it is sent in a certified letter. He has to go through magistrate court to have you evicted. You do have rights as a renter. Check this article out:
http://www.nolo.com/lawcenter/ency/article.cfm/objectID/50ABA868-D067-409C-9EFEED80B510C425/catID/F952FED3-0C94-4431-862E21322CCD72B6
It took my boss three months to evict this guy who NEVER paid his rent and destroyed his apartment, because the legal hassles are so lengthy.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/26/2003 9:20:19 AM

YOU are my new favourite person! :)

I didn't really think that the notebook paper was legal - it doesn't even have my name or address on it!! Okay, so he DOES have to go to court and get an eviction notice. That will buy me some time. Do you know anything about the effectiveness of a lease that I never signed? I mean, I've since seen a copy of the lease that he uses, and there IS a no pets clause, but *I* never signed a lease.

BTW, that's funny that you commented - just as I was addressing an envelope to put your Batz Maru stickers in!
From: [info]jupiterjuniper
Date: 3/26/2003 9:27:56 AM

i am totally floored that ANYONE would say that they won't rent to black people because "they trashed the places and didn't pay rent" YUCK. like anyone can generalize...oh my.

sounds like anything could be reason enough. imagine if you were wiccan, and your rats were used in spells ;) [but then again, then you could put spells on HIM...hmmm, maybe you should consider wicca? lol]

sounds like he's a real winner.

good luck :)
xx
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/26/2003 9:38:46 AM

LMAO! Hmmm, I could talk to my mother... =)

Yeah, John is a piece of work. It's bad enough that you'd be such a bigot as to HAVE that policy, but to be stupid enough to TELL someone... good grief. I should report THAT to the authorities... he has about 19 apartments, I think, and I guarantee none of them are rented to anyone other than white people... probably white Christians (as far as he knows, anyway).
From: [info]muridae
Date: 3/26/2003 10:25:08 AM

Uh... he can't evict you based on the terms of your lease agreement if you have no lease agreement. Even if he does manage to evict you, it's a very long and difficult process and you'll have plenty of time to find a new place in the meantime. I have no idea what the legal rights might be on either side, without a lease, but I'm pretty sure he can't point to a non-existent lease and say you broke the contract.

Also, it's so completely ridiculously illegal to discriminate on the basis of race. I think that the authorities need to be informed of his racial policies in choosing renters.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/26/2003 10:28:42 AM

Oh, you can be sure they will be. There will be many people informed about the things that John does (and doesn't do). >:)
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 3/26/2003 12:51:25 PM

sorry things are so screwed up for you right now. he sounds like such a scum bucket.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/26/2003 1:05:12 PM

He's your standard slumlord. :\

[the upside] 3/26/2003 8:45:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |do not toy with me]
[Current Music |tv - abc - good morning america]

The very wise and hysterically funny George Carlin once said:

"That's all you need in life, a little place for your stuff. That's all your house is: a place to keep your stuff. If you didn't have so much stuff, you wouldn't need a house. You could just walk around all the time. A house is just a pile of stuff with a cover on it."

I have a lot of stuff. I also have a lot of junk. I'm a packrat. I keep stupid stuff. I keep a lot of stuff based on the theory that I might need/use/fix/sell/read it someday. And this brings me to the high point of this whole miserable experience. I'm leaving most of my junk here.

I'm leaving the pots and pans and most of my dishes. I'm leaving the dirty old mixer and the collection of wine bottles. I'm leaving the boxes of books that survived the fire but never got cleaned. I'm leaving the broken television and the broken vaccuum cleaner and the tacky nightstand that the garbagemen won't take. I'm leaving the boxes of holiday paper and gift boxes and crumpled bows. I'm leaving the dented metal file cabinet and the mannequin head from cosmetology school. I'm leaving the huge collection of magazines that might have good articles in them, and the books that no longer interest me. I'm leaving the crappy washing machine, the uncomfortable bed, the ugly blue chair, and the torn-up sofa. I'm leaving the half-used cans of paint, the ugly flower pots, and the bent tomato cages. I'm leaving the broken toys, and the outgrown rat cages and cracked aquariums. I'm leaving the cat litter box.

I'm leaving a whole shed and most of an apartment full of CRAP, and it's all one big glorious going-away present for John. Mwahahahaha.

   

Comments:
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 3/26/2003 10:43:22 AM

Oooh, and are you leaving a big slab of fish behind a radiator? You know you want to ;)

Seriously, this is all very unfair, but as you say it'll give you an excuse to ditch your clutter on someone else, and give you a chance to go somewhere else and collect more!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/26/2003 10:59:39 AM

OMG, you're a scary mindreader woman! =D

Actually, I was planning on leaving slabs of fish, cracked eggs, canned cat food, and bad potatoes - behind the radiator, within the panelling, inside the suspended ceiling, and under the flooring. And I AM going to pee on the carpet, myself. What can he do? He's evicting me on the pretense that it smells bad; I'm gonna make sure it really does.

That asshole screwed with the wrooong person.
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 3/26/2003 11:57:23 AM

ha, he deserves that!

[irony] 3/26/2003 1:35:00 PM

purple_stardust


Get Fuzzy!
   

[daily calorie intake] 3/26/2003 8:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |stressed out]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - the o'reilly factor]

Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Water w/ lime juice and ice.
Dinner - Turkey bacon on rye toast w/mayo, mustard, and tomato. Potato chips. Diet Pepsi.

AbSlides - 50, Crunches - 50, Pushups - 10.

   

[today] 3/27/2003 8:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |i have a headache]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - the o'reilly factor]

I went to the bank and the post office. Whee.

Laurie, our lithops came today. I will try to get it planted tomorrow.

I picked up Rusty from work, and we drove by bars, and stole their beer boxes.

I ordered dinner from Papa John's, and I did not exercise.

Fuck it, I'm homeless. Who cares if I'm fat.

   

Comments:
From: [info]s8venus
Date: 3/27/2003 9:41:26 PM

You're lanlord is SUCH an ass I wanna kick him in the nuts! After you move, and get your SD back, be sure and mail him a nice letter with some rattie rasin confetti inside.

Bastrad!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/27/2003 9:59:09 PM

Hahaha! I'm sure I won't be getting my SD back anyway, so I'll be leaving the raisins HERE. :}

[daily calorie intake] 3/27/2003 8:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |disgusted]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - the o'reilly factor]

Two cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Water w/ lime juice and ice.
Dinner - Papa John's cheesesticks w/pizza sauce. Diet Pepsi.

Exercise - nothing.

   

[touch my monkey] 3/28/2003 12:55:00 AM

purple_stardust

Purple_Stardust
is a
Pizza-Eating Disco Monkey


...with a Battle Rating of 6.0


To see if your Food-Eating Battle Monkey can
defeat Purple_Stardust, enter your name:

   

Comments:
From: [info]topi
Date: 3/28/2003 2:56:26 AM

heeeeeee

Topi is a Banana-Eating Super Monkey with a Battle Rating of 7.9.
Unleash your own Food-Eating Battle Monkey.

[daily calorie intake] 3/28/2003 9:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |depressed]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - while you were out]

Two cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Water w/ lime juice and ice.
Dinner - Green Giant pasta alfredo and broccoli. Diet Pepsi.

Exercise - none.

   

[nowhere else to go] 3/29/2003 12:45:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - war coverage]

I made another late night trip to Walmart; bought over 150 dollars worth of - I don't even know what I spent that much money on. Pants for Rusty, both jeans and slacks for talking to housing people, plus boxers, socks, and a new shirt. Storage boxes. Pots so that I can divide and plant the lithops. A portable file box and hanging folders, so I can try to get all this paper clutter under control. I even finally got dayplanner calendar pages for 2003 (yeah, I'm a bit behind).

Speaking of paper, I paid bills earlier, and kept the check duplicates, stapled to the bill stubs. Maybe that will be a good method. I also shredded a TON of old bills and receipts and stuff - I'm sure that the neighbours probably think Oliver North had moved in. I shredded about ten shredder baskets full of paper, anything with my name or address on it. I even shredded two nearly-full boxes of checks from old accounts. The rats had a lot of fun with the shreddies. :}

I'm so tired of this, already.

   

Comments:
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 3/29/2003 1:31:55 AM

I missed something, what's going on?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/29/2003 1:39:18 AM

I'm being evicted. :(

Here is the original post about it: http://www.livejournal.com/users/purple_stardust/541027.html
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 3/29/2003 7:21:19 AM

I hate shredding. I always put it off until I have a mountain load.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/29/2003 10:40:17 AM

Yeah, that's what I did... some of this stuff was from the last millenium. ::: sigh :::

[got brain?] 3/29/2003 1:45:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - war coverage]

Humour me, please.

Update: I've eaten a brain! Hooray! Thank you, anonymous brain donor!

I really need to go to bed.

   

[i should have been a lawyer] 3/29/2003 1:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |brilliant]
[Current Music |tv - tnt - some retarded movie]

I just thought of the most brilliant plan ever. Even Rusty admits that it's brilliant. I still need to talk my mother into going along with it, but dear G-d, it is brilliant.

Eating all of those brains must have helped! =D

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 3/29/2003 2:51:12 PM

Well.... what is it?!?

[the house i want] 3/29/2003 2:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |oogley]
[Current Music |tv - tnt - another stupid movie]

   

[daily calorie intake] 3/29/2003 8:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |depressed]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Two cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Water w/ lime juice and ice.
Five wheat crackers.
One chicken nugget and three french fries.
One can of Mountain Dew.
Dinner - Papa John's cheesesticks and spinach alfredo pizza. Diet Pepsi.

Exercise - none.

   

[insomnia] 3/30/2003 4:05:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |need sleeeeep]
[Current Music |tv - tbs - now and then]

Argh. It's 4am and I'm all caught up in this friggen movie.

   

Comments:
From: [info]tues
Date: 3/30/2003 5:15:43 PM

ah ha! I remember going to see that movie in seventh grade, and then seeing it every summer for the next two years. I get so caught up in that movie!

[today] 3/30/2003 3:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |whatever]
[Current Music |tv - tnt - some clint eastwood movie]

We had to go to the petstore to get a new night bulb for Jesus.

On the way, we drove by a nice house with a rent-to-own sign. The monthly payment would probably be out of our price range (it's a really big house, in a decent neighbourhood), but I guess I will call the number tomorrow to see. My mom has a lead on another rent-to-own.

Does anyone know how rent-to-own actually works? Is it like buying in that you're responsible for insurance and taxes and repairs, but the current owner is like the lender? Can you give a larger down payment to lower the monthly payment? Is there official paperwork to ensure that you actually own the house when you've paid it off? And what if the owner is an older person, and they die before it's paid off? Anyone? Beuller?

   

Comments:
From: [info]thanny
Date: 3/30/2003 4:12:25 PM

hrm... i've never known anyone who's actually done rent-to-own, but i've read about it in the real estate mailbag here and there. i'd google it to death :0| you'll probably need to hire a real estate lawyer for a few hours, to make sure all's legit.

as for what if the older person dies before it's paid off-- you'd probably buy it or continue to make payments to the person's heir or estate. if not, i've read where you can go to court to petition for the deed, i forget the correct name for it. that's used when you're sharing the deed to a house with someone, perhaps as an investment, and you can't find the other person listed on the deed.
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 3/30/2003 7:49:36 PM

I think they call it a "land contract". I actually drafted one for a client at my last job. Unfortunately that was 3 years ago and I don't remember the details. Try a Google search for "land contract" and see what you can find.

[daily calorie intake] 3/30/2003 8:30:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |really really full]
[Current Music |tv - tnt - some stupid movie]

Two cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Water w/ lime juice and ice.
Dinner - Cheese quesadilla. Refried bean taco. Torilla chips. Regular Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[this evening] 3/30/2003 8:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - tnt - some stupid movie]

Rusty took me to El Ranchero for dinner... yum! It was really nice. At one point, Rusty said "gracias" to the waiter when his drink was refilled, and I commented on how silly it looked to see a big red-headed guy saying "gracias" ...so then we experimented with other ethnic/foreign phrases, and came to the conclusion that we are hopelessly white.

   

[bizarre conversation #947] 3/30/2003 11:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |silly]
[Current Music |tv - msnbc - war coverage]


Rusty and I have decided, after much discussion, that we need a pet badger. Other contenders included cougars, baboons, and wolverines, but we came to the eventual conclusion that a well-trained attack badger would be the most practical choice for our family.
   

Comments:
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 3/31/2003 6:35:12 AM

Are you sure you don't want a pet cougar? I'd offer to cougar sit when you go on vacation. Really, I don't mind the drive. {g}
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/31/2003 12:12:09 PM

You are such a giving person, ya know? Generous to a fault.

Actually, the cougar was Rusty's first choice... we were talking about getting one of those little Bengal cats (if we ever got another purebred cat), and then he decided that a cougar would be taken more seriously. Also, we live in one of those neighbourhoods where people walk their dobermans and pitt bulls, and think they're quite the badasses... a cougar would definately trump a doberman, ya know? So Rusty wants a cougar to walk. I tried to explain that cougars might not like to walk on leashes, and might disembowel their owners in protest, which is when the talk turned to badgers.

THIS is what we do in bed. Talk about badgers.
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 3/31/2003 1:10:28 PM

Re:

Actually (and this is where a trip to the local exotic cat rescue place comes in handy) cougars are very much like giant housecats. Of course, you need to keep some ammonia handy in case they forget that their playmates are breakable, and you don't want to purposely piss one off.

If you can convince the cougar that the leash was its idea, it'll go for it. And if it doesn't, all it'll do is turn the leash into a toy.
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 3/31/2003 1:11:34 PM

Um, not that I'd *actually* recommend a cougar to anyone with small kids. Small children might be mistaken for prey. {ouch}
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 3/31/2003 7:52:58 AM

Makes sense to me.

[my little virtual dragon] 3/31/2003 1:05:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |easily amused]
[Current Music |tv - msnbc - war coverage]

I got my draggy at http://howcute.cjb.net!!!
   

Comments:
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 3/31/2003 12:03:50 PM

Oooh, have you named it?

(also easily amused!)

[argh] 3/31/2003 8:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |completely stressed out]
[Current Music |tv - msnbc - the o'reilly factor]

I swear, I am fucking cursed. My dog bit someone this evening. We were standing in the kitchen, heard the door open, and then the dogs charged this girl. It turns out that she works for John, and thought that nobody lived here. It wasn't a bad bite, but the animal control guy showed up a bit later. I am supposed to quarantine the dog for ten days, and get proof of vaccine to him - the dog has lost her tags, so I will have to call the vet tomorrow.

This is, of course, just what I needed right now.

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 3/31/2003 9:02:10 PM

You know... I'm not really a suspicious person by nature, but that sounds incredibly suspicious to me.

She works for your landlord, with whom you've been having problems specifically regarding the animals, and she suddenly shows up and walks into your house uninvited and gets bitten? What a convenient coincidence for your landlord.

Doesn't sound like you're cursed to me hon, sounds like your landlord set her up to get bitten so that he could make trouble.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 3/31/2003 9:11:04 PM

Jeez... I AM a suspicious person by nature, and that never occured to me! =O

I don't know. I certainly wouldn't put ANYTHING past him at this point. Although if he knows anything about animal laws, that would be a really stupid move on his part... the dog is supposed to be quarantined now - meaning, she's *supposed* to stay in one room of the house, all the time, not even allowed to go outside.

At any rate, if he says anything to me about this, I swear *I'll* bite him.
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 3/31/2003 9:18:10 PM

Holy cow. *nods* It just doesn't sound right.
From: [info]muridae
Date: 4/1/2003 11:29:42 PM

Well, I think we've already established that your landlord is kind of a huge idiot, so...

If in fact he really did send that poor woman over to be bitten, then probably he was just trying to make trouble so that he could point at your dogs and show what a danger they are to everyone in the area, and how you're a bad tenant.

That's what I imagine, anyway. It could be completely far off from the truth.

[daily calorie intake] 3/31/2003 9:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |stressed out]
[Current Music |tv - the practice]

Two cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Water w/ lime juice and ice.
Dinner - Swanson chicken pot pie. Leftover cheese quesadilla. Regular Pepsi.

Exercise - none.

   

[today] 4/1/2003 7:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired and stressed out]
[Current Music |tv - abc - jeopardy]

I was all kinds of productive! I...

* balanced my checkbook
* picked up proof of dogs' vaccinations
* stopped at Sheetz and bought cigarettes
* stopped at post office for Priority Mail boxes
* stopped by U-Haul and got boxes and truck rental rates
* paid my phone bill, bought groceries, withdrew pizza money
* called animal control with dogs' rabies vaccine numbers
* stopped and rented a storage building for temporary storage
* stopped at CVS and bought care package stuff for nephew in Iraq
* called Verizon and had voicemail put back on my phone
* called and with a lender about Rusty's mortgage possibilities

Whew!

   

Comments:
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 4/1/2003 7:58:59 PM

Yeah! You're doing good!

[daily calorie intake] 4/1/2003 9:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music | tv - fnc - the o'reilly factor]

Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Dinner - about 1/2 cheese sub w/mustard and tomato. 5 mozzerella sticks. Regular Pepsi.
Orange juice.

Exercise - none.

   

[i am sam] 4/1/2003 11:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hopeful]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - war coverage]

I'm such a 'tard sometimes. It occured to me yesterday, in the middle of this housing mess, my freaking uncle is a realtor. You know why this occured to me? Because said uncle emailed me and basically said "Hey, remember me, your uncle? I'm a realtor."

Otherwise, I would probably still be sitting here, wondering who I could talk to about getting a house. Yeah. So anyway, I gratefully accepted his help, he gave me the name of a good lender, and the right names to drop, and I'm calling them tomorrow.

On a related note, my uncle is one cool old guy! He is in his late 70's, survived Normandy and the Battle of the Bulge in WW2, as well as stomach cancer and several heart attacks, and still has a job as a realtor and a new lady friend! He's a busy guy... :}

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 4/2/2003 12:02:39 AM

Wow, it sounds as though this could all work out wonderfully in the end. If you buy a house, you could build a goldfish pond. =)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/2/2003 9:34:39 AM

*swoon*

I want a goldfish pond... because then, instead of fancy goldfish, I could buy baby koi, and keep them in the tank until they get bigger, and then put them out in the pond! A pond would definately rock.
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 4/2/2003 7:53:05 AM

Wow that is great!! That will be a big help. And your uncle sounds like quite a guy!
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 4/2/2003 1:31:38 PM

Sorry to trot out a blatant Homerism, but "D'oh!!" So glad things are looking up, just don't go all Martha Stewart on us when you get a house of your own, and start making knitted plant-pot holders and stuff! ;)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/2/2003 6:29:02 PM

S'okay, I deserved that "d'oh!"

And I promise not to make knitted plant pot holders, if you'll let me to go on and on ad nauseum about my goldfish pond! :}

[top five reasons why i want to buy a house] 4/2/2003 10:10:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |ambitious]
[Current Music |silence]

* No more obnoxious landlord. Big ol' NOT WELCOME doormat.
* Can bury creepy dead rat collection that takes up freezer space.
* Goldfish pond. Can buy baby koi for fish tank and release them to pond when they get big.
* Can rip up carpet, if needed, paint things, build stuff. Dark purple ceiling with silver stars.
* Can bake Challah, and other Jewish goodies. They tried to kill us, we survived, let's eat.

   

Comments:
From: [info]slow_like_honey
Date: 4/2/2003 10:44:22 AM

yay for happy house-goodness! :D

[update] 4/2/2003 5:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hopeful]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]

Lender #1 called back today. Things are looking up.

   

[the object of my obsession] 4/2/2003 6:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |obsessed]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]


I want this house - three bedrooms, living room, medium-sized kitchen, dining room, attic, partial basement. Comes with dishwasher, stove, fridge, washer and dryer. Little path on the front for an arched trellis of wisteria, fenced backyard for the goldfish pond. It looks like a dollhouse.
   

Comments:
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 4/2/2003 6:25:38 PM

Ooh I like that, it looks kinda spooky!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/3/2003 9:56:50 AM

I think it's haunted. I haven't been inside yet, but I think an old lady died there, and now it's haunted.
On the other hand, I may just have a vivid imagination...

At any rate, I want it.
From: [info]jupiterjuniper
Date: 4/3/2003 9:02:07 AM

beautiful!

where do you live, exactly? that architecture is gorgeous, but we don't have anything like it here in FL...
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/3/2003 9:55:05 AM

Isn't it awesome? We live in the eastern panhandle of WV; and with the exception of the new subdivisions, most of our architecture is like this! Well, we actually have two types of cool architecture: Civil War era (there was a lot of action around here, and I know a couple of people whos homes were actually used as hospitals during the war!), and then houses like this one (Victorian, I think?). This particular house was built in 1909! :)
From: [info]cellio
Date: 4/3/2003 12:38:31 PM

Ooh, turret! I wonder what's in the round room?

Ours contains a bathroom, which was perhaps not the best inspiration.

From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/3/2003 5:29:19 PM

I absolutely LOVE turrets!!!

I'm assuming that it's a bedroom - all three bedrooms and the bath are upstairs, and bathrooms usually don't have that many windows. I'm *hoping* that it's the master bedroom, and that my plants will be going there. :)

Wow, your house is lovely! When was it built?
From: [info]cellio
Date: 4/4/2003 11:58:58 AM

Hmm, you're right. With all those windows, it's got to be a bedroom.

Our house was built in "approximately" 1910. Which is to say, the paperwork didn't give us an exact date (1910 was the seller's claim), but we know it was built before 1913 because we found a survey from that year that shows the house.

The county seems to think it was built in 1920. It's their survey, so they should know better, but when have bureaucracies ever been efficient?
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 4/4/2003 7:21:21 PM

I love it. I always wanted an old Victorian style home *sigh*

[the house] 4/2/2003 7:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |still obsessed]
[Current Music |tv - jeopardy]

We drove by the house, got out, looked around. It's so fucking awesome. Except, I think it's haunted by an old lady who died there. It has a huge yard, too.

   

[daily calorie intake] 4/2/2003 9:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - the west wing]

Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Dinner - Turkey bacon on rye toast w/mayo, mustard, and tomato. Potato chips. Diet Pepsi.
Orange juice.

Exercise - none.

   

[daily calorie intake] 4/3/2003 9:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |funky]
[Current Music |tv - nbc - will & grace]

Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Dinner - about 1/2 cheese sub w/mustard and tomato. 5 mozzerella sticks. Diet Pepsi.

Exercise - none.

   

[cell phone service] 4/3/2003 10:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |i want a new cell phone]
[Current Music |tv - nbc - er]

Does anyone use Sprint PCS? Is it good service? Are there a lot of hidden charges? If you use another service, what is it, and how do you like it?

   

Comments:
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 4/3/2003 10:09:59 PM

When Sprint laid my dad off, I cancelled my long distance and cell service with them. Bwahaha.

I'm with AT&T cellular now. I chose them because they start their "nights" at 8pm, afaik that's an hour earlier than anyone else in this market. I had great service until the ice storm in December, since then the service to my apartment hasn't been quite as good. Otherwise they're great.
From: [info]shann
Date: 4/3/2003 10:11:31 PM

I use em, they're okay.
From: [info]katarina42
Date: 4/3/2003 10:14:00 PM

We use Sprint PCS. It's pretty good. The thing I don't really like is how the "unlimited" night minutes of the night and weekend minutes don't start until 9PM central. If you make a call at 8:59 PM, it won't kick over automatically into night minutes - it goes on your limited daytime minutes :-P Of course if you go over on your daytime minutes for the month, the bill goes up quite a bit. I'm not sure about any other fees - there isn't one for using voice mail that I know of, but I think there's a charge to access the web on your phone.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/4/2003 11:05:22 AM

That kinda sucks about the time thing, though I'm as likely to call someone after 9pm as I am after 8pm (not very).
The 8:59 thing is very handy to know though, thanks!
From: [info]astralweeks
Date: 4/3/2003 11:29:00 PM

Unrelated

Renee, are you breeding rats anymore? I have been meaning to ask you, but I haven't seen you on AIM in a long time.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/4/2003 11:07:36 AM

Re: Unrelated

I haven't been lately (mostly because the rats wouldn't cooperate!).
I will probably start again once I get moved and settled in.
From: [info]astralweeks
Date: 4/4/2003 11:46:57 AM

Re: Unrelated

Cool. I know you have a waiting list, but maybe you could stick me on it? GMR has gotten a hold of me pretty hard lately...
From: [info]muridae
Date: 4/4/2003 12:03:04 AM

I use Sprint PCS. I've been happy with it. Except for up in the mountains, where the service is kinda unreliable, I've been able to use my phone just about anywhere I go, which is great. There aren't really any hidden charges. There's a $4.82 charge monthly for "Taxes, Surcharges, and other Regulatory Charges," which they only started adding to the bill recently. Oh, and I believe when I signed up for their service, the night/weekend hours lasted from 8PM to 8AM (which was a big factor in my choosing them), but now it's 9PM-7AM, which made for a really huge phone bill one month when I was calling people after 8 PM but before 9, thinking that my night minutes started at 8. Like, a HUGE phone bill.

But I have no complaints about their service. My phone isn't working correctly, but that's not Sprint's fault. So I guess I'd recommend them.

Oh! If you sign up for one of their special plans (like free long distance or whatever it is they're offering this month), you have to sign up for a year and if you cancel your service before the year is up you have to pay a $150 penalty. If you plan on switching providers it's probably not a good idea, but I've never had a problem with it because I've never cancelled my service.
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 4/4/2003 7:33:32 AM

We have AT&T. We got it originally because they had a shared minutes plan (and unlimited between the two phones), but now Husband has a cell phone from work. I kept it so I didn't have to change my number. But I have been very happy with the service so far.
One of my friends is getting ready to get Sprint because they also have some kind of unlimited minutes between family deal.

[friday five - housing] 4/4/2003 10:55:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |seems appropriate]
[Current Music |tv - abc stuff]

1. How many houses/apartments have you lived in throughout your life?

Wow. I need to break this one into sections to even figure it out. When I was a small child, I think we moved three times before buying the house on Oak Street (where my father still lives). When I moved out of that house, it was to Maryland, where I lived with husband-to-be #1. We moved back to this area and lived in two places before I traded him for husband-to-be #2. I moved with him into a mobile home, which later burned down. After that fiasco, I moved back in with my parents for a while, and then moved in with the Psycho Boyfriend. I escaped from PB's house and got my own apartment for the first time ever in 1995. Rusty moved in soon after, and since then, we have lived in two other apartments, including this one. So 13 or 14, I think.

2. Which was your favorite and why?

The house on Oak Street. I love that house. It's a brick cape cod with an awesome yard.

3. Do you find moving more exciting or stressful? Why?

Stressful. I have way too much stuff to be moving it from place to place.

4. What's more important, location or price?

Location, location, location.

5. What features does your dream house have (pool, spa bath, big yard, etc.)?

Wood floors (no vacuuming!), big rooms, lots of storage, a nice yard, a goldfish/koi pond.

[fridayfive.org]

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 4/4/2003 11:56:32 AM

that site where you got the questions is cool! i'll have to be sure i check it out.

[annie hall] 4/4/2003 12:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |tv - nickelodeon]

I just ordered my very first Woody Allen movie. I think it's a law or something, you can't be Jewish without appreciating Woody Allen, and it's hard to appreciate something that you've never seen. I did read the Moose bit recently, and nearly peed myself. Heh.

   

Comments:
From: [info]bioclaire
Date: 4/4/2003 1:22:34 PM

'annie hall' is a REALLY good movie. :)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/4/2003 2:34:27 PM

Cool! I haven't seen it, and neither has Rusty, so that's good to know! :)

[the pond] 4/4/2003 5:10:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |excited]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - while you were out]


Laurie, look! Lilypons is pretty close to me; you should come down one weekend and help me shop for koi fishies and pond supplies! They have plants...
   

Comments:
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 4/4/2003 6:11:56 PM

I hate to say this, but wouldn't it be better to secure permanent housing before buying large fish?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/4/2003 6:23:44 PM

I wasn't actually going to buy the fish yet; the pond needs to cultivate bacteria first. Even when I do buy them, I plan to buy them very small because I want to keep them in my aquarium for a while, so I can see them better. But I can buy plants RIGHT NOW.
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 4/5/2003 3:33:38 PM

Re:

go for it then!
From: [info]muridae
Date: 4/4/2003 6:23:22 PM

Does this mean you'll be getting the house?!?!?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/4/2003 6:25:09 PM

Well, not definately (I haven't even seen the inside yet!), but the lender seems to feel that our chances are good. :)
From: [info]muridae
Date: 4/4/2003 6:26:26 PM

Re:

OoooooooooOOOOOOooooooOOOOOOoooooOOOOOoooohhhh!

Getting the mortgage is the important part, right? I mean, once you have the loan secured you can use it for any house... right?

Uh, I know nothing about the way this process works.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/4/2003 6:31:00 PM

Right. And you can use it for any house that passes inspection - they won't lend you money to buy a dump. We're going to look at other houses to be sure, but I'm pretty certain that this is The House. Cross your fingers...
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/4/2003 6:28:47 PM

And isn't that a gorgeous bloom??? It's a tropical water lily, Mrs. Martin E. Randig to be exact. It's also $40 dollars, so maybe I'd want to start with something cheaper...? Also, it says it will live in a 7.5 qt container, if I get the plant before the pond.
From: [info]muridae
Date: 4/4/2003 6:32:49 PM

ARGH KEEP FORGETTING TO SEND YOUR SEEDS!

ARGH!

Yes, that's a really pretty plant! Water lilies are so gorgeous.
From: [info]sjcarpediem
Date: 4/5/2003 2:08:01 AM

Ooooh... Beautiful.
From: [info]muridae
Date: 4/5/2003 12:09:08 PM

Doesn't Lilypons just sound way too much like tampons?

Well, doesn't it?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/10/2003 6:20:33 PM

Only if you have a very warped mind. Why do you ask? ;)
From: [info]muridae
Date: 4/11/2003 7:56:04 AM

Re:

Juuuuuuust wondering...

[happy world rat day!] 4/4/2003 10:00:00 AM

purple_stardust


   

[daily calorie intake] 4/4/2003 10:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |mmm comfort food]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - faking it]

Four cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Handful of leftover potato chips.
Dinner - Matzoh ball soup. Challah roll. Regular Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

Comments:
From: [info]slow_like_honey
Date: 4/4/2003 11:31:31 PM

Oh oh oh! Did you see the drag queen episode? *hehe* I don't know what it is about drag queens but I am just so fascinated with them! :D I can't wait 'til I go to Manhatten this summer, I am so going to go see a drag performance I hope. I have to! (Okay, I think I'm done gushing about how much I love drag queens, which is odd, considering I don't personally know any :P)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/5/2003 12:23:17 AM

YES!!! I know, I've never seen a drag queen in my life, and I was all, well he's way too skinny to be a drag queen, lol. Actually, that was one of the UGLIEST bunch of DQs that I've seen; usually they're MUCH prettier, ya know? =D

[the house - an update] 4/5/2003 12:25:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |giddy]
[Current Music |tv - pbs - antique road show]

We went to see the house today. Oh. My. G-d. I LOVE this house. It was meant to be my house. It has etched glass in the front door. It has a huge wooden bannister. It has a pantry, and a foyer. It has gorgeous wood trim, all original. It has a beautiful built-in china cabinet. It has hardwood floors and pocket doors. It has a bathtub in the turret, where the plants go. It has a ghost.

We put an offer on it, for their full asking price.

   

Comments:
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 4/5/2003 7:49:02 PM

How exciting!!!!!!!
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 4/5/2003 10:34:03 PM

I hope it all goes smoothly...it sounds wonderful!
From: [info]thanny
Date: 4/6/2003 4:42:28 PM

ahhhh that's awesome! good luck and stick by the phone!
From: [info]jupiterjuniper
Date: 4/7/2003 9:07:15 AM

good luck!

and a full report!

[daily calorie intake] 4/5/2003 9:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |bouncy]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Part of a bottle of grape soda.
Dinner - Papa John's cheesesticks w/ pizza dipping sauce. Regular Coke.
Leftover potato chips.

Exercise - none.

   

[amazon order] 4/6/2003 12:00:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |the power of positive thinking]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - war coverage]

* Barron's Book of Koi
* Room and Furniture Layout Kit
* Trading Spaces: Behind the Scenes

   

[realtor just called] 4/6/2003 7:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |bouncy]
[Current Music |tv - msnbc - war coverage]

They accepted our offer. We have purple paint chips. Fear us.

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 4/6/2003 7:47:55 PM

THAT! MEANS! YOU! ARE! BUYING! A! HOUSE!!!

Right? It's official now, right?

Damn, two weeks and you go from a crappy apartment to a homeowner. That's amazing.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/7/2003 12:39:11 AM

Well, unless the loan falls though (and we think it will be fine), then yes. It's official.

/bounces off walls.

Ahem. Anyway, that's from a crappy apartment to home-with-3-bedrooms-and-a-turret-owner, thankyouverymuch. We're going to restore it to it's original glory, as much as possible, BUT. Wait until you see the ratroom. Heh.

So, umm, what are you doing in May? :)
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 4/6/2003 7:54:44 PM

Yaaaay! You do realise that you're now officially a grown-up!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/7/2003 12:40:23 AM

Don't be ridiculous... only Rusty is. ;)
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 4/7/2003 10:11:02 AM

*phew*

Got worried for a sec there ;)
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 4/6/2003 8:36:34 PM

Yay! Congrats.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/7/2003 12:43:36 AM

Thanks!
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 4/6/2003 9:26:15 PM

That's wonderful! I can't wait to see more pics.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/7/2003 12:42:24 AM

Me either! We keep driving by the place, lol. The neighbours-to-be probably think we're stalking them, but really we're only stalking the house. As I mentioned above, we want to restore it as much as possible, and I will be taking before and after pics. :)
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 4/7/2003 7:43:57 AM

YAYYYYYY!! You have just done something I've always dreamed of. Lucky you, congrats! :)
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 4/7/2003 8:07:38 AM

Congratulations!!!! I'm so glad for you. Everything works for the best -- you wouldn't have found this wonderful house if you hadn't been forced to move!
From: [info]jupiterjuniper
Date: 4/7/2003 9:18:34 AM

how wonderful; congrats!!!

yes, lots of pictures ! and purple paint!? oh, too good to be true. . .
From: [info]thanny
Date: 4/7/2003 3:45:01 PM

yay!!!!! what a great outcome....!

[daily calorie intake] 4/6/2003 10:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |tv - hgtv - extreme homes]

Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Dinner - TV dinner - chicken beef steak w/ gravy, mashed potatoes, corn. Rye bread.
Five almonds and one pecan.
Regular Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

Comments:
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 4/6/2003 10:31:39 PM

You've got a house now. Start working out again.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/7/2003 12:45:37 AM

Umm, yeah. Right now I am working with space issues - this apartment is filled with boxes, and I haven't seen the floor in ages!
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 4/7/2003 12:48:02 AM

Re:

excuses excuses. do you want a six pack or not? you should see the progress I'm making.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/7/2003 1:10:13 AM

No, it's YOU who wants a six-pack. *I* want to look like your mom. :-P
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 4/7/2003 1:24:20 AM

Re:

still. my mom goes running almost every day.

[gertrude] 4/7/2003 2:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |curious]
[Current Music |rusty's video game noise]

I think that my ghost's name is Gertrude. We went down to the courthouse and got a copy of her last will and testament, in which she leaves the house to her daughter, the seller.

The will went into probate on my birthday, in 1999.

   

Comments:
From: [info]jupiterjuniper
Date: 4/7/2003 4:38:48 PM

i'm so fascinated!
[and jealous!]

From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/7/2003 8:56:23 PM

I'm fascinated too... I want to talk to the local historical society, to see if I can find out anything else about her...
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 4/7/2003 5:13:39 PM

I can't wait to read more about your ghostie adventures. How do you know it's haunted, did the seller tell you? Where does the ghostie seem to hang out the most?

...very interesting!!!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/7/2003 7:28:33 PM

I just looked at the house and thought it looked haunted! However, once we were IN there, my mom said that she "sensed" it, plus Rusty said it was freezing in a way that he's only come across in his late grandparents' house, after his grandfather died. Even the realtor noticed that it felt weird, lol! I don't mind it though; it wasn't a creepy BAD feeling, or anything.

Have you heard of Susan Crites, who has written a couple of books about West Virginia ghosts? My mom hangs out with her, so if we really get the place, I want to get her to come in and see if she can tell anything. :)

[today's update] 4/7/2003 8:50:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - the o'reilly factor]

We paid the realtor a $500 deposit - "earnest money" - until the loan is approved.

Found out more about Gertrude - my mom's co-worker knew the family when she was younger. According to her, Gertrude was little and bossy... no wonder I can relate to her! Elsie said that she was nice though, just kinda mouthy. She walked with a limp. Her husband J Nelson was tall and thin and very quiet. They only had the one daughter, later in life.

Found out from realtor that the seller (Gertrude's daughter) has cancer, and not long to live, hence the sudden and dramatic drop in price, the selling "as is", and the push to sell quickly - they want to sell while she's still alive to sign the papers. Otherwise it goes into estate property, and will cost them a lot more. How sad, to have your mother dying, and spending your last weeks together with lawyers and realtors. So much for quality time. :(

   

[daily calorie intake] 4/7/2003 10:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sleepy]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - hgtv - design on a dime]

Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Dinner - Mac and cheese w/ parmeson. Regular Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[today] 4/8/2003 7:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |baffled]
[Current Music |tv - jeopardy]

We met with the lender and recieved a huge stack of papers to read and sign, releasing Rusty of all rights to financial privacy. I swear, if we get this house, I am never moving again. I know that it will be worth it in the end, but right now I just want it to be over.

   

Comments:
From: [info]sf_rose
Date: 4/8/2003 9:08:57 PM

I hate to say this, but welcome to Escrow Heck....

Hang tight...it'll all be fine.

I'm not moving either.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/9/2003 11:37:22 AM

I hate it. IHATEIT IHATEIT IHATEIT. I know that it will be better in the long run but right now I just hate it.



From: [info]sf_rose
Date: 4/9/2003 11:56:37 AM

If it weren't for the meds I was on (which I've been on before all this started) I'd probably would have killed several people right now.

Hang tight... It'll be worth it....But I hear you. OVER NOW. OVER NOW. KEYS IN HAND NOW.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/9/2003 12:08:16 PM

Hahahahaha! That's the problem, see... *I* am not on any meds right now. *I* might actually kill someone! ;)

Just think, in a few months, we'll both be in our very own homes... I think that THIS will help me pass the time until then. :)

[daily calorie intake] 4/8/2003 10:10:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired of paperwork]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - nypd blue]

Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Dinner - Turkey bacon on wheat toast w/mayo and tomato. Potato chips. Regular Coke.
Pack of Nutty Bars.

Exercise - none.

   

[from my mom] 4/9/2003 1:00:00 PM

purple_stardust

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 4/9/2003 2:21:49 PM

That artist makes some of my favorite cards. I haven't seen them anywhere in a while. You can get a catalog of her stuff at http://www.house-mouse.com

[birthday #29f] 4/9/2003 9:10:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - the west wing]



I recieved my new books from Amazon this morning, hooray... many fun things to think about.

My mom picked me up and I signed and cashed a ton of savings bonds for our down payment. Stopped at Sheetz to buy cigarettes and found the names of two different carpenters to call about potential closet-building. Stopped by lender and returned signed paperwork, paid $400 for house appraisel. Should know something in a few days. I hope.

Mailed horse-worming paste to Laurie. Because I care.

Came back here and opened birthday presents from Mom - she got me The League of Rats with Gustave Dore illustrations, a pink rubber duckie, and the uber-cool Gameboy Advance SP.

And then she took us out to El Ranchero for dinner, which is always yummy. :)
   

Comments:
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 4/10/2003 7:26:11 AM

Happy Birthday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/10/2003 6:27:29 PM

Thanks! :)

[today] 4/10/2003 6:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - hgtv]

Went to the post office, recieved nothing fun. Went to the bank and deposited savings bond money. Went to Petsmart and bought weasel chow for my mom, and cat food, treats, toys, and new collars for the obnoxious felines. Stopped at shoe store and bought a pair of Rockports and a pair of Reeboks for Rusty - paid a grand total of $33.43 for both pairs because the shoelaces were missing. I feel better now for offering full price for the house.

Came home, got a late birthday card from my grandma. Still no letter from Rusty's investment dude - I hope that it comes this week. Re-instated auto insurance policy. Wrote a check for deposit in Rusty's checking account. Registered a domain name for Ron. Called my mother.

Calling Papa John's and playing video games tonight. Blah.

   

[shopping] 4/10/2003 8:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |bouncy]
[Current Music |tv - whose line is it anyway]

My preciousssss...

* Sonic Advance 2
* Ultimate Brain Games

A shiny new Gameboy Advance SP requires new games, of course.

   

Comments:
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 4/11/2003 1:03:45 AM

:::jealous:::

*Throws GBA into fireplace*
"Don't destroy meeee..... I can still entertain yooou!"
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/11/2003 8:31:22 PM

Re: :::jealous:::

LOL! You should definately get the SP, even if you have the "old" GBA. It's annoying that they made a much cooler one so soon (Microsoft, anyone?), but it IS worth it. I have the original milky pink GBA, bought from Japan before they were released here, and I thought it was cool at the time, but this one is SO much better. The back-lighting makes all the difference, and I love being able to just throw it into my purse without worrying about scratching up the screen.
From: [info]thanny
Date: 4/11/2003 2:48:03 PM

ahhh 'ultimate brain games' looks awesome!! i have about 10 games now, but i mostly play the european scrabble cartridge. the zelda and mario games get me soooo frustrated....!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/11/2003 3:02:05 PM

Oh do NOT get me started on that bastard Mario... I bought Super Mario Advance when I got my first GBA, and I have yet to get past the first freakin screen!!! I sucked at the original too, but at least I could get somewhere and have FUN while I sucked, even if I couldn't beat it. Argh. :{

I have only four (soon to be six) Advance games, but a ton of regular GBC carts. I have the Dragon Warrior games, all of the Pokemons except for the two new ones, the original Super Mario, Zelda, Harvest Moon 1-2, Tetris, Monopoly... I have a couple of games that I haven't even tried yet. Some of them are great games, but they seem so tiny now on that "big" GBA screen, lol. Some of them (like Tetris) look okay stretched, but some of them look really weird.

The European Scrabble sounds fun; where did you get it?

[daily calorie intake] 4/9/2003 9:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |happy]
[Current Music |tv - the west wing]

Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Dinner - Cheese quesadilla. Refried bean taco. Regular Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[daily calorie intake] 4/10/2003 11:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |ookey pms]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - drew carey]

Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Dinner - Papa John's cheesesticks w/ pizza dipping sauce. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[today] 4/11/2003 7:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |alright]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - 48 hours (about ocd)]

I did very damn little, which was a pleasant change from the recent running around. I got up early, played Dragon Warrior Monsters on the new GBA SP, and then took a nap. Got up and sorted my used tinsel collection (don't ask), and have done little else today.

I did manage to finally work on our income taxes; must transfer figures from pencil and mail them in on Monday. Hooray for juicy refunds!

   

Comments:
From: [info]the_never
Date: 4/11/2003 8:40:56 PM

You got the Gameboy Advance SP? What do you think? I think it looks neat and all, and I can definitely appreciate the backlight. But I got a keen little fliptop light for my Gameboy that works out ok.

From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/11/2003 8:57:18 PM

Yeah, my mom got it for me for my birthday... I have the Atomic Purple GBC and the Milky Pink GBA, but I can see right now that they're going to be gathering dust, lol. This thing ROCKS!!! The backlighting is completely cool (I hate the glare from external light sources), plus even though the screen is the same size as the original GBA, the backlighting makes it LOOK bigger. The flip-top part is great too, especially if you like to drag it around, or if you have kids or pets to knock it off of your desk/table. And it's so tiny and cute!!! I love this thing. =)

[daily calorie intake] 4/11/2003 9:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |bored]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - while you were out]

Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Dinner - Mozzerella sticks from Anthony's. Regular Coke.
Red seedless grapes.

Exercise - none.

   

[pms hell] 4/12/2003 7:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |not good]
[Current Music |tv - hgtv - bargain hunt]

I would just like to rip out my uterus with my bare hands and stab it to death with a pitchfork.

That is all.

   

[daily calorie intake] 4/12/2003 9:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |crampy]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Lunch - leftover cheese quesadilla and mozzerella sticks.
Dinner - Stouffer's cheese ravioli. Regular Coke.
Snacks - Nutty Bars. Potato chips. Cheese Nips. Slim Jim. Ferrero Rocher. More Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[three things] 4/13/2003 10:31:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |crampy]
[Current Music |tv - meet the press]

Gakked from damn near everyone...

Three little quirks you have that not everybody knows.
--] I don't wear underwear, or bras, or clothes that "touch" me.
--] I don't use metal utensils because of the noise that they make.
--] I am a compulsive counter - I count everything and it must add up to a number that I like.

Three things people SHOULD know about you if they want to get along with you better.
--] Don't touch me. Ever.
--] Don't expect me to dress up for you.
--] Do not underestimate my intelligence, or my propensity for revenge.

Three odd things currently in your purse, wallet, or pocket.
--] A plastic spork.
--] Two old 110 slides.
--] A tiny stuffed pocket rat (gift from Jane).

   

[today] 4/13/2003 8:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |icky]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

We were having our morning coffee, and planning on being constructive today, when Rusty's brother Rick showed up. He lives in Annapolis MD, but was up here for something else, and stopped by with belated Xmas gifts. We took him over and showed him the house... his wife is a doll restorer and antique collector, so he could appreciate the coolness of this place. I think he and Faye are going to come up and help us with some of our restoration projects, if we get it. I hope we get it. And then he took us out for lunch, and we had a nice visit.

   

[daily calorie intake] 4/13/2003 8:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Lunch - part of a grilled cheese sandwich and about five french fries.
Dinner - Mozzerella sticks from Anthony's. Regular Coke.
Snack - Lorna Doone cookies with milk.

Exercise - none.

   

[photo op] 4/14/2003 12:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |excited]
[Current Music |tv - nickelodeon]


I ordered a new doll for Sarah; I thought she would go well with the new house. I'm thinking black and white photos on the steps, in the flower beds, by the bannister. Vintage photo ops!

Laurie! Did I ever show you the pictures of the house and its flower beds?
   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 4/14/2003 12:33:21 PM

No! You did not! I only saw the one picture of the front of the house! I need to see these pictures!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/14/2003 12:40:50 PM

Well what the hell is wrong with me, eh?

Pictures of the house can be seen here: http://www.purplestardust.ziggabella.com/house - you can see the bannister, which is a nice example of the woodwork, and the etched glass door, and the bathtub in the turret (needs paint!), and the turret itself, plus some backyard shots, including the daffodil bed and my purple lilac. In the shot of the whole yard, there is a spot closest the house where the grass is dead (it looks like they used to have a shed and moved it) - that's where the koi pond goes. :)
From: [info]muridae
Date: 4/14/2003 12:48:40 PM

Re:

Who puts in a bathtub in a room with that many windows? :)

I love the little details in the corner of the steps.

The whole place looks like it needs a little work but is SO beautiful underneath the dust! It's got such fabulous woodwork and windows and, yeah, I'm so envious!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/14/2003 1:03:42 PM

The windows are frosted, and that little shelf is where the plants go... it's going to be like a little rainforest, and actually, your slider tub is what I'm using for inspiration. =D

The little brass thingies in the corners are to keep dust from collecting there. How cool is THAT?

The bathroom needs the most work... the other rooms are fine except I don't like the colours, so they're getting painted anyway. I also plan to have it professionally cleaned before we move in, because the walls need to be cleaned, and I don't want to tackle that. We're going to do all the painting ourselves, however. The woodwork is SO COOL, and except for in the kitchen, it's all original and unpainted. The floors could stand to be re-finished, but it isn't so urgent as getting rid of that awful paint colour and that tacky-ass wallpaper border. And it needs better lighting.

Structurally it's awesome. Rusty jumped up and down and hung from attic beams, and the place is solid. The roof is new, the electrc is new, and the furnace is new. All of the appliances except for the fridge are less than three years old.

I am so psyched.
From: [info]angel_renewed
Date: 4/14/2003 12:49:46 PM

Getting in on this late

Have you ever owned a Victorian house or had to re-do one? If you need _any_ information or help on this: let me know. I gut restored a 1910 Victorian cottage a few years back and I wish *I* had known some things ahead of time!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/14/2003 1:09:09 PM

Re: Getting in on this late

I *WILL* let you know, thanks! =)

This house was built in 1909, and it isn't in awful shape, but we WOULD like to restore it and be as historically accurate (at least in the lower rooms) as possible. The woodwork is original and unpainted in all the rooms except for the kitchen and bathroom, and those two rooms also have some unsuitable "improvements". They're not as bad as where I live now, that was clearly redone in the 1970's, but they're not Victorian-looking, either. Any tips or advice you have would be much appreciated!!!
From: [info]angel_renewed
Date: 4/14/2003 1:28:52 PM

Re: Getting in on this late

1909? Cool. Mine was most likely in worse shape than yours. There was no functional kitchen or bathroom AND holes in the exterior walls. So, take some of the below with that in mind. The things I think I most didn't realize up front:

* The cost of heating. My house was only 1,000 square feet and could easily run $300 a month. If your house isn't insulated, you can get insulation blown in. Definitely worth it.

* Salvage stores. Salvage stores are your friend. You can find a lot of authentic woodwork, fixtures, etc. there.

* Windows. Does it have new ones? If not, be prepared to fight any remodeler tooth and nail. They all want to 'update' your windows. That means either spending ludicrous cash on custom replacements or downsizing what are probably gorgeous existing windows.

* Interior - Do NOT listen to Martha Stewart and her minions. Victorians HATED consistency. They would do one room in dark, Oriental tones and the next room in light French floral country. This whole idea of having the interior 'flow' is new and, frankly, irritiating in a Victorian home. For that matter, stay the hell away from Bob Villa, too.

* Wiring. We fritzed the wiring the first winter. It was only 70 AMP. 70 AMP=BAD.

* Some books I used
Authentic Victorian Interiors
Re-release of classic bo
From: [info]angel_renewed
Date: 4/14/2003 1:33:24 PM

Re: Getting in on this late

G_D DAMNIT!! LJ ate the end.

ANYWAY,
the book you absolutely MUST have is This One. Hands down the best book I've ever had for all phases of renovation and restyling.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/14/2003 8:28:40 PM

Re: Getting in on this late

This is so freakin' awesome, thanks! =)

Re: the boring not-fun stuff - it DOES need insulation, definately. Our wiring, however, was updated in 2002, so that should be good. That was actually a huge selling point for me. The furnace and roof are also new.

The bathroom is a mess, but usable, same with the kitchen. They need aesthetic help, but are functioning. As you can see in the photos, the place needs to be painted, and those hideous wallpaper border yanked down. At some point, I would like to refinish the wood floors, but they aren't disgusting now.

The window trim outside needs to be painted. I *think* that the windows have already been replaced, as there were storm windows, and they looked new. I'm not sure whether to go with the practicality of keeping the new storm windows, or the prettiness of trying to find originals. Thoughts? I saw another Victorian home in town that had stained glass borders in the windows; I really liked that!

Will keep in mind that different decor styles are okay - that one will be a hard one for me. Just so nothing looks too modern, I think I'll be okay. We might actually go with an Asian-inspired bedroom; we saw a really pretty one on TS a few nights ago. My biggest decorating problem is, I'm a big chicken-shit. I fear change, I fear colour, I fear drama. I want to paint everything pale sage because I know that it's safe. I would never consider painting a room burgundy, for example, even though I see other people do it and know that it can work. I am a weenie.

Anyway, thanks for the tips; am off to shop Amazon now!

[daily calorie intake] 4/14/2003 9:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |itchy]
[Current Music |tv - the practice]

Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Dinner - Green Giant pasta alfredo and broccoli. Regular Coke.
Potato chips. Nutty Bars. More Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[news flash] 4/14/2003 11:30:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |such a news whore]
[Current Music |tv - fox news channel]

Law enforcement officials removed a badly decomposed woman's body Monday from the beach at a park near Point Isabel, one day after an infant boy's body was found along a trail about a mile away. East Bay Regional Park district police summoned police from Modesto, where officials have been probing the disappearance of 28-year-old Laci Peterson for months.

Shit. Now I'm going to be up all night, watching the news.

   

[in other news] 4/15/2003 12:05:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |gluttonous]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - war coverage]

I don't know if anyone watches Fox News Channel, but if you've seen their embedded reporter Rick Leventhal, we found out this weekend, that's where our nephew Brice is. We knew that he was in Basra and headed toward Baghdad (there now), but just found out about Rick Leventhal being with his division. Kinda neat, since FNC is what we usually watch.

   

[amazon order] 4/15/2003 10:25:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |shopperific]
[Current Music |tv - fox news channel]

* Victorian Cat Paper Dolls (for Sarah)
* Victorian Mouse Paper Dolls (for Sarah)
* American Family of 1900-1920: Paper Dolls in Full Color
* Bicknell's Victorian Buildings: Floor Plans and Elevations for 45 Houses
* Victorian House Style: An Architectural and Interior Design Source Book

   

[daily calorie intake] 4/15/2003 8:50:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - the o'reilly factor]

Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Dinner - Papa John's cheesesticks w/ pizza dipping sauce. Regular Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[the biggest bitch on the block] 4/16/2003 10:25:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |guilty]
[Current Music |tv - abc fluff]

This morning, I dropped Max and Mojo off at the vet clinic to be de-nutted. Max has been mad at me ever since I took away the food bowl last night, and they were NOT pleased with being shoved into carriers and going in the car. They didn't like the ugly dog who had the nerve to be there too, and they didn't like being examined by the vet tech. I didn't have the heart to tell them that their day is only going to get worse...

   

Comments:
From: [info]wampithesilver
Date: 4/16/2003 11:04:41 AM

awwwws... poor guys...

I think baby cat still hates me for having him neutered... Luckily neko came that way so he can't hate me.
From: [info]lunza
Date: 4/16/2003 3:10:40 PM

And just in time, too -- lookit the way they're groping each other. ;)

From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/16/2003 3:53:48 PM

LOL! They used to do more than just grope! =D
From: [info]lunza
Date: 4/16/2003 6:50:39 PM

Re:

Send that one to http://www.mycathatesyou.com. ;)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/16/2003 8:28:57 PM

OMG, some of those are HYSTERICAL! I hadn't seen the site; thanks for pointing it out! =D
From: [info]lunza
Date: 4/16/2003 9:48:47 PM

Re:

I love it ... some people don't, though (if you read the letters section)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/16/2003 10:02:54 PM

Some people have no sense of humour. Were you witness to the big Bonsai Kitty scandel? *snicker*

[there is a g-d!] 4/16/2003 10:35:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |excited]
[Current Music |tv - abc fluff]

Simon and Garfunkel: The Concert in Central Park is coming out on DVD!

   

[home again] 4/16/2003 5:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |still guilty]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]

I picked up my two very stoned and nutless kitties. They seemed relieved to be home, but they're still wobbley and not eating yet. Poor little stoned kitties.

   

[a personal note] 4/16/2003 8:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sympathetic]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - the o'reilly factor]

Laura - I'm so sorry about Biana. :(

   

Comments:
From: [info]jacquez
Date: 4/17/2003 11:00:17 AM

thanks. she was such a sweetie. :(

josephine tried to comfort me by sticking her foot up my nose last night. that made me laugh.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/17/2003 11:22:52 AM

Yeah, some of them are just extra-special.

I also find that in times of sadness, that it helps to have a friend... with their foot up your nose. ;)

[daily calorie intake] 4/16/2003 10:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - upn - dharma & greg]

Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Dinner - Marie Callender fish with mac and cheese and broccoli. Regular Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[the problem child] 4/17/2003 10:05:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - pbs - seseme street]

I had to take Max back to the vet this morning; "the area" was bleeding and oozing and looking altogether disgusting. They assured me that it wasn't really as bad as it looked, but put him on Amoxicillin to be on the safe side. In case anyone wonders, forcing foul-tasting pink medicine into a very large, strong, and angry feline is NOT fun.

The Max Cat has always been my Problem Child. If there are fleas to be had, he will have them. If there are ear mites to be had, he will get them. If there is a cold to be had, he will catch it. He has already lost most of his teeth, sounds like Darth Vadar, and is allergic to plastic.

I will never get another purebred cat.

   

Comments:
From: [info]angel_renewed
Date: 4/17/2003 10:21:58 AM

What a gorgeous kitty! I love purebreeds, but they DO require more care. [info]darthmordred got an eye scratch when he was young that required us to keep our 1 BR (with no real doors) apartment in the dark for 3 days. He also is VERY picky about water for some reason. Otherwise, he's actually less neurotic than Bob's tuxedo mutt cat.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/17/2003 10:51:02 AM

Ooohhh, Mordred is so pretty (albeit quite sinister, I'm sure). Is he black smoke? I used to have a black smoke persion; he was the most beautiful cat ever... and much sweeter than Mr Cranky Pants, here. I think a lot of Max's problem is, he is PURE-bred, but not neccessarily WELL-bred. He was a gift from my ex, who bought him at a pet store... so I assume that he came from the equivelant of a puppy mill. :\
From: [info]angel_renewed
Date: 4/17/2003 10:53:39 AM

Re:

Yes, Sir Mordred is a black smoke. I had bought (and have papers) for a black persian only to have him end up a smoke. I figure I got the better end of it, as smokes are pricey. Mordred certainly can be a sweetheart, when he's not trying to take over the world.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/17/2003 11:07:28 AM

They are pricey, but they're SOOO pretty. Mickie was one of the prettiest cats that I'd ever seen.

You might want to remind Mordred that when you're trying to take over the world, people take you more seriously when you don't look so cute. Unless, of course, that's part of the plan. :)
From: [info]wombatrat
Date: 4/17/2003 12:57:01 PM

best purebred cats = ragdolls
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/17/2003 1:47:26 PM

That would be my first choice, too - they're so big and pretty, but without the respiratory issues that Persians can have. I would love to have a Ragdoll or a Maine Coone, though Rusty wants a Bengal, lol. At this point, I would settle for a cat that doesn't get every weird ailment that comes along. :\
From: [info]blairmaru
Date: 4/17/2003 3:05:04 PM

I had a maine coon, before my cat allergy got so out of hand.
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 4/18/2003 2:41:43 AM

Wow, Solo is five years old and while he IS allergic to plastic, he has never gotten ill. Well, once when he was younger he got an eye infection, and when I first brought him home he had worms. But that was all some time ago. The rats are the real source of vet bills. ;)
From: [info]clarice
Date: 4/18/2003 7:11:26 AM

pound cats = unique, cheap, and relatively-problem free.

Plus the warm fuzzy feeling of knowing you saved something from certain death.

I mean, what's better than that?

[passover wishes] 4/17/2003 12:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |guilty]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]

Happy Pesach, to those who observe.

I am not observing this year. My Judaism stuff is packed up already, my rabbi is out of commission, there isn't a chance in hell of me getting this apartment cleaned of hametz or anything else for that matter, and I have way too much other stuff going on right now.

I suck as a Jew.

   

Comments:
From: [info]topi
Date: 4/17/2003 12:43:43 PM

I still respect you *hug* and G-d still loves you *hug*
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 4/17/2003 4:35:02 PM

You and me both. :(
Things didn't work out as planned this year so here goes yet ANOTHER holiday that I'm not observing. I've done a lot of passover-related reading the last week to try to make up for it a bit. Next year though I WILL be doing passover.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/17/2003 6:14:42 PM

Yeah... according to the last newsletter, my rabbi is having a baby and leaving the synagogue - between that and the big move, everything is kinda in limbo. I am hoping that *one of these days* things will settle down and I can get back to it and convert already. I will see what I think of the new rabbi, but more than likely I will just start going to the synagogue in Frederick MD - they're more conservative, have formal classes, and have Saturday morning services (I don't like to go out on Friday night). First, I just want to get moved. ::: sigh :::

Is everything okay?
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 4/17/2003 7:21:27 PM

Yeah, everything is good. Things got kinda screwed up for me because Matt didn't sign up for his Hillel seder in time, so we couldn't go and his family is having like a gazillion guests over for their seder so it wouldn't be a really good time for me to do the whole 'meeting the parents for the first time' thing. Next year though, plus the high holy days this year will be observed. Matt and I already have plans to go to his parent's temple for services. That's a while from now though, I should already be in Ohio by then.

Sounds like this other synagogue is better! I loved going to the classes when I was converting. In fact, I may even go to even more once I settle in somewhere. I'm thinking about, one day, re-converting into conservative because I'm not terribly happy with the way I was converted.

[holy crap] 4/17/2003 1:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amazed]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

Doctor Robert Atkins, whose best-selling low-carbohydrate, high-protein diet was dismissed as nutritional folly for years but was recently validated in some research, died Thursday, his spokesman said. He was 72. Besides his wife, Veronica, Atkins is survived by his mother, Norma. Now, if Atkins was 72, how old must his mother be???

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 4/17/2003 2:09:07 PM

She could be 84. =P
From: [info]ariestess
Date: 4/17/2003 8:10:18 PM

*snicker* Good point...
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 4/18/2003 1:10:34 AM

Did he die of clogged arteries?

(okay that was mean, shouldn't poke fun at the dead.)

[omg!] 4/17/2003 3:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |excited]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

There is a rat in my apartment! Not one of my usual rats, but a wild rattus rattus. I need to think of a good way to catch her - I wouldn't mind keeping her, but more than that, I don't want to leave her here and have the next tenants kill her. Hmmm...

   

Comments:
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 4/17/2003 4:28:29 PM

Could you really keep her? Are wild rats carriers of mega germs? . ;P

It would be good if you could get her out of there though before someone kills her.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/17/2003 6:08:19 PM

People HAVE kept wild rats (I know three people who have), but they found abandoned babies and raised them from birth... I doubt a full-grown one could ever been tamed. They don't carry a lot of germs, either - the biggest concern is that she would have mites, and give them to MY rats. Mites are species-specific, so no one else would get them, but the pet rats could. :\
From: [info]arkady
Date: 4/17/2003 7:20:09 PM

I doubt she's actually rattus rattus, as they are actually rare and an endangered species; more likely she's a wild rattus norvegicus. I wouldn't bother trying to keep her once you've caught her, as she's grown up wild and captivity would actually be cruel to her.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/17/2003 7:30:51 PM

I don't think they're very rare here - in fact, I've known three people to keep them as pets (one is Muridae, who you've might have seen from my friends list, and another is Jane Adamo of the ratlist). They got them as tiny babies and raised them though, so you're probably right about not keeping her - I doubt that she'd ever be tamed.

Still, I want to catch-and-release her, as I am sure that my idiot landlord would put out snap traps, or glue.

I thought at first that she might be a *very* small Norvy, but according to this page: http://www.pestproducts.com/roof_rats.htm she sounds like the Alexandrine rattus. She definately has a grey belly.

I just hope she doesn't have babies somewhere... :(

[daily calorie intake] 4/17/2003 9:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - nbc - will & grace]

Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Dinner - 1/2 cheese sub and mozzerella sticks from Anthony's. Regular Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[stuff] 4/18/2003 2:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |cold]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

Took "good faith estimate" to lender yesterday, picked up an addendum about closing costs (who pays what) from realtor, signed and returned that. I called the realtor today; she has faxed the addendum to seller's realtor to sign. She also told me that the lender saw a copy and thinks that she can order the appraisel based on that, and that things are "moving right along". I hope so! I really just want to get this over with, so that I can move into my pretty dollhouse and start painting. I want to take a bubble bath in my turret, dammit, I have no time for paperwork.

I saw Nikki (the wild rat) again today. Last night, she took a piece of dog food from my fingers! I ordered a live trap for her; I hope it comes soon. Rusty wants to catch her too, so that Asshole Landlord doesn't kill her. I kinda thought that he (Rusty) might freak out that there was a wild rat in the house, but he seemed fairly unflustered by the news. I'm starting to think that he's been with me too long. I'm fairly sure that normal people don't like wild rats in the house.

Today I am working on sorting and packing photos. It is exercises like this that make me realise that I have no organisational skills whatsoever. Bah.

   

[shopping] 4/18/2003 4:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |goofy]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

In anticipation of future projects, I have ordered the official Trading Spaces smocks - one for me and one for Rusty. In purple, of course. We are such dorks.

   

[a random conversation] 4/18/2003 7:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sick of michael jordon]
[Current Music |tv - abc - jeopardy]

Me: IF I wasn't afraid that I'd go to hell and IF I wasn't afraid that it would lead to more annoying tributes, I would wish that Michael Jordon would just get hit by a car and die, but since I don't want to go to hell and I don't want to see any more tributes or specials on the news, I'm not going to wish that.

Rusty: You make a good Jew, Renee.

   

[daily calorie intake] 4/18/2003 9:50:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |yucky]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - tlc - while you were out]

Four cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Dinner - Swanson fish with mac and cheese. Leftover cheese sub. Regular Coke.
Snack - Lorna Doone cookies and milk.

Exercise - none.

   

Comments:
From: [info]arkady
Date: 4/18/2003 10:02:29 PM

Out of curiosity...are these daily calorie intake posts simply Friends-only, or a custom friends posting?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/18/2003 10:36:11 PM

Custom filtered... I have a friend who is recovering from anorexia, and she can't see them (because of possible triggering when I begin to diet again), my mother can't see them (lest she worry), etcetera.

[today] 4/19/2003 8:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |antiquey]
[Current Music |tv - pbs - as time goes by]


I went antiquing with my mom. I ended up buying a pair of kid leather gloves, three old lace doilies, three pretty hankerchiefs, a tea cup from England, a silver mouse thingie (I think that it's meant to hold rings?), and a pretty antique sugar bowl type thingie from West Germany.

I also bought the purple Blenko water bottle, which isn't old, but is cool as hell.

And then I came home and Rusty and I went out and rented movies - The Grey Zone, Insomnia, Scotland PA, and My Big Fat Greek Wedding. Hooray!
   

Comments:
From: [info]blairmaru
Date: 4/19/2003 8:28:15 PM

Eep! I have a cobalt blue blenko water bottle. I keep my knitting needles in it. You really should drive down here some day, Blenko is only fifteen or twenty minutes from my apartment. They only do tours on weekdays, though.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/19/2003 8:55:32 PM

I know, we want to! Actually, I would like to tour several of the WV glass plants... there's Blenko, plus one in Jane Lew, and there is this one guy named Jim Davis who makes the coolest marbles ever. I love marbles.
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 4/19/2003 9:34:01 PM

Cool stuff, I love the mousey-thing! Can you drool over Maura Tierney for me while you're watching Scotland PA? I'd reaaally appreciate it!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/19/2003 9:49:02 PM

I was probably going to do that anyway; Maura Tierney = definately hot. But I will think of you while I drool over Maura! :)
From: [info]muridae
Date: 4/19/2003 10:11:06 PM

That water bottle is great. How big is it? It's very cool.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/19/2003 10:18:03 PM

8" high. You can have one of your very own here: http://www.blenkoglass.com/acatalog/Online_Catalog_Original_Water_Bottle_27.html :)
From: [info]muridae
Date: 4/19/2003 10:24:17 PM

Re:

That would be really pretty to grow a vine in...
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/20/2003 9:43:51 AM

It would! You could put pothos or philodendron cuttings in it, or fresh or dried flowers, or Blair up there keeps her knitting needles in hers. You can even use them to put water in, which I would probably do if my water didn't already come in jugs. I was just going to put mine in the window. I'd like to get the cobalt and emerald, too, but the violet is my favourite.

Also, they're VERY heavy glass, very sturdy, so I am not so paranoid about breaking it, as I am some of my other pieces. :)
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 4/22/2003 3:22:24 PM

How pretty. I love stuff like that :)

[daily calorie intake] 4/19/2003 9:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |annoyed]
[Current Music |dvd - the grey zone]

Two cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Lunch - grilled cheese sandwich with chips. Regular Coke.
Dinner - Papa John's cheesesticks w/ pizza dipping sauce. Regular Coke.
Snack - Whoppers (malted milk balls).

Exercise - none.

   

Comments:
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 4/19/2003 10:00:58 PM

Get back on that abslide!

[today] 4/20/2003 8:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - pbs - nature: leopards of yala]

We took the boys up to visit my grandmother. It was nice; we took walks in the woods and hunted for bones, and then had lunch. The kids were well-behaved, but it was a long day.

   

[daily calorie intake] 4/20/2003 9:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |dvd - my big fat greek wedding]

Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Lunch - Deviled eggs, baked beans, mashed potatoes, broccoli w/cheese, roll. Milk.

Exercise - none.

   

[the morning] 4/21/2003 1:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |not at all pleasant]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

Went horribly. We have been trying, for some time, to replace Rusty's lost drivers liscense. According to the DMV, we never have quite the right proof of identity. He was off work today, so we tried again, and got into a huge fight, resulting in him referring to me as an "ignorant bitch" in front of my daughter - despite the fact that *I* have managed to replace my freakin liscense and he hasn't. I am really really really pissed. Things are not good.

   

Comments:
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 4/21/2003 7:29:29 PM

Grrr...is all I can say. That is definitely on my top five list of things that 'you just don't do'.

[daily calorie intake] 4/21/2003 10:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sick]
[Current Music |tv - the practice]

Three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Regular Coke and vodka.

Exercise - none.

   

[battle imp] 4/22/2003 4:55:00 PM

purple_stardust








Purple Stardust's
Battle Imp

is
Who's your battle imp?
Eaem

Backstabbing: 1
Dodging: 8
Guts: 6
Magic Mojo: 3
Smackdown: 5
















Will your battle imp beat Purple Stardust's?
Enter your name and fight.



   

Comments:
From: [info]tues
Date: 4/22/2003 7:50:33 PM

argh!







Tues's
Battle Imp

is
Who's your battle imp?
Alin

Backstabbing: 8

Dodgin': 4

Guts: 2

Magic Mojo: 2

Smackdown: 1















Will your battle imp beat Tues's?
Enter your name and fight.


From: [info]sf_rose
Date: 4/22/2003 9:14:38 PM

*CaCkLe*

I reign surpreme!

"We are the champions, my friends...!"

[daily calorie intake] 4/22/2003 8:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungover]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - the o'reilly factor]

Breakfast - vodka and Regular Coke.
Lunch - 1/2 raisin bagel w/cream cheese.
Dinner - leftover chicken, baked beans, mashed potatoes, roll. Regular Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[update - not really] 4/23/2003 4:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |nervous]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Talked to realtor this afternoon; she says that the appraisel will be done within the next few days. The lender is going to try "aggressively" to get pre-approval, so that when the appraisor says that the house needs closets to pass, the seller will go ahead and let us in to build them.

This is all so complicated...

   

[movie reviews] 4/23/2003 5:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |thoughtful]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - while you were out]

Since we so rarely rent "new" movies, I thought I would make a note of the ones we watched:

The Grey Zone: Wow. This was by far the best of the ones we rented. I was really concerned with watching a Holocaust drama that starred David Arquette, but he didn't annoy me at all in this. It was a very thought-provoking drama, and actually inspired semi-deep theological discussions the next day. I think that the people who worked in the Sonderkommando groups could be excused, according to halacha, since they were basically doing it to save their own lives, at least for a while. Morally, however, I don't see how you could live with yourself if you did participate, especially if you knew, which it appeared that they did, that they would die in the end, anyway. Of course, the particular group in this movie was doing it with the intention of destroying the cremetoriums, so I would think that would make a difference. The good of many, and all that Spock-stuff. On the other hand, Spock didn't help to kill his own people. On the other other hand, it wasn't like the Jews wouldn't have been killed, if not for these people. At the end of the movie, there was a bit about this group being the twelfth of thirteen groups. I wish it would have said what happened to the thirteenth Sonderkommando, if any had lived. It would be interesting to hear their stories, to know how they had managed to live with themselves after committing such terrible acts. I know that I can't sit here, safe in my comfortable home with my well-stocked fridge, and even begin to speculate what it would have been like to be in that position, but I imagine that it would be very difficult to live with yourself, afterwards.



My Big Fat Greek Wedding: What can I say; we were the last people on the planet to see this movie, and it was as good as everyone said that it was. While comedies, romantic or otherwise, are not my favourite genre, it was an enjoyable film, and very funny.

Scotland PA: The DVD was damaged, so we didn't get to see it at all. Lynsey, I will re-rent another copy of it when I return these, and drool appropriately.

Insomnia: I heard that this movie was critically trashed, and I don't know why. It has Al Pacino and Robin Williams, so I thought it was a safe bet, and my hunch was correct. I didn't find it as creepy as promised, but Pacino is always a pleasure to watch, and it was an interesting character study, especially since I have always suspected that if I were a cop with a shaky case, I would do the same thing that Pacino did. On the other hand, there is a line, and that line can be fuzzy. And Pacino, even with a severe lack of sleep, is a babe.

   

Comments:
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 4/23/2003 6:36:31 PM

Aww no Maura... she's so fickle! I like MBFGW far more than I expected too, I usually despise romantic comedies, I prefer my films to be a little more 'out there', but I thoroughly enjoyed it.

I've spent the last couple of nights thinking about the Holocaust too actually. Over the weekend Channel 4 showed a brand new adaptation of Anne Frank's diary and it left me (as usual) in an absolute mess, they actually shot the after-story (for a change) in Westerbork, Auschwitz-Birkenau and Bergen-Belsen which added to the emotional turmoil really. I'm the sort of person who gets through life by telling myself that "everything is for a reason" but this is the one thing that I can never seem to get right with in my head. I can almost always get to the point where I tentatively 'forgive' the rank and file of the SS, they were doing a job in order to save their own lives, but I too wonder how on Earth anyone could live with that, how they could go home at night and sleep. I've seen so many documentaries, read so many books and have yet to see anyone admit shame, guilt, remorse. Maybe they just dissociated from it so totally because if they let the reality of what they did sink in then it would drive them insane? I think there are some things that are so beyond human understanding, that we'd love to know more about but just can't, and that it's all (somehow) fulfilling a greater purpose. The wretchedness has passed now, I seem to reach a stage beyond comprehension, totally wracked with grief and shock whenever I watch anything like this or read about it. I obviously didn't meet any of my grandfather's relatives or friends but the sense of loss after watching something like the Anne Frank dramatisation is so powerful and raw, it's a sense of disbelief and of wanting it not to be real. I suppose that's a good thing in a way because when something like this loses the power to shock and to horrify then I guess we're all in trouble.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/23/2003 9:13:20 PM

Perhaps the people of the Sonderkommando could justify their survival if they lived to tell the story to future generations. But still, in the movie, it sounded like they KNEW that they would be ultimately killed, and I can't see going along with such atricities if you knew that you'd die anyway.

As for the Nazi soldiers, we can only assume that Hitler had them convinced that the Jews WERE bad. Rusty speculated that Hitler was able to convince them that because Germany was in turmoil, the Jews were to blame. That is ridiculous, of course - the whole world suffered the depression - but perhaps they had limited scope of world events, and it's always easier to blame someone else for your problems. People WANT to have a scapegoat.

Still, it's horrifying to think that people were so barbaric, so recently. :(

Have you seen the Anne Frank movie where Ben Kingsley plays her father?
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 4/23/2003 9:49:38 PM

Yeah that was the one on here over the weekend with Ben Kingsley and Brenda Blethyn, have you seen it? It was good to see Anne portrayed with some sense of realism instead of as a whitewashed 2D character. It was extremely hard to watch but so necessary I think.

My thoughts too have been that people were so brainwashed into believing that the Jews really were to blame for the dire straits that Germany was in. I've seen some of the propaganda films and I really truly do believe that some people believed that they were in danger, that their children were in danger... playing right into Hitler's hands. I know that a lot of Germans still carry a weight of guilt for what happened, they're probably the least warlike nation in Europe (especially at the moment.. *ahem*) . I always try and think over what I'd do if I was faced with that sort of decision but it's so hard to even stretch my mind that far. You're right, people want, even need a scapegoat sometimes, I can see it happening on a smaller scale since Sept. 11th with Middle Eastern people being viewed with suspicion. It troubles me that here in the UK the people who need the most help, displaced from their countries and families are now being ghettoised and targeted by so-called 'nationalists' in a way that never fails to remind me of the treatment of Jews in Europe in the last century. Sad that people never seem to learn from the lessons of the past, isn't it? Still, as long as there are free-thinking tolerant types like us around then we can still live in hope and spread happiness through Simon and Garfunkel songs! I'll dig out my dad's copy of Wednesday Morning 3am and put on Last Night I Had the Strangest Dream and use my powers for good instead of evil ;)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/24/2003 12:48:04 PM

Yeah that was the one on here over the weekend with Ben Kingsley and Brenda Blethyn, have you seen it?

Yes, that's the one! I have it on DVD. I SO love Ben Kingsley - I've seen him in three movies - as Otto Frank, as Oskar Schindler's bookeeper, and as the hookah-smoking caterpillar in Alice in Wonderland - how's that for diversity! I thought that the little girl (Hannah Taylor Gordon) who played Anne was really good, too. She was in another movie about that time period, called Jakob the Liar. Robin Williams plays Jakob; you might want to check it out.

And spreading hope and happiness though Simon & Garfunkel is ALWAYS a good bet... :)
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 4/24/2003 1:12:42 AM

David Arquette in a holocaust movie huh? Interesting. He annoys me too!

I thought that Insomnia got good reviews? Maybe I am wrong.

And Pacino, even with a severe lack of sleep, is a babe.


A-fucking-men sister! =)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/24/2003 12:37:49 PM

He IS annoying, but he's very subdued (obviously) in this movie, and not so bouncy and obnoxious. If I didn't know he was in it, I don't think I would have known that it was him.

I am going by second-hand reviews - when I said that we'd rented it, my mom said that she thought it had been trashed by the critics... BUT. She may have been thinking of One Hour Photo, Robin William's other foray into darkness, lol. At any rate, I thought Insomnia was great. Is it just me, or does Pacino have the best fucking hair in the world?

[this evening] 4/23/2003 8:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |silly]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - the o'reilly factor]


Today I aquired a wild rattus and a new cell phone. The rattus will be released when I find a suitable location. The cell phone will be activated when it finishes charging. Both are very cute.
   

Comments:
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 4/23/2003 9:54:02 PM

Oh he's a handsome one! Hopefully he'll find a pretty girl-rat when you release him into his new habitat :) Cute phone too, if there's anything finer than a shiny gadget or a furry creature then I've yet to find it, heheheh!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/24/2003 12:33:02 PM

Umm, I think she IS a pretty girl-rat... I see no giant goolies like the males (at least with Norvies) have. =)
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 4/24/2003 1:29:03 AM

Wow, that rat looks like Moe! O_O
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/24/2003 12:23:10 PM

Didn't I say something to that effect when you got Moe - "ooh, she looks like a rattus!" LOL ... It actually occured to me that she could be someone's escaped pet, but she has the grey underbelly. She's a pretty little thing!
From: [info]muridae
Date: 4/24/2003 9:13:32 AM

Oh, what a cutie! How did you manage to catch her? How is she dealing with life in the cage? Is she spazzing out like crazy and chewing the bars? Shneek used to chew the bars all the time, even though he was used to living in the cage.

Whee, new phone!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/24/2003 12:30:18 PM

I bought a live trap here: http://www.doyourownpestcontrol.com/ - I caught her within 24 hours. The poor little thing was so hungry, always trying to get my rats' food, and now that I see her up close, she's skinny, at least compared to my guys. She spazzed out at first and tried to chew a hole in the cage bars, and then she was determined to climb out, but she seems a lot calmer now. She seems to like the Igloo that I gave her, and she seems VERY fond of the dish of food that I gave her.

Was Shneek Niko's brother, or another wild rat altogether?

[daily calorie intake] 4/23/2003 11:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |annoyed]
[Current Music |tv - drew carey rerun]

Breakfast - three cups of coffee w/ sugar and fake cream.
Lunch - croutons with fat free salad dressing.
Dinner - pimento spread on rye toast. Regular Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[south park jew] 4/24/2003 12:05:00 AM

purple_stardust


Average Jew
Eh. I'm an Average Jew.
   

[stuff] 4/24/2003 11:55:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |happy]
[Current Music |tv - nickelodeon]

Got my shiny new phone activated this morning. It has a panda on the screen, and it's so pretty and shiny. I have no idea how to set it up, and no one has the phone number, but it's really cute, and it matches my new Gameboy. Pretty little silver flippy toys...

Anyway. I went to the post office this morning, and picked up Annie Hall. I apparently forgot to cancel the Director's Selection for April, because they sent me Red Dragon, as well. It stars the ever-creepy Anthony Hopkins, and claims to be "a journey into the mind of Hannibal Lector" ... which sounds really cool, unless it sucks, as sequels (or prequels, in this case) often do.

I also got some CDs that I'd ordered, including Little Girls by Tori Amos, Mad Season and Yourself or Someone Like You from Matchbox Twenty, and a comedy CD from Woody Allen (includes the Moose bit!), so I'm a happy camper. For Sarah, I got a CD of lullabies, and Where the Sidewalk Ends - as recited, sung, and shouted by Shel Silverstein. I dearly loved that book when I was a kid, so I thought the CD would be fun for her to read along to.

I came home to find that Marlboro had sent me a nice Zippo lighter - which is odd, considering that I don't smoke Marlboros. But hey, it's a free Zippo to light my Camels with, so I'll take it.

There was also a Jewish Source catalog, and Rusty's bank statement, which we've been waiting for, so it was a good mail day, all around.

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 4/24/2003 3:00:24 PM

Hey, do you still have a CafePress shop? Do they do colored t-shirts yet, or is it still all white t-shirts?

--> wants to open a shop, but hates white shirts
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/24/2003 5:07:18 PM

Just ash grey, I think. You can see all the stuff to make and sell here: http://www.cafepress.com/cp/info/products/viewall.aspx - there is a lot of new stuff.

[shhhhh] 4/24/2003 2:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |chilly]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

For those of you in the extra-special filter, the new phone number is 304-279-1173. :)

   

[the voice of doom] 4/24/2003 5:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |worried]
[Current Music |tv - pbs kids]

Okay, now I'm really nervous...

Yesterday, Rusty got a raise. This is good news, because it looks good on the loan application, and it will also be helpful with the higher monthly payment, if we get the house. That's cool.

Today, I got the shiny new phone hooked up, and I was pretty giddy about that. Then I got all sorts of really cool mail, and I thought that was really cool, and I even started to get paranoid that things were going a little TOO well. And then...

I'd ordered this doll on Ebay a while back, April 14th, to be exact. The seller had said that she would send me a UPS tracking number when it shipped. I waited, and it never came, and finally today, I emailed her about it, and asked if the doll had been shipped. She just emailed back and said that there had been a clerical error on their part, and so she was refunding my money and sending the doll for free - a $50 doll, at that, plus shipping.

Things are going entirely too well. Clearly, something horrible is about to happen.

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 4/24/2003 5:34:16 PM

enjoy it while it lasts. :)
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 4/25/2003 8:35:00 PM

Nooooo that's excellent! When the time is right, things seem to fall into place. I think these are excellent signs :)

[daily calorie intake] 4/24/2003 8:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |narfy]
[Current Music |tv - nbc - friends]

Breakfast - three cups of coffee w/sugar and fake cream.
Lunch - one chicken nugget and three french fries. Regular Coke.
Dinner - Papa John's cheesesticks w/pizza dipping sauce. Regular Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[wisdom] 4/25/2003 11:25:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - pbs - teletubbies]

Depression does tremendous damage.
Use every ploy you can think of to bring yourself to joy.


- Rebbe Nachman of Breslov

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 4/25/2003 11:44:40 AM

that's a great quote... :)
From: [info]tues
Date: 4/25/2003 12:39:56 PM

therapy is the best ploy. stay away from alt.suicide.holiday

[house update] 4/25/2003 4:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |excited]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Because I knew ya'll couldn't stand the suspense...

The realtor called today. They did the appraisel. There are some things that need to be fixed, which we knew. Apparently, the lender called her and left a message and asking if we had a preference in lawyers; she was going to go ahead and get one to start the title search and stuff. Betty feels that it wouldn't have come this far if we weren't going to be getting the loan, so she thinks that all is good on that front, and now it's just a matter of doing some minor repairs. Yay!

We're going over to look at it again tomorrow. Eep!

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 4/25/2003 5:27:27 PM

Yay!!! :)
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 4/25/2003 8:05:35 PM

Gooood!
From: [info]kimikohime
Date: 4/25/2003 10:22:05 PM

Woo! ^_^

[nice pants] 4/25/2003 9:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |happy]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - while you were out]

Happy happy, joy joy...

I went out to buy clothes to wear tomorrow (yeah, I do this when I'm too lazy to do laundry; consequently, I have a LOT of clothes). Anyway, I bought a cute pair of jeans without trying them on (because I never try stuff on). They're Liz Claiborne Petites, size 6. They fit.

I still want to lose another twenty pounds, but the diet is on hold until after we get moved. I haven't been taking the diet pills, I eat whatever I want, I went back to non-diet soda, and I stopped exercising since I have no floor space because of the packing efforts.

But still. Size 6. Hoo-wah.

   

Comments:
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 4/25/2003 10:27:23 PM

Have you considered the Atkins Diet?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/26/2003 8:28:58 AM

I have. I actually think it sounds like a pretty cool diet plan, and I know people who've had success with it. Unfortunately, I have two problems with it for me - one, I rarely eat meat, which seems to be the staple of Atkins. The other issue is, you have to give up all sugar. Now, I have no problem with giving up sugar as in sweets (candy, cookies, etcetera). The problem *I* have is, no sugar = no coffee. And without coffee, I'm basically a vegetable... :)

[daily calorie intake] 4/25/2003 10:10:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |tv - law & order]

Breakfast - three cups of coffee w/sugar and fake cream.
Lunch - Handful of leftover potato chips. Regular Coke.
Dinner - Macaroni and cheese. Regular Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

Comments:
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 4/26/2003 2:10:09 PM

Listen up: Exercize (Well, excercize AND proper diet. but if I had to pick just one it would be exercise) is the best way to lose weight. Muscle burns fat, even when you're not doing anything. With the proper exercise regimen, you will gain muscle mass. You will then be able to burn more fat faster. Diet helps too. So GET BACK ON THAT ABSLIDE, SOLDIER.

[happy happy happy] 4/26/2003 1:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |giddy]
[Current Music |tv - msnbc news]

   

Comments:
From: [info]wampithesilver
Date: 4/26/2003 1:42:32 PM

wasssthat?
From: [info]cellio
Date: 4/28/2003 11:44:27 AM

Looks like lilac to me, but if so, hers is a lot earlier than mine. :-)
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 4/26/2003 3:02:00 PM

pretty! Spring time makes everything just seem so much better.
From: [info]amaterasu
Date: 5/1/2003 11:47:00 AM

Luuuurve lilacs. It's wonderful to see them blooming again (I kinda missed them last year).
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/1/2003 12:01:00 PM

Yeah, they're so pretty. I just wish they bloomed longer...

I love that usericon, btw. It reminds me of one that I made a while back:
From: [info]amaterasu
Date: 5/1/2003 3:49:25 PM

Thank you! It's nice to have an icon for my artsier pursuits.

[today] 4/26/2003 8:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |excited]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

We met the realtor to go over the repairs that need to be done, and she gave us a key to get in to do them. Then I met with a carpentry guy to discuss the professional repairs and get estimates. The guy is a pentacostal preacher (scary!) but my mom knows him and says that he's okay. Things are starting to move now. We're getting a house. Wow...

   

[daily calorie intake] 4/26/2003 8:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |weird]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Breakfast - three cups of coffee w/sugar and fake cream.
Lunch - raisin bagel with cream cheese. Regular Coke.
Dinner - Papa John's cheesesticks w/pizza dipping sauce. Regular Coke.
Snack - Mini M&Ms and milk.

Exercise - none.

   

[this morning] 4/27/2003 1:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - hgtv - landscaping show]

We dropped off laundry to be washed. As it turns out, you can pay people to do that, too. Hooray! I actually don't mind doing laundry if I have my own machines, but going to the laundromat, as far as I'm concerned, is a fate worse than death.

And we went to Lowe's and spent about $150 on spackle, tools, and primer. Holy crap. I had forgotten how expensive it is to actually fix shtuff. Still, we have everything that we need (barring any incidentals) to make it pass appraisal, so we should be good to go for now. The things that WE want to do will cost a lot more, but can be done at our leisure.

Now I just need a babysitter... ack.

   

[daily calorie intake] 4/27/2003 9:10:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |dvd - apocolypse now]

Breakfast - one cup of coffee w/sugar and fake cream.
Lunch - provolone cheese. Regular Coke.
Dinner - Anthony's cheese ravioli and mozzerella sticks. Regular Coke.
Snack - Whoppers and milk.

Exercise - none.

   

[phone stuff] 4/28/2003 2:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |cold]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

I added Wireless Web to my phone service; I think that it's needed for text messaging and also to download ringers and stuff. And I also need to program my phone book thingie, so I can call people without remembering their phone numbers. And I also need to set up voicemail; I hate to do that because I can't stand listening to my own voice. I always use the default message on voicemail for the landline, just so I don't have to record my own, but I guess I have no choice with this phone. And I also need to read the user guide, so that I know how to do these things.

The project du jour: I want to make a cell phone case out of an old cigarette pack. Why? Because I can. I'll just have to make a hole for the antennae...

   

[cliche kitty] 4/28/2003 2:00:00 PM

purple_stardust


You are The Cliche Kitty!

   

[daily calorie intake] 4/28/2003 8:50:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - the o'reilly factor]

Breakfast - two cups of coffee w/sugar and fake cream.
Lunch - deviled egg stuff on rye toast w/ mustard. Regular Coke.
Dinner - leftover cheese ravioli and mozzerella sticks. Regular Coke.
Snack - Lorna Doone cookies and milk.

Exercise - none.

   

[today] 4/29/2003 12:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sad]
[Current Music |tv - nickelodeon]

Today is Yom HaShoah - Holocaust Remembrance Day. I wasn't sure what would be appropriate for me as far as prayer, so I made a donation to the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum, instead. I very much suck at praying for the dead, so instead I shall pray for the people who survived, that they find the peace that they deserve, and that people continue to remember and learn from their experiences, and that collectively, we never let such atrocities happen again.

"It is utterly impossible for me to build my life on a foundation of chaos, suffering, and death. I see the world being slowly transformed into a wilderness, I hear the approaching thunder that, one day, will destroy us too, I feel the suffering of millions.

And yet, when I look up at the sky, I somehow feel that everything will change for the better, that this cruelty too shall end, that peace and tranquility will return once more."

---Anne Frank, 15 July 1944

   

[daily calorie intake] 4/29/2003 10:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |tv - nypd blue]

Breakfast - three cups of coffee w/sugar and fake cream.
Lunch - pimento spread on rye toast w/ mustard. Regular Coke.
Dinner - pre-made five cheese lasagna w/italian bread. Regular Coke.
Snack - vanilla wafers and milk.

Exercise - none.

   

[quack] 4/29/2003 5:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]

I wish Rusty would hurry up and come home with the car. I have things to do, and I need coloured duct tape to do them, dammit. Speaking of duct tape, look at the Duck Tape Club contest winners! Ha! And I thought that *I* needed to get a life...

   

[help?] 4/29/2003 6:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |pathetic]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]

This is the post where I reveal the true depths of my pathasia [1]. I want to make a duct tape wallet for Rusty. Tacky, yes, but practical, as he has a tendancy to get his wallet wet at work, or lose it altogether. Plus, duct tape amuses me. The problem is, I need to make a template for this wallet, and I don't have a freakin dollar bill! Rusty still isn't home with his money yet. So. Could someone please hold up a dollar bill to a standard bank check, and tell me if they're the same size? Or just measure a dollar bill for me? Please?

[1] Pathasia (noun): The state of being pathetic. Not really a word, but I like it.

   

Comments:
From: [info]wampithesilver
Date: 4/29/2003 7:21:29 PM

6 1/8 x 2 5/8
or same length as a check but a litte wider
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/29/2003 7:50:23 PM

Thank you!!!!! :)
From: [info]wampithesilver
Date: 4/29/2003 7:52:38 PM

Re:

welcomies!

[survey thingie] 4/30/2003 2:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]



01. What's the story behind your lj username? Purple_Stardust: My first username was Stardust95 (based on a Bowie song and the fact that I met Rusty in 1995); I decided to update the name by adding "purple" ... and, I just like the concept.

02. Have you ever had a makeover? No. I had an engine over-hauled once; does that count?

03. Name all members of the Beatles. John Lennon, Paul McCartney, Ringo Starr, George Harrison. And once, Pete Best.

04. What's the longest time you've stayed out of your country, and where were you? I haven't.

05. One thing you're grateful for today? I don't have to leave the house.

06. What is your favorite high school memory? Drama competitions, I guess. I hated high school, for the most part.

07. Describe your dream wedding. David Bowie in tails, me in a silk gown, a quiet beach.

08. My first heartbreak happened when I was: I dunno, 18 or 19 maybe, when Doug #1 moved back to California.

09. What do you plan to do this summer? Renovate, restore, re-decorate.

10. What is your favorite song right now? I really don't have just one.

11. Write a line from any song. I am the walrus. Koo-koo-katchoo.

12. Describe your dream house. One that is fireproof and paid for.

13. Your typical sleepwear: Tee-shirt and shorts, or nothing, depending on where I sleep.

14. What's in your wallet? I don't have a wallet, so I will describe the things in the pocket of my purse, where I keep wallet-type things. Okay. I have my drivers liscence, a credit card, voters registration card, video rental card, an old receipt from ear-piercing, Rusty's health insurance card, scrap of paper with miscellaneous phone numbers, my bank card, Petco Pals card, phone card, Sprint PCS reference card, Ziggabella Rattery business card, Picture People Portrait Club card, $45, several Claire's punch cards, and a card from Shenandoah Eye Center saying that I've had LASIK surgery and no longer need corrective lenses to drive a car. Oh, and a Hello Kitty change purse with $2.21 in change.

15. How much money do you have in your wallet right now? Umm... if I had a wallet, it would be $47.21.

16. Tell us about any of your birthdays. They're always on April 9, and I get older every time I have one.

17. What are the first five things you would splurge on if you were a billionaire? A house in Jersey, a goldfish pond, an indoor pool, a purple Volkswagon Thing, and a huge Mac.

18. What is your daily going-to-bed ritual? I lay on the sofa and play my Gameboy and watch TV until I fall asleep.

19. What is the weirdest/funniest nickname anyone has ever called you? She Who Must Be Obeyed.

20. Name three of your favorite cartoon characters. Ren and Stimpy and umm, either of the Angry Beavers.

SUDDENLY, A NEW SET OF QUESTIONS? WHAT'S THIS ALL ABOUT?

01. What do you most like about your body? It works.

02. And least? It needs a tummy tuck.

03. How many fillings do you have? I dunno, several.

04. Do you think you're good looking? Eh. I'll do.

05. Do other people often tell you that you're good-looking? It has happened.

06. Do you look like any celebrities? Someone once said that I looked like a girl from "A League of Their Own", but I haven't seen the movie, and don't know who he was talking about.

WHAT THE? WHY DO THEY START OVER AGAIN?

01. Do you wear a watch? No. I don't care what time it is.

02. How many coats and jackets do you own? 2 leather, 3 denim; I never wear any of them.

03. Favorite pants color? Black or denim. NOT black denim.

04. Most expensive item of clothing? Probably the Levi's denim jacket.

05. Most treasured? I do not treasure clothing.

06. What kind of shoes do you wear? Converse Chuck Taylors, always.

07. Describe your style in one word. Comfortable.

FRIENDS

01. Do your friends 'know' you? Some of them.

02. What do they tend to be like? Umm, different.

03. Are there traits in you that are universally liked? I have no idea. Where is the list of universally-liked traits?

04. How many people do you tell everything to? Nobody.

05. How many people tell you everything? Nobody tells me anything. :P

LOVE

01. Are you in a relationship right now? Yes.

02. Rate it on a scale from 1-10. Off the scale, one way or the other. Which way, depends on the day. Bipolars in love.

03. How 'far' have you been? Minnesota.

04. What song reminds you of your special someone? 'Faith' by The Cure.

05. Have you ever loved a person so much that it hurt? Love is painful by default.

06. How many people do you say 'I love you' to on a daily basis? Two.

07. Have you ever cheated on your significant other? Not on the one I have now.

08. If not, would you ever if given the chance with the guy/girl of your dreams? No.

ENTERTAINMENT

01. Favorite band/singer ever? David Bowie.

02. Most listened to bands/singers? David Bowie, The Cure, Pink Floyd, Nirvana, Pearl Jam. Simon and Garfunkel.

03. Do you find any musicians good-looking? David Bowie, Kurt Cobain, Eddie Vedder.

04. Can you play an instrument? No. I would like to play piano, though.

05. Type of music most listened to? Rock, I guess.

06. Type never listened to? Rap, gospel, most country.

07. Favorite books? Alice in Wonderland, anything by Stephen King or John Saul, non-fiction.

UNMENTIONABLES

01. Ladies, do you like to wear thongs? Good Lord, no! Why would I want something wedged in my ass?

02. If so, why? Because I DON'T want something wedged in my ass, that's why! Duh.

03. Boxers or Briefs? Neither, on me. I prefer boxers on men. Or boxer briefs.

04. There is no number 4. This annoys me.

05. What is the nicest colour for underwear? Black, I guess. Or grey. Or purple.

06. Do you find it uncomfortable without a bra? I do not own a bra.

07. Do your bras fit properly? See above.

08. Do you ever wear a vest? No. I am enough of a dork without that.

09. Do you make it a habit of showing people your underwear? I have none to show them.

RELIGION

01. Do you detest religion? I guess it depends on the religion.

02. How do you think this universe was formed? I don't know; I wasn't there.

03. There is no #3, either. Why can't these people count?

04. If you currently follow a religion, do you think people who belong to another religion are ignorant? Not neccessarily.

05. If you were in a hostage situation, and you were given a choice, to either praise the demon they follow or die, what would you choose? To save my ass? Sure. Niiice demon.

HOMOSEXUALITY

01. What is the first thing you think when you see two gay guys or lesbians holding hands? Hmmm, those people must be gay. Seriously, I really don't know - I don't notice people.

02. Do you detest homosexuality? If the homosexuals have no problems with it, *I* certainly don't care.

03. Do you agree or disagree with gay or lesbian couples bringing up children? I think homosexuals probably make better parents, because they have to work at it, instead of getting pregnant by accident. Otherwise, I don't think that parental skills are based on sexual orientation.

OTHER CRAP QUESTIONS

01. Whom do you believe is the smartest man alive at the moment? Bill Gates.

02. What do you prefer, a sunny or rainy day? Rainy.

03. Do you consider yourself lucky? At the moment, yes.

04. Do you feel pity for people who commit suicide? It depends on why they did it.

05. Choose one word to describe how you feel most often. Baffled.

06. What are you afraid of? Fire. Bugs. Losing a limb.

07. What (or who), in your opinion, could you not live without? My daughter.

08. If you had to choose, would you rather die in pain or die alone? Alone.

09. Five bands/singers that you couldn't live without. David Bowie, etcetera. See above.

10. Two people that have influenced your life the most. My mother, Rusty and my kids.

11. One thing you could spend the rest of your life with. I would prefer to spend my life with more than just one thing!

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 4/30/2003 5:47:35 PM

02. Have you ever had a makeover? No. I had an engine over-hauled once; does that count?

I'm pretty sure it doesn't.

05. How many people tell you everything? Nobody tells me anything. :P

That's not troooooooo! I tell you lots of things. I even make SEKRIT POSTS that only you can see. =P
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/30/2003 6:54:45 PM

Ahh, true... YOU tell me sekrit things. Everyone just tells me that I owe them money, or that they want to be fed. :\
From: [info]muridae
Date: 5/2/2003 10:28:15 AM

Obviously this "Everyone" is very greedy.

[random stuff] 4/30/2003 3:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

* I went out to Lowe's last night and bought coloured duct tape - red, orange, yellow, green, blue, as well as basic black and standard silver. I made the wallet; it turned out pretty well, except I didn't make the inside pockets quite wide enough, so cards and stuff have to be inserted vertically instead of horizontally, like I had intended. I will try it again later.

* I also stopped at Sheetz and ran into an old friend [1]. He gave me his email address and told me to keep in touch, which of course I won't. He's an okay guy, but I don't want to be friends.

* And then the asshole landlord stopped by, wanting to know when we were going to be out. I told him that we were scheduled to close on May 15, and he didn't seem to have a problem with that. Not as if I care if he DOES have a problem. Evict me, motherfucker, see what it gets you.

* Became annoyed when several people kept posting back-and-forth one-liners on my rattery mailing list about their petstore litters. Asked them to stop and changed list to moderated.

* Still working on cigarette pack cellphone cases.

[1] By old friend, I mean a guy who I used to talk to a lot (usually while drunk), and occasionally have sex with (usually while drunk), without the pretense of dating. Youthful indiscretions, and all that.

   

[an alarming revelation] 4/30/2003 4:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |alarmed]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

I do not like my father, so much so that he doesn't even have my current phone number, and won't be told where we're moving to. I really don't like him. This is not a revelation. What IS shocking, is how much I'm like him, sometimes. This is NOT a good thing!

This guy is the cheapest man on the planet. He makes his own wine. He rolls his own cigarettes. He makes good money (he's a computer programmer), but for years he hung on to a Ford Pinto that was entirely held together with foam filler and beer cans. He firmly believes that anything worth fixing, can be fixed with duct tape. I just fixed my busted leather chair with duct tape.

At least *I* used matching black duct tape. He would have used silver, because it's cheaper...

   

Comments:
From: [info]ariestess
Date: 4/30/2003 5:23:56 PM

Ahh...but does he buy 2ply toilet paper and then separate to get twice as much for hte same price?

And duct tape is the magic cure-all for everything!!!!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/30/2003 5:43:01 PM

No, but he did once tell us not to use more than four squares at a time! Needless to say, we ignored him... =D
From: [info]wampithesilver
Date: 4/30/2003 6:21:00 PM

Duct tape is like the force. It has a light side, a dark side and it holds the universe together...
:)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/30/2003 6:45:58 PM

Indeed. =D
From: [info]muridae
Date: 4/30/2003 5:49:48 PM

MY dad fixes things with hammers. =D Give it a good old whack, that'll fix it right up! (Not.)

That's why my mother does all home repairs. =P
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/30/2003 6:21:23 PM

Our fathers should start their own repair business. Your father could bust things up with a hammer, and my father could stick the pieces back together with duct tape! Nothing would ever really be repaired, but they would have a helluva good time. =D
From: [info]muridae
Date: 5/2/2003 10:29:06 AM

Smashinating and breakifying... maybe we should introduce them. :D
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 5/1/2003 11:26:50 AM

I read about this website at the doctor's office this morning and couldn't wait to come back home and post it to you. LOL

http://www.ducttapefashion.com/
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/1/2003 11:40:46 AM

OMG, did you see some of this stuff?!? See, this is where I draw the line. Duct tape wallets are cool, if you're a cheapass and make them yourself, but paying someone else $10 to make you a duct tape wallet, just defeats the whole purpose. Still, who knew there was such a market... =D

[there is a g-d] 4/30/2003 6:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |obsessive]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]

This is my fifth - and last, I swear - post about duct tape. But honestly, this is far too thrilling to not post about. I have found and ordered purple duct tape from Tapemonster.com. Yes, I am that pathetic; I am actually thrilled by purple duct tape. I need help.

   

Comments:
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 4/30/2003 7:06:05 PM

Now that is the *last* thing I would have thought to come in purple...
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/30/2003 7:12:33 PM

I know, me too! But with the internet, all things are possible. =D
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 4/30/2003 7:20:21 PM

I love the internet! And look...they even have glow in the dark tape! I going to share this link with my kids. I bet they would love it!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/30/2003 7:23:35 PM

I love the coloured electrical tape, too - it's fun to decorate notebooks and stuff. I know, what am I, like, 12 years old?
From: [info]ariestess
Date: 4/30/2003 7:15:15 PM

Oooooers....

purple duct tape? I must have some.... *maniacally gleeful HarleyQuinn-type laughter*
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 4/30/2003 7:22:06 PM

Re: Oooooers....

I knooow, isn't that freakin COOL??? If you go to tapemonster.com, they have the best price, but they don't have a photo of the purple, BUT, I found the same tape on another site - http://www.identi-tape.com/duct.html - and it IS a pretty shade of purple.
From: [info]alison_says
Date: 4/30/2003 11:37:29 PM

Holy crap that's cool!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/1/2003 10:20:00 AM

I know! Wouldn't leaky pipes look WAY cooler if they were wrapped with PURPLE duct tape???
From: [info]amaterasu
Date: 5/2/2003 12:38:35 PM

When I worked in a lighting equipment warehouse, we had a million and one different colours of electrical & gaffer's tape, which we used to mark the shipping crates. I found a lot of it rather amusing... but purple and cammo duct tape takes the biscuit.

[daily calorie intake] 4/30/2003 8:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - the o'reilly factor]

Breakfast - three cups of coffee w/sugar and fake cream.
Lunch - pimento spread on rye toast w/ mustard. Regular Coke.
Dinner - kosher franks on rolls, potato chips. Regular Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[random babbling] 5/1/2003 11:10:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |panicky]
[Current Music |tv - pbs - teletubbies]

Got the estimates from the carpenter dude last night... ouch. I mean, we'll figure out a way to come up with the money, but still. We could save a lot of money if we painted the exterior trim ourselves, but we don't own a ladder, and even if we did, neither of us should be trusted on it.

On a related note, I checked the IRS website to see when we'd be getting our federal refund... by May 20. You know, right after we need the money. Bah.

   

[daily calorie intake] 5/1/2003 8:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |podgey]
[Current Music |tv - friends]

Breakfast - three cups of coffee w/sugar and fake cream.
Lunch - pimento spread and leftover potato chips. Regular Coke.
Dinner - Papa John's cheesesticks w/pizza dipping sauce. Regular Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[music folder] 5/1/2003 11:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |confused]
[Current Music |mp3 - elton john - mona lisas and mad hatters]

I downloaded a bunch of "codec" files today, and finally I can watch AVI and VCD files with audio, hooray! I spent the afternoon watching Ren and Stimpy (Space Madness!), and old Guns 'n' Roses videos; that was completely excellent. And I'm downloading Nirvana videos now. Heh.

I'm also trying to clean out my MP3 folder. Actually, I'm just trying to figure out what all's IN my MP3 folder, and label it correctly. Some of this stuff I recognise; others, not so much.

Laurie: I know that you're the one who recommended the Nick Cave; I have a lot of that. I also have a song with no artist listed, it's just called "Wonderful Life" - do you recognise that?

And does anyone know who the hell Vanessa Carlton is?

   

Comments:
From: [info]jacquez
Date: 5/2/2003 12:34:48 AM

"Wonderful Life" is probably by Black. Do the lyrics go something like "No need to run and hide, it's a wonderful wonderful life"? If so, yes, it's Black, and if you like it, I've got more of his stuff. :)

I also have almost everything Nick Cave has ever done, so if you need more Nick, I can hook you up.

Vanessa Carlton is...some piano-playing chick, I think, who has had a few MTV hits recently.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/2/2003 10:10:34 AM

I only listened to a small bit of Wonderful Life, will have to try again to see if I recognise those lyrics, thanks!. It was late and I was just trying to figure out where all this stuff came from.

Nick Cave is awesome; I have All the Pretty Little Horses, Do You Love Me, She Passed by my Window, and his cover of Helpless. Anything else in particular that you'd recommend?

I still don't recognise Vanessa Carlton; no idea why I have a song by her. I have some really weird stuff in this folder...
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 5/2/2003 9:58:27 AM

If you look for a programme called 'G Spot' you can run it on files that won't play right and it'll tell you if there are any extra codecs you need. It's saved me from smashing my PC with a hammer at least a few times!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/2/2003 10:13:23 AM

I will definately look for that, thanks! I was damned close to smashing MY computer, especially when some of the files I knew worked on my old computer!
From: [info]muridae
Date: 5/2/2003 10:06:26 AM

"Wonderful Life" is a Nick Cave track too. I know you downloaded that track from me on SoulSeek and I know it wasn't labelled with the artist name. Starts like this, right?

Come in, babe
Across these purple fields
The sun has sunk behind you
Across these purple fields
That idiot-boy in the corner
Is speaking deviated truths
Come on, admit it, babe
It’s a wonderful life
If you can find it
If you can find it
If you can find it
It’s a wonderful life that you bring
Ooh it’s a wonderful thing


Damn, now I gotta go find my copy of Nocturama and listen to it.

Isn't Vanessa Carlton one of those poppy teen singer thingies?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/2/2003 10:20:47 AM

Ahhh, that sounds like the one! It was labelled like, 01. wonderful life.mp3, very cryptic.

Vanessa Carlton may well be a poppy teen singer; I don't remember ever hearing of her!

I have very weird shit in this folder, including one song by Shakira and two from Avril Lavigne. I also have Judy Collins doing Amazing Grace, Nevermore doing The Sounds of Silence, and Shatner/Nimoy doing the Bilbo Baggins song.
From: [info]muridae
Date: 5/2/2003 10:32:13 AM

It's funny that you're doing this now, because I just reorganized my mp3s yesterday. I've got some really weird crap too...

Oh! I recently downloaded a song that reminded me of you. It's called "Rene" by Knife in the Water. I believe that you should hear it. Want me to email it to you?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/2/2003 10:39:46 AM

Oh hell yes! Do you know how hard it is to get your name in a song if your name is Renee? If your name is Amanda or Sarah, you got people singing about you left and right, but when your mother names you Renee, people only tell you to walk away. :\

What was the question? Oh yes, I would like to hear that.
From: [info]muridae
Date: 5/2/2003 10:44:38 AM

Hey, at least people tell you to scram. Has anyone in the history of the world ever written a song to Laurie? Not that I know of.

Anyway, I will email it to you right now. I think that you might like it. It's kinda twisted.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/2/2003 11:09:33 AM

You could call yourself LaurA; there are a couple of Laura songs.

It's coming in right now, thanks!
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 5/3/2003 4:24:37 AM

Nick Cave is fantastic, Vanessa Carlton is the anti-fantastic. She's one of those trendy, piano-plunking teenyboppers all over MTV and the radio, who insist on singing every song like a lisping, 6-year-old, baby talking, pedophile magnet. I hate her.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/3/2003 6:54:48 AM

Geez, tell us how you REALLY feel! ;-D

[house news] 5/2/2003 9:35:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |excited]
[Current Music |tv - abc stuff]

The realtor called; she talked to the lender. We got final approval for the loan!!!

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 5/2/2003 9:58:33 AM

YOU GOT THE LOAN!!!!

YAYAYAYAYAYAYAYAAAAAY!

HOOOOOOOOORAY!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/2/2003 10:03:58 AM

I KNOW!!! ISN'T IT EXCITING????? =D

From: [info]muridae
Date: 5/2/2003 10:07:32 AM

YES!!! I WAS GOING TO CALL YOU AND SQUEAL INTO YOUR EAR ABOUT HOW EXCITING IT IS, BUT MY PHONE ISN'T CHARGED UP!!!

:D :D :D
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/2/2003 10:23:50 AM

HAHAHAHAHA!!! *I* WAS GOING TO CALL *YOU* UP AND SQUEAL IN *YOUR* EAR, BUT I WASN'T SURE THAT YOU'D APPRECIATE LOUD SQUEALING SO EARLY IN THE MORNING!!! EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAH!
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 5/2/2003 10:43:11 AM

Wonderful!! (SQUEALS TOO!!)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/2/2003 11:04:27 AM

Thanks! We're all excited now! =)
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 5/2/2003 10:59:11 AM

YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY!

*doing the happy dance*
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/2/2003 11:06:17 AM

I know, I'm so excited, I've been bouncing around all morning!!! :)
From: [info]sf_rose
Date: 5/2/2003 1:05:17 PM

WOOT!!!!!
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 5/2/2003 6:58:01 PM

Yaaaaayyyy!!!!!!!!!!! That is great news!

[today] 5/2/2003 5:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |getting a headache]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - while you were out]

Rusty hurt his back, and so I made him stay home, lest it get worse. In better news, I'm still going to hire the preacher dude to paint the exterior trim, but my friend Jeff (from the ratlist, Laurie) is coming down from Pittsburgh to do the bathroom floor and build the closets. Better still, he's doing it for beer. I Jeff. I ran out to the supermarket to buy mass quantities of beer for Jeff, and promptly ran into the realtor. How embarrassing.

   

[daily calorie intake] 5/2/2003 9:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |anxious]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - while you were out]

Breakfast - three cups of coffee w/sugar and fake cream.
Lunch - nothing. Regular Coke.
Dinner - pre-made five cheese lasagna w/italian bread. Regular Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[ugh] 5/3/2003 6:35:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |worried]
[Current Music |tv - nbc news]

Had a long night, in which I had to try to get a 270+ pound man out of bed, where he was stuck. He's sleeping on the floor now; I hope he'll be okay. Not only do I love him, but this is really bad timing. And I'm too young for this, dammit.

   

Comments:
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 5/3/2003 9:35:08 AM

I hope Rusty gets better soon. Besides, he's got lots of work to do with this new house and all! :)

[weekend warriors - day one] 5/3/2003 11:10:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - nascar race]

Jeff came down this morning (in a kilt, no less!) and we built two closets - I learned how to hang drywall, sort of! We took him out to dinner at El Ranchero afterwards; that was a lot of fun, and then we came back to the apartment to play with the rats. Jeff is cool.

   

Comments:
From: [info]wampithesilver
Date: 5/3/2003 11:36:01 PM

heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeello man in kilt!
yum.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/3/2003 11:53:35 PM

I took that photo just for you. :)
From: [info]wampithesilver
Date: 5/4/2003 12:03:57 AM

Re:

Awww! *feels special*
hey... just wondering... did you check if he was wearing his kilt "properly"?
*giggles eeeevily*
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/4/2003 12:09:06 AM

LMAO!!! No, but I threatened to! ;-D
From: [info]wampithesilver
Date: 5/4/2003 5:00:49 AM

Re:

you should have.... yano... for me ;D
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 5/4/2003 10:40:24 AM

And he is adorable in that kilt!

[daily calorie intake] 5/3/2003 11:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - nascar race]

Breakfast - three cups of coffee w/sugar and fake cream.
Lunch - five chicken nuggets and five french fries. Regular Coke.
Dinner - cheese quesadilla and a refried bean taco. Regular Coke.
Snack - 25 malted milk balls.

Exercise - none.

   

[weekend warriors - day two] 5/4/2003 8:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |pooped]
[Current Music |tv - hgtv - building character]

We put in a new bathroom floor and covered it with linoleum (to be replaced with tile later), put two more layers of mud on the closet drywall, fixed a hole, and cut the wood for a handrail to go to the basement - I will finish that later. My feet hurt from running up and down those stairs.

Jeff is so sweet - he went out to Lowe's this morning and bought me a new broom - something about it being bad luck to bring an old broom into a new house. After the building was done, we had rubarb (sp?) pie that he had baked himself - my man Jeff is multi-talented! And then he went back to Pittsburgh, alas. I wish we could get him to stay with us for a few weeks, until we get this stuff done, but I seriously doubt that his wife would go for that...

I really don't want to fix dinner this evening.

   

[daily calorie intake] 5/4/2003 9:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |tv - hgtv - rv2003]

Breakfast - large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - cheesesticks from Domino's and a piece of rubarb pie. Grape soda.
Dinner - grilled fish fillets and green beans. Regular Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[mwa ha ha ha huh?] 5/5/2003 8:00:00 AM

purple_stardust


Clueless
What Kinda Minions Do You Have?
   

Comments:
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 5/5/2003 8:30:40 AM

MuSt Do wHat purple_stardust teLLs me...and I doN't knOw wHy...
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/5/2003 8:41:59 AM

LMAO! =D

[emotional claustrophobia] 5/5/2003 9:55:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |miserable]
[Current Music |mpg - pearl jam - jeremy]

I've been sitting here thinking, which is usually a big mistake. I'm just not sure that I want to spend the rest of my life with Rusty. He hasn't done anything horribly wrong; I'm basically just sick of him. I'm sick of seeing him naked, I'm sick of the football, I'm sick of the noises that he makes, I'm sick of the whining, I'm sick of the apathy. I'm bored with him, and I want out.

He lasted longer than the first two husbands; I got bored with them shortly after I had their children. This relationship has lasted a record-breaking eight and a half years.

I think that I may be afraid of committment. In the beginning, when we had no possessions in common save a cheap television set and a small pile of CDs, I was devoted to him. He could fit his stuff in a garbage bag and leave me while I was at the supermarket, and I knew it. Now we have a daughter together. We have a car together. We're buying a fucking house together. Now, we are legally and financially bound together. Now, I am trapped.

I'm thinking that I should go buy a bottle of vodka, and get obnoxiously drunk, because I know it would piss him off. Maybe he would call the whole house thing off. Maybe he would leave me. Maybe that would be best, because then it wouldn't be MY decision. Then I could could just sit here in my drunken passive-aggressive stupor and be miserably satisfied that I'm not tied down.

And now my bitter hands cradle broken glass of what was everything...

   

Comments:
From: [info]angel_renewed
Date: 5/5/2003 10:16:26 AM

Being married is hard. Probably the hardest thing we as humans ever do. Harder even than raising children, because we are programmed to raise children, whereas the whole monogamy thing we aren't wired for :-/

Hope it gets better. I've been there. With my first husband, it was Bacardi 151 and Hole playing really loudly. If I took both in large quantities he would eventually 'go away'.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/5/2003 1:43:01 PM

Thanks... at least I'm not the only one who does this. :\

[counter point, i guess] 5/5/2003 6:04:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |drunk and depressed]
[Current Music |leonard nimoy william shatner the ballad of bilbo baggins]



OHHHHH NOOOOOOO!
Nightmares do come true. In my current stupor I passed out while my post was on screen. Since
I am forever cursed,Rusty came in and read my entry.I could bore you with the details of the
ensuing breakup,but suffice it to say,it was the standard ugly "breakup" scene":thunderous hurling insults, maniacal cursing,shattering glass,etc.
Now here I sit a victim of my own twisted desires. Rusty had barely slammed the gate and stormed out of my life, when the folly of my cursed demented deed hit my broken heart like
a searing bolt of hellfire. He was gone! I'm alone. I am at once a villainous victor and an
emotional failure. I MISS HIM! GOD,HOW I MISS HIM! I miss the soothing reassurance,in
the stong rich baritone voice. I miss the sweet song of his laughter. I miss his emotional calm.
I miss the warm embrace of his glorious naked body. But above all I miss FOOTBALL!!!!!
WONDEROUS,AWE INSPIRING FOOTBALL!! I miss the incredible violent ballet of the
autumnal gladiator!! Rusty can be replaced but FOOTBALL will never be the same.
Oh well,there's always E-Bay!!

   

Comments:
From: [info]alison_says
Date: 5/5/2003 6:18:45 PM

Huh?

What?? What did you write? You are always so nice about the boy.
From: [info]jupiterjuniper
Date: 5/6/2003 8:52:43 AM

my goodness. . .

[editors note] 5/5/2003 8:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |embarrassed]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - the o'reilly factor]

The last post was written by Rusty. I would like to claim that he is on drugs. but sadly, he is not.

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 5/5/2003 8:26:58 PM

You people are so weird.
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 5/5/2003 9:41:51 PM

Lol...omigosh...that is all I can say.
From: [info]the_never
Date: 5/5/2003 10:10:46 PM

Rusty rules. He's sassy!
From: [info]angel_renewed
Date: 5/6/2003 10:40:02 AM

Wow. I at least hope he was drinking!

[daily calorie intake] 5/5/2003 9:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |drunk]
[Current Music |tv - the practice]

Breakfast - three cups of coffee w/sugar and fake cream.
Lunch - Vodka. Regular Coke.
Dinner - Vodka. Regular Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[bah] 5/6/2003 11:15:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |headachey]
[Current Music |tv - pbs - teletubbies]

So I got drunk. Rusty did not leave me. I think I'm stuck with him.

   

[random stuff] 5/6/2003 3:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

I'm feeling a bit better now about Rusty and the house. I guess I have to grow up sometime, and if that means buying a house, this one seems like a good choice. I suppose that Rusty is a good choice too, despite his annoying tendancies. Maybe we really do love each other. Who knows.

I'm feeling less hungover now, too, which is good. I had a quesadilla and two Aleve, and then a nap, and I think the headache is finally gone. I'm still a little woozy, but definately better.

I got the latest synagogue newsletter yesterday; Rabbi Garfunkel had her baby, another little girl. Soon after she returns from maternity leave, she is leaving the congregation. I don't know whether to check out her replacement, or just go directly to Beth Sholom in Frederick MD. I think they're a conservative shul, and they have Saturday morning services (I don't really like going out on Friday night), plus I think they offer real classes, so that might be better anyway.

I ordered some PartyLite stuff from my mom; she dropped that off yesterday. There's a really pretty crystal bud vase, a purple glass candleholder, and some pretty tealight candles.

Today I got a new pair of Chucks; I wear the lo blacks the most, and my old pair had blown out. And most exciting, my purple duct tape came from Tapemonster.com. Heh.

   

[daily calorie intake] 5/6/2003 8:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - the o'reilly factor]

Breakfast - regular Coke.
Lunch - leftover cheese quesadilla. Coke.
Dinner - cheese ravioli w/ garlic bread. Coke.
Snack - malted milk balls.

Exercise - none.

   

[gakked from cellio] 5/6/2003 11:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |bored]
[Current Music |tv - spin city rerun]



1. When did you first connect ("go online"), and how?

In 1998. I was running a 486 DX with Win3.1. I bought a 28k modem, but it needed Win95 to run. I bought Win95, but I could only get it on CDs, so I went out and bought a CD-ROM and put it in myself. It took a while, but eventually I got online, albeit very slowly.

2. What was your first communications program?

Netscape Communicator.

3. When did you first chat over the internet, and how?

I "met" a French guy named Bruno, and he talked me into downloading ICQ.

4. What chat type program(s) do you use now?

I use Trillian, which runs all of the major chat programs, but I usually use AIM.

5. Who was your first service provider?

The local ISP, Intrepid (now Stargate).

6. Did you ever use AOL?

I have AOL now, though I only use it as an ISP, not the browser or email interface.

7. Do you admit using AOL in public?

Sure, why not. They're more reliable than the other ISPs that I've tried.

8. Who is your current ISP?

AOL... soon to be Adelphia (cable) when we move.

9. What was the first computer that you used to access the 'net?

A home-built 486 DX.

10. What computer do you use to access the 'net today?

A Dell Dimension P4. Sweeet!

11. What was your first 'net handle?

Rludwig.

12. Did you use any other handles for any length of time? If so, what were they?

Stardust95, Madnessie.

13. What 'net handle do you normally use now?

Purple_Stardust.

14. Are you active on any websites other than LJ? If you're willing to say, what ones?

Zoo Admin Forums, some of the online rat groups.

   

[bah] 5/7/2003 2:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

It should be noted that I am a completely worthless oaf today.

   

[sad] 5/7/2003 4:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sad]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

The seller of our house has died. I never met her, but I went to high school with her kids. They were nice kids, and way too young to lose their mother. And Sunday is Mother's Day. I think I will buy a nice flower and plant it in the yard in her honour.

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 5/7/2003 5:01:28 PM

That's so sad. =(
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/7/2003 5:09:18 PM

Yeah. It was sad before, but she was sort of anonymous; I didn't even know how old she was. Now she's Debbie Glover's mother, and Debbie Glover's mother shouldn't be dead. :(
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 5/7/2003 5:24:02 PM

Oh man!
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 5/7/2003 5:47:01 PM

That's so sad, but the flower-planting idea is a lovely one.

[daily calorie intake] 5/7/2003 9:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - the west wing]

Breakfast - regular Coke.
Lunch - leftover cheese ravioli w/ garlic bread. Coke.
Dinner - cheesy bread from Domino's. Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[but i wanted purple hair] 5/8/2003 12:00:00 PM

purple_stardust



You're sugar-hyped, caffeine-hyped, and permanently genki-er than a whole busload of Disney characters on crack. You eat too much, you're a total klutz, and somehow this makes you an ideal candidate for saving the world. If you're really unlucky, you get to get naked in an embarrassing transformation sequence in every single episode, with only a few sparkles and pastel blobs to cover your dignity.

Which generic anime character are you?

   

Comments:
From: [info]slow_like_honey
Date: 5/8/2003 5:49:13 PM

Lookie what I got...









Mmmm... fangirly.
You're a bishounen!

You're male, but people often mistake you for the other option. You're unfeasibly thin and pretty and always have perfect hair, often surrounded by sparkles/sakura/roses. You almost certainly have a tragic backstory which involves one or more of your parents, and are liable to have a Tragic Destiny (TM). You were almost certainly invented by a female mangaka, are worshipped by a female audience, and your life is characterised by periods of extreme pain and angst. Sucks to be you.

Which generic anime character are you?



[today] 5/8/2003 3:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sleepy]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

I went to the bank and got a cashier's check for our down payment. Eeep!

I also updated my rattery store and added a few new products, including a teddy bear and a beer stein. I ordered the bear; I'm going to take his Ziggabella Rattery tee for MY teddy bear. And I ordered the beer stein for Jeff, in appreciation for his help with the house.

And now I just really want a nap.

   

[bleurgh] 5/8/2003 4:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |cold and crampy and cranky]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Is everyone else still on Thursday? Because I'm having Friday today...

I have many things to do this weekend, and I'm in no mood to do them. We need to get the house finished, if at all possible, so that we can close ASAP. Also need to get homeowner's insurance and transfer my funds to Rusty's account. And I need a Mother's Day present for my mom. And...

Really, I would just like to take another nap.

   

Comments:
From: [info]wampithesilver
Date: 5/8/2003 4:50:40 PM

you too? My uncle and I were just commentinf on how today seems like a friday today...
hrm... isn't it odd how days have feels to em?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/8/2003 4:55:34 PM

They really do, and today feels like a Friday! I thought at first that I was off because Rusty was off work, but that should have thrown me a day behind, not ahead, so I guess I'm just confused...
From: [info]wampithesilver
Date: 5/8/2003 5:13:50 PM

Re:

I blame mine on being done with finals and out of school

[tonight] 5/8/2003 11:50:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |wmv - unsolved mysteries - kurt cobain]

Rusty and I had a long and fairly honest talk about some of our problems - I hope that something really comes of it. Maybe someday we can actually have a normal relationship...

   

[daily calorie intake] 5/8/2003 11:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |wmv - unsolved mysteries - kurt cobain]

Breakfast - large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - kosher franks and mozzerella sticks (note the irony). Coke.
Dinner - cheesesticks w/ pizza dipping sauce from Papa John's. Regular Pepsi.
Snack - malted milk balls.

Exercise - none.

   

Comments:
From: [info]lunza
Date: 5/9/2003 3:41:35 PM

Lunch - kosher franks and mozzerella sticks (note the irony). Coke.

Irony noted. :) I buy Hebrew National hot dogs just cuz they taste best. I don't keep kosher because ... well, the main reason is that I'm not Jewish. ;)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/9/2003 3:47:50 PM

LOL! That's as good of a reason as any. Still, I tell everyone to buy the kosher franks now - they're WAY better than the others.

BTW, Ballpark also makes kosher franks now, which is cool, but they're not quite as good as the HN. Just in case you see them and wonder. :)
From: [info]lunza
Date: 5/9/2003 5:51:32 PM

Re:

I've tried the Ballpark kosher dogs, and you're right, they're not as good. But I think they're cheaper than HN.

[just because you're paranoid] 5/9/2003 11:10:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |paranoid]
[Current Music |tv - pbs - teletubbies]

We are out of Ziploc baggies. This doesn't seem like a huge tragedy, until you consider the possible ramifications. For example, what if I was doing something crafty, and accidentily cut off my finger? You're supposed to pick up the finger and put it in a bag of ice to take to the hospital for re-attachment, but I couldn't very well do that with no Ziploc baggies, eh?

And there I'd be, wandering around the kitchen with my nine fingers, looking for a substitute for the Ziploc baggies that I should have bought months ago. I couldn't use a dish or a cup, because they're all dirty, and everyone knows you shouldn't stick your fingers into dirty cups. Meanwhile, the cats would have found the finger and chased it underneath the refridgerator.

I need to buy Ziploc baggies.

   

Comments:
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 5/9/2003 11:40:27 AM

A tip for any possible future knife/finger interface scenarios - put the finger in a bag of it's own, and then put the finger bag in the ice bag. We don't want your finger getting frostbite do we?

This message was brought to you by Dr' I'm more paranoid than you so nerrrr' Lyns!

From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/9/2003 12:05:11 PM

Oh wow, I never thought of the frostbite... I should buy a BIG box of baggies! =O
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 5/12/2003 11:55:26 AM

I knew all those hours watching ER would never be wasted ;)
From: [info]arkady
Date: 5/9/2003 12:02:27 PM

Ewwww.
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 5/9/2003 12:26:08 PM

wow, i better get some baggies, too!
From: [info]muridae
Date: 5/9/2003 12:43:42 PM

Are you doing crafts that involve circular saws?!?!?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/9/2003 12:55:54 PM

No, circular saws scare me, because I could easily cut off a finger! However, I *do* want to buy a jig saw at some point. Jeff told me that it would be very difficult for me to cut off a finger with a jig saw, but still, I can't rule out the possibility. We had a long conversation about various power tools, and the likelihood of me losing body parts with each one.
From: [info]slow_like_honey
Date: 5/9/2003 3:22:36 PM

After reading your post I have this urgent need to buy Ziploc baggies just in case...
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/9/2003 3:27:38 PM

You see? We need to be prepared...
From: [info]slow_like_honey
Date: 5/9/2003 3:46:42 PM

Re:

I see. Now where can I buy Ziploc baggies big enough to fit an entire limb in? Just in case...
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/9/2003 4:12:41 PM

OMG, I don't know what we'd do then... garbage bags?

[weekend to-do list] 5/11/2003 7:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |pooped]
[Current Music |tv - hgtv]

[Friday]

* Go to Lowe's and buy:
- drywall tape, more primer
- plumbers gunk to fix bathroom leak
- a nice perinneal to plant for Mrs Glover
* Buy card and gift for Mother's Day.

[Saturday]

* Fix leaky pipe in bathroom.
* Put another layer of mud on closets.
* Hang doors on closets.
* Build handrail to basement.
* Spackle cracks in plaster, let dry.

[Sunday]

* Sand spackled cracks.
* Scrape and spackle bathroom.
* Scrape and paint backporch.
* Primer over spackled cracks.
* Drop off and pick up laundry.

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 5/12/2003 11:06:49 AM

Wow, and you got almost all of it done, too!

How much longer until the house is in move-in-able shape?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/12/2003 11:30:46 AM

We're almost there - we need to repair a few more cracks (mostly corners and high spots - we just now found a ladder to borrow) and sand down the rest of the spackle (again, mostly high spots), and paint (primer) the bathroom and the spots where we spackled. We also need to have the exterior trim painted, but we're hiring a guy to do that.

Technically, it's livable NOW (more so than our current apartment!), but it still needs the above to pass appraisel.

If we can get the rest of the patching done during the week, then we can sand and primer this weekend, and *hopefully* close next week. :)
From: [info]muridae
Date: 5/12/2003 12:26:44 PM

Your house isn't considered liveable if it needs a paint job and some spackle?

<looks around at the house she's in>
<laughs maniacally>

No garage door (we've got plywood nailed up to the garage), the back shed is going to fall off the house one of these days, the cement driveway is cracked and broken, the plaster in the basement is literally detached from the wall and stays up only because the chicken wire backing onto which plaster goes hasn't fallen yet, the wood floor in the living room is splintered in several places, the dining room, kitchen, bathroom, and hallway are in SEVERE need of paint, the pipes leak, the front porch needs repairs, the water and pipe system in the basement bathroom is all fucked up, the kitchen floor is missing tiles, and there's no tile backsplash behind the sink or the stove.

Am I living in an uninhabitable hovel, or are your housing laws just extremely strict?

(You know what's really funny, besides that? This house is in better shape than it's been for years, because in the past five years, they did several important repairs, like put in new windows and put a door in the basement. Yet Sean's mom claims she now wants to move because other people who don't keep their houses up are moving into the neighborhood. I'm telling you, it was VERY hard for me and Sean to contain our laughter.)

Anyway! Incredibly long and rambly stories aside, it's great that you're so close to finished, and will be able to move soon!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/12/2003 12:49:17 PM

Am I living in an uninhabitable hovel, or are your housing laws just extremely strict?

Maybe both? Because of Rusty's lack of credit, we're getting an FHA loan, so there are stricter standards for that. Some of them are really stupid, too, like all the bedrooms had to have closets installed - even the one that is going to be the rat room! It's not like the rats have a lot of clothes to hang up, but they have a closet, all the same...
From: [info]muridae
Date: 5/13/2003 12:32:13 PM

You can stuff them in there when they're being bad!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/13/2003 1:25:59 PM

If I was going to do that, I could make the room into a nice sewing room, because the rats would be in the closet ALL the time! =D

[for future reference] 5/9/2003 3:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |intrigued]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

www.cobaincase.com | www.justiceforkurt.com
www.deathofkurtcobain.com | www.indefenceofkurtcobain.com
www.groups.yahoo.com/group/kcobainwasmurdered

   

[this evening] 5/9/2003 10:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |happy]
[Current Music |tv - law & order: svu]

Rusty came home with pretty Mother's Day flowers for me - pink roses and carnations in a clear pink and green Venetian glass vase. He's so sweet sometimes. He also bought three other vases. One is small and frosted purple, one is a ruffled with painted flowers, and the third is a white porcelin vase with a Victorian-ish rose design. The ruffled one and the one with the rose design both look "vintage", and will look exceptionally nice in the house, I think. Very pretty.

And we went to Lowe's, where I bought list stuff, as well a staple/brad gun and my very own drywall pan and knife. Drywalling appeals to my anal-retentive nature.

   

[daily calorie intake] 5/9/2003 11:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - seinfeld rerun]

Breakfast - three cups of coffee w/sugar and fake cream.
Lunch - sunflower seeds. Pepsi.
Dinner - pasta and broccoli alfredo. Pepsi.
Snack - malted milk balls.

Exercise - none.

   

[daily calorie intake] 5/10/2003 9:10:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Breakfast - two cups of coffee w/sugar and fake cream.
Lunch - seven crackers and various leftover sodas.
Dinner - cheesesticks w/ pizza dipping sauce from Papa John's, Coke.
Snack - malted milk balls.

Exercise - none.

   

[daily calorie intake] 5/11/2003 9:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - beverly hills 90210 reunion]

Breakfast - three cups of coffee w/sugar and fake cream.
Lunch - seven crackers, orange soda.
Dinner - cheese ravioli and mozzerella sticks, Coke.
Snack - malted milk balls.

Exercise - none.

   

[happy mothers day] 5/11/2003 9:00:00 AM

purple_stardust


   

[eek] 5/12/2003 7:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |anxious]
[Current Music |mpg - johnny cash - hurt]

Got a call from the lender's office today... we need to get a move on; they want to close soon. We're thinking like, the end of next week. I may throw up now.

   

[daily calorie intake] 5/12/2003 8:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - hgtv - mission organization]

Breakfast - three cups of coffee w/sugar and fake cream.
Lunch - leftover cheese ravioli and mozzerella sticks, Coke.
Dinner - macaroni and cheese, Coke.
Snack - malted milk balls.

Exercise - none.

   

[random stuff] 5/13/2003 11:15:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |nervous]
[Current Music |tv - pbs - teletubbies]

I finally got the laundry done yesterday. Clean pants, yay. I the laundry fairies.

Converse made a pair of "clog" sneakers for a while. They looked just like the regular Chuck Taylors, except they were backless, so you could just stick your feet in and go. I made my own pair using the blown-out Chucks that I just replaced. They're pretty shabby, but I figure I'm not going to be wearing them out in public anyway; I'm not that much of a dork. I want to reinforce them with duct tape, though. Okay, so maybe I am that much of a dork.

The realtor called this morning, wanted to touch base and see how the work was coming along. She seemed impressed with how much we'd done so far, and asked if we could be finished this weekend. We're definately going to try to close next week. Eeep.

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 5/13/2003 12:20:27 PM

how did you make that heart? i can't remember how it's done.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/13/2003 12:40:39 PM

[IMG SRC=http://purplestardust.ziggabella.com/heart.gif] but replace the square [] brackets with the pointy <> brackets. :)
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 5/13/2003 1:51:08 PM

Closing? What is this closing of which you speak? I didn't know you were buying/selling/building/whatever!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/13/2003 3:54:37 PM

I have been making mostly private posts about it until it was more certain, but we're buying a house! :)
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 5/13/2003 9:14:47 PM

Re:

Wow, that's great! I guess you're building?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/13/2003 11:27:40 PM

Nope, we're restoring a 1909 Victorian! It's so pretty, I can't wait 'til we're IN it. :)
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 5/14/2003 6:31:52 AM

Re:

*WOW*. I gotta see pictures when you're done. Pretty please?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/14/2003 7:59:41 AM

Certainly! There's BEAUTIFUL woodwork in this house, and it's all original except in the kitchen and bathroom (where someone painted it white), and a built-in China cabinet, and a turret. I love the turret; the bathtub is in there. It's also got a really nice yard. We're very proud of our "find". Actually, it was MY find - the realtor sent us a huge stack of homes based on what we wanted and what we wanted to spend, I flipped though, saw that one, and knew it was The One. We looked at two others that day (mostly to humour the realtor), but when we saw that one, we said we'd take it, and offered full price. I love this house. :)
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 5/14/2003 5:46:28 PM

Re:

It sounds gorgeous!

[an update] 5/13/2003 3:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |delerious]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

The realtor called again. Closing is scheduled for Friday May 23, 8:30am.

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 5/13/2003 5:06:23 PM

Jeeze, they could at least make it in the afternoon so that you could sleep late. =P
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/13/2003 5:22:48 PM

Hahahahaha! At this point, they could have it at 3am, and I'll just be happy to be done with it! =D

[i had a dream] 5/13/2003 4:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |clearly insane]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Also, because I forgot in my random babblings this morning, I took a nap this morning, and had a strange dream. It involved G-d and [info]angelsil and was partly animated, like a cartoon, with sound effects. I won't even begin to try to explain it, but it was pretty weird.

   

[daily calorie intake] 5/13/2003 9:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |headachey]
[Current Music |tv - frasier]

Breakfast - three cups of coffee w/sugar and fake cream.
Lunch - leftover macaroni and cheese, Coke.
Dinner - cheesesticks w/ pizza dipping sauce from Papa John's, Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[no soulmate for me] 5/14/2003 2:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sickish]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

According to the Soulmate Calculator, I have to meet 2964 heterosexual males who are 35-37 years old who are living in my city or are willing to move here, in order to find just one tall Jewish guy with a great sense of humour. And that's AFTER I lowered my standards. Oy vey.

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 5/14/2003 2:43:02 PM

wow! i have to check out this calculator.
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 5/14/2003 2:45:04 PM

My standards are so low that I'd only have to meet 180 people!
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 5/14/2003 3:05:16 PM

LMFAO Check this out!!

I'd have to meet 2,074,944 heterosexual males who are between 25 and 30 years old.

oy

From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/14/2003 9:33:34 PM

Picky, picky, picky. I only asked for tall, funny, intelligent, Jewish, and not completely grotesque. I was willing to settle for spineless jerks and emotional retards. =)

The sad thing is, the calculator doesn't even know where we live. If it did, we'd probably have to meet three times that many hetero guys. :\
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 5/14/2003 10:17:54 PM

Ugh almost 2 million... I have to redo this....

[today] 5/14/2003 7:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |headachey]
[Current Music |tv - wheel of fortune]

* The realtor called again, to see is we had homeowners insurance yet. Will do that Friday.

* The lender also called, wanted to know if we had all of our bank paperwork yet.

* Rusty came home early and we took care of the bank paperwork, and dropped it off at the lender's office. She said that everything was in order; the loan has already been underwritten.

* Then we went out for dinner at El Ranchero, as the daughter was pleading for quesadillas. She was actually scooping her chips into the hot sauce, the little loon. This is what happens when pregnant women eat nothing but Mexican food for nine months.

* On a related note, there was a couple in the resturant with a tiny baby girl, and we briefly discussed the possibility of having another baby, ourselves. Hmmm.

   

Comments:
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 5/14/2003 7:47:47 PM

awwwww Sarah is sooooo cute!!! She looks so much like you.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/14/2003 8:38:22 PM

Thanks! She IS pretty cute, and she knows it, lol! :)

[daily calorie intake] 5/14/2003 11:10:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |ookey]
[Current Music |tv - seinfeld rerun]

Breakfast - three cups of coffee w/sugar and fake cream.
Lunch - nothing. Regular Coke.
Dinner - cheese quesadilla and a refried bean taco. Regular Coke.
Snack - malted milk balls.

Exercise - none.

   

[argh] 5/15/2003 4:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |panicked]
[Current Music |tv - oprah]

Trying to find someone to sell us homeowners insurance. The agent that my uncle recommended, no longer carries it, and I can't seem to get anyone else on the phone. I would really like to get this taken care of tomorrow; Rusty is taking off work tomorrow, and also, time is running out.

I decided not to have the pentecostal preacher to paint the trim. Someone told me that he's not that good, plus the thought just weirds me out too much. So I have painter #2 lined up; I hope he's quick! I need to speak with him this evening and see what he needs and when he can start.

I also found a woman who will buff the floors, and someone else to clean the walls. Need to set up times with them, preferably after the initial work is finished, but before we start moving our stuff in. Speaking of which, I still need to pack... yuck. I hate moving this chaos.

Update: I finally got hold of a helpful lady at Nationwide; she even gave me quotes over the phone! Rusty will be talking to her tomorrow, and she will inspect the house early next week.

And I still need to start packing. Blah.

   

Comments:
From: [info]thanny
Date: 5/15/2003 10:22:46 PM

you know, you should really look into getting your auto insurance and your home owner's insurance from the same company; i have an 'umbrella policy', and it supposedly saves me money on both.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/15/2003 10:39:08 PM

Oh, cool... Right now we have Geico for auto, but I would definately be willing to switch if it saves money!

[help for the terminally flakey] 5/15/2003 6:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blonde]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]

In light of the upcoming sanding and painting, I have removed my jewelry (because I didn't last weekend, and it was a mess afterward). Anyway, I put it in the round brass trinket box that Rusty bought for me, on the entertainment center. When I forget that, notice that my rings are missing, and panic, someone please remind me where they are. Thank you.

   

[daily calorie intake] 5/15/2003 9:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |tv - will & grace]

Breakfast - three cups of coffee w/sugar and fake cream.
Lunch - leftover cheese quesadilla. Regular Coke.
Dinner - cheesesticks w/ pizza dipping sauce from Papa John's, Coke.
Snack - malted milk balls.

Exercise - none.

   

[today] 5/16/2003 9:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |headachey]
[Current Music |tv - daytime emmy awards]

* Set up a time for the insurance agent to come out and inspect the house Monday morning.

* Got the gas switched over, and the phone account set up - it will be turned on Wednesday.

* Noticed some sturdy boxes outside a local bar; stopped and stole them all for packing.

* I ran out to Lowe's and bought more stuff, including a cute little baby electric sander.

* Went over to the house; spackled and sanded some more, then met with Painter #2 to discuss time and payment, etcetera. He's very cute, very funny, and very sweet. His name is Rod, and if Rusty hadn't been hanging around, I probably would have hit on him. As it was, I made rude gestures behind his back with my stud finder, for the benefit of my mother.

   

[daily calorie intake] 5/16/2003 9:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - daytime emmy awards]

Breakfast - three cups of coffee w/sugar and fake cream.
Lunch - seven crackers. Regular Coke.
Dinner - thin crust anchovey pizza from Domino's, Coke.
Snack - malted milk balls.

Exercise - none.

   

[today] 5/17/2003 7:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |pooped]
[Current Music |tv - hgtv - flea market finds]

* Went to Lowe's and bought five gallons of exterior primer and three gallons of exterior paint for Painter #2. I got the Valspar "Severe Weather" stuff - I hope it lasts a while; our windows are far too high to do this often. Still need to borrow an extention ladder from Rusty's boss.

* Also bought a painters cap at Lowe's - all this sanding and painting is killing my hair. Bah.

* Also found out that Rusty has some sort of weird woman-in-a-painters-cap fetish, but decided that it would be rude to explore it, as ex-husband #2 was standing nearby at the time.

* Finished sanding the bathroom while Jamie sanded the downstairs rooms and Rusty spackled.

* Nailed trim on closet door; sanded the closets some more. I think they're good to paint now.

* Primered over spackled cracks in living room and dining room.

   

[daily calorie intake] 5/17/2003 9:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired and cold]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Breakfast - three cups of coffee w/sugar and fake cream.
Lunch - cheese dogs from Sheetz, potato chips. Pepsi.
Dinner - mozzerella sticks from Anthony's, Coke.
Snack - malted milk balls.

Exercise - none.

   

[the crazy cat lady] 5/17/2003 11:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - saturday night live]

Oh yeah. And because there isn't enough stuff going on, I think Mazel is pregnant. I swear I'm not a horrible pet owner; I'm just not used to girl cats, or creatures that have sex readily. And then there was the landlord issue, and the subsequent house hunt. Anyway, it took forever to get the boys in to be neutered, and then about a week before their appointments, she decided to go into heat. How's that for timing. And I really need more cats.

   

[today] 5/18/2003 9:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |pooped]
[Current Music |tv - law & order: criminal intent]

More sanding and primering. We are nowhere near ready to close.

   

[daily calorie intake] 5/18/2003 9:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |exhausted]
[Current Music |tv - law & order: criminal intent]

Breakfast - three cups of coffee w/sugar and fake cream.
Lunch - one chicken nugget and ten french fries, various leftover soda.
Dinner - mozzerella sticks and garlic bread from Anthony's, Coke.
Snack - malted milk balls.

Exercise - none.

   

[today] 5/19/2003 8:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - abc's 50th anniversary celebration]

My son was supposed to go to the Holocaust Museum on a school field trip. Unfortunately, there was a wreck, and the bus tipped over on its side. Steven is okay (his grandmother brought him by so that I could see for myself), but needless to say, it was a scary experience for everyone!

Rod, the studly Painter #2, started painting the exterior today. Rod is a great guy. He's cute as can be, and very sweet, and he has a great sense of humour. We spent most of the day talking - childhoods, religion, the legal system... unfortunately, we got very little actual painting done. I would love to have Rod as a boyfriend. As a painter, not so much. That aside, he can't reach the turret and four of the upstairs windows with the ladder we borrowed, so I don't know what the hell to do. I can't afford to hire a "real" painter, and we're quickly running out of time.

I finished sanding the master bedroom and the rat room, and got another coat in the bathroom, and Rod painted the porch and big front window, but that was about it.

   

Comments:
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 5/19/2003 10:21:30 PM

OMG! I just saw that on the news! Glad he is okay.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/19/2003 11:22:20 PM

Thanks! Weird that you saw it down there - there was nothing about it here except a tiny blurb on a Baltimore station. Poor kid, he thought he was going to be on the news because the reporter talked to him, but they cut the interviews with the kids.
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 5/20/2003 12:17:35 AM

They didn't even have it on your local news? G-d that's weird. A bus full of kids tipping over is front page news down here in the sticks! I actually didn't see the full report I saw it mentioned in one of those in-between news briefs that ended with "more on that at 11". Too bad they didn't give him air time. :(
From: [info]the_never
Date: 5/19/2003 10:34:41 PM

Glad he is ok! That area is terrible for driving.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/19/2003 11:25:21 PM

Thanks... it IS a bad area. I couldn't believe that some fool was driving down 70 with unsecured (or badly secured) gas cans - that's friggen nuts. :\
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 5/20/2003 10:38:05 AM

Bloody hell... glad everyone is ok!
From: [info]slow_like_honey
Date: 5/20/2003 11:51:33 AM

That was all over the news here yesterday! I'm glad Steven's alright.
From: [info]muridae
Date: 5/21/2003 9:30:19 AM

Whoa! That's awful! I'm so glad that he's alright, though. What a scary scary experience.
From: [info]muridae
Date: 5/21/2003 9:31:10 AM

PS I'd come and help you paint the house exterior but you KNOW I'd just fall off the ladder and crack my skull.

[daily calorie intake] 5/19/2003 9:50:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - abc's 50th anniversary celebration]

Breakfast - large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - Mountain Dew.
Dinner - macaroni and cheese, Coke.
Snack - malted milk balls.

Exercise - none.

   

[today] 5/20/2003 8:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |exhausted]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - the o'reilly factor]

I primered the master bedroom and the rat room, and spackled in Sarah's bedroom. Blech.

Rod finished painting the window trim on first floor, but I still need to find a painter for the turret, the upper windows, and the front eaves. I called Painter #1 and left a message; I hope he calls back soon. The problem is, even if I get someone immediately, it's supposed to rain the rest of the week, and we're scheduled to close on Friday. I'm starting to get really nervous.

We also got papers (sort of) served from Idiot Landlord. Whatever.

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 5/20/2003 9:33:01 PM

What, did he send you more scribbled notebook papers?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/20/2003 9:40:18 PM

No, they're actual court papers. but he had a neighbour "serve" them, and she gave them to me and didn't get a signature saying that we'd recieved them.

So, umm, what papers?

[daily calorie intake] 5/20/2003 8:50:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |exhausted]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - the o'reilly factor]

Breakfast - large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - Mountain Dew.
Dinner - cheesesticks from Papa John's, Coke.
Snack - malted milk balls.

Exercise - none.

   

[private post to pocket_entropy] 5/21/2003 7:35:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]

Candi, seriously, set up a wedding fund account through Paypal, like you did with the children's art project. Everyone been there - we were so poor for my first wedding, I got married wearing a regular dress that I bought at a consignment shop! The marraige didn't work out, but if it had, I would hate to look back at the photos of me wearing this badly-fitting pink dress. If you find the perfect dress, you should by all means do anything in your power to get it... skimp on the flowers, the bridal party, the dinner, the reception, whatever - but get a dress that you really love. And believe me, after that ugly pink dress fiasco, I would be happy to contribute!!!

Another thing I did to save money (and was actually pretty cool), was I made my own bouquet out of silk (but good quality!) flowers. Not only was it way cheaper than what I would have spent on a florist, but it would have made a really nice keepsake. You can also find talented friends to do such things as provide music, take photos, bake the wedding cake.

Seriously, all anyone remembers about a wedding, is the bride's dress. Nobody looks back and thinks that the cake was dry or the organ was out of tune... hell, the groom could be wearing scuba flippers and I doubt that anyone would notice! Focus your money on the dress.

And again, mazel tov... you will make a beautiful bride!!! :)

   

Comments:
From: [info]pocket_entropy
Date: 5/22/2003 11:11:51 AM

Awww! *SNUGS* Thank you for the offer! I just feel bad taking money from folks.. Art 2 Heart was different coz' it was for other folks, y'know? :).. but I've decided, I *want* this dress, and I'm gonna just try what I can.. I sent a pic to mom and she's in love now too, so hopefully it'll all come together in the end..

You are too awesome! *SNUGS!*

[today] 5/21/2003 2:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sleepy]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

I'm taking a break from the house. I went over for a little while this morning and did a few things, but I really just need a break. I called the realtor and then the lender. We're not going to get a break from the rain in time to do the exterior painting, so they're going to have to reschedule closing. In one way it's good, because we get a bit more time to make sure that the interior stuff is all done, but also, that's more time to have to deal with Idiot Landlord. Bah.

So anyway, I put my head down on my desk and took a bit of a nap this afternoon; that was nice. I could do with a longer nap, but I have to go pick Rusty up soon and go pay for and pick up our homeowners insurance policy. I would really rather sleep.

   

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Comments:
From: [info]jupiterjuniper
Date: 5/21/2003 3:33:13 PM

cool!

[daily calorie intake] 5/21/2003 8:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |headachey]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - the o'reilly factor]

Breakfast - large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - leftover mac and cheese. Regular Coke.
Dinner - cheesybread from Domino's, Coke.
Snack - malted milk balls.

Exercise - none.

   

[this evening] 5/21/2003 9:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |nervous]
[Current Music |tv - law & order]

We took care of the homeowners insurance, hooray!

I got a call from Painter #3, a guy named Chris who claims to have been painting for 25 years. He says that he has the equipment to handle both the turret and the windows over the porches, and he'll meet me at the house tomorrow to give me an estimate.

Can someone do an anti-rain dance for me?

   

Comments:
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 5/22/2003 8:27:04 AM

I will try... *dancing around the house and chanting*
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/22/2003 4:08:04 PM

Hey, I think it might be working! Now, can you just keep dancing until next Thursday? =D

[today] 5/22/2003 6:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]

Closing was rescheduled for next Thursday. The inside work passed appraisel, so it's just a matter of getting the exterior painting done, or given this never-ending rain, getting estimates from two painters so that it can go into escrow, instead. Argh. I just want my house, dammit.

I had new tires put on the POS-car. This was really an impressive thing for me, because I suck at car maintenance... I like to buy cheap cars, run them into the ground, and replace them. But the steel was actually coming through the tires, and Rusty didn't want me to drive to the bank, and so I decided it was easier to just get it over with. So now I have new front tires. It sucks though, because in a few weeks, I'm going to be replacing this car. Oh well.

And then I met with Painter #3, who is very slow and somewhat annoying. Still, he seems pretty motivated, so he may be our guy. IF it ever stops raining for long enough...

   

[daily calorie intake] 5/22/2003 8:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |tv - usa - liar liar]

Breakfast - large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - leftover mac and cheese. Regular Coke.
Dinner - mozzerella sticks from Anthony's, Coke.
Snack - malted milk balls.

Exercise - none.

   

[gakked from catmoran] 5/22/2003 10:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - hgtv - house hunters]



The IMDB 100

001. The Godfather (1972)
002. The Shawshank Redemption (1994)
003. The Godfather: Part II (1974)
004. LOTR: The Fellowship of the Ring (2001)
005. Schindler's List (1993)
006. Citizen Kane (1941)
007. Casablanca (1942)
008. Seven Samurai (1954)
009. Star Wars (1977)
010. Dr. Strangelove (1964)
011. Memento (2000)
012. One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest (1975)
013. Rear Window (1954)
014. LOTR: The Two Towers (2002)
015. Star Wars: The Empire Strikes Back (1980)
016. Raiders of the Lost Ark (1981)
017. The Usual Suspects (1995)
018. Amelie (2001)
019. Pulp Fiction (1994)
020. North by Northwest (1959)
021. Psycho (1960)
022. The Silence of the Lambs (1991)
023. 12 Angry Men (1957)
024. Lawrence of Arabia (1962)
025. It's a Wonderful Life (1946)
026. The Good, the Bad and the Ugly (1966)
027. Goodfellas (1990)
028. American Beauty (1999)
029. Vertigo (1958)
030. The Pianist (2002)
031. Sunset Boulevard (1950)
032. Apocalypse Now (1979)
033. Some Like It Hot (1959)
034. The Matrix (1999)
035. To Kill a Mockingbird (1962)
036. Taxi Driver (1976)
037. The Third Man (1949)
038. Paths of Glory (1957)
039. Fight Club (1999)
040. Das Boot (1981)
041. L.A. Confidential (1997)
042. Double Indemnity (1944)
043. Chinatown (1974)
044. Requiem for a Dream (2000)
045. The Maltese Falcon (1941)
046. Singing in the Rain (1952)
047. The Bridge on the River Kwai (1957)
048. Sen to Chihiro no Kamikakushi (2001)
049. Saving Private Ryan (1998)
050. All About Eve (1950)
051. M (1931)
052. Monty Python and the Holy Grail (1975)
053. Raging Bull (1980)
054. Once Upon a Time in the West (1968)
055. Seven (1995)
056. Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon (2000)
057. The Wizard of Oz (1939)
058. 2001: A Space Odyssey (1968)
059. La Vita e Bella (1997)
060. American History X (1998)
061. The Sting (1973)
062. Touch of Evil (1958)
063. The Manchurian Candidate (1962)
064. Alien (1979)
065. Mr. Smith Goes to Washington (1939)
066. Rashemon (1950)
067. Leon (1994)
068. Annie Hall (1977)
069. The Great Escape (1963)
070. A Clockwork Orange (1971)
071. The Treasure of the Sierra Madre (1948)
072. Reservoir Dogs (1992)
073. The Sixth Sense (1999)
074. Jaws (1975)
075. Amadeus (1984)
076. On the Waterfront (1954)
077. Ran (1985)
078. Braveheart (1995)
079. High Noon (1952)
080. Fargo (1996)
081. Blade Runner (1982)
082. The Apartment (1960)
083. Aliens (1986)
084. Toy Story 2 (1999)
085. Strangers on a Train (1951)
086. Modern Times (1936)
087. The Shining (1980)
088. Donnie Darko (2001)
089. Duck Soup (1933)
090. The Princess Bride (1987)
091. Lola Rennt (1998)
092. City Lights (1931)
093. The General (1927)
094. Metropolis (1927)
095. The Searchers (1956)
096. Full Metal Jacket (1987)
097. Notorious (1946)
098. Manhattan (1979)
099. Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid (1969)
100. The Graduate (1967)

American Film Institute's Top 100 Movies

001. Citizen Kane (1941)
002. Casablanca (1942)
003. The Godfather (1972)
004. Gone With the Wind (1939)
005. Lawrence of Arabia (1962)
006. The Wizard of Oz (1939)
007. The Graduate (1967)
008. On the Waterfront (1954)
009. Schindler's List (1993)
010. Singing in the Rain (1952)
011. It's a Wonderful Life (1946)
012. Sunset Boulevard (1950)
013. The Bridge on the River Kwai (1957)
014. Some Like It Hot (1959)
015. Star Wars (1977)
016. All About Eve (1950)
017. The African Queen (1951)
018. Psycho (1960)
019. Chinatown (1974)
020. One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest (1975)
021. The Grapes of Wrath (1940)
022. 2001: A Space Odyssey (1968)
023. The Maltese Falcon (1941)
024. Raging Bull (1980)
025. E.T. The Extra-Terrestrial (1982)
026. Dr. Strangelove (1964)
027. Bonnie and Clyde (1967)
028. Apocalypse Now (1979)
029. Mr. Smith Goes to Washington (1939)
030. The Treasure of the Sierra Madre (1948)
031. Annie Hall (1977)
032. The Godfather Part II (1974)
033. High Noon (1952)
034. To Kill a Mockingbird (1962)
035. It Happened One Night (1934)
036. Midnight Cowboy (1969)
037. The Best Years of Our Lives (1946)
038. Double Indemnity (1944)
039. Doctor Zhivago (1965)
040. North by Northwest (1959)
041. West Side Story (1961)
042. Rear Window (1954)
043. King Kong (1933)
044. The Birth of a Nation (1915)
045. A Streetcar Named Desire (1951)
046. A Clockwork Orange (1971)
047. Taxi Driver (1976)
048. Jaws (1975)
049. Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs (1937)
050. Butch Cassidy and The Sundance Kid (1969)
051. The Philadelphia Story (1940)
052. From Here to Eternity (1953)
053. Amadeus (1984)
054. All Quiet on the Western Front (1930)
055. The Sound of Music (1965)
056. M*A*S*H (1970)
057. The Third Man (1949)
058. Fantasia (1940)
059. Rebel Without A Cause (1955)
060. Raiders of the Lost Ark (1981)
061. Vertigo (1958)
062. Tootsie (1982)
063. Stagecoach (1939)
064. Close Encounters of the Third Kind (1977)
065. The Silence of the Lambs (1991)
066. Network (1976)
067. The Manchurian Candidate (1962)
068. An American in Paris (1951)
069. Shane (1953)
070. The French Connection (1971)
071. Forrest Gump (1994)
072. Ben-Hur (1959)
073. Wuthering Heights (1939)
074. The Gold Rush (1925)
075. Dances With Wolves (1990)
076. City Lights (1931)
077. American Graffiti (1973)
078. Rocky (1976)
079. The Deer Hunter (1978)
080. The Wild Bunch (1969)
081. Modern Times (1936)
082. Giant (1956)
083. Platoon (1986)
084. Fargo (1996)
085. Duck Soup (1933)
086. Mutiny on the Bounty (1935)
087. Frankenstein (1931)
088. Easy Rider (1969)
089. Patton (1970)
090. The Jazz Singer (1927)
091. My Fair Lady (1964)
092. A Place In The Sun (1951)
093. The Apartment (1960)
094. Goodfellas (1990)
095. Pulp Fiction (1994)
096. The Searchers (1956)
097. Bringing Up Baby (1938)
098. Unforgiven (1992)
099. Guess Who's Coming to Dinner (1967)
100. Yankee Doodle Dandy (1942)

   

Comments:
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 5/23/2003 12:37:33 AM

You haven't seen Lord of the Rings?!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/23/2003 12:38:02 PM

Nope... I am hopelessly out of touch. :\
From: [info]muridae
Date: 5/23/2003 10:55:29 AM

I have seen a disturbing number of those films, in whole or in part...
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/23/2003 12:42:19 PM

I have probably actually been in the room for more of them, but I have trouble paying attention and remembering movies. Like, I'm pretty sure I've seen Godfather II and that Clint Eastwood movie, but I don't remember. Other titles, like Guess Who's Coming to Dinner, and Star Wars, I am certain that I was present, but I couldn't pay attention to them, and don't remember what they were about.

[i am dilbert] 5/23/2003 12:25:00 PM

purple_stardust


HASH(0x876f594)
Dilbert: loves technology for the sake of technology.
In fact, Dilbert loves technology more than people.
He's got the social skills of a mousepad and
he'd rather surf the Internet than Waikiki
(which, considering the physique he developed
after years of sitting in front of a PC screen, is a blessing).

What Dilbert character are you???
   

[grrr] 5/23/2003 1:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |annoyed]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

There is a breeder person on the internet who is stealing my rattery photos, without asking my permission, or even giving me photo credits. She doesn't even bother to mention that the rats in the pictures, aren't hers. There are 51 photos here, and 46 of them are mine! I don't know who she is, but she's really pissing me off...

   

Comments:
From: [info]ariestess
Date: 5/23/2003 1:33:07 PM

How charming...

Have you requested she stop?

And I can't get into the latter 2 links as it says they're members only....
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/23/2003 1:57:59 PM

Yes, I just emailed her. How freaking tacky is that? I counted; there are 46 of MY photos there, basically my entire website. Grrr.....
From: [info]ariestess
Date: 5/23/2003 2:02:07 PM

Charming....

I mean, I can maybe see one or two...maybe...but 46???? That's someone in need of help....
From: [info]s8venus
Date: 5/23/2003 2:18:50 PM

At leats prono lords aren't stealing them like they stole my domain name .02 seconds after it expired, and to which I had to pay to get back......bastards!
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 5/23/2003 4:43:45 PM

Worrying if she's passing yours off as her own then selling ones that's she's breeding! Get mediaeval on her ;)
From: [info]jacquez
Date: 5/23/2003 4:44:12 PM

That's...weird. Especially considering that she hasn't removed the Ziggabella logo from a bunch of them.

[friday five] 5/23/2003 2:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |headachey]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

1. What brand of toothpaste do you use? Tom's of Maine, cinnamon flavour.

2. What brand of toilet paper do you prefer? Charmin, soft on the bum.

3. What brand(s) of shoes do you wear? Converse Chuck Taylors, always.

4. What brand of soda do you drink? Regular Coke or Diet Pepsi, depending.

5. What brand of gum do you chew? It depends; usually something fruity.

[fridayfive.org]

   

Comments:
From: [info]topi
Date: 5/23/2003 6:46:45 PM

Tom's of Maine--who on earth makes that?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/24/2003 8:56:48 AM

Tom's of Maine: http://www.tomsofmaine.com/. It's all natural, which is okay, but more importantly, it comes in cinnamon.... very nice for those of us who HATE mint. :)

[baby mimosa] 5/23/2003 8:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - the o'reilly factor]


Laurie! Look at my little baby mimosa tree! It's so tiny and cute. I thought maybe I could bonsai it? There are more little tiny ones in the yard, if you want one...
   

Comments:
From: [info]blairmaru
Date: 5/24/2003 9:22:38 AM

I love mimosas! When I was little, I called them "flamingo trees" because of the feathery leaves.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/24/2003 9:26:45 AM

Hahaha! I call them "truffula trees", because the pink fuzzy blooms look like something out of a Dr Seuss story!
From: [info]blairmaru
Date: 5/24/2003 9:36:11 AM

Re:

You know, they do! I really like the idea of a bonsai mimosa. I'd REALLY like a bonsai ginkgo.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/24/2003 10:05:48 AM

Well, if you're ever up this way, you can get one too! The biggest ones are only 5-6 inches tall. This one is about two inches tall; I had to rescue it from the painters. I don't really know HOW to bonsai, but I have a couple of the little shallow pots, and there's always the internet. :)

Ginkgos are tremendously cool, too. I have seen them around here; I will keep my eye out, and if I see them again, maybe I can snag us some seeds or something.
From: [info]blairmaru
Date: 5/24/2003 10:32:39 AM

Re:

I have no idea how to bonsai either. I also tend to murder plants, as cool at they are. I can't even keep aquarium plants (but that's because the Monster Moors tend to eat them within 10 minutes of their introduction to the tank.) I swear, those fish have started scaring people. I've never seen black moors get that huge. Even the babies are the size of "large" goldfish in Petsmart.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/24/2003 10:35:10 AM

I had a couple of bonsai from Walmart, and they actually did really well until the cats got at them and ate them and eventually knocked them on the floor and smashed them. :\

What the hell are you feeding those fish???
From: [info]blairmaru
Date: 5/25/2003 8:46:53 AM

Re:

Wardley flakes and crumbles, mostly, with the occasional tubifex cubes. They also tend to eat the algea disks I give the snail. They're just monster genetic mutants, I think!
From: [info]muridae
Date: 5/24/2003 7:38:23 PM

Sean says yes he wants some tiny ones and he wants to grow them into bonsai as well! Maybe you guys could discuss the bonsai-ing amongst yourself and share tips. =)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/24/2003 7:55:33 PM

Does Sean know what he's doing? Because I'm really just winging it...
From: [info]muridae
Date: 5/28/2003 12:47:10 PM

Well... he's been reading up on growing trees and bonsai, and he pronounces the word all authentically Japanese, but other than that... no.

[daily calorie intake] 5/23/2003 10:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |tv - hgtv - design on a dime]

Breakfast - two large cappachinos from Sheetz.
Lunch - ten crackers, Regular Coke.
Dinner - tomato soup and saltine crackers, Coke.
Snack - malted milk balls.

Exercise - none.

   

[today] 5/24/2003 9:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |stressed out]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

We went to Target and bought a pretty shower curtain and liners for the new house, a tarp for the lawn mower, plus a Fisher Price Noah's Ark and extra animal sets for Sarah. We stopped at Petsmart and bought new dog bowls, rat food, cat food, a new cat litter box, plus a nesting box and a smaller litter box for poor pregnant Mazel. We got her a nice pillow at Target, too.

We also looked at a few furniture places (holy shit, that stuff is expensive!) and looked for a new home theater system. We're having trouble finding the one we want.

And then we came back to find Painter #3 having troubles - he can't reach the attic windows and trim with the ladders we have, and I don't know if any of the rental places will be open tomorrow or Monday (Memorial Day). I could go back to Painter #1, but I don't know if we'll have any rain-free days by the time he can start (Monday), and there's still the issue of ladder rental. It would cost almost $400 to buy a 40' ladder, and then where the hell do we put it to store it after the painting is done? Argh! I don't know what to do.

   

[daily calorie intake] 5/24/2003 10:10:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |anxious]
[Current Music |tv - cnbc - tim russert]

Breakfast - large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - ten french fries, Regular Coke.
Dinner - chicken alfredo pizza from Papa John's, Coke.
Snack - malted milk balls.

Exercise - none.

   

[more shopping] 5/25/2003 7:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - hgtv - house hunters]

We're now the owners of a Panasonic DVD home theater system. I'd wanted one that had a VCR in it, but those models didn't sound nearly as good, so we got this one. I am not an audio junkie, but Rusty wants to be able to play CDs in it too, hence the focus on sound quality. Whatever.

Then we went to Michaels and AC Moore, hooray! I bought memory wire, lots of pretty purple (glass and amethyst) beads, needle-nose pliers, purple jelly bracelets, purple candles, and some blank wooden blocks to paint and decorate for Sarah, plus paper, stickers, and paint for the blocks. And more Mod Podge. And a new 3/4" hole punch for making marble magnets. And some clear glass plates to decorate for candle bases. I love craft stores.

   

[daily calorie intake] 5/25/2003 8:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |stressed out]
[Current Music |dvd - red dragon]

Breakfast - large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - chicken quesadilla and half of a taco from Taco Bell, Coke.
Dinner - mozzerella sticks from Anthony's, Coke.
Snack - malted milk balls.

Exercise - none.

   

[today] 5/26/2003 7:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |exhausted]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

We put another coat of paint on the front porch, and on the first floor windows. I suddenly noticed that there were basement windows that hadn't been touched, and so I painted those too. And I cleaned up all the paint chips that had missed the drop cloths. That was a pain in the ass.

And I hung out of the third floor windows and painted what I could on the attic dormers. This was quite an interesting experience, since I am terrified of heights and get vertigo from standing on a step stool. Still, most of it is painted... I hope that it's enough to pass inspection.

I am so tired. My feet hurt and I'm sick of paint.

   

Comments:
From: [info]jupiterjuniper
Date: 5/27/2003 12:19:44 PM

when will we get to see pictures!? :)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/27/2003 12:27:29 PM

Oh yeah, I need to do that, huh? Well, basically it looks like this, but with newer paint on the trim. :)
From: [info]jupiterjuniper
Date: 5/27/2003 1:14:00 PM

Re:

bootiful! :)

[daily calorie intake] 5/26/2003 8:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired and annoyed]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Breakfast - two large cappachinos from Sheetz.
Lunch - leftover chicken alfredo pizza, Coke.
Dinner - cheesesticks from Papa John's, Coke.
Snack - malted milk balls.

Exercise - none.

   

[this is it] 5/27/2003 11:35:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |nervous]
[Current Music |tv - nickelodeon]

I called the lender and told her to go ahead and order the final inspection... we've painted all that we can paint. Please pray, visualise, cross your fingers - whatever your preference - that the house passes inspection. My stomach is upset. I need to pack.

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 5/27/2003 12:53:07 PM

fingers are crossed and saying a prayer
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/27/2003 7:42:08 PM

THANK YOU!!! :)
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 5/27/2003 4:13:08 PM

I'm keeping everything crossed and praying too. I'm sure it'll be fine! *hugs*
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/27/2003 7:45:41 PM

Thanks Lynz... from your lips, etcetera. :)
From: [info]kimikohime
Date: 5/27/2003 10:44:40 PM

Fingers crossed and praying here!

[more] 5/27/2003 7:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |anxious]
[Current Music |tv - jeopardy]

I feel a little better now... there was one attic window that didn't get completely painted, and the window wouldn't open. However, I went over and finally managed to open it, and hang out enough to touch up that last little part. It doesn't look great, but it looks like it's been painted.

I didn't hear back from the lender, so hopefully the inspector wasn't there today, before I was. I will still happily accept any prayers/good vibes/Renee-gets-her-house dances...

I seriously feel really, really, really sick.

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 5/28/2003 9:15:08 AM

I hope you feel better soon, and that the inspection goes alright, and that everything is painted enough, and that you can finally get the house and MOOOOOOOVE.

[daily calorie intake] 5/27/2003 8:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |ugh]
[Current Music |tv - amc - young guns]

Breakfast - four cups of coffee.
Lunch - potato chips, Coke.
Dinner - leftover cheesesticks and chicken alfredo pizza, Coke.
Snack - malted milk balls.

Exercise - none.

   

[waiting and wondering] 5/28/2003 11:10:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |anxious]
[Current Music |tv - pbs - teletubbies]

Last night I made a pretty purple bracelet on the new memory wire. The stuff is kind of a pain to use, but the results were really nice. I would scan it, but I am far too lazy and pre-occupied. We also started painting the wooden blocks for Sarah; that was a fun thing to do together.

The lender hasn't called about the inspection yet. I wonder if that's a good sign, or bad? I wonder if the guy has even been there yet? I wonder if there's something I could take that would induce a non-fatal coma until all of this house-buying business is over...?

I really need to pack. Ugh.

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 5/28/2003 12:54:59 PM

my fingers are still crossed... :)

[on the verge of meltdown] 5/28/2003 11:55:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |psychotically anxious]
[Current Music |tv - nickelodeon]

WHY WON'T THIS STUPID PHONE RING?????

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 5/28/2003 12:06:51 PM

I DON'T KNOW!!! WHAT'S WRONG WITH THOSE PEOPLE?!?!?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/28/2003 12:10:07 PM

ARGH!!! CALL, STUPID LENDER!!!!! DELIVER TURTLES, STUPID MAIL PEOPLE!!!!!

*thunk*
From: [info]muridae
Date: 5/28/2003 12:41:42 PM

Re:

Did they call yet? And what are they waiting for?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/28/2003 12:47:51 PM

They still haven't called. They're obviously waiting for me to go completely insane.
From: [info]sf_rose
Date: 5/28/2003 12:27:20 PM

They must die...

On the otherhand, no news is probably good news...

Hang tight!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/28/2003 12:40:25 PM

Re: They must die...

Thanks. I hope I'm still sane, by the time we move in...
From: [info]sf_rose
Date: 5/28/2003 12:41:19 PM

Re: They must die...

You will be. Trust me.

But have a bottle of "pepto bismol" ready...

I swear, they do all this crap to drive people f'ing crazy...
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/28/2003 12:46:48 PM

Re: They must die...

Well in that case, it's working!!! =D

[stupid phone] 5/28/2003 12:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |nervous]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

Perhaps I should have been more specific. The phone finally rang, but it was the realtor instead of the lender, and she hadn't heard anything about the inspection either. Last she heard, we were still floating for closing tomorrow. She is going to call the lawyers and try to pin down a general time. I'm still waiting for the lender to call...

   

[insane, i tell you] 5/28/2003 1:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |freaking out]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

Theorhetically, this could all be over in 24 hours. By this time tomorrow, we could be moving into our very own house. But I don't know, because this %&@# lender won't call and tell me!!!!!

Won't you guys be glad when it's over? =)

   

[last resort] 5/28/2003 1:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |insane]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

Maybe I'll eat something really crunchy, or chewy. That usually makes the phone ring.

She'd have called if she knew that there was a problem, wouldn't she? I mean, the inspector could have just not gone over there yet, in which case she would have no reason to call yet, but if he checked and it didn't pass, surely she would have called, right?

   

[i can't stand it] 5/28/2003 1:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |stark raving mad]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

I couldn't stand the suspense and finally just called the lenders, myself... and they're all out to lunch!!! What the hell? How can they eat at a time like this??? Argh!!!

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 5/28/2003 3:54:27 PM

So, did you manage to get in touch with them, and are you having any more success than I am?!?!?!?

[finally] 5/28/2003 3:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |giddy]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

THE HOUSE PASSED FINAL INSPECTION!!!!! =)

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 5/28/2003 4:07:37 PM

YAY! YAY! YAY! YAY! YAY!

That means you can close tomorrow, and move in when? Right away?

HOORAY!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/28/2003 4:37:52 PM

Yup! We're supposed to close tomorrow, and then we can start hauling all this stuff over! Ugh. But still... cool house! No more idiot landlord! Woot!

*bounce bounce*
From: [info]muridae
Date: 5/28/2003 4:55:40 PM

Heh, all that work and painting and worrying and landlord crap but it really is all working out now! Yay! Yay! Yay!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/28/2003 6:11:14 PM

Yes! And now you must come and visit me and get your lithops, and your mimosa, and this really-cute-thing-that-I-bought-for-you-ages-ago-but-never-got-around-to-mailing!
From: [info]muridae
Date: 5/29/2003 8:44:50 PM

*eep!*

I can also give you your birthday present and oh the lotus seeds that I'm apparently too lazy to mail. Yay!

I can't wait to see the new place!
From: [info]arkady
Date: 5/28/2003 4:08:26 PM

Excellent!! :-D
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/28/2003 4:39:02 PM

Thanks! We're very excited, and at last I'll have a room for the rats and all their toys and paraphenalia! =)
From: [info]cellio
Date: 5/28/2003 4:12:39 PM

Congratulations! When do you close? Tomorrow?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/28/2003 4:46:37 PM

We're supposed to, yeah. We're kinda penciled in, because they had to move it at the last minute, but it's supposed to be *sometime* tomorrow. I can't wait! =)
From: [info]sf_rose
Date: 5/28/2003 4:15:30 PM

WOOT!

YOOOOOOOOOOOUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU GO!!!!!!!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/28/2003 4:47:54 PM

Re: WOOT!

I AM going! To my new house! Heheheheheheeeee!!!

You'll have to excuse me; I'm a bit giddy at the moment. =)
From: [info]s8venus
Date: 5/28/2003 4:26:52 PM

HELL YEAh!!!!!!!!!!!

From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/28/2003 4:48:59 PM

YEAH!!! A purple rat room for ME!!! =D
From: [info]s8venus
Date: 5/28/2003 6:09:49 PM

Oooooooohhhhh Purple!

"rat room"

Lol...it htink my second bedroom will ALWAYS be a ratroom even if I don't have rats!

*LOL*
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 5/28/2003 4:32:08 PM

WHEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!

*hugs*

Didn't I tell you it'd work out? ;)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/28/2003 4:51:28 PM

Thank you!!! And yes, you did... you're the bestest! :)
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 5/28/2003 8:04:43 PM

Ahh I like it when I use my powers for good instead of evil :D

I suggest you designate yourself 'foreman' and let everyone else do the work tomorrow! ;) There's an e-card winging it's way to your ziggabella email address, enjoy!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/28/2003 8:19:51 PM

Thank you!!!

But... but... I can still use MY powers for evil, right?

I DID enjoy the e-card; that was so sweet! I had to send it to my mom, as she will appreciate the message at the end. She is, at this very moment, helping me compose a letter to present to the court regarding the landlord. :-}
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 5/28/2003 5:53:26 PM

thank goodness! That's wonderful!! ::)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/28/2003 6:04:00 PM

Thank you. I am very much looking forward to escaping the horror of the Idiot Landlord. =)
From: [info]thanny
Date: 5/28/2003 8:40:45 PM

CONGRATS!!!!!

funny, the closing for my house was one year ago this week as well!! yay for may happiness!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/28/2003 10:32:26 PM

Thanks! :) May is a very good month for house-buying!
From: [info]jacquez
Date: 5/28/2003 10:25:12 PM

hooray!

wonderful! i'm so happy for you.

please think good thoughts for us. :)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/28/2003 10:29:23 PM

Re: hooray!

Thanks! I will think very good thoughts for you and your cute house, as well. There seems to be a house-buying frenzy on LiveJournal lately, so come on, join the fray! =)
From: [info]kimikohime
Date: 5/28/2003 10:33:23 PM

CONGRATS!! =D
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/28/2003 10:51:17 PM

Thanks! :)

[daily calorie intake] 5/28/2003 10:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |bouncy]
[Current Music |tv - tnt - maverick]

Breakfast - three cups of coffee.
Lunch - potato chips, a few bites of scrambled egg, Coke.
Dinner - mozzerella sticks from Anthony's, Coke.
Snack - malted milk balls.

Exercise - none.

   

[for the extra-special filter] 5/29/2003 11:35:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |tv - abc stuff]

We got court papers from John, wanting to evict us (!) for not paying May rent. We won't be in court, but we did manage to drop off an answer packet with a statement and some delightfully incriminating photos of the apartment. The funny thing is, I'd have been out this weekend if he had left us alone, but now the court is probably going to give me even more time to vacate.



I regret that I am unable to personally appear in court to address this matter, but I am scheduled today to close on the house into which my family will be moving as soon as possible. I attempted to have the closing appointment rescheduled to another day, but was unable to do so. As a result, I respectfully submit the following statement and exhibits to the court.

Myself, my fiancee Renee Ludwig, and our infant daughter Sarah inhabit the apartment in question. While the apartment is listed in my name, the rent checks have always been paid by Renee. On May 8, 2003, Renee sent Mr. DiCarlo a check for $450 (see item A). When we learned via email that he did not receive the check, Renee offered to have her bank stop payment on the check and provide a new one (see item B). We never received a reply to this email, and Mr. DiCarlo has refused to honor our efforts to make payment. It should also be noted that we paid Mr. DiCarlo the first and last month's rent when we moved into the apartment (see item C) in September 1997. Additionally, Mr. DiCarlo has stated that we have always paid the rent on time throughout our tenure as his tenants (see item D). As a result, we are quite surprised by this sudden action on his part. We were further dismayed to receive the unsigned Petition For Summary Relief: Wrongful Occupation of Residential Rental Property, not from an official server or Mr. DiCarlo himself, but from a woman unknown to us who we believe may be a tenant in another of Mr. DiCarlo's properties.

Furthermore, the apartment in question is uninhabitable, as witnessed by Mr. William Riley (304-264-2131) during his Rental Housing Inspection of March 20, 2003. Mr. DiCarlo has allowed the property to fall into extreme disrepair, refusing to address any problems reported to him, even those involving danger to the inhabitants of the building. Among other problems, the stove catches on fire if plugged in, the door is shaky with wide gaps and faulty hardware, there are several electrical outlets that do not work and others that blow a fuse if you use two things at once, the living room ceiling is sagging badly, the ceiling in the hall is crumbling with paint chips and plaster because of a leak that went unattended from the upstairs apartment, there is a hole and evidence of a burn in the kitchen ceiling, and an even larger hole in the bathroom shower stall where snakes, bugs, and other vermin can easily enter. I have enclosed photos of the apartment for your consideration.

We have no problem with leaving this apartment, as we feel that is unsafe for us and our two-year-old daughter.

Respectfully,

Russell B. Snyder


The man should not have underestimated me or my vengeful nature. Bwahahahaha.

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 5/29/2003 2:33:18 PM

Jeeze. Why is he so dumb?

Post an update after you hear back, okay?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/29/2003 11:01:51 PM

Will do. I'm thinking that they must've gone in our favour, because if they'd ordered us to pay up and get out, he'd have been right over with that... but we've not heard from him.

[the grand finale] 5/29/2003 4:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |relieved]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]


At about 2pm this afternoon, we became homeowners. It was kind of anti-climactic... I was really hoping for ballons, or something. But anyway, the dreaded "closing" is finally over.
   

Comments:
From: [info]topi
Date: 5/29/2003 4:47:30 PM

Congrats!

Whoa...that's fantastic news!
From: [info]sf_rose
Date: 5/29/2003 4:58:17 PM

Grinning Broadly

The hard part's over... LET'S PARTY!!!!
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 5/29/2003 4:58:53 PM

Yay!
From: [info]muridae
Date: 5/29/2003 5:10:50 PM

Well, congratulations on being homeowners, even though there were no balloons!
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 5/29/2003 7:26:45 PM

yay!!!!
From: [info]jupiterjuniper
Date: 5/30/2003 9:07:51 AM

it's beautiful.

i do hope you post some pictures of the place inside once you get settled.

xx
From: [info]amethystrse
Date: 6/1/2003 11:38:08 AM

I'm jealous! That's the kind of house I want to eventually get. Though, in LA a house like that would cost way too much. :(

Congrats hon!

[today] 5/29/2003 8:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |happy]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - the o'reilly factor]

So we went to closing, signed papers, got the key, etcetera. We talked to Betty (the realtor) for a few minutes afterwards. She has been so nice through all of this; I want to send her flowers or a plant or something. As stressful as it was, she was always very helpful and patient.

Thanks also to you guys for the congratulations and good wishes! We're positively giddy. :)

Anyway, after closing, we went back to Target for a third shower curtain liner (two wasn't enough). I also got some stuff for the remarkabley well-behaved daughter: crayons, animal colouring books, and a new pair of sneakers. We went to Michaels, where I got more purple beads, as well as three more blank wooden blocks, better brushes, and more stickers.

Then we came back to town and met up with my mom, who kindly took us out to El Ranchero to celebrate with yummy Mexican food and sangria. It's been a very lovely day.

I guess I really should pack now.

   

Comments:
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 5/29/2003 8:54:37 PM

Congrats, Mrs. Homeowner!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/29/2003 9:31:07 PM

Thanks! :)
From: [info]topi
Date: 5/29/2003 9:06:24 PM

That's two people on my friends list who closed today! ROCK!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/29/2003 9:24:03 PM

That's so cool! Three people on my friends list just bought or are in the process of buying houses, too. Tis the season! :)

[daily calorie intake] 5/29/2003 9:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |bouncy]
[Current Music |tv - alien resurrection]

Breakfast - large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - a pickle, Goldfish Crackers, Mountain Dew.
Dinner - cheese quesadillas and a refried bean taco, Coke.
Snack - malted milk balls.

Exercise - none.

   

[packing checklist] 5/30/2003 7:25:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |tc - abc - good morning america]


Let's see... Antiques? Check. Vases? Check. Puzzles and games? Check. Big floppy cat? Check.
   

Comments:
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 5/30/2003 8:16:36 AM

Cute!

Isn't it neat how cats are self-packing? Except when it's the 400th time you've had to remove the same cat from the suitcase / box / mountain o' boxes, of course. {g}
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 5/30/2003 9:33:50 AM

that's adorable!!!
From: [info]cellio
Date: 5/30/2003 10:07:40 AM

:-)
From: [info]muridae
Date: 5/30/2003 11:32:22 AM

Look! The big orange stupid gay cat!

<hugs the big orange stupid gay cat>

When do you think you'll be moved in? When do you think we could come and visit? It would have to be on a weekend, and we'd have to borrow the nice car from Sean's mom, so we'd have to see if she'd allow us to take it for a day or two (argh! need my own newer car!) so I guess I'd better try to set it up with them a while before the actual date of visiting.

I wish I'd been able to come down and help with the painting and construction and stuff. Did I mention needing a newer car? =D
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/30/2003 4:21:23 PM

We're moving in this weekend (ugh). So, ummm, you're welcome to show up any time after that. :)
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 5/30/2003 6:59:18 PM

He's a big orange lion!
From: [info]amethystrse
Date: 6/1/2003 11:36:54 AM

oh that is too cute!

[gakked from ariestess] 5/30/2003 11:15:00 AM

purple_stardust


   

[today] 5/30/2003 4:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

I called Adelphia and made arrangements for them to disconnect here (Monday) and hook up cable at the new house; they'll have to run the cable into the house, so they couldn't fit me in until next Wednesday - which means we'll actually be forced to live for a couple of days without television. The horror. I also told them I wanted cable modem hooked up. Heh.

I called U-Haul to reserve a truck; I'm on stand-by for tomorrow. I really hope I can get one - no way will this big-ass desk fit in that Taurus. Neither will the rat cages, for that matter.

And I took two loads of boxes over: VHS and DVDs, CDs, Judaism books and paraphenalia, games and jigsaw puzzles, vases, antiques, Alice in Wonderland stuff, my marble collection.

I still have almost everything else to pack. I need to go through the shed and figure out what I want to bother taking. I need to buy new surge protectors for the computer and entertainment stuff. I need to clean the drywall dust out of the rat room so that I can get them moved in.

I know it will be worth it in the end, but I hate moving.

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 5/30/2003 4:46:48 PM

yes, in the end, it will be worth all of the crazy moving stuff you're doing now. and once you're in, you can take your time unpacking some of the stuff.

i'm so excited for you!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 5/30/2003 6:30:48 PM

Thanks! :)

[daily calorie intake] 5/30/2003 8:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - the o'reilly factor]

Breakfast - large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - a chicken nugget and seven french fries, Goldfish Crackers, Coke.
Dinner - half of a cheese sub and mozzerella sticks from Anthony's, Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[moving - day one] 5/31/2003 10:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |exhausted]
[Current Music |tv - hgtv - designer's challenge]

I haven't the words to express how much I hate moving. Really, at one point we had a huge fight which ended with me calling my mother and Rusty throwing down the keys to the U-Haul and the new house and storming out. It was not a pretty scene. Fortunately my ex-husband showed up soon after to help, and we try to avoid displaying our utter contempt for one another in public.

Anyway. We finally started to accomplish something at that point. Today was the day we had the U-Haul (and Jamie!), so we focused on the big and heavy stuff today. We got the aquarium and stand moved, as well as poor Simon and Fillet (the catfish), who are living in a bucket for the time being. We moved the crappy bookcases and most of the books, Sarah's dresser, a wooden file cabinet, and a few other miscellaneous pieces of decent furniture.

We also moved the rats and their cages, and some of their paraphenalia. I thought they'd be freaked out, but they seemed to enjoy being outside, and didn't even hide after the ride over.

I decided to leave my desk. It's a great desk, but it's huge and heavy and would be extremely difficult to get out of here in one piece. I'm leaving the entertainment center here too, and our bed. The entertainment center and bed are crap, but I'll really miss this desk.

Small not-yet-packed stuff tomorrow. I hate moving.

   

[daily calorie intake] 5/31/2003 10:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |exhausted]
[Current Music |tv - hgtv - designer's challenge]

Breakfast - large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - leftover cheese sub, Coke.
Dinner - cheesesticks from Domino's, Coke.
Snack - malted milk balls.

Exercise - none.

   

[see ya...] 6/1/2003 6:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired but happy]
[Current Music |nothing left]

This is officially my last post from this G-d-forsaken shithole apartment.

That's the news, and I am OUTTA HERE.

   

Comments:
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 6/1/2003 6:57:24 PM

*squeak* YAY! Thrilled to bits for you, here's to fantastic times in your own house!
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 6/1/2003 7:40:06 PM

Yay! No more ass-wipe landlord! :)
*does happy dance for you*
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 6/1/2003 8:24:38 PM

my thoughts, exactly!

woot!

[hello again] 6/1/2003 9:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired but mostly happy]
[Current Music |television in the other room]

And this is officially my first post from my new house.

It is good to be home.

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 6/1/2003 10:14:49 PM

:D :D :D
From: [info]sf_rose
Date: 6/2/2003 12:12:23 AM

yay!
From: [info]cellio
Date: 6/2/2003 11:53:49 AM

That was fast! Congrats.

[daily calorie intake] 6/1/2003 10:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired tired tired]
[Current Music |television in the other room]

Breakfast - large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - Excedrin, Yoohoo.
Dinner - cheesesticks from Domino's, Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[today] 6/2/2003 10:10:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |home sweet home]
[Current Music |television in the other room]

I got the last of the stuff out of the apartment, or at least the last of what I wanted to take.

It's weird how detached I feel from it now. I thought I would be sad to leave, or at least a bit meloncholy; we've been there for almost six years. My daughter was concieved there. And yet, walking around today, it was more like visiting a stranger's home. A lot of our stuff is still there; our bed, the sofa, my desk, a lot of miscellaneous stuff - but it all feels different now. Maybe it's the fiasco with the asshole landlord, maybe it's because I already got all the stuff of sentimental value, but whatever made that place home is definately gone. I have a new home now.

Anyway. I got some of my pots and pans, in case I decide that I want to cook now. I picked up the betta fish and the blue Michigan rat. I rummaged through the stuff in/on/around my desk; grabbed most of my software, some cards from Rusty, and my old journals and writings. I went through the bedrooms, made sure that everything important was accounted for. I'm done.

My mom stopped by, brought me an antique flowered pitcher that my grandmother had been given as a little girl. It's lovely, and it makes me very paranoid, as I'm not sure that I should be trusted with the family heirlooms. She also sent me some antique linens, hand-laced, even. Nice.

And Steven finally made it to the Holocaust Museum today (the last time they tried to go, they had an accident). He bought me a pin that says "Remember" in Hebrew, that was very sweet.

Tomorrow I start cleaning and unpacking...

   

[filtered footnote] 6/2/2003 10:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |vengeful]
[Current Music |television in the other room]

And yes, I did leave "gifts" for my asshole landlord to remember me by. The apartment is now an aromatic combination of saurkraut, cheap canned catfood, broken eggs, and dirty fish water. In a few days, he's going to know what "smells bad" really smells like.

   

Comments:
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 6/3/2003 8:00:47 AM

*lol* ewwww
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 6/3/2003 9:34:31 AM

You ROCK!

[daily calorie intake] 6/2/2003 10:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired but happy]
[Current Music |television in the other room]

Breakfast - hashbrown and a large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - peanuts, dill pickle, Coke.
Dinner - cheesesticks from Papa John's, Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[today] 6/3/2003 10:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |happy]
[Current Music |cd - eric clapton]

I cleaned the kitchen some, washed some dishes, and put the food away in the pantry. Heh.

I also finished filling the aquarium; Simon seems much happier with the arrangement. I got the filter cleaned and set up, but I think I'll just buy new air wands, rather than try to salvage the old ones. When I go to Petsmart for air wands, I might look about getting a couple of comets.

This evening, we've been listening to music and painting blocks; very nice.

Tomorrow I need to make a list of the things that I need to replace, that I forgot (like the can opener) or left at the apartment on purpose (like my dishes).

   

[daily calorie intake] 6/3/2003 10:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |happy]
[Current Music |cd - eric clapton]

Breakfast - egg and cheese muffin with hashbrown, large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - peanuts, dill pickle, Coke.
Dinner - leftover cheesesticks from Papa John's, Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[today] 6/4/2003 8:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sleepy]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - the o'reilly factor]

I woke up with nasty carpal tunnel symptoms, it was an hour or so before I returned to normal. It seems to get me worse at night than when I'm actually typing (or mousing), and my current lack of a proper desk hasn't helped any. Must remember to wear silly gloves to bed tonight.

The cable guy showed up and hooked up my regular cable AND a second line for cable modem. I can tell already that dial-up will never again be adequate. I had to call tech support because of a software issue, and the guy that I talked to was very helpful and nice. Tres cool.

Whilst I was in high-speed heaven, Rusty was upstairs in homeowner hell, fixing our leaky tub faucet. We'd had the same problem (a worn seat) at the apartment, so he knew how to fix it.

I went to CVS for more cleaning stuff, and found someone's Lowe's charge card on the floor. I returned it, despite the plumbing issues and the gazillions of dollars worth of paint I need. :P

I have been worthless today, fell asleep twice, and just generally lazed around most of the day. I'm going to blame it on PMS, I think.

   

[daily calorie intake] 6/4/2003 9:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - comedy central]

Breakfast - egg and cheese muffin with hashbrown, large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - honey-roasted peanuts, Coke.
Dinner - macaroni and cheese, Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[erg] 6/5/2003 3:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |cold]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

My mom is driving me nuts. She's always complaining about something: her health, she has no money, something. She is like the stereotypical Jewish mother, except, she's not Jewish. So today I called her on the phone, and we ended up talking about vitamins, and how she needs them. Fine. But all of the sudden, the talk turns to MY diet, and how much it sucks...

She says she's surprised that I don't have some awful bad-nutrition disease, like rickets, or berri berri. I tell her that I do NOT have rickets, or berri berri. She informs me that I don't know what the symptoms of rickets or berri berri are, and therefore, I might have them.

Then she asks me when was the last time that I ate a vegetable? A fruit? A meat? I tell her I don't know, I didn't know there was gonna be a quiz. I swear the woman is insane.

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 6/5/2003 4:07:05 PM

Sheesh, it's annoying when people do that. But she's your mom -- she's probably worried about you! Your diet is, admittedly, cheese-o-centric. :)

Anyway, rickets is caused by a shortage of vitamin D, or of natural sunlight, and vitamin D is supplemented in dairy products, so it's unlikely you'd have that. You'd know if you had beri beri because the symptoms include muscle weakness and paralysis. =P

It's not a bad idea to take a multi-vitamin every day! I try to remember to take one -- in fact, your post reminded me to take it. Thanks. :D
From: [info]ayzalove
Date: 6/8/2003 3:13:09 AM

haha

I know this wasn't supposed to BE funny but I'm laughing :)

[today] 6/5/2003 4:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |cold and sleepy]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

I went to the post office and the bank, gave them the new address at the bank.

Stopped at Target, where I spent a lot of money on stuff that I forgot or didn't bother to pack: a can opener, a measuring cup, a dish drainer, kitchen knives, bowls for the rat treats. I got another set of shower curtain rings, and a silver-coloured wastebasket for the bathroom. I also bought a potty chair and training pants, Hello Kitty bubble bath, a purple Hello Kitty bag, and a new outfit for Sarah. And I got a box of L'oreal "Chunking" Highlights for me.

Then it was on to Petsmart, where I bought the usual pet food, as well as new bubble wands for the aquarium, blue air line tubing, anacharis plants, and two cute little comet goldfish. I also got a pretty purple fluffy kitty bed for Mazel. It says "Princess" which is certainly appropriate.

I stopped at Kmart on the way home and bought a set of kitchen utensils (I needed a spaghetti spoon), salt and pepper shakers, bones for the dogs, and purple hair paint.

And now, I would very much like to take a nap.

   

[daily calorie intake] 6/5/2003 10:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - nbc - er]

Breakfast - Krispy Kreme donuts and a large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - peanuts, Coke.
Dinner - cheesesticks from Papa John's, Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 6/6/2003 9:14:50 AM

i still haven't tried a krispy kreme donut. i feel so deprived! :)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/6/2003 10:17:18 PM

Oh my, you need to try a Krispy Kreme... they're scrumptious!

[ghost in a jar???] 6/6/2003 8:35:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |tv - good morning america]

Does anyone know the origins of the "ghost in a jar" craze on Ebay?

   

Comments:
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 6/6/2003 9:39:20 AM

recommented to correct link

It seems to have two branches.

One is the standard eBay "buy the horrible haunted thing I found!" craze. (Guy digs up jar, is now haunted by horrible thing, can't get rid of jar or thing and is trying to sell it.)

The other seems to be a 'psychic hotline' deal. You can buy your very own "ghost in a jar" that will... well, it's not very clear. "Bring you good luck" seems to be theme.

Why people have decided to snap up the ghostinajar domain names to peddle to the cons selling the GiaJs is beyond me. Although I appreciate the thought behind scamming a scammer, I'm not sure it's going to work.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/6/2003 7:55:25 PM

They're just so weird... they have tee-shirts, and everything. ':-D
From: [info]ayzalove
Date: 6/8/2003 3:09:37 AM

lmao

I saw that one too, HILARIOUS did you see how the number of bids went DOWN as it got closer to the auction end... I don't know what the point was... don't you have to pay for the fees when the auction ends? WEIRD!

[grrr] 6/6/2003 3:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |impatient]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

I ordered this box for Rusty for Fathers Day. According to UPS, it has arrived in Hagerstown MD and it now "out for delivery" but it isn't here yet, and I'm getting antsy. Also, I really wanted to put highlights in my hair, and/or go to Office Max to replace my desk, and I really can't do these things in case the UPS guy would show up. Argh.

   

[today] 6/6/2003 6:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |fuzzy]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]

My package finally came. I went out and bought an el cheapo computer cart at Office Max.
I never did get my hair highlighted. I may go do that now...

   

[daily calorie intake] 6/6/2003 10:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |yuck]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - while you were out]

Breakfast - large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - leftover cheesesticks, Coke.
Dinner - cheesesticks from Domino's, Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[welcome to home ownership] 6/7/2003 6:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |annoyed]
[Current Music |the fish filter]

And now we have a clogged toilet, hooray. We tried plunging, no dice. We tried an auger, nada. I'm thinking, if I wait until Monday to call the plumber, it'll be a lot cheaper than paying their "weekend" rates... I'll just have to go to Sheetz to use the bathroom until then.

Update: I went ahead and called a plumber, who basically charged me $75 to tell me that I shouldn't flush tampons down the commode. Never mind that I've been flushing tampons for eighteen years with no problems; now suddenly flushing tampons is a terrible thing to do.

He's supposed to come back Monday with an electric auger and charge me more money.

   

[grammar quix] 6/7/2003 2:35:00 PM

purple_stardust



[take the test] - [by krystaljungle.com]

   

[daily calorie intake] 6/7/2003 9:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |bah]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Breakfast - hashbrown and a large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - Krispy Kreme donuts, Coke.
Dinner - Swansons chicken w/ mashed potatoes and corn, Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[today] 6/8/2003 6:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |weird]
[Current Music |tv - some stupid movie]

We went to Target, where I bought a hallogen desk lamp for my craft table, and a nice comfy cushion for my wooden stool. After that, we stopped at Kmart, where I bought some dishes - Martha Stewart's Violet Pattern. They're very pretty, and there is both purple and green in the pattern, so I can do the dining room in either colour and it should work. I like Martha.

Later, I got the rest of my clothes out of storage, since I have a basement now, and stopped at the drugstore and picked up a basal thermometer in case I want to have another baby.

And now I'm making spaghetti sauce and dying things purple.

   

[daily calorie intake] 6/8/2003 10:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |dvd - saving private ryan]

Breakfast - large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - leftover cheese pizza, olives from Israel, Coke.
Dinner - spaghetti with four cheese sauce and italian bread, Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[stupid question du jour] 6/9/2003 8:35:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |befuddled]
[Current Music |tv - good morning america]

[info]jacquez or anyone who has experience - when a gas range/oven has been sitting unused for a while, would there be a master switch to turn it "on" or something? I tried turning the burner knobs on a while back, and nothing happened, and now I see that there's a big blue knob on the gasline itself, so I'm wondering if someone turned it "off" while the house was sitting empty. Anyone know? I am terrified of gas stoves, so I don't want to touch anything that I shouldn't...

   

Comments:
From: [info]arkady
Date: 6/9/2003 9:21:58 AM

It's usually fairly normal for the gas supplies to be turned off if a property is likely to remain empty for some time. Even if the gas company have reconnected you, you'll still have to switch on the supply to the cooker via the gas stopcock - the big blue knob on the gasline. There should only be one direction you can turn it in; work out which way it moves, then turn it until it's fully open and won't turn any more. Next, open up all windows in the kitchen to ensure good ventilation. Then make sure it's all working by lighting all the pilot lights on the cooker - all hobs as well as oven and grill - and make sure they all burn well for a good five minutes to burn out any impurities and that nothing is clogged. After that it should be fine, and you can close the windows again.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/9/2003 9:35:08 AM

Thanks Rose!!! I've never had a gas stove before (I've only even *seen* one once), so I was completely baffled. They scare the hell out of me; one, because I've got no sense of smell so I would be unaware of any gas leaks, and two, because I just don't like the idea of anything that has blue flames shooting out of it... but I'm going to have to cook sometime. Thanks again!

[this stupid stove] 6/9/2003 11:15:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |freaked out]
[Current Music |tv - pbs - teletubbies]

Well, I turned the gasline on, but when I tried the burners, they hissed but didn't ignite. So I turned the gas back off until I can save up enough money to have the stupid gasline taken out, and buy an electric range. I hate gas. I hate it, I hate it, I hate it.

   

Comments:
From: [info]angel_renewed
Date: 6/9/2003 11:35:47 AM

Are the pilot lights lit? That'd be the first thing to check (if you haven't already).
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/9/2003 11:43:16 AM

I don't think so... I don't really know where/what the pilot lights ARE, but I saw no lights come on, so I guess not. Have I mentioned that I don't know what the hell I'm doing?
From: [info]angel_renewed
Date: 6/9/2003 11:49:41 AM

Re:

Okay. I know where you're coming from. I frikkin HATE gas, too. Normally, on a gas range the top of the stove will lift off and there will be at least 1 (sometimes 2) pilot lights. These pilot lights are necessary to get the damn thing working. There's also a pilot light in the oven.

Here's how *I* would approach it. This is assuming your stove isn't a new-fangled one.

1. Turn the gas on

2. OPEN THE WINDOWS. You've probably got some built up gas. No go boom. Boom bad.

3. Lift up the stove top and look for a place the lines could be coming out to make a pilot light. Usually between burners. There may be a nozzle there to turn the pilot light on/off. If it's a self lighting new-fangled kind, it could have an 'auto-start' button.

4. Arm yourself with an aim and flame type lighter. THIS IS IMPORTANT. Don't use matches or small lighters.

5. Take the aim and flame. Light it. Carefully use it to 'roam' around the top of the stove where the pilot light could be. At some point, if there is a pilot light, it will 'catch' and a small fire will result. Test this by turning on the burners. If the pilot light is lit, they should turn on.

Anyway, you most definitely need to get those pilot lights lit. Worst case scenario, have a handyman come out and help. For far less than buying an Electric stove and dropping an outlet for said stove, they can show you what to do.

From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/9/2003 11:58:18 AM

Thanks for the advice! I will print it out and give it to Rusty to try it when he gets home... while I stand out in the yard. It's the "boom" part that concerns me. :\
From: [info]ilea
Date: 6/9/2003 11:57:56 AM

call your gas company... and see if they will come light your pilot lights for you
Here they light them for you when they turn the gas on (or put it in your name)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/9/2003 12:21:14 PM

Really? Hmm, I may have to try that... our electric gas company isn't known for their helpfulness, but it's certainly worth a try!
From: [info]s8venus
Date: 6/9/2003 1:59:05 PM

Mmmmmmmmmmmm Gas!

As long as it's coming from the stove and not me I love gas!

*LOL*

[random stuff] 6/9/2003 4:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sleepy]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Rusty and I took Sarah for a walk last evening, and I found a four-leaf clover.

We happen to live near the local high school, and yesterday they sponsored some sort of breast cancer relay thing. This is not particularly interesting in and of itself, but afterwards, they put on probably the most spectacular fireworks display that I've ever seen [1]. We had a great view from our front porch, and will have to pay attention to see if they do it again next year. It was way cooler than the July 4 fireworks display that they do at the park.

[1] I personally don't believe that raising money for cancer research is very helpful, because currently it doesn't behoove the researchers to find a cure. If people wanted to stop this shit, they should find a way to give the diseases to the researchers, making them much more motivated to find a cure. But if you do believe that it can make a difference, then it certainly doesn't seem practical to spend thousands of dollars of the money you've raised, on an elaborate pyrotechnics display. But whatever. Neat fireworks, anyway.

   

[today] 6/9/2003 10:10:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |productive]
[Current Music |tv - csi miami]

I did a load of clothes, cleaned the stove top, did several loads of dishes, cleaned the rat cages and washed all their bowls and bottles and igloos, and moved the cages up into the rat room.

Rusty came home and got the gas range working - thanks Sil!

   

[daily calorie intake] 6/9/2003 10:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - csi miami]

Breakfast - Krispy Kreme donut and a large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - honey-roasted peanuts, Coke.
Dinner - tomato soup with saltines, Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[my new love] 6/10/2003 10:50:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |enthralled]
[Current Music |tv - abc stuff]

This dishwasher is clearly the coolest invention ever.

   

[tori quix] 6/10/2003 10:00:00 AM

purple_stardust


*Purple (People) Faerie*

You are Purple (People) Faerie!
You are a little different from all the rest...
Mystical and solitary, with a voice all your own.

~Which Tori Amos Faerie Are You?~

   

[the gas thing again] 6/10/2003 2:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |freaked out]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

Yes, I am obsessing. But it freaks me out, dammit.

So Rusty came home yesterday, and I showed him the instructions, and he lit the pilot lights. There are three of them, two in the range and one in the oven part. For anyone not familier with gas ranges (as I was not), they're actually small flames, that stay lit, all the time. I was alarmed, and he told me that there's one in the water heater, too. Does no one else find that disturbing? There is something constantly on fire in the house, whether we're here or not.

In 1994, my home burnt to the ground - killed my three cats and destroyed everything that I owned... so maybe I am more paranoid than other people. But still.

As soon as I have the money for the conversion and the new appliances, that sucker (and the gas water heater) are out of here, and I'm having them cap the lines as far away as possible.

Assuming we don't all blow up, first. :\

   

Comments:
From: [info]lunza
Date: 6/10/2003 2:47:11 PM

Wow, I don't blame you. I'm not very fond of gas appliances either. But you're stuck with them for a while, so just think about how many people there are who have these things all the time for years and decades and they don't blow up or catch fire. As long as the appliances and the gas lines are in good shape, they won't catch fire. Perhaps it would give you a little more peace of mind to have them inspected by the gas company.
From: [info]angel_renewed
Date: 6/10/2003 2:48:20 PM

Glad to hear you have them lit. December 4, 1994 my apartment burnt to the ground. I got all the BIG animals (1 dog, 1 cat, 2 BIG birds, 1 boyfriend) out okay, but many fish didn't make it.

I totally understand.
From: [info]thanny
Date: 6/10/2003 3:13:04 PM

fuck i'm crazy like that too. even more, maybe, because i have zero sense of smell.

i don't have a gas oven now, but i used to and I HATED IT. those fucking pilot lights always went out, so i'd have to get the damn apt. manager to relight them for me. i do have gas heat and water now, and it's nice because it's cheaper, but... my heater pilot light went out one winter night, and i had no one to smell the area for me, so i couldn't even light it by myself for fear there was a leak and i'd blow us all up.

i want all electric too :0(
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/10/2003 3:19:15 PM

OMG, you too??? I have no sense of smell either, never have. You're the only other person I've ever "met" who can't smell... People think it's an inconvenience (because you can't smell candles or flowers or such), but it's really damned aggravating, especially if you have gas appliances. :\
From: [info]cellio
Date: 6/10/2003 3:28:11 PM

Wow, sorry to hear about the fire.

On the other hand, lots of people safely use gas, and I wouldn't be surprised if electrical fires are more likely than gas fires. Also, what kind of heat do you have? I'd bet there's a pilot light on your furnace, and furnaces are expensive to replace.

You might want to have annual inspections by a professional to make sure everything's in good shape. That and the good track record should help ease your nerves.
From: [info]gypsydance
Date: 6/10/2003 11:07:39 PM

From everything I've heard, you're right... electrical fires are considerably more common than gas fires. Soooo many things can go wrong with wiring, including bare wires, corrosion, water leaks (there's something to think about - water on an electric appliance means electrocution or fire, water on a gas appliance means you have to light the pilot light again), shorts, crossed wires... the list goes on and on. Once you get used to having a gas stove, it's much easier to cook on than an electric range, too. They're also easier to keep clean.

Also worth noting... while I've had occasional problems with gas stoves just plain not working, my current ELECTRIC stove shoots sparks out whenever I turn on a burner. I also have a couple of outlets in my apartment that do the same thing, as well as crossed wires on my kitchen lights. I live in constant fear of a fire, too, but definitely not from gas. I'm always worried that one day, the faulty wiring in this place is going to cause the entire thing to go up in flames.
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 6/10/2003 5:05:55 PM

i'm sorry about the fire. i have the feeling that gas stoves are pretty safe. my parents had one for decades and it was fine.
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 6/10/2003 5:08:54 PM

OMG, I'm going to have nightmares now. I've always been paranoid of losing my pets in a fire.

Is there some sort of detector you can get that'll make up for your lack of sense of smell?
From: [info]muridae
Date: 6/10/2003 5:44:14 PM

It's not really that scary -- yes, the flames are always on, but it's not as though it's a flame under a christmas tree or a bed or something -- hot water heaters and gas stoves are made to be very safe, and quite rarely blow up. As long as you're not storing stacks of oily newspapers next to the water heater, you're likely to be fine. I'm pretty paranoid about fires too, because my mom and dad had a big fire when I was a little baby, and ever since then they have been completely paranoid about candles, matches, any kinds of fire... and they passed the paranoia down to me. I think many many more fires are caused by poor or worn wiring in the walls, though, than by gas explosions.

Nevertheless, it's your house, and so if you want to replace the gas stove with electric, you should do it JUST BECAUSE YOU CAN. :D

Although this page is very sensational, you might find the gas detector useful.

http://www.safetyhero.com/naturalgas.htm

I had a friend in high school who also couldn't smell things. Come to think of it... I think she may have hated bananas as well. Hmm.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/11/2003 8:21:32 AM

I definately need that thing over my stove, thanks!

(Want to recommend me some bakeware and also some good pots and pans, ye olde kitchen goddess?)

[daily calorie intake] 6/10/2003 9:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - last comic standing]

Breakfast - Krispy Kreme donut and a large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - cream cheese sandwich with mustard, Coke.
Dinner - leftover spaghetti, Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[the gas stove, again] 6/11/2003 8:15:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |headachey]
[Current Music |tv - good morning america]

Don't ya'll wish I'd just stick my head in it and shut up already? =D

Anyway, thanks for the words of encouragement... I used the range last night. It freaked me out, and it was much different than I remember electric ranges being (I haven't used any stove for about five years). I made pasta, which I boiled over several times. Oddly, I can make perfect pasta in the microwave, but it took twenty minutes to make barely-soft pasta with a real stove. I think part of the problem is my cookware - I have the Corning Visions, which I love, but it's kind of unpredictable sometimes. I guess I should get some new pots and pans...

After Rusty went to bed, I went out and bought groceries - including things that I'll actually have to cook. I bought a huge box of eggs so that I can make matzo balls. I also want to make some deviled eggs, which I actually make very well, thankyouverymuch.

And at some point, I desparately need to buy new bakeware - I didn't bring mine from the apartment. Of course, that was Corning Visions too, which I don't think they make any more. Martha has a set of glass bakeware, so maybe I'll try that.

Wow, at this rate, I might even buy a real cookbook...

   

Comments:
From: [info]jacquez
Date: 6/11/2003 10:15:30 AM

I really like Calphalon cookware, and I'm very fond of Lodge cast-iron cookware as well. (Something like 90% of my cooking is done in 1 Calphalon nonstick saucepan and 1 big cast-iron skillet.)

Amazon has stunningly good prices on Calphalon, too, which is good because it's pricy stuff.

Also, gas stove advice - check the flame heights instead of relying on the dials. Sometimes even on "medium" the flame will still be high, and you need to just check the flame when you adjust the heat at all.

And, the best thing? 'Remove from heat' doesn't mean having to find a cool surface to put the pan on, like it does with an electric stove. It just means turning the gas off, preserving precious counter space for other stuff. :)
From: [info]cellio
Date: 6/11/2003 10:46:02 AM

I second the endorsement of Calphalon. We don't have much yet, but what we have is wonderful and I'm looking forward to acquiring more.
From: [info]jacquez
Date: 6/11/2003 11:14:52 AM

My current favorite Calphalon line is Professional Nonstick II. I like glass lids so I can see what's going on in the pot without taking them off, and they're a nice tough astoundingly-easy-to-clean nonstick surface. They had a discontinued line that my big chef's pan was from, and I miss that line. Can't remember the name. Professional Nonstick II has a very similar chef's pan, though - the handle is different, but it's otherwise the same.

It looks like they have a new glass-lid line coming out, though - the Contemporary Nonstick. I'll have to get some pieces from that and see what I think of it.

And good-quality nylon utensils! Get good nylon utensils for some of these things. I use wooden spoons mostly, but for some stuff you need other devices, and nylon is your friend.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/11/2003 11:34:28 AM

Holy crap, it IS expensive! Those prices are truly shocking to a girl who's only shopped for this kind of stuff at Target.

I guess I should make a list of the things that I might possibly cook, and then figure out which pots/pans I'd need to match? Right now I have a big dutch oven (for hard-boiling eggs), a medium/large pot (for spaghetti) and a small pot (I don't know what it's for), and a cheap no-name frying pan (for latkes). Surely I want to make more stuff than that, though.

I need "Cooking Stuff for Dummies"...
From: [info]jacquez
Date: 6/11/2003 11:16:25 AM

Oh, and of course you don't need to wait for the stove to heat up, or for the burner to cool when you adjust the heat, and I've found it much more difficult to burn myself on a gas stove (still possible, but a lot harder).
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/11/2003 11:35:47 AM

Oh, I'm sure I'll manage. ;)
From: [info]ilea
Date: 6/11/2003 10:27:51 AM

they still make visions bakeware its in walmart by the pyrex
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/11/2003 11:37:26 AM

Really??? Far out. I bought the whole set of the Cranberry Visions when it came out. I think I still have everything except the frying pan (I broke it) and the bakeware stuff (I forgot it).
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 6/11/2003 10:33:48 AM

how do you make pasta in the microwave?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/11/2003 11:40:53 AM

It's easy! I use a big Pyrex-type bowl, put the water in, set the microwave for 10-15 minutes (depending on how much I'm making/how big the bowl is). When it's done, it should be boiling, so I throw in the pasta and just cook it for whatever the package says, or a few minutes longer (I like my pasta soft).

Kraft Mac & Cheese has no-drain microwave instructions; that works really well too.

[today] 6/11/2003 4:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |weird]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

* I washed last night's dishes and have done several loads of laundry.

* Got the instructions from my mom and hard-boiled some eggs to stuff later on.

* The plumber came back and finally got the toilet unclogged. He made a complete mess of my bathroom though, including dropping the old wax ring into my pretty metal waste basket. Eww.

* Have been researching nano reef tanks. You can thank AngelSil for the obsession du jour.

* Now anxiously awaiting the birth of Mazel babies. I felt one of them move(!) last night! According to my calculations, they should be due any day now...

   

Comments:
From: [info]angel_renewed
Date: 6/11/2003 4:29:46 PM

Oooh! Pretty kitty. Reef tanks are a b*tch. I had a business maintaining saltwater tanks, and I don't touch reef tanks unless I have to do so. Big pain. Big, big pain.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/11/2003 4:47:19 PM

Okay, not to sound like a 'tard, but what is the difference between a saltwater tank and a reef tank? I thought the two terms were interchangable...
From: [info]angel_renewed
Date: 6/11/2003 4:50:18 PM

Re:

When dealing with saltwater tanks, you have 2 options.

1. Fish Only (this is what I will have)
2. Reef Tank (invertebrate tank that may - or may not - have fish)

Fish can live and thrive in fairly basic tanks - you need filtration and reasonable light. Fish (most of 'em) are more tolerant of nitrates, temperature changes and such.

Invertebrates (corals, anemones, etc) require an expensive light system (Metal Halide or VHO), very careful monitoring of the water quality and all sorts of other crap.

From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/11/2003 8:51:17 PM

Ohhh. Gotcha, thanks. Yeah, that's what I want, too - I want an anemone, a percula clown, and a cleaner shrimp - just a little square foot or two of ocean. So yours won't have ANY inverts? Will you still need to use the live rock and sand?
From: [info]angel_renewed
Date: 6/11/2003 10:16:53 PM

Re:

Anemone's are inverts. And a pain in the ass to keep. Except for Condys, but condys are deadly to clownfish.

I'm using live sand, but not rock.

[a-ha!] 6/11/2003 4:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |like martha freakin stewart]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Is your idea of a home-cooked meal a frozen dinner, macaroni and cheese from a box, or a pizza? Umm, yeah. So apparently I need Cooking For Dummies.

   

Comments:
From: [info]mysticpenguin
Date: 6/11/2003 4:56:28 PM

Bah. Heating up counts as cooking. If you are in your home when you heat it up, it counts as home-cooked. They don't know what they're talking about.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/11/2003 8:52:00 PM

I like the way you think. =D

[daily calorie intake] 6/11/2003 9:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |tv - the x-files movie]

Breakfast - Krispy Kreme donut and a large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - Regular Coke.
Dinner - leftover pasta with butter and parmeson, Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[gakked from samurikitty] 6/12/2003 1:25:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - conan o'brien]



last cigarette: in my hand
last car ride: about an hour ago, to Sheetz
last library book checked out: damned if I know
last movie seen: the X-Files movie on television
last book read: currently reading The Can Opener Gourmet
last cuss word(s): shit, probably - I use that one a lot
last beverage drank: Pepsi, right now
last food consumed: pasta
last crush: my painter, Rod
last phone call: MCI - I hung up on them
last band listened to: Psych Furrs, I think
last tv show watched: Conan O'Brian, right now
last time showered: several weeks ago (I take baths now)
last shoes worn: black lo-top Chuck Taylors
last item bought: cigarettes, coffee and donuts for tomorrow
last downloaded: AVG anti-virus update
last annoyance: this stool is uncomfortable
last soda drank: Pepsi
last key used: house key
last word spoken: "thanks" to the guy at Sheetz
last sleep: this morning
last im: with Sandy this morning
last sexual fantasy: does not apply
last ice cream eaten: probably Haagen-Daas caramel, when I was pregnant
last time amused: when I told Rusty the duck joke this evening
last time wanting to die: probably in the middle of moving
last lipstick used: Urban Decay, I forget the shade
last underwear worn: purple ones from Target
last bra worn: my mother's, the last time I went to temple
last shirt worn: grey striped tee that Laurie gave me
last time dancing: I do not dance

   

[about damned time] 6/12/2003 10:15:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sleepy]
[Current Music |tv - abc stuff]

Shoah is going to be released on DVD in August.

   

Comments:
From: [info]angel_renewed
Date: 6/12/2003 10:23:21 AM

Yeah. This is WAY overdue. Thanks for letting me know. I lost a bid for the VHS set on Ebay last month. I'd given up on them EVER releasing it on DVD.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/12/2003 10:30:37 AM

I didn't think they would either, even though - like Schindler's List - DVD is the perfect medium for something so long and intense. Now if Speilberg would just take the hint...
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 6/13/2003 10:29:39 AM

Thank goodness. I wonder why the hell it took so long?

[today] 6/12/2003 5:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sleepy]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]

I washed last night's dishes - I'm getting really good about that! - and then spent most the day doing laundry. We have TONS of dirty laundry, mostly because I hated going to the laundromat so much, so I used to just buy new clothes instead of washing the old ones, and of course then ended up with mountains of old clothes and new clothes, in many different sizes, and all dirty. So anyway, I'm working on washing all that, and weeding though and getting rid of a lot of it.

Sarah and I took a walk to the drugstore this morning, where I bought a big box of crayons and a sharpener, because I want to make pink and purple waxpaper hearts for her bedroom window.

I also bought a Lóreal Feria highlighting kit, since the last time I did highlights, they turned out far more natural-looking than I'd hoped. What I want are big chunks of very pale blonde, which I can later dye purple. This kit came with a cool streaking wand, which I hope I can use for the purple, too - it's a lot more convenient than that retarded holy-cap-and-crochet-hook method. I also bought a packet of deep conditioning goo and a shower cap, just in case I really fry it.

I started to make deviled egg stuff, and then realised that I'd forgotten to buy mayo. Duh. So I called Rusty and asked him to pick some up on his way home from work.

G-d, what an exciting life I lead.

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 6/12/2003 5:45:08 PM

my sister still hasn't washed the clothes from when she moved into her apartment a couple years ago. :)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/12/2003 7:10:37 PM

Yeah, that's basically what I have here... it's like a damn time capsule. I actually found some materity clothes - still dirty - when we moved. My daughter is almost three. :\

[daily calorie intake] 6/12/2003 9:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - frasier]

Breakfast - large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - Krispy Kreme donuts, Coke.
Dinner - deviled eggs, smoked salmon and cheese with crackers, Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[argh] 6/13/2003 12:05:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |annoyed]
[Current Music |tv - jay leno]

I went out to the store to get more detergent and bleach, and got pulled over for a lapsed registration sticker, and now I have a court date - on my son's birthday, no less.

I wonder what they'll do if I don't show...?

   

Comments:
From: [info]slow_like_honey
Date: 6/13/2003 3:11:48 PM

They could give you a fine and issue a warrent for your arrest (I think) for not showing up in court. (But I'm not a lawyer so you might want to double check that with someone else :p)

[meow] 6/13/2003 12:55:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |anxious]
[Current Music |tv - conan o'brian]

Babies on their way. Mazel won't let me leave her side. It's going to be a very long night...

   

[birth announcement] 6/13/2003 1:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |cuteness overload]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]


Mazel is now the proud momma of four little squeeking bundles of joy. Say it with me now: awwwww. Three are black, and one is a funky mottled silver-black. All are adorable.
   

Comments:
From: [info]gypsydance
Date: 6/13/2003 1:36:08 PM

Awww!
From: [info]ilea
Date: 6/13/2003 1:50:10 PM

AWWWWW!!!!
From: [info]lunza
Date: 6/13/2003 2:41:06 PM

~~Awwwwwwwwwwwwww!~~


I get this urge to one-up people sometimes.
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 6/13/2003 3:46:51 PM

congratulations, mazel!!!!
From: [info]kimikohime
Date: 6/13/2003 5:51:52 PM

Yay! Congratulations! They're adorable. :D
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 6/13/2003 7:30:14 PM

Too cute... a big 'Well done' to Mazel! :D
From: [info]katarina42
Date: 6/13/2003 7:42:58 PM

Aw! Mini-Mazels! Too bad I don't live closer...and that my husband won't let me get more than one cat. *pouts* They're adorable ^_^
From: [info]titancia
Date: 6/22/2003 5:20:13 PM

Aww, how adorable!!
Congratulations to the mama. :)

[funky butt] 6/13/2003 2:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |all cuted out]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

   

Comments:
From: [info]s8venus
Date: 6/13/2003 3:01:54 PM

OH!
MY!
GOODNESS!

*dies from cutness overload*
From: [info]cellio
Date: 6/13/2003 3:37:47 PM

Aw, how cute!

(So, you mentioned that there are three more...? :-) )
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/13/2003 4:11:23 PM

Yep... you want one? ;) Two of them look just like tiny Mazels - pure black and fuzzy. The third one is mostly black, but with just a touch of that weird mottled colour. His hind legs are deformed though (his little feet point the wrong way), so I don't know if they'll straighten out, or if he'll ever be able to walk, or what to do about him. :\
From: [info]cellio
Date: 6/13/2003 4:29:02 PM

you want one?

Nah; just wanted the pictures. But the description is good enough. (I'd like to add another cat to the household before the boys get too old to integrate, but that's going to be an annoying fight with my husband and I need to find the best time to bring it up.)

Sorry to hear about the one little guy; I hope he'll be ok!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/13/2003 5:40:44 PM

Ahhh, yes, I know that annoying fight! Of course, Rusty pretends to be appalled by the idea of more cats, and then I wake up to find him with his head in the box, playing with them... :)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/13/2003 5:42:36 PM

PS - know any good Hebrew words, preferably that start with the letter M? Since she is Mazel Tov (and all my cats' names start with the letter M), I thought I should keep with the tradition...
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 6/13/2003 3:43:10 PM

what a cutie patootie!!! awwwww.
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 6/13/2003 5:04:54 PM

awwwwwwwwh *dies of cutness overload* ;P
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 6/13/2003 6:45:56 PM

I just want to kiss...
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 6/13/2003 7:29:23 PM

Oh.. OHHHH!!!! So tiiiny and furry... *squeal*
From: [info]titancia
Date: 6/22/2003 5:19:16 PM

How sweet!

[and now...] 6/13/2003 6:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |content]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]

The candles have been lit for the first time in our new home. Gut Shabbos, everyone!

   

Comments:
From: [info]sf_rose
Date: 6/13/2003 7:30:23 PM

Yay! Shabbat Shalom! =)
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 6/14/2003 9:15:12 AM

Gut Shabbos. :)

[daily calorie intake] 6/13/2003 11:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |dvd - braveheart]

Breakfast - Krispy Kreme donut and a large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - deviled eggs and cheese, Coke.
Dinner - tomato soup with saltines, Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[from katarina42] 6/14/2003 6:55:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |awake]
[Current Music |tv - nbc news]

A handy link: Live Journal Birthdays!

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 6/14/2003 7:50:49 AM

i miss the days when lj used to send out reminders about people's birthdays. :-/ but at least they made these cool bday pages we can refer to.

[tell 'em scotland is free!] 6/14/2003 6:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - some retarded golf noise]

Today we went with my mother to the Potomac Celtic Festival - they had the clan tents set up, so we hung out for a bit with the MacBeans (our clan) and the Hendersons (Rusty's). After the bag pipes and clan processional, we went shopping - I got the most gorgeous purple scarf and a hair fork, plus a clan badge for Rusty (for Father's Day) and a tartan catnip mouse for little Mazel. It was insanely hot today, but it was fun to see all the vendors (and the men in kilts!).

Cave-dweller that I am, of course now I have a headache and a sunburn...

   

[photography - part 1] 6/14/2003 8:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |nostalgic]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

I joined a new community: . In looking through my old [paper] photos for an appropriate submission, I realised how much I miss the versatility of my "real" camera. The digital is certainly convenient, but I took much better pictures with the SLR.

   

[daily calorie intake] 6/14/2003 9:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Breakfast - large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - deviled egg stuff, Coke.
Dinner - cheesesticks from Dominos, Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[photography - part 2] 6/15/2003 11:55:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |headachey]
[Current Music |tv - the mclaughlin group]

I entered my first submission for : Dino Decay. This week's theme is "decay", and I was going to enter one of my old graveyard shots, but I couldn't find them. I have a few good shots of an old crumbling mansion, and an old falling-down barn, but I think that this one is more unique. I don't know why; I just like this photo.

   

Comments:
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 6/15/2003 4:02:04 PM

wow, that's one creepy looking dino! :)
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 6/15/2003 4:58:29 PM

i'm in the photochallenge community, too. this is a great entry! :)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/15/2003 5:15:59 PM

Thanks! :)

[daily calorie intake] 6/15/2003 9:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hot]
[Current Music |cmt - 100 greatest songs of country music]

Breakfast - large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - honey-roasted peanuts, Coke.
Dinner - garlic bread with four-cheese spaghetti sauce, Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[fathers day 2003] 6/15/2003 10:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hmph]
[Current Music |cmt - 100 greatest songs of country music]

I got Rusty a wooden box with Sarah's photo on it, and made spaghetti (he loves my sauce) and garlic bread for dinner. Despite our occasional ambivalence towards each other, he really is a great father, and I'm grateful that my daughter has him in her life.

I did nothing for my own paternal unit, which seemed appropriate. I only hope he realises that I'm not rude or forgetful, but that I'm making a concerted effort to ignore him. I know that it isn't good to hold grudges, but I can't help but wonder how much of my screwed-up-ness is because of that self-centered jackass. What, me, bitter? Nah...

   

Comments:
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 6/15/2003 10:52:55 PM

All I bought my dad (not to be confused with the asshole biological father) was a lousy rubber mallet. He likes tools though, but still, I suck.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/16/2003 5:40:59 PM

I would by my asshole biological father a mallet, but I would just want to bludgeon him with it... :)

[beware] 6/16/2003 12:55:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |goofy]
[Current Music |mp3 - hank williams jr - whiskey bent and hell bound]

I feel a country music phase coming on. This is never good.

   

Comments:
From: [info]titancia
Date: 6/22/2003 5:17:54 PM

Have you ever heard any of Mark Wills songs? He's one of my fav. country music singers.
I really don't see what people have against country music, either. It's a lot cleaner than rap, and now a days some songs sound more pop than country.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/22/2003 6:53:33 PM

No, I haven't... most of the people I listen to are the ones that I was exposed to when my mom was into it (in the 70's - Waylon, Willie, Johnny Cash) and when I was married to a guitar player in a country band (in the early 90's). I'll have to check out Marlk Wills!

[rats] 6/16/2003 5:50:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sleepy]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]

I got another email from a lady wanting rats - this poor woman has been on my waiting list since forever. I was holding out for mink and hairless litters, but since the mothers-to-be are still far too young - and not even here yet - I guess that will be a while. I think to hold people over, I'm going to go ahead and do a blue litter - probably Blooberry and Beezus, assuming that they cooperate. Laura, do you still want a blue rex dumbo? :)

   

Comments:
From: [info]jupiterjuniper
Date: 6/16/2003 7:33:58 PM

i should've naturally asked you...

one of my friends is offering me two female hairless rats. do you have any advice? i am hesitant, only b/c 1) i've never had rats 2) i have 5 dogs and 3) my girlfriend is semi-afraid of them.

what do you think?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/16/2003 8:18:07 PM

Rats are AWESOME. If you ever kept hamsters or guinea pigs or other "pocket pets", rats are like, a gazillion times cooler than that. They're a lot more interactive, and much sweeter. They're also usually WAY cleaner than other caged pets, esp females. That being said, you do still need to think about whether they're right for you.

Your girlfriend shouldn't be much of a problem - a lot of people think think they don't like rats, but completely change their minds when they actually meet some. Unfotunately, the media (and movies like Willard) haven't done much to help. I have taken my rats to vet clinics and other places, and usually people say "oh that's so cute... what is it?". They're shocked to find out that it's a rat.

The dogs, it depends. It depends on where you'd keep the rats, and it depends on the dogs. I have two dogs (and several cats!), and they couldn't give a rat's ass (so to speak) what's in those cages. I wouldn't leave them together unsupervised, but unless you have breeds of dogs that are specifically bred to find and kill rats (like some of the terrier breeds), then I wouldn't worry too much about it.

If you had an out-of-the-way place to keep the rats at first (someplace you go often, but that the dogs don't and the girlfriend doesn't have to), that would be ideal - while the household adjusts to the rats and vice verse.

If you have any other questions, let me know! :)
From: [info]jupiterjuniper
Date: 6/17/2003 9:35:52 AM

Re:

well i had hamsters as a child. i must say they were cute...at the time. i'm much more into the semi-intelligent pet, and hamsters are just *dumb* ;)

i'm worried about the dogs [5 chihuahuas]. they're very aggressive b/c of their small size, and i'm sure they'd be more violent than i've ever known them. maybe i'm wrong. but if it's essential to really let these rats out and explore, i don't know that my particular household can provide that.

hmmm...other questions... are they nocturnal? do they nuzzle/cuddle [i have friends with sugar gliders that are known to do this]? is it mistreatful to keep them primarily caged?

xx
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/18/2003 12:06:04 PM

Rats are crepuscular - most active in the evening and early night.

They are VERY cuddley - most of mine are downright attention mongers, and clamor to get out of the cage and on to ME. Most of them give me "kisses", and some of them will actually stick their heads in my mouth. Yeah, they're pretty affectionate. :)

They definately should have some "out" time, but they don't need to (and shouldn't anyway!) be allowed to explore the whole house. One room - even a bathroom - is fine. I don't know if your dogs have access to all rooms, but if there was one room where they could run around, that would work.
From: [info]jupiterjuniper
Date: 6/19/2003 11:51:26 AM

Re:

thanks for all your help!

xx
From: [info]jacquez
Date: 6/16/2003 8:10:04 PM

Who, me? Yes.

I just got a PEW today, poor mommet - she belonged to a college kid who couldn't keep her. She's a sweetie.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/16/2003 8:25:52 PM

Yes, you. :)

Congratulations! PEWs are so cool; I had one briefly. Unfortunately he was an actual lab rat, and they don't usually fair well once they get out into the "real" world; since they were never exposed to any bacteria or germs, their little immune systems can't take it. One of these days, I want a petstore (or breeder) PEW...
From: [info]beautifulwolf
Date: 6/17/2003 7:31:09 PM

I actually JUST got my 1st PEW a couple months ago... He's a dumbo boy (the 1st dumbo PEW I've seen in person as funny as that is!) and I found him at Petco (YUCK!!!).

I'm the dog trainer at the local petco so the lady working speciality let me take this boy home at no cost LOL He's a doll and loves being here. A really fun boy to own and of course a 'rare' color for breeders as no one breeds them and you can NEVER find them in dumbo atleast here in the NW!!!

Emily~ EaglesEye Rattery
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/18/2003 11:48:22 AM

Awww, I always wanted a dumbo PEW! You're right though; breeders never have PEWs here either, everyone does blue and siamese and pearl, but never plain ol' PEW. The closest I've gotten from a breeder is a REW (Roo), but she has a coupla black hairs.
From: [info]beautifulwolf
Date: 6/18/2003 6:06:50 PM

Re:

Hee hee yup! I've been begging for a PEW for YEARS! I almost had one shipped from GA even though she was a triple dilute (which works better in my program) but she wasn't from the best of breeders and couldn't be bred etc so there wasn't a point in shipping a PET cross country LOL She was dwarfed and had other issues...

No one can say I'm not dedicated though LOL

Emily~

[daily calorie intake] 6/16/2003 10:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - hannity & colmes]

Breakfast - Krispy Kreme donuts and a large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - cheese, Coke.
Dinner - macaroni and cheese, Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[help?] 6/17/2003 10:15:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |annoyed]
[Current Music |tv - abc stuff]

I may very well be delusional, but I could swear that I once saw a website where you could enter in the ingredients you have on hand, and the website would give you recipes to match. Anyone familier with this? Any other good-but-simple recipe sites?

   

Comments:
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 6/17/2003 12:11:20 PM

All I can say is that, in this instance, you are not alone in your delusion. I'm sure I've heard of a site like that. But I've long since lost any reference to it that I might have had.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/17/2003 12:57:22 PM

Well that's comforting, anyway. There for a minute, I thought maybe I'd made the whole thing up...
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 6/17/2003 12:42:33 PM

I think I've heard of it too, but last time I tried to find it I turned up empty handed.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/17/2003 12:58:11 PM

Rats. That's a shame, that was a good idea for a website!
From: [info]ariestess
Date: 6/18/2003 12:43:06 AM

If you find it, let me know? It sounds damned interesting, to say the least....
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/18/2003 11:25:30 AM

foodgeeks.com has a similer engine, but I'm not sure if it's the one I was thinking of to begin with. :\
From: [info]titancia
Date: 6/22/2003 5:17:07 PM

I thought that sounded quite interesting, and decided to do a search and came up with this:
http://www.food24.co.za/Women24/Food/Components/Search/Big_Search/1,8888,4,00.html

From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/22/2003 6:42:54 PM

Oooh, that sounds promising, thanks!
From: [info]titancia
Date: 6/22/2003 6:47:20 PM

Re:

No problem! :)

[oh, nevermind] 6/17/2003 11:35:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |disgusted]
[Current Music |tv - nickelodeon]

Well, I found recipesource.com, which seems like a nifty site, except, it's written in some other language. I don't know what a ramekin of butter is, I don't know what a tube pan is, and I sure as hell don't know how to clean a freaking fish, much less do I want to rub its cavity(!).

I give up. I'm sticking to mac and cheese.

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 6/17/2003 11:56:47 AM

You don't need to clean fish unless they're whole and have their head, bones, and scales on. (It involves cutting the fish open, removing their intestines and organs, some of the bones, and scraping the scales off, which incidentally is a messy process and I don't recommend it.) Usually when you buy whole fish at the store, they'll clean them for you. If you buy fillets and the like, they're already cleaned.

A ramekin is a kind of small baking dish. A tube pan is a deep cake dish with a tube in the middle, which is used to make things like angel food cake. You'd know what it was if you saw one, you'd say, "Oh, that!"

These sites might help you:

Lots of pictures of foods and tools: http://www.foodsubs.com/

Definitions of different food terms: http://allrecipes.com/encyc

Cooking honestly isn't that hard. As long as you learn some of the terminology, and you have very basic things on hand like measuring cups and spoons, cake pans, baking pans, pots, etc, you can pretty much make most things.

If you want, when I come down to visit we can do some cooking stuff and I can show you different utensils and how they're used and things like that.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/17/2003 12:07:52 PM

A tube pan is a deep cake dish with a tube in the middle, which is used to make things like angel food cake.

Like a bunt (sp?) pan?

I need to go out and buy those basic things - I don't even own measuring spoons. I have a 2-cup measuring cup, but no spoons. I need baking pans and cookie sheets, too. I have pots, but I don't know what they're called or what to do with them, and I hate the Evil Gas Range.

I will go and look at those sites, although I am fairly sure that it's hopeless.

I think I'm going to cry. :\
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/17/2003 12:55:57 PM

I took a photo of all my cooking stuff, and labeled the ones that I could. Well, I know what the collander is too, and the measuring cup, but I meant of the pots and pan. Anyway, if you're completely bored, you can look and see what I have...

[crafty stuff] 6/17/2003 5:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |headachey]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - while you were out]

I may suck at cooking, but I am good at dying things. I did another pair of purple Chucks, this pair is slightly darker than the last. I dyed them black first, then bleached them, and then used the purple. I think I like this version better, as they're still true purple, but not quite so bright.

The in-laws gave me a candle last year; hazelnut scent in a little crock. I melted the remaining wax in a pot of boiling water and cleaned it out, and now I have a cute little crock to keep my cooking utensils in, AND a block of hazelnut-scented wax to make more candles with. Hooray!

I need to buy candle wicks. And paper cups.

   

[daily calorie intake] 6/17/2003 9:50:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |tv - sci-fi - the ufo chronicles]

Breakfast - Krispy Kreme donuts and a large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - leftover mac and cheese, Coke.
Dinner - spaghetti with leftover sauce, Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[gakked from the_never] 6/18/2003 2:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |chilly]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

This could be interesting... You suggest a friend from your own friends list that I should add to my list, and I will suggest a friend for anyone who answers!

   

Comments:
From: [info]ilea
Date: 6/18/2003 2:47:14 PM

From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/18/2003 2:52:15 PM

From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 6/18/2003 3:31:56 PM

From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/18/2003 4:08:26 PM

From: [info]jupiterjuniper
Date: 6/18/2003 3:47:50 PM

[info]whistlndutchboy

gimme a go.

From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/18/2003 4:17:19 PM

From: [info]jupiterjuniper
Date: 6/18/2003 4:24:59 PM

Re:

deal :)
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 6/18/2003 3:58:40 PM

From: [info]artmomz
Date: 6/18/2003 4:01:39 PM

except I spelled the last one wrong...grr..

[info]knightchik
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/18/2003 4:12:47 PM

From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 6/18/2003 4:54:54 PM

From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/18/2003 5:01:17 PM

From: [info]titancia
Date: 6/22/2003 5:14:26 PM

[easily amused] 6/18/2003 4:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |goofy]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

I put on my pretty new purple scarf so that it hung like big floppy bat wings (or maybe like a Stevie Nicks outfit, it's hard to say), and then I spun around and around and around in the middle of the living room floor, until I got all dizzy and collapsed on the futton.

I usually have to drink quite a bit of vodka to feel this way.

   

[daily calorie intake] 6/18/2003 9:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |unkosher]
[Current Music |tv - alien ressurection]

Breakfast - three cups of coffee with cream and sugar.
Lunch - shredded four-cheese mix on wheat bread, Coke.
Dinner - fettuchini alfredo w/ crab (yeah, I suck), Coke.
Snack - animal cookies and milk.

Exercise - none.

   

[today] 6/19/2003 2:50:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sleepy]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

I went shopping... I found many good kitchen things! I bought a new collander, two spatulas, a really cool set of measuring spoons, a set of Tupperware bowls, and two purple Pyrex baking dishes, hooray! I also got a nifty cooler bag (to use as a camera bag), some candle-making stuff, and a purple Barbie beach buggy and Princess Kelly doll for the daughter. Plus the usual boring stuff, like pet food and socks. Target is a very dangerous place.

   

[and also] 6/19/2003 5:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]

I ordered purple Punky Colour. Heee!

   

[gakked from angelsil] 6/19/2003 6:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |bored]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]

1. What's your favorite cheese?

Provolone, colby/montery jack blend.

2. How long do you hold onto odd socks before giving up on finding their mate?

It depends on how much I like the sock in question.

3. Who was your favorite musical artist when you were 15? Yes, you can only pick one!

Billy Idol, I think.

4. What shape are your fingernails in right now?

Grown out; they need to be cut off. I hate having long nails.

5. Two scoops: of what?

Peanut butter ice cream, please.

6. What's your earliest memory?

Being afraid of certain foods; onions and english muffins in particular.

7. When does your pet look funniest?

The cats when they're wet, the rats when they sleep on their faces.

8. What do you collect?

Ex-husbands. Alice in Wonderland stuff. Marbles and other round things.

9. What's better than sex?

Fish sticks.

10. What things are you brand-loyal to?

Converse sneakers. Liz Claiborne jeans. Maxwell House coffee.

11. Favorite Dr. Seuss book?

The Lorax -or- One Fish Two Fish Red Fish Blue Fish.

12. Best meal you've had lately?

Cheese quesadillas at El Ranchero.

13. Peanut Butter and ________?

Grape jelly on plain white bread.

14. Who's your favorite poet?

Edgar Allen Poe, Lewis Carroll.

15. Where are you going on vacation this year?

Nowhere.

16. If you could change careers tomorrow with no strings attached, what would you be?

Free veterinarian.

17. Whaddya drive?

People crazy.

18. What's your poison?

Vodka, with Coke chaser. Or tequila; I'm not picky.

19. The color of the carpet or the kind of floor in the room you are sitting in right now.

Hardwood, baybeee.

20. What's on your walls?

Spackle and primer, at the moment.

   

[daily calorie intake] 6/19/2003 11:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - seinfeld]

Breakfast - Krispy Kreme donuts and a large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - leftover fettuchini, Coke.
Dinner - leftover fettuchini, Coke.
Snack - Twix.

Exercise - none.

   

[quix] 6/19/2003 11:25:00 PM

purple_stardust


Delirium!

Delirium, the youngest of The Endless, you are the keeper of insanity, delusion and everything else that's just plain crazy.
You make about as much sense as fish and telephone-flavoured ice cream. You are truly your own person,
and the fact that your eyes don't match, your hair is three different colours,
and you have a floating fish following you doesn't bother you any.
You have a truly unique perspective on the world, and no one else knows what to think about it.


Which Endless are you?
   

[friday five - hair] 6/20/2003 7:55:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hairy]
[Current Music |tv - good morning america]

1. Is your hair naturally curly, wavy, or straight? Long or short?

About shoulder-length, naturally wavy/curly.

2. How has your hair changed over your lifetime?

It was very pale blonde when I was a child, but has darkened to a dark ash blonde now.

3. How do your normally wear your hair?

I wash it, and there it is. It has no style, it has no plan, it just hangs there how it wants to hang. Sometimes I pull it back in a ponytail, put it up with chopsticks or a hair fork, or capture my would-be bangs in a little clip. But basically, it just hangs there, looking un-organised.

4. If you could change your hair this minute, what would it look like?

I want long, straight, curly, fuzzy, snaggy, shaggy, ratty, matty, oily, greasy, fleecy, shining, gleaming, streaming, flaxen, waxen, knotted, polka dotted, twisted, beaded, braided, powered, flowered and confettied, bangled, tangled, spangled and spaghettied.

Or, like Debra Messing's hair.

5. Ever had a hair disaster? What happened?

Two words: BAD PERM. Never again.


[fridayfive.org]

   

Comments:
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 6/20/2003 9:33:16 AM

"I want long, straight, curly, fuzzy, snaggy, shaggy, ratty, matty, oily, greasy, fleecy, shining, gleaming, streaming, flaxen, waxen, knotted, polka dotted, twisted, beaded, braided, powered, flowered and confettied, bangled, tangled, spangled and spaghettied."

That's the trouble with conversion, it changes your relegion but not your hair ;)
Now, while I do enjoy having curly hair, there are times when it's a big pain.

[today] 6/20/2003 9:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |annoyed]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

I got up at the freakin crack of dawn and took Rusty to work so that I could use the car today and go to the assessor's office and the DMV and get the registration renewed on this car.

Except, when I got to the assessor's office, I found it closed, in observance of West Virginia Day. WTF? First of all, this wretched bunghole of a state doesn't merit a fucking hour, much less a whole damn day. Secondly, you can bet that the meathead cops were out writing tickets today for people who had dead registrations, whether they could take care of it today or not.

So I went to Kmart instead, and bought more baking stuff. I have cookie sheets now, and wooden spoons, nicer spatulas, a rolling pin, a small hand mixer, and even a few basic ingredients (sugar, flour, shortening). Now I just need the purple Pyrex pie pan...

Rusty got rained out and came home early, and went out to Taco Bell and got us lunch. And then we spent the day together, just lazing around and being silly. Nice. And then this evening, we made peanut butter cookies! They were from a mix, but still... yummy!

   

Comments:
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 6/20/2003 6:20:52 PM

you can bet that I didn't take part in the festivities either. woohoo, wv day. yeah.

[daily calorie intake] 6/20/2003 9:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |happy]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - while you were out]

Breakfast - donut holes and a large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - chicken quesadilla and tacos from Taco Bell, Coke.
Dinner - fettuchini alfredo with chicken and broccoli, Coke.
Snack - lovely made-by-me peanut butter cookies and milk.

Exercise - none.

   

[oops] 6/21/2003 8:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |distraught]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Speaking of hair disasters, I've had one. I was attempting chunky blonde highlights (which I planned to later dye purple). Except, the bleach didn't stay in chunks, and now the entire top layer of my hair is a weird brassy blonde, while the bottom layer has remained the original brown colour. I don't know whether to try to dye it back, bleach the rest, or shave it all off.

The good news is, purple streaks can't possibly make it look any worse...

   

Comments:
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 6/21/2003 9:27:24 PM

bleach the rest and dye it all purple! :)

my $0.02
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/22/2003 8:01:18 AM

Do you think I would destroy it if I went ahead and bleached the rest now?
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 6/22/2003 9:41:50 AM

Nope, just be careful to not re-bleach the already bleached part, unless you want all of it lighter. Your roots usually take WAY less time to bleach out then the rest of your hair.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/22/2003 9:55:17 AM

That's the thing, though - I don't think I CAN bleach the rest without hitting the already bleached part - too much of it has already been done. And parts of it are pale yellow, and some is kinda orange, and some is sort of strawberry blonde, plus the original brown stuff. Do you know Delirium from the Sandman comics? I kinda look like that...

What happens if I bleach it ALL at this point? Would that even it out some, or just make everything worse?
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 6/22/2003 12:21:41 PM

Apply the bleach to the end of your hair first (the parts that are not bleached yet), as this part takes a lot longer to bleach out. Keep checking it every couple of minutes until that part of your hair is around the same shade as your roots. When it is about the same shade put the rest of the bleach on your hair, covering all of it and let that sit a few minutes before you rinse it out. You are probably going to get a lot of unevenness anyway but if you put a color over top of it you won't be able to tell.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/22/2003 12:42:27 PM

Off to try that now, thanks!
From: [info]ilea
Date: 6/22/2003 3:39:50 AM

dye the blonde purple... and if you dont like it... just dye it back...
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 6/22/2003 10:03:47 AM

Actually that's a really sought after look over here right now, and I'm so not kidding! All the fashion victim types have the top of their hair blonde and they have the underneath dyed black or very dark brown. I tried to dye mine bright blue the other week, which involved bleaching my hair then overdyeing with the blue. Well the bleach wouldn't work over the old dark blue dye, and the bright blue didn't take at all, so now I have an inch of my natural colour (like a strawberry blonde), then an inch of lighter blonde, which then fades into the navy blue. But there's a twist, because when I bleached over the navy blue it didn't fade that dye, but it's made the hair under the old dye look bright red, it's erm... very 'interesting'! I look like a German Shepherd dog :D

Try and dye over your blonde with purple, then if it looks crap just bleach it all and start over?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/22/2003 10:14:51 AM

Do you think I could just tell people that I'm from England, and very fashionable there...? =D
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 6/22/2003 10:30:40 AM

Of course! If anyone challenges you just say "It's such a shame that Ticklemania is over, but BBLB makes up for it!" They'll stare blankly then walk away :D Therefore : you win! You might want to avoid some of the other current fashion items here, unless you are in fact a huge fan of legwarmers and pink stilletoes!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/22/2003 11:01:42 AM

Actually, I've been thinking of taking up knitting so that I could make fuzzy purple legwarmers... At any rate, I think I should just move to Egland, and then you and I can wander the streets with our multi-coloured hair and look smashing. =)
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 6/23/2003 9:50:02 AM

We'd get mobbed! People wouldn't know what to do with themselves if they saw two such fantastically attired foxes walking the streets! Our hair alone would get us numerous fans, who would throw roses and bundles of cash at us :D

[daily calorie intake] 6/21/2003 8:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Breakfast - large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - donut holes, Coke.
Dinner - cheesesticks from Papa Johns, Coke.
Snack - peanut butter cookies and milk.

Exercise - none.

   

[hair update] 6/22/2003 2:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |relieved]
[Current Music |tv - vh1 - some countdown]

I went out and bought another bottle of dye (L'oreal "Extra Light Ash Blonde" - cream formula), to try and correct the mess I made of my hair yesterday. It isn't entirely dry yet, but the colour appears to be more even now, and more importantly, less orange. It really doesn't feel too icky, even - I conditioned it before and after bleaching, so hopefully the damage will be minimal. Still, I really could use a good trim about now...

   

[daily calorie intake] 6/22/2003 9:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - usa - casino]

Breakfast - donut holes and a large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - half of a leftover quesadilla, cheese, Coke.
Dinner - leftover chicken and broccoli fettuchini, Coke.
Snack - peanut butter cookies and milk.

Exercise - none.

   

[btw] 6/23/2003 7:25:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |giddy]
[Current Music |tv - abc - good morning america]

I love my house. That is all.

   

Comments:
From: [info]sf_rose
Date: 6/23/2003 1:00:27 PM

Ain't having your own place "da bomb"?

=0)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/24/2003 8:32:07 AM

It IS!!! I just wander around, admiring the coolness of it all. :)

[this morning] 6/23/2003 1:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sleepy]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]

I went to the assessor's office and paid our personal property taxes. It truly annoys me that I have to pay money every year for the privilege of owning a car that we already paid for. But anyway. After that, I went to the DMV and got the registration renewed; I made the mistake of trying the drive-thru, which was actually worse than going inside, because the line was long and the air conditioner in the above-mentioned POS-car is broken, so it was hot and miserable.

I called the municipal court and asked if I could re-schedule my hearing; she said I could come in today or Wednesday, instead... so I guess I should go in this evening and get it over with.

When I got home, there was a package waiting for me - my purple Punky Colour!!! They included a little cat pin because I donated to the New England Haven for Animals, as well as a cute Garment District bumper sticker, and a sparkley pink logo sticker that says "Go Punk Yourself".

I called my father and told him that we moved. It was okay; I called him at work, so he was sober. He referred to Rusty as "Whats-his-name" - and the sad thing is, he wasn't even being viscicious, he really couldn't remember. And why would he? I mean, I've only been with Rusty for eight years. That should give everyone an idea of how often I speak to my father.

I really should do something productive, but suddenly I feel very sleepy. I melted a ton of old wax over the weekend, so I really should go make candles, or work on this cross-stich pattern, or at least organise my craft supplies but... *yawn*.

   

[bah] 6/23/2003 9:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |disgusted]
[Current Music |tv - usa - afi tribute to robert de niro]

Went to traffic court. There's an hour of my life that I'll never get back.

   

Comments:
From: [info]titancia
Date: 6/24/2003 1:26:47 AM

Went to Summer School math.
That's 4 hours of my life I'll never get back.

Now I have to do it every Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday for the next 6 weeks, 4 hours a day.
Plus a bonus: 6 1-hour sessions with the Teacher's Aide! Goody!! */sarcasm*
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/24/2003 8:31:11 AM

Okay, you win. Math, yuck. :\
From: [info]titancia
Date: 6/24/2003 3:56:19 PM

Re:

lol...wish I could say you win!!
I'm going to dread going to math class every day for the next six weeks. :(

[daily calorie intake] 6/23/2003 10:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - usa - afi tribute to robert de niro]

Breakfast - three cups of coffee with sugar and fake creamer.
Lunch - Krispy Kreme donuts, Coke.
Dinner - extra cheesy mac and cheese, Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[gip] 6/24/2003 9:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - nick - the cosby show]

I just realised, I had nothing to say today. And yet, I must say something...

   

[daily calorie intake] 6/24/2003 10:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hot and tired and yucky]
[Current Music |tv - whose line is it anyway]

Breakfast - three cups of coffee with sugar and fake creamer.
Lunch - grilled cheese on wheat, milk.
Dinner - ramen noodles, Diet Pepsi.

Exercise - none.

   

[craftiness] 6/25/2003 9:10:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sleepy]
[Current Music |tv - abc stuff]

I did laundry all day yesterday, and the dishes are caught up, and so today I want to make things. I don't know what yet, but I have several choices...

There are still a gazillion pounds of wax here, waiting to be made into candles. I really should do this first, just to get rid of all the blocks of wax that are sitting around in the way. Making candles requires the use of the stove, however, and it's supposed to be really hot today.

I want to make a cross stitch insert for Sarah's sippie cup. I found a cute kitty border pattern, and I'm reworking the pattern so that it looks more like our cats. It will be really cute when it's done, and Sarah will love it, but egad, I find cross stitch to be immensely boring.

I need to finish Sarah's wooden blocks, and also a set of wooden "houses" that I'm making for her. I saved the ends of the 2x4s that Jeff cut, sanded and painted them in pastel colours, and now I need to paint doors and windows on them. I'm hoping, when all lined up, they'll have the effect of the Painted Ladies of San Fransisco, or houses in Jerusalem, or something.

And I still need to put a coat of polyurethane on my cigarette pack cell phone cases.

I am seriously lacking in motivation.

   

Comments:
From: [info]blairmaru
Date: 6/25/2003 10:05:22 AM

Knit! You KNOW you want to learn!

I'm like the drug pusher of knitting.

I'm working on a fuzzy pink seamless change purse, in gorgeous handspun merino wool and mohair.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/25/2003 10:11:02 AM

I DO want to knit... I went to the Walmart in Winchester VA last week, and they had that learn-to-knit kit, but only one, and it had been opened and part of the stuff was missing. So I went to the local Walmart, and they were completely sold out! It must be popular, because there were a TON of the crochet version, but I can't find the knitting one for anything. :\

For future reference - if I ever do find the kit in stock - what size (weight?) yarn should I get to start?
From: [info]blairmaru
Date: 6/25/2003 10:38:31 AM

Do you have a Joanne's Fabric up there? They have a learn to knit kit that comes with the yarn (it's beige, but hey, you're learning).

I would say - start with big needles, like a 10 1/2 and Lion Wool-Ease Thick and Quick, if you can find it. If not, size 8 or so needles with worsted weight, but NOT red heart. that crap is nasty. Caron Simply Soft is a good worsted weight yarn.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/25/2003 10:50:41 AM

We DO have a JoAnns... is their kit as good as Walmarts? I was only trying to get the Walmart one because you recommended it for being easy.

I will write that down, about the needle sizes and yarn types... that's one reason I wanted the Walmart kit, because it came with the needles and everything. I will take the crappy beige for practice, and some purple fuzzy in case I actually figure it out. :)
From: [info]blairmaru
Date: 6/25/2003 12:33:17 PM

it's actually made by Lion, the same company that makes the other one. I think it teaches you to make a hat and scarf.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/25/2003 10:12:03 AM

BTW - that purse sounds gorgeous! I would be happy with fuzzy purple legwarmers and maybe a kitty-ears hat...
From: [info]blairmaru
Date: 6/27/2003 8:00:12 AM

Re:

The purse decided to turn into a kitty ears baby hat. I couldn't help it, sometimes knitting just does that on it's own. Luckily, I've got several friends who recently had baby girls, so a pink fuzzy kitty ear hat will be welcome.
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 6/25/2003 12:58:32 PM

i love seeing pictures of the craftsy stuff you do. you're very talented.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/25/2003 2:27:50 PM

Awww... thanks! :)

*blushes*

[woot] 6/25/2003 10:25:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |ooohh, shiny!]
[Current Music |tv - abc stuff]

So instead of being crafty, I ventured into the attic and went through my old desk stuff, and found many treasures: a Hallmark Halloween cat (the first gift that Rusty ever gave me), a bag of Magic Stones, several pieces of rose quartz and flourite, and the chip out of my old 486.

I really should DO something...

   

[gaming] 6/25/2003 11:55:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |obsessed]
[Current Music |tv - nickelodeon]

Because of Peter and his damned purple cat, I have become fixated on getting a GameCube, solely so I can play Animal Crossing. Of course, if anyone has any other game suggestions - I feel kinda silly getting a game system for one game - I'd love to hear them. I like RPGs mostly, and some of the dragon/monster breeding games (like Dragon Warrior Monsters).

I need another video game like I need a hole in the head.

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 6/25/2003 12:19:10 PM

I don't think that GameCube has very many good games, and it's definitely short on RPGs, but the new Zelda game is good, Pikmin is a lot of fun, and Metroid Prime is really fun too. Then there are the SuperMario games, which are okay if you don't mind bright colors and chasing around after stupid princesses.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/25/2003 12:24:29 PM

You like Animal Crossing though, don't you?

Zelda would work. Is Pikmin the Pokemon game? Jamie said there was a good Pokemon game for GC. I've not played any of the Metroid games, but I do like some of the Mario games.

Fortunately, nothing is too bright on my TV - I keep the colour and brightness settings turned way down, otherwise I get migraines from looking at it. =)
From: [info]muridae
Date: 6/25/2003 12:27:16 PM

Animal Crossing is fun! It gets old after you've played it for several months, and gotten all the house additions and furniture sets, but in the meantime, it's great.

Pikmin is a game about a little space traveller who gets stranded on a strange planet and these native thingies, the Pikmin, help him retrieve pieces of his ship. It's a lot of fun.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/25/2003 12:33:09 PM

Pikmin sounds a lot like Toe Jam and Earl... and I love Toe Jam and Earl! =D
From: [info]thanny
Date: 6/25/2003 12:59:29 PM

zelda the windwaker!!! i don't have it but i hear it's quite spiffy.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/25/2003 2:29:10 PM

Ooohhhhh... Zelda = much funness!
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 6/25/2003 2:20:59 PM

Pikmin is great fun, very addictive because it's so simple. I love Super Mario Sunshine, and I'd love Animla Crossing but it isn't getting a UK release *cries*. I think I'll save up and buy the 'Freeloader' disc which lets you play imported games, and then buy it from Amazon.com or somewhere.

Also, GCs are cute and purple, what more motivation do you need? :D
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/26/2003 12:02:32 AM

I have seen Pikmin recommended on a couple of Amazon lists, and now you and Laurie, so I will definately have to get that one!

That sucks that the Brits don't get AC. :(
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 6/25/2003 5:50:07 PM

I'm holding out on Animal Crossing till this fall. They are supposed to be releasing an Animal Crossings 2, new and improved!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/26/2003 12:03:10 AM

What is the GC game that you like so much?
From: [info]the_never
Date: 6/29/2003 10:20:36 PM

The new Zelda game (Windwaker) is beyond awesome. Noah and I are playing that one. We spent all last Thursday doing it in fact and managed to get pretty far. We think.

Animal Crossing is great- my favorite game, hands down. I've had it about a year. I put it away for around 6 months and picked it up again recently. In fact, I can get you even more hooked. Go to Http://animalcrossingcommunity.com and get an account. We can trade items and stuff (it's done by password, so you don't need to have any kind of network connection for your Gamecube). Also- get Anicro Desapro and design patterns. My username is Skittle if you want to see my patterns. There are all kinds of weird little easter eggs and stuff in that game and that website has all the cool guides up. I like doing 16-bit sprite-type characters for patterns. You can print them out and actually needlepoint them in at the tailorshop. I've done a pirate flag for my island, a fish-scale shirt, several megaman characters, and other assorted creations.

Pikmin is cool, but it's been more of a rental. The way it works is puzzles. Your character can't actually act directly, he can just throw these pikmin guys ata problem. Someof them can swim, some of them can throw bombs, etc, and you have to navigate through a bunch of interesting little puzzles using the right amount of pikmin.

Another great game- and a classic, although it might be a bit Arcade for you: Super Mario Sunshine. Probably my second favorite game, and I recently finished it and got to the very last bit. At least rent it. Blockbuster has this deal where you can spend 20$ and get a pass that allows you to rent any games you want for a month (2 games at a time, just keep trading them in if you want to change them out). I'd definitely try out Super Mario Sunshine. It's the most popular for a reason.

Noah and I have also been playing a load of Warioland lately (it just came out on Wednesday). That game is mad fun. We're somewhere in the fourth world right now.

Other stuff: Well hmm. I have a Gameboy Player on my Gamecube that lets me play my Gameboy carts on there- so my classic RPS (phantasy Star I, II, III) and breeding games (Monster Rancher 2) are all actually Gameboy games that I play on Gamecube.

Other games I have: Mystic Heroes, Sonic Clasic Mega Collection (Nintendo may actually be buying the Sonic character pretty soon and there are rumors of a new Nights Into Dreams game),


From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/29/2003 10:46:28 PM

I set up an account at ACC (Starr of Starburg - I'm so original), though I don't understand how we can trade stuff via codes... cool if we can, though! Hopefully I will pick up some good tips there, too...

Sometime, could you please explain to me - in slow motion - what an e-reader does, and what it would do for me. Does it add actual characters to the game, or just a "card" to look at? And what's the deal with Nintendo Pinball? If I got that card, would I actually be able to play Pinball on the GameCube?

I have the GBA and the Gameboy Player; still need the cable to connect GBA and GC. I understand there's an island if I do that...? Where does the island come from?

Other games: irrelevant! Hahahahaha!!! Okay, assuming I ever stop playing AC, I probably *will* get Zelda and Mario Sunshine. Oh, and have you seen Phantasy Star Online? I LOVED PS4, but wasn't too crazy about 1-3... looks like they've had quite an update, though. The Sonic collection looks cool; I will probably get it even though I still have those games for Sega.

Speaking of GB breeding games, do you play Dragon Warrior Monsters? I really like it too.
From: [info]the_never
Date: 6/29/2003 11:30:53 PM

Re:

Okay- E-Reader. Plugs into the Gameboy. You can actually get a bunch of 8-bit NES games in card form and swipe the cards (it takes 5 cards usually) to put the game onto the Gameboy.

How it works with Animal Crossing: Okay- the Animal Crossing cards can be swiped and they'll give you random stuff. However, you don't need the E-reader for that. If you have the card, it has a code on the back, and you can write a mail, put the code in, and get something that way.

The 8-bit games are also already in Animal-Crossing, you just have to find/unlock them. Once you do, Yes- you can actually play the 8-bit game in Animal Crossing on your Gamecube. I'll hook you up with NES Pinball and Tennis anyhow. At the end of every month Nook has a raffle and he usually has an NES game as one of the prizes (thats how I got Tennis). Noah found Pinball when someone in his town buried it.

Some games are really rare and untradeable (Wario's Woods, Legend of Zelda). But there's a trick to getting Wario's Woods at least.

Most of the Animal-Crossing cards don't have great prizes in them, actually. I got a cello that was pretty cool, though.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/30/2003 12:06:37 AM

Oooh, I will have to get the AC cards, then! I saw some the other day for only a couple of dollars per pack, but I didn't get them since I didn't have the reader.

I would love to have Pinball, thanks! I don't know if I have anything you'd want yet (since you're so far ahead), but if there's anything you're looking for, let me know! I know that the towns vary a bit; I don't know if the contents (fish and insects, etc) do too.

I haven't played Wario's Woods; was that for NES, too?

[this afternoon] 6/25/2003 5:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hot and ooky]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]

I made the first batch of candles - hazelnut coffee with cinnamon. They probably smell really good (I wouldn't know), but I don't care for the colour. I was going for a chocolate brown, and they turned out a sort of poopey brown, instead. But I hate all shades of brown, so it's hard for me to judge. And besides, purple coffee-scented candles would have been weird. Anyway.

And I printed out a ton of recipes to try from jewish-food.org - challah, cheese latkes, chicken soup, matzoh balls, sufganiyot, almond cookies. I'm going to attempt the challah this weekend.

I took a nap at 3pm, and woke up at 3:30, craving latkes. So I got up and made latkes; what else could I do. Yummy! Since I had the frying pan out anyway, I browned some turkey burger to use in lasagna later. I have cooked more in the past month, than I have in my entire life. Fear meee.

Speaking of cooking, I saved Mazel some of the raw turkey burger. Her Fuzzy Majesty didn't like it raw, so I actually cooked this tiny bit of meat just for her. She didn't care for it being hot either, so I had to blow on it, piece by piece, and hand-feed it to her. She ate it then, the picky little wench. She is SO spoiled... lucky for her, I'm a sucker.

   

Comments:
From: [info]titancia
Date: 6/25/2003 5:31:28 PM

Aww, how cute!! :)
We all spoil the family pet, too. I think Thistle enjoys being spoiled, so she never complains. Silly dog. :)
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 6/25/2003 5:35:13 PM

oh my! That's one spoiled kitty!! hehe

Thanks for posting that link. It looks useful.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/25/2003 5:40:44 PM

Yeah, that's a really cool site - there are multiple recipes for most dishes, so you can pick the one to match your skill level (or lack thereof, in my case).

[daily calorie intake] 6/25/2003 9:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |really freakin hot]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - hannity & colmes]

Breakfast - four cups of coffee with sugar and fake creamer.
Lunch - pack of cheese crackers, latkes with applesauce, Diet Pepsi.
Dinner - turkey lasagna, Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[my precioussssss...] 6/26/2003 1:10:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |giddy]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

Shineee. New. GameCube. Eees miiine.

Yes, I got the pretty platinum GameCube today (a gift of sorts from my ex-huband), as well as Animal Crossing and the strategy guide, Pikman, a preview disc, and the Gameboy Player. It's all hooked up now... it's so little and cute! I haven't actually played with it much yet, except to try out the preview disc and make sure that the Gameboy Player was properly hooked up.

In other news, I took my naval retainer out last night. I am bored with it.

   

[woo hoo] 6/26/2003 6:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |martha-esque]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]


I baked my own challah! It wasn't as difficult as I imagined that it would be, though I could certainly stand to get a bread machine for the sake of mixing the dough, if I ever want to do this again. It turned out pretty well, though!
   

Comments:
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 6/26/2003 6:47:09 PM

Mmmm I love challah! I make it sometimes too. I have a Kitchen Aid hand mixer with dough hooks and it really is great for kneading. I will never knead by hand again.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/26/2003 7:00:34 PM

Yeah, doing it by hand was WAY too much like work. Does the Kitchen Aid work really well? That sounds like it might be a more versatle option than the bread machine...
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 6/26/2003 7:17:35 PM

Re:

I LOVE it!! I love making bread but I had pretty much stopped until I got this. I use it for pizza dough at least once a week. Here's the one I have (which was $60 when I got it - it was on my wish list and now it's on sale of course):

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/B00004SGF0/ref=cm_wed_ovp-pg.1-pos.12/104-7190594-1024704?v=glance&coliid=I3LMCP8M2HJ6UH
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 6/26/2003 7:18:58 PM

I second that. I have one too. It comes with a dough hook and does a fab job of kneading bread dough.
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 6/26/2003 7:16:30 PM

Those turned out great, it looks delish! Did you throw a pinch in the oven to burn too?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/26/2003 8:10:28 PM

No! I remembered reading something about that, but I couldn't remember exactly what to do, or why, and most of my books are still packed up. "\
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 6/26/2003 9:26:02 PM

This is completely off topic but about how far do you live from Fairmont? I'm thinking about moving up there and if you're close enough maybe I could pester you into inviting me to visit your Temple sometime.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/26/2003 9:45:52 PM

I'm still a ways up from Fairmont, probably three miles northeast. Come on up, I need some Jewish interaction IRL!
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 6/26/2003 10:06:44 PM

You're only 3 miles from Fairmont? W0000!! *happy dance* :)

I'm going to go visit [info]evildeadgrrl there next week. We'll prolly be looking for houses to rent and stuff. If ya wanna call me my cell is 687-3206.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/27/2003 7:18:11 AM

Yay! That would be cool to have you closer by. You should come up one weekend - we could either go to Baltimore (huge Jewish community there) or to the Holocaust Museum.

Why are you moving to Fairmont, anyway?
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 6/27/2003 1:08:33 PM

One of my best friends [info]evildeadgrrl and her bf live up there and we have been talking for years about starting our own graphic design/photography business and it looks like right now would be an excellent time to do that. Plus, it beats staying here and I like the location because it's so close to a few major cities, and a few of my good LJ friends.

Which Temple do you go to? I was searching the web for Temples close to Fairmont. There is one in Morgantown called the 'Tree of Life' congregation, it looks like it's reform. And there are a few things in Uniontown PA, like a JCC and another Temple. How long does it take to get to Baltimore??
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/27/2003 10:02:03 PM

That's why I stay here - the actual town sucks, but it's cheap, low-crime, and within an hour or two of some really cool places (DC and Baltimore), plus Philly, Pittsburgh, Delaware, Ocean City MD, and VA Beach are all within 4-5 hours drive.

I go to B'nai Abraham in Hagerstown MD. It's also reform, and so it the other one that's close to me. I have heard that there's a HUGE consevative temple in B'more... which is about 75 miles from me. :)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/27/2003 10:04:26 PM

PS - if you want to call while you're up (or whenever, for that matter), my home phone is 304-263-2581, cell is 304-279-1173. :)
From: [info]sf_rose
Date: 6/26/2003 10:28:47 PM

beautiful...dammit. now I gots to do it.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/27/2003 7:21:57 AM

You should! I used this recipe: http://www.jewish-food.org/recipes/alwaysc.htm (cut in half). It must be a pretty fool-proof recipe, because I'd never made bread in my life, and it turned out pretty well!
From: [info]topi
Date: 6/26/2003 11:45:17 PM

My G-d bless you abundantly for visions of such glory!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/27/2003 7:24:55 AM

Isn't it preeetty? See, you should move closer to me, so you could come over for a home-cooked meal! =)
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 6/27/2003 1:03:45 PM

I second that. In fact, I think we should steal [info]topi one day and make him go to the holocaust museum with us! :)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/27/2003 10:10:49 PM

We should kidnap him, and drag him to Baltimore, too! Wow, the three of us together - the ultra-conservative Jewgro, the vampy goth chick, and the weird girl with purple hair - all Jewing it up - now THAT would make them wonder! =D
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 6/28/2003 9:02:49 PM

LOL, at least we'd have them all talking! ;)
From: [info]cellio
Date: 6/27/2003 12:26:33 AM

Very nice!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/27/2003 7:25:24 AM

Thanks! I'm pretty proud of it! :)
From: [info]slow_like_honey
Date: 6/27/2003 10:30:03 AM

she's so crafty!

congratulations on your challah :D
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/27/2003 10:11:33 PM

Re: she's so crafty!

Thanks! Not bad for a first attempt... :)
From: [info]slow_like_honey
Date: 6/28/2003 10:12:15 AM

Re: she's so crafty!

not bad at all! it looks delicious.

i like to tell people i can cook but really i'm limited to terribly simple things like pasta, cassaroles & the occasional chicken (tho' i'm not bad at making vegetarian meals. they're very simple but usually good. or at least i think they are! :p) i'm not sure how i am at baking things from scratch. maybe i'll give it a try one day. i can bake from pre-made mixes tho' but that's not exactly the same. any good websites to recommend for baking recipes?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/28/2003 12:31:05 PM

Re: she's so crafty!

I really like this one: http://recipesource.com/ - it's very well laid out, and you can look at foods by type or by region. Also, this one: http://www.jewish-food.org/catindex.htm is really good for Jewish food.

Baking really isn't as hard as it seems; I actually find it easier than cooking meats and vegetables. I think the trick is finding a good recipe, and then reading through it to make sure you know what they're talking about - I've been known to get partway through a recipe and then wonder what the hell something means.... it works out a lot better if you find out what a term means before you've got a big pile of sticky bread dough in your hands and need to call someone! =)
From: [info]slow_like_honey
Date: 6/28/2003 1:11:48 PM

Re: she's so crafty!

i'll definitely have to check those websites out :D i have a few cookbooks but i really don't know if any of the recipes are good or not since there's hardly any photos & i can't really find anybody that's tried them before. i really want to try making cornish game hens but i HATE cleaning birds but the recipe sounds delicious and it uses my favourite kind of cheese :) (i LOVE cheese. it's the most wonderful thing in the world... after chocolate of course *hehe*)

anyways, i'll look at the websites & if i do decide to try something i'll let you know how it goes or post something about it in my journal :)
From: [info]htownclone
Date: 6/29/2003 12:49:00 AM

Oh man, that looks sooooooooooooo good!!!!

[daily calorie intake] 6/26/2003 10:10:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hot and ookey]
[Current Music |tv - fnc - hannity & colmes]

Breakfast - three cups of coffee with sugar and fake creamer.
Lunch - pack of peanut butter crackers, leftover latkes, Coke.
Dinner - matzoh balls in chicken broth, challah bread, Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[today] 6/27/2003 4:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |obsessed]
[Current Music |gc - animal crossing]

I went to the mall this morning, and then stopped at the supermarket and bought more baking stuff: almonds, vanilla extract, more oil and flour - I'm trying to collect the stuff that I often see listed in recipes, so that I will have them on hand for future use. But anyway...

The rest of my day was completely sucked away by Animal Crossing. I finished working for Mr Nook, and now I'm shaking trees and collecting apples and seashells to sell in the store, to pay off my mortgage. I've been stung by bees, twice.

This game is like crack.

   

Comments:
From: [info]titancia
Date: 6/27/2003 4:45:51 PM

So is Animal Crossing a video game or computer game?
I've heard several people talking about it, but haven't been able to figure it out.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/27/2003 9:51:44 PM

It's a video game, for Nintendo GameCube. :)
From: [info]titancia
Date: 6/28/2003 10:05:19 PM

Re:

Ahh...I've never had a nintendo so I'm not down with all the games and all the different machines to play the games on.

[quick, somebody call peta] 6/27/2003 9:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |tv - usa - conair]

   

Comments:
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 6/28/2003 8:32:18 AM

vrooom!!

I want a kitty to play with, but I'd have to bump off my ol' man first.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/28/2003 12:32:47 PM

That seems like a fair trade-off. :)
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 6/28/2003 10:30:32 AM

Aaahahahahah!! That is too cute :D

[daily calorie intake] 6/27/2003 10:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |tv - usa - monk]

Breakfast - three cups of coffee with sugar and fake creamer.
Lunch - pack of peanut butter crackers, Coke.
Dinner - leftover matzoh balls in chicken broth, challah, Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[ebay find] 6/28/2003 5:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |headachey]
[Current Music |gc - animal crossing]


I got this postcard, which was made the same year that our house was. It's of the main street here, circa 1909, and I love seeing the way the people dressed then. The brick store on the near left corner was called "Harper Whiskey" - it's a drycleaners now. The white building next to it is now a porn store with apartments overhead... in fact, the first place that Rusty and I ever lived together, was in a third floor apartment of that building. Neat, huh?
   

Comments:
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 6/28/2003 7:05:57 PM

How cool! And how interesting. Isn't it fun to imagine who lived in your house? Do you have any history on it?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/28/2003 7:53:38 PM

Oh yeah... we're actually only the second family to live here! You remember I talked about the lady who died, who owned the house? Well, before it was hers, it was her parents, and her father's parents are the ones who built it. In fact, her father was born in our bedroom!

There is an older lady who lives next to us; I would like to talk to her some more about the history of the place. She is quite elderly, and she was born in that house, so she has been here for quite a while.

I'd also like to find a photo of our seller's mother. Her name was Gertrude, and her energy (or whatever you want to call it) is still very much present.
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 6/29/2003 2:52:35 PM

Re:

Well I remember you saying a lot of that now. I just have a bad memory :).

[today] 6/28/2003 9:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |headachey]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

I got Rusty sucked into Animal Crossing too. He has his own character now - a dorky boy in purple plaid with viking horns - who lives in my town. We've been collecting seashells and catching bugs all day. I paid off my mortgage and ordered an upgrade to my house.

While Rusty was playing with his character, I baked a batch of almond cookies... tasty!

Edited because I forgot to mention: my father stopped by today... twice. The first time was to see the new place, I guess. The second time was to give my some tomato and bell pepper plants. It was okay, though we'll never be on warm and fuzzy terms. Whatever.

And this evening, I made honey cinnamon raisen bread... delicious, if I do say so myself.

And now we're watching Trading Spaces. Rusty is annoyed by the studly new carpenter, Carter Oosterhouse. I, on the other hand, am enthralled with the guy, which I think may be partly why Rusty is so annoyed. Carter makes for some very good eye candy.

Ah well, time to eat dinner - Domino's, hooray!

   

Comments:
From: [info]ilea
Date: 6/28/2003 6:16:03 PM

*steals an almond cookie*
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 6/28/2003 7:05:18 PM

It sounds like the Sims a little. Did you say it's for playstation? Or is there a gameboy version? I miss the Sims!!!!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/28/2003 7:56:45 PM

It IS a lot like the Sims, though I like it a lot better.

It's for Nintendo GameCube. I don't think there is a version *just* for Gameboy yet, BUT, if you have a Gameboy, there are a lot of extra things that you can do in the game (you can connect the GameCube and the GameBoy).
From: [info]thanny
Date: 6/28/2003 11:16:13 PM

ahhh carter's on again!!!? i'm going to stay up til one am watching it.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/28/2003 11:54:54 PM

He's gorgeous. Ty is cute, but Carter is gorgeous.

*swoon*

[daily calorie intake] 6/28/2003 9:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hot and yucky]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Breakfast - Krispy Kreme donut and a large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - pack of cheese crackers, almond cookies, Coke.
Dinner - cheesesticks from Domino's, Coke.
Snack - honey cinnamon raisen bread.

Exercise - none.

   

[today] 6/29/2003 9:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |obsessive]
[Current Music |gc - animal crossing]

We spent the whole day catching fake fish, to sell for fake bells, to pay off our fake debt.

I think we have a real problem...

   

Comments:
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 6/30/2003 10:16:25 AM

*LOL* I understand.

Topi is interested in coming to see us this week. I gave him my cell number. Hopefully we can all hook up this week. I'll give you a call when I know more. :)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/30/2003 2:18:31 PM

Oh, cool! Yes, let me know! :)
From: [info]the_never
Date: 6/30/2003 12:08:29 PM

Presents...!

Okay. I ordered copies of Pinball and Tennis from my catalog. I'm going to start you out on some cheap gifts so you can figure out the whole trade/exchange/code thingy. I'm sending cherries and a coconut. You know how to plant fruit trees, right? Just dig a hole and bury the fruit. Make sure to do it between 6 Am and before 6 PM, don't plant too close to anything else (find a clear spot), and don't run or step on your sapling. Eventually it grows into a tree, and you can shake the fruit and plant more trees and make a little grove. Foreign fruit is worth 500 bells a pop at Nooks.

Go down to Nooks and give him this code:
C h 7 J O f z V o U g M D k
D d H f G g u V f @ K w & E

(let me know if it doesn't work).

Okay- next- the coconut. Coconuts will only grow near the beach. Don't dig the hole in the sand, but instead dig it just beyond the sand in the green area. Follow the same rules as for the cherry tree and you should have a nice little coconut tree. I find that planting flowers around the cocnut tree looks pretty cool too. You can even plant flowers right in the sand.

The coconut:
j z B F u 3 V F j b y C t o
l 3 m J f w T e 8 I 8 v U 7

(thats a lower case l as in lizard in the second line, and an upper case I as in Ice near the end of that same line.)

Let me know if this works. If you have no problems inputting codes we can try the Pinball and Tennis games.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/30/2003 2:17:35 PM

Re: Presents...!

It didn't workfor me; Nook accused me of trying to use someone else's password! I double-checked to make sure that I entered it correctly... is there any benefit to trying at a later date? I found a couple of codes online, too - one that he said was wrong, and one that worked fine (I got a Starman). I don't know what the problem is.

Well, let's try it the other way 'round. Here is an apple:

xQw%C354rVLCrm
EVZPjGZn616Y67
From: [info]the_never
Date: 6/30/2003 9:57:07 PM

Re: Presents...!

I'll check the apple when I get home. I have a question though- since both codes failed, I am starting to think maybe I put the wrong characer and town name in. I put in Starr and Starburg. Is that right? Capitalization and extra characters count.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 6/30/2003 10:09:44 PM

Re: Presents...!

Yeah, that was right... :\ I will try it again just to be sure, but I double-checked both of them before I entered them, and the first one I checked a third time when he said it was wrong and gave me the option of looking again.

[daily calorie intake] 6/29/2003 9:10:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |it's my turn, dammit!]
[Current Music |gc - animal crossing]

Breakfast - honey cinnamon raisen bread and a large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - almond cookies, Coke.
Dinner - fettuchini alfredo, Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[happy 13th birthday steven] 6/30/2003 9:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |really freakin old]
[Current Music |gc - animal crossing]


I am now the proud owner of a teenaged boy. Thanks for the good wishes... I am a bit horrified by the thought. I wanted to sell him into indentured servitude before it came to this, but his father wouldn't let me. Anyway, I baked a cake for the occasion, my mom came over, he opened presents... the usual birthday stuff. Now he's thinking about what kind of car he plans to get in three years... over my dead body. I am so not ready for this.
   

Comments:
From: [info]htownclone
Date: 6/30/2003 5:49:33 PM

Congrats :)
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 6/30/2003 5:53:29 PM

Uh-oh!! ;o)
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 6/30/2003 7:24:17 PM

a teenager, wow! happy birthday, steven!
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 6/30/2003 9:06:17 PM

Good luck *shivering in fear*
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 6/30/2003 10:39:37 PM

What a cutie!

[daily calorie intake] 6/30/2003 11:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sleepy]
[Current Music |gc - animal crossing]

Breakfast - four cups of coffee with cream and sugar.
Lunch - cheese crackers, Coke.
Dinner - leftover fettuchini alfredo and garlic bread, Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[today] 7/1/2003 5:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |yucky]
[Current Music |gc - animal crossing]

I had the weirdest people come here today. One was a seriously creepy toothless teenager in Hilfigger shorts who wanted to know if he could mow my lawn for $20. I told him to come back and ask Rusty. He was far too creepy for me to deal with, and Rusty is large and imposing.

The other was a woman who talked to me for a very long time... she explained to me - a total stranger - that she was here from Florida to take care of her mother who has altzheimers and father who has prostate cancer, and she herself has lupus, and her brother is crazy, and she wanted to know if the house for sale next door was nice, and did I think she should buy it?

She talked for a really long time, and then she hugged me, which was freaky as shit. I'm not a hugger if I DO know someone, so huggy strangers are really out of my realm of comfort. The weird thing is, she said she was from a fairly prominent family in this area, the daughter of a local judge (and seemed to be telling the truth), but if she hadn't told me her last name, I'd think she was drunken and/or insane. Maybe she was, anyway...

   

Comments:
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 7/1/2003 6:31:03 PM

Well, didn't you know...that was me!

;o)
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 7/1/2003 6:31:41 PM

Crazy huggy woman that is...not really creepy boy...
From: [info]htownclone
Date: 7/1/2003 6:56:32 PM

LOL... Where exactly do you live? :)
From: [info]the_never
Date: 7/1/2003 8:14:32 PM

You rock. I won't even let my mother hug me.
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 7/1/2003 8:32:33 PM

There are a lot of um...interesting people in this area! hehe We were laughing at a couple of old women in a car COVERED with anti-abotion stickers, and I mean COVERED. LOL

[animal crossing] 7/1/2003 8:42:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |gc - animal crossing]

`
This is testiment to my obsessive-compulsive streak. I had been playing Animal Crossing, with a character who appeared to be a purple-haired girl with Raggedy-Ann eyes. I bought her a really cool purple dress, and everything was good. Except, then I upgraded my house, and ordered a purple roof, and then noticed that my purple roof, wasn't. Naturally, I was terribly distressed.

So. Normally I keep the settings on my TV turned well-down, because otherwise the people look way too bright and colourful, and they frighten me. Also, the brighter settings give me migraines. So usually I have my television set turned way down, so that people look grey and rather pasty, which is how I think people should look. Unfortunately, these setting make video games look funny. When I adjusted the settings to normal, I found out that my roof really was purple, but my purple-haired girl was actually a pink-haired girl in a fuscia-coloured dress. Argh.

So I started the game over and played the intro differently to get a better character... I now have an authentic purple-haired girl with pretty almond-shaped eyes, an actual purple outfit (designed by me, even!), and a purple roof. Life is good again.
   

Comments:
From: [info]the_never
Date: 7/1/2003 10:10:26 PM

name and town name, please!

I'm still Skittle from Bugville.

From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 7/2/2003 1:18:02 AM

I'm still Starr of Starburg.

(I'm Star, Starr, or Stardust in all of my RPGs - depending on how many spaces I get. :)

Do you think the similar names is screwing up the code thing? Because universal codes seem to work fine for me. If so, Rusty's character is Korg of Starburg.
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 7/2/2003 11:07:32 AM

Grrr, you keep making posts like this and I'm going to have to go out and get Animal Crossing now instead of waiting for part 2. I can't wait to play it.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 7/2/2003 11:59:17 AM

YES! YESYESYESYESYESYESYESYESYESYESYESYESYES!!!

*cough*

Erm, yes, you might want to consider doing that.
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 7/3/2003 3:16:28 PM

Re:

*lol* Temptation is getting the better of me here. Let us know what your cute little animal town does for the 4th of July coming up.

Sorry I didn't get to see you when I was in Fairmont, I left earlier than I had planned. I was wanting to meet you for Temple on Friday but I couldn't handle the cat any longer. You should see my eyes! oy.
From: [info]jupiterjuniper
Date: 7/2/2003 12:24:09 PM

i love purple.

[daily calorie intake] 7/1/2003 9:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |gc - animal crossing]

Breakfast - large cappachino from Sheetz.
Lunch - honey cinnamon raisen bread, Coke.
Dinner - pasta alfredo with broccoli, Coke.

Exercise - none.

   

[today] 7/2/2003 12:10:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |miserable]
[Current Music |gc - animal crossing]

Tired-sick-hot-crampy-blah.

I called and made a hair appointment for tomorrow evening - my mom had a colouring scheduled, and Rhonda said that she could squeeze me in for a trim. This frizzy mess certainly needs it...

And that concludes the productive portion of my day. I am now going to lie down, moan dramatically, and play Animal Crossing until my brain explodes.

   

Comments:
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 7/2/2003 1:31:35 PM

The wild thing is, I think everyone on my friend's page run into it at the same time...

:::scroll scroll::cramps:::scroll scroll:::f*king cramps:::scroll:::
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 7/2/2003 3:45:24 PM

i need a haircut really bad, but i haven't the foggiest idea what to do with it. i'm growing it out.

[daily calorie intake] 7/2/2003 9:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |bored]
[Current Music |gc - animal crossing]

Eh, who cares.

   

[now with 50% less hair] 7/3/2003 8:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sickish]
[Current Music |gc - animal crossing]

I did all the usual every-other-Thursday stuff (post office, bank, Petsmart), and stopped at Walmart and bought a book on knitting, as well as three pairs of needles (6, 8, 10) and three skeins of purple yarn. So yeah, I'm going to attempt knitting. I will probably put an eye out.

Also, I picked up an E-Reader, some more Animal Crossing trading cards, a GC/GBA link cable, and a much-needed GameCube controller extension. Rusty has a three-day weekend, so there is much gaming to be done. He's so funny... he left me a note yesterday telling me to check my inventory; he'd gone out and caught me a rare (coelacanth) fish before he went to work! =)

My head hurt, so I came home and took some aspirin and a nap, which was interupted by my not being able to breathe (very annoying!). So I got up and played Animal Crossing until Rusty got home, and then I went and got my hair cut - it's a bit shorter than shoulder-length, long layers. It's a bit more bang-ish than I'm used to, but I think I like it.

   

[today] 7/4/2003 4:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hot and tired]
[Current Music |gc - animal crossing]

We went up to visit my grandmother; she wanted some company. It was cool, except, she has kittens too - most of them are feral. She has one litter that is pretty tame though, and one of those kittens is a sweet little long-haired orange tabby girl. I covet this kitten, truly I do.

It's way too hot, and I have a headache.

   

[to whom it applies...] 7/4/2003 6:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |festive]
[Current Music |gc - animal crossing]

Happy Independance Day!
   

[animal crossing article] 7/5/2003 11:05:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |tv - amc - planet of the apes]

Posted especially for [info]the_never and [info]grimkitten: I found something that cracked me up this morning. It should be called

One look at a screen shot of the game is enough to make your teeth hurt for a week. Think of it as the Sims if it were made by the people who sell those collectible figurines of kids with puppies and balloons. It is so adorable it makes you want to jump out a window because you know you will never witness anything cuter for the rest of your life.

With the hearty approval of my girlfriend Michelle we decided to get a Game Cube and Animal Crossing. We researched the best ways to play the game together, how our towns would interact, when the best time of day was to catch fish and give them to the owl in the museum. Five minutes after I sat down to play any pretense of machismo I had evaporated as if I were rolling around on the floor with a baby, three puppies, and a kitten all at the same time.

For those of you not up on your extremely cutesy Game Cube games, Animal Crossing is a "real life" simulation with a cartoonish angle. You play a human that looks like a cross between a baby with hydrocephalus and a Raggedy Ann doll in a town full of talking animals. You have to raise money to expand your house and buy furnishings by doing things like picking fruit, digging for treasure, catching bugs (hot market, I know), and fishing. You interact with all the animal villagers in your town in a sometimes-logical way. Each has a distinct personality taken from an admittedly limited pool of personality types, and you can woo them into liking you by doing things like sending them presents and letters, or helping them out with menial tasks.

What the Sims got wrong in many ways Animal Crossing seems to get very right. The town you live in is much more fluid, with animals moving in and out at a sometimes ridiculous pace, and all kinds of timed events like sports contests and traveling merchants. The catch with Animal Crossing is that there is no fast forward button. For those of us who like our gaming fix quick and steady Animal Crossing can be a bit disconcerting. There's only so much you can do in a day, and even on the best days squeezing more than three hours out of the game starts to get boring. Then comes the next day and you fall in love all over again, with completely new and fun things to do, rumors and gossip, and seasonal events. Animal Crossing is the sort of game you would make fun of your friend for having and then obsessively play after he passes out from doing shots.

My personal experience in Animal Crossing has been to create my rag-doll freakbaby named "sparkle" and send him off to his little town of "sassyton". Upon arriving in the cheery berg of sassyton I set up my home with the help of local shopkeeper Tom Nook. Tom Nook apparently has access to either dimensional gateways or illegal human raccoon-man cloning technology as he appears in every game under the same name. The trees on my town grow peaches, which I picked clean, only to discover that Tom Nook is only offering 100 bells (the cute Animal Crossing currency) for peaches, but 500 for every other fruit. When Michelle (AKA "fisty") made her town of "kittie" she discovered that her trees grew pears. Quickly a trade agreement was hammered out and we began taking the train between our towns to sell fruit at incredible markup in the nearby village.

Whenever you take a train ride in Animal Crossing you invariably encounter another character on the train. Usually this is a very emotive cat by the name of "Rover", who I have spoken with so many times I would like to gut with a meathook and sell to Tom Nook. You are also able to design your own clothing and decorations using a simple art tool built into the game. My efforts to emblazon my door with a swastika were shot down by Michelle, but I've had my mean fun with plenty of the townspeople. You see they enjoy getting letters and having you post bulletins on the bulletin board, but they can't actually understand what you write. They can tell when you write nonsense and they can comment on the length of your letter, but my repeated death threats and warnings about Tom Nook plotting to kill people have led to nothing but confusion and requests for shorter letters. Good old Tom once asked me to post an advertisement for his shop that would generate buzz and I proceeded to write a bulletin about Tom Nook's bedwetting problem. He congratulated me and paid me for a job well done.

That is by no means the limit of the fun things you can do around town to harass and provoke your saccharine townspeople. Try some of the following to see if you can get them to leave town:

* Dig a network of trenches outside their home and write them a letter informing them that their grave awaits them. If you've caught a bee then attach it to the letter as a "gift".

* Flowers can be trampled by repeatedly running or walking through them. Your house deserves to be the best one in town, don't let those showoffs think they can outdo you.

* Contrary to their comments and what the manual and strategy guide might say, townspeople absolutely love being hit with the shovel and/or net. Run around and have a party with them seeing how many you can enrage.

* If you have two memory cards chances are when someone moves out of your town they'll be moving into the town on the other card. That means they cannot escape your wrath. Hop on the train and continue the shenanigans in a neighboring town.

* Whenever someone gives you a job to do what they're really saying is "take this and throw it in the wishing well". So when Grumbly the bear tells you to return his Gameboy to Portia, what he actually wants you to do is throw it down a well and go catch fish.

* People in town enjoy playing with balls. If you see one having fun with a soccer ball then you should immediately kick the ball into the river or ocean.

* When it starts to get late people tend to go into their houses to get ready for bed. If you see a house with the lights on then feel free to head on in uninvited and shove their furniture around enclosing them against the wall. If they're listening to music turn it off and if they have a toilet then use it repeatedly while they watch, trapped by the furniture, unable to stop your rampage.

I hope these tips help you become the man about town that sparkle is! Word about him is out and the buzz points to him being the next big thing.

If you own a Game Cube and do not own Animal Crossing then what are you doing reading this article when you could be out buying Animal Crossing?! Get going! If you don't own a Game Cube but enjoy spending a lot of money just to play one game, then go get a Game Cube and Animal Crossing!


[http://www.somethingawful.com/archives/daily/news-archive-27-9-2002.htm]

   

Comments:
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 7/5/2003 1:05:52 PM

OMG *cracks the hell up*

That.is.just.wrong. *LOL*
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 7/5/2003 2:23:50 PM

I know... and what's even more wrong is, we've done most of those things to our poor villagers! lol
From: [info]the_never
Date: 7/5/2003 1:43:52 PM

It's the shizzle. I managed to complete my Triceratops today, so now all I have left is the T-Rex tail...
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 7/5/2003 2:25:41 PM

I think I have the t-rex tail, but not its torso, come to think of it, I'm missing A LOT of torsos... my museum looks really weird; just a bunch of heads and tails.

[also] 7/5/2003 11:11:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |people suck]
[Current Music |tv - amc - planet of the apes]

I want this cat.

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 7/5/2003 5:27:58 PM

Poor kitty!!!

[today] 7/5/2003 3:10:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |headachey]
[Current Music |gc - animal crossing]

Rusty finally stopped watching the Planet of the Apes marathon(!), and now we're gaming.

I visited my first town and brought back apples to plant, as well as a fancy pinwheel (it's still July 4 there), two fossils to sell, and a chair that I really liked. And I finally got the Gameboy hooked up and visited the island (Et Mon!) and brought back several coconuts to plant.

An unfortunate side effect of having the second town: Bob decided to move there, and I'm really bummed out. He was my favourite villager, and I don't know if I can get him to move back to my main town. In an effort to convince him, I went to his new house and dug holes all around it, and left junk and weeds there. Later I will have goons go and thrash him repeatedly with the butterfly net. I hope he decides that it's a bad neighbourhood and moves back to Starburg.

I miss my groovy purple cat.

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 7/5/2003 4:15:33 PM

this sounds like so much fun!
From: [info]the_never
Date: 7/5/2003 4:45:40 PM

My favorite villager (Iggy) left town about a week ago. I'm actually taking it ok.

Isn't it weird how you have favorites? Everyone does. Iggy was one of the first guys I met, and he's always been pretty cool to hang around with. Now I hang around with Limberg who is kind of mean to me. Still.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 7/5/2003 6:34:09 PM

I'm just pissed, because all of my cats (Bob, Olivia, Kitty) left town, and now I have ugly pigs, instead. And Bob was an especially cool cat; he was purple, and mellow too. I'm not taking it at all well; I went to Bob's new house and trashed his yard, and then I would talk to him, and when he responded I said nevermind (the equivelent to calling and hanging up). I'm like the ex-girlfriend from hell...
From: [info]muridae
Date: 7/6/2003 2:06:42 PM

Here's what we've noticed. When you leave town on a train, someone moves out to the town you're visiting. So don't leave town. Start up a new character in your other town, and make the town really ugly, and then have your other townsperson leave town a lot. That should drive Bob the Cat back to your town eventually.

We have employed this method multiple times, with good results.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 7/6/2003 4:10:48 PM

It worked, thanks! We let the weeds grow, cut down all the trees around Bob's new house, and dumped about fifteen old boots on his lawn. We shoved him around, whapped him with the butterfly net, and annoyed him until finally he gave up and returned to Starburg. I am never leaving town again!
From: [info]closertofine