[2003] 1/1/2003 12:00:00 AM

purple_stardust

«·´¨`·.¸¸.* HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! *.¸¸.·´¨`·»
   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/1/2003 12:16:31 AM

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 1/1/2003 12:27:49 AM

HAPPY NEW YEARS!!!
From: [info]sjcarpediem
Date: 1/1/2003 3:51:15 AM

ooooh.... pretty blinkie purple writing...
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 1/1/2003 10:27:55 AM

H a p p y N e w Y e a r ! ! !

[dinner - hors d'oeuvres] 1/1/2003 1:05:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |web - neopets.com / tv - nick-at-nite]

Various crackers with cream cheese and caviar and stuff. Cheese. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[note to self] 1/1/2003 2:10:00 PM

purple_stardust

I can add sex to the list of things that I don't have the attention span for.

   

Comments:
From: [info]gypsydance
Date: 1/1/2003 3:54:54 PM

Hee! So glad I'm not the only one. :P
From: [info]bioclaire
Date: 1/1/2003 4:08:42 PM

LOL! After a while, I'm with you guys, too.... :O
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/1/2003 8:09:25 PM

I'm glad too! I'm all, well this was fun, but can we do something else now? *sigh*
From: [info]gypsydance
Date: 1/1/2003 10:07:51 PM

Mine goes more like "JUST sex? Only do one thing at a time? Are you kidding? Isn't there some way I can surf the 'net, watch TV, clean my house, and pay bills while I do this?"
From: [info]sjcarpediem
Date: 1/1/2003 5:43:36 PM

I must say that this is only true for me when my partner is a dork.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/1/2003 8:05:18 PM

And see, I don 't have relationships with NON-dorks! LOL
From: [info]sjcarpediem
Date: 1/1/2003 8:35:04 PM

LoL!

[first shopping of the year] 1/1/2003 7:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |shopariffic]
[Current Music |tv - abc - football game]


We went over to Hagerstown so I could look for Lunar Legend for GBA. I never did find it (everyone was sold out), but I did buy The Phantasy Star Collection. And then we stopped at Petsmart, where I bought a pretty ryukin called Mazel Tov. He enjoys attacking the stray anacharis, and rooting in the pebbles with Simon.
   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/1/2003 8:07:01 PM

He's so cute!!!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/1/2003 8:11:49 PM

He IS! He has a little orange mustache! =D

Have you played The Phantasy Star Collection for GBA yet?
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 1/1/2003 8:16:17 PM

He's so pretty...
From: [info]katarina42
Date: 1/1/2003 9:47:52 PM

He's adorable! ^_^
From: [info]cellio
Date: 1/2/2003 9:59:16 AM

Oooh, pretty!
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 1/2/2003 11:31:40 AM

Ohhh, a real cutie! I'm down to just Marr in the big tank now, Joycey died just after Christmas :( Marr's lonely but I won't get another for a while, at least till I'm sure that the tank is 'clean'. Mazel Tov is lovely though, gorgeous fins!

[less is more] 1/1/2003 9:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |decisive]
[Current Music |tv - abc - football game]

My New Year resolution is LESS: less smoking, less eating, less weight. I would also like to try to de-clutter this place, we keep WAY too much stuff. Less is more, in this apartment.

I would also like to become more active in the Jewish community; go to shul regularly, volenteer for community help projects, etcetera. I also want to study better, and keep kosher more fully.

I think that's it.

   

[dinner] 1/1/2003 10:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |bored]
[Current Music |tv - abc - football game]

Salt n' Vinegar chips with mustard. Regular Coke.

   

Comments:
From: [info]cellio
Date: 1/2/2003 9:56:53 AM

Just out of curiosity, do you ever eat veggies?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/2/2003 10:25:55 AM

They were potato chips, and potatos are vegetables! :-P

No, actually I don't eat vegetables, if I can help it. I only like one, broccoli, and then only the heads, and then only if they're well-cooked, and preferably covered in cheese. And I eat even less fruit than I do veggies.

[today] 1/2/2003 3:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |tv - abc - soap operas]

I feel weird. Not sick, just sort of off. I felt this way yesterday, too. I feel like I have a hangover or something, just sort of blah, and in a stupor. I feel like I'm taking Paxil. Blah.

I did manage to clean the goldfish aquarium this morning. There was gross algae buildup on the underside of the glass plate that goes between the light and the tank, so I cleaned that too - the tank is much brighter now, hooray. I still need to round up the stray anacharis.

They're calling for bad weather for at least the next three days, so I hope Rusty gets home early... I need to go to the store and stock up on food and cigarettes and stuff.

   

Comments:
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 1/2/2003 3:42:57 PM

That's it!

[[I feel like I have a hangover or something, just sort of blah, and in a stupor. I feel like I'm taking Paxil.]]

That is exactly how I've been feeling over the past couple of days...it's like some sort of sleeping sickness or something! (Which I don't know if there is such a thing, but that's what it feels like.)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/2/2003 3:50:51 PM

Re: That's it!

Ugh... I'm sorry to hear that, because this REALLY sucks. :\

[why i hate mid-week holidays] 1/2/2003 4:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |flakey]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

I just got everything ready for Shabbat - candlesticks out, candles in place, tzedakah box on the table, challah rolls ready to go... and then realised that today is Thursday. D'oh!

   

Comments:
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 1/3/2003 11:17:52 AM

I got all excited this morning because I thought "Yaaay, it's Wednesday tomorrow, shopping!!" Then I realised it was actually Friday today... bugger.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/3/2003 11:30:59 AM

We have been screwed up since xmas. Rusty got off work xmas eve and xmas day, so that was a weekend (in my mind). So then he went back to work on a Thursday, which became Monday, and Friday was Tuesday... then the next week, he got paid early because of the holiday, so Monday became Wednesday (his regular payday) and Tuesday became Thursday (the day I usually go to the bank). Of course he was off Wednesday, so that became Sunday. But then yesterday was Friday, for some reason. I'm so confused!!!

[settled] 1/2/2003 8:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |goofy]
[Current Music |tv - fox news channel - the o'reilly factor]

There was some sleet this evening, so Rusty drove me to the supermarket and announced to all the other customers that I had a nice firm ass. My glutorial status aside, we have cigarettes and pet food and even human food to keep us set though the upcoming bad weather.

   

[orders - mostly for my own reference] 1/2/2003 8:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |excited]
[Current Music |tv - fox news channel - the o'reilly factor]

I ordered Lunar Legend last night with overnight shipping... so I hope it comes tomorrow! Via Ebay, I found coloured GBA game boxes, and a faceplate kit so that I can turn my Milky Pink GBA into Indigo. This is assuming, of course, that Indigo really looks as purple as it does in the photos I've seen. And again, I MISS ATOMIC PURPLE!!!

Other outstanding orders: a 1/2" punch from 1stopsquare.com (ordered 12-26-02), and a Meet The Press mug for Rusty (ordered today).

So at least if I'm stuck in the house for a few days, I'll be getting fun stuff in the mail. :)

   

Comments:
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 1/3/2003 5:17:58 AM

You have a GBA huh? I just bought one. I have buyers remorse about it, too, but I sure missed having some sort of video game system. (I compromised with the GBA because a) I don't want to spend the money required for an X-Box or Playstation or whatnot and b) I don't want to hook anything more up to my TV.)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/3/2003 10:42:23 AM

Oh, I love my GBA, I just wish they came in more colours. I like it for when Rusty is using the TV, I can still play my games. Also handy for when we have to go to his parent's house so I have something to DO.

I want to get a PS2 (we already have a ton of Playstation games), but I am waiting for the price to come down.
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 1/4/2003 4:35:31 AM

Re:

I just bought the white one, er, "arctic," which was honestly my favorite.

Yes, I had an urge to play video games, but didn't want to buy a system per se... and thus I compromised with a Game Boy. Thus far I only have the Two Towers game though.

[dinner] 1/3/2003 12:20:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |web - neopets.com / tv - nick-at-nite]

Salad w/honey mustard dressing. Cottage cheese. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

Comments:
From: [info]cellio
Date: 1/3/2003 10:15:03 AM

Salad

Veggies! I have been a corrupting influence! My work is done here. :-)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/3/2003 10:43:30 AM

LOL! Ya know, I DID think of you when I ate it! :)

[friday five] 1/3/2003 10:35:00 AM

purple_stardust

1. Do you wear any jewelry? What kind?
Diamond ring, gold band, ruby/diamond ring, two purple bead bracelets, gold SOD necklace.

2. How often do you wear it?
Every day. There is more that I wear only occasionally.

3. Do you have any piercings? If so, where?
Six ear lobe, three ear cartilage, one navel.

4. Do you have any tattoos? If so, where?
Two; one on my arm and one on my hip/bikini line.

5. What are your plans for the weekend?
Coffee-drinking, monster-slaying, clean the rat cages.

{fridayfive.org}

   

[weather] 1/3/2003 10:45:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sleepy]
[Current Music |tv - abc stuff]

Rusty isn't working today, because of the yucky weather. Unfortunately, this means that he has to work tomorrow, instead. And then who will *I* play with??? Bah.

   

Comments:
From: [info]the_never
Date: 1/3/2003 4:55:55 PM

if you lived closer, you could join my D&D campaign.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/3/2003 5:40:18 PM

Oooh, I haven't played D&D for years (since my early 20's, at least). I still have one of the early sets in my shed...

[the good news] 1/3/2003 11:40:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |excited]
[Current Music |tv - abc stuff]

The FedEx truck containing Lunar Legend is "out for delivery" ...hoo wah!

UPDATE: It's here! Hooray! I lurve the FedEx guy.

   

Comments:
From: [info]bioclaire
Date: 1/3/2003 8:41:13 PM

WOOHOO! How is it????? I want that game too O_O
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/3/2003 9:12:11 PM

I haven't actually played it yet, but it LOOKS awesome! All the old characters are there, even Nash! I am trying to talk my ex into buying it for the boys, so I'll have someone to trade cards with...
From: [info]bioclaire
Date: 1/4/2003 12:12:39 AM

Re:

>.> Where do you live? We could trade cards..... *dork*
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/4/2003 11:01:26 AM

I'm in the eastern panhandle of WV, about an hour north of DC. :(

...Gameboy needs a way that you can email these cards! =D
From: [info]bioclaire
Date: 1/4/2003 11:35:38 AM

Re:

LOL hell yeah. :)

[lion pooping goodness] 1/3/2003 4:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |oogley googley]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

I must have this new PC game: Zoo Tycoon.

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 1/3/2003 5:01:44 PM

Oh, very, very cool. I need this game, too. :)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/3/2003 5:28:25 PM

Isn't that COOL? It's like Caesar 3, but with pretty animals instead of old Roman guys. I've been playing the demo all day, which is nifty, but only comes with four animals. I need more animals! :)
From: [info]bioclaire
Date: 1/3/2003 8:40:17 PM

Me too! Its not really new, but the marine expansion pack is... :D You can have tanks full of sharks that eat people! YAY!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/3/2003 9:08:40 PM

Leave it to you, lol! Actually, I shouldn't talk... I was letting my lions go free earlier, and trapping the people in with them! =)
From: [info]bioclaire
Date: 1/4/2003 12:07:03 AM

Re:

Hahahahaha thats fantastic! :P

[my preciousss] 1/3/2003 4:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |bouncy]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

I've ordered Zoo Tycoon. Now I must put away Happy Fun Card, lest it spontaneously combust.

   

Comments:
From: [info]gypsydance
Date: 1/4/2003 3:27:47 AM

Okay, I've been trying to avoid this, but it must be asked...

Is breeding rats that profitable? Every other day, you're buying tons of stuff. If so, I wanna breed rats. My cats would also be interested in this. Please tell me how to get started. :P

(If not, please teach the rest of us your secrets?)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/4/2003 10:50:52 AM

Oh goodness, no... I spend WAY more money just having rats, than I ever make breeding them.

I have no secrets, other than that I live in an area with a low cost of living, and I prioritise things a bit oddly (only run one car instead of two, for example) because I would rather share a car and have money, than each have our own cars and be strapped for cash. Also, we only buy cars used when we have the cash to buy them outright - I can't imagine having a car payment cutting into my monthly money. We also live in a cheap apartment. Basically, I keep my 'grown-up' expenses low, so that I can afford to buy more 'fun' stuff. :)

[hooray] 1/3/2003 7:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |crafty]
[Current Music |tv - abc - jeopardy]

I did accomplish one thing today - I made a set of beaded thingies for my crystal candlesticks, like the ones that I made for my mom. They are the official Shabbat candlesticks now.

   

Comments:
From: [info]bioclaire
Date: 1/3/2003 8:37:56 PM

They are pretty. :) How did you make them?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/3/2003 8:59:17 PM

Thanks! I cut a piece of beading thread about 18 inches long, and tied a silver seed bead on one end. Then I strung enough silver seed beads to wrap around the top part of the candlestick, and then ran the thread through that first bead. For the vertical part, I strung five silver seed beads, then a clear blue seed bead, then a silver bugle bead, then a clear blue seed bead, silver bugle, clear blue seed bead, silver bugle, clear blue seed bead, and then five silver seed beads. Then I put on one more bead and wrap the thread through it once so that the part you just did is secure, but you still have the length of the thread to work with. Then you just string enough silver seed beads to drape around the base of the candlestick - it should be long enough to drape gracefully but not long enough to fall off. When there are enough on there, run the thread back through the vertical section (for security) and tie it off. :)
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 1/3/2003 9:37:59 PM

That's a cool idea! Pretty.

[zoo tycoon add-ons] 1/3/2003 9:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |boggley]
[Current Music |web - zoo tycoon / tv - fiesta bowl]

And then there are sites like Zoo Admin, where you can download anything you could possibly want for your zoo, right down to the Taco Bell stand! /boggles

   

[dinner] 1/4/2003 2:25:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon demo / tv - nick-at-nite]

Wheat crackers with spray cheese. Miscellaneous chocolate. Diet Pepsi.

   

[random rat stuff - mostly for my own reference] 1/4/2003 5:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |puzzled]
[Current Music |tv - spongebob squarepants]

My sweet girl Bella is having her first real bout with myco (though she still shows no sign of tumours at age 22 months, hooray). A lot of my other rats have been sneezing lately; I think it's a combination of the dry air and the wild temperature changes lately. I have put them all on echinacea... tomorrow I will try to get the humidifier cleaned and set up.

There are a TON of emails that I need to respond too, people asking about the next litter. I don't know what to tell these people, because I don't know what I'm doing, myself. I want to breed Bailey, but if I'm going to do it, I need to do it now, before she gets any older. The problem is, one potential stud (Bleu) doesn't seem to be able, and the other three possibilities (Zootie, Brutoo, Blooberry, and Hoggle) are all still too young! They would be physically able of course, but they are too young to judge their health and temperament accurately. Actually, I would probably be okay with Zootie or Brutie, as I know their lines better, but Blueberry and Hoggle came from another breeder, who I don't know. Argh. I don't know what to do.

Tomorrow, I need to clean cages, igloos, and water bottles. I also want to try to move Minky Beast into the main girls colony, in order to free up the breeding/maternity cage. I hope the transition will go smoothly, sometimes girl rats can be as bitchy as their female counterparts.

   

Comments:
From: [info]astralweeks
Date: 1/5/2003 12:09:32 AM

I am sending you an e-mail. I thought it was better than making a public post here...
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 1/5/2003 1:45:49 AM

You will breed... no, you will CLONE... Blooberry. And you will give him to me!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/5/2003 10:58:00 AM

LOL!

I may have to resort to cloning, as none of these little buggers seem to want to do The Deed! =D
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 1/5/2003 12:32:37 PM

How many little critters do you have?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/5/2003 1:06:09 PM

I have 25 rats. The scary thing is, I know people who have MORE. =)

[dinner] 1/5/2003 1:30:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |contemplative]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - nick-at-nite]

Papa Johns cheesesticks w/ cheese and pizza sauces. Chocolate. Regular Coke.

   

[i need to vent] 1/5/2003 3:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |pissed off]
[Current Music |tv - pittsburgh steelers game]

There is a person on my list who got a rat from me. The rat now has a lump on his throat, which sounds from her description, like an abcess. So she leaves this cryptic message in my journal, that she'll email me about the rat, as if it's some scandelous thing, or I am somehow to blame for this lump. Whatever. So I get the email, in which she says:

"I figured that, as Tucker's breeder, you may need to know these things or something, but it appears as though he has a small tumour on his neck. He is completely healthy, happy, sniffle and porphyril free, moves around just fine and is otherwise quite happy. He still needs to see a vet though, because while it is small and may be benign, I don't really know. Is (about) 9 months old too early for tumors/cancer?"

And of course it is. So I ask her about the lump, thinking I will ask my breeder friends if they have any other ideas. And she emails back and says:

"The lump is pretty solid. It started out very tiny, but it seems that in a matter of DAYS (not weeks or months, days) it has grown quite large. I think he has only had it a few weeks, or at least that is when I noticed it. It doesn't seem to bother him at all, though. Any info you could give me would be much appreciated so I could go to the vet a bit more prepared."

But the thing is, she's lying. It's not a matter of days, and hasn't been there just for a few weeks... it's been THREE MONTHS. She first mentioned the lump on 10-03-02. I knew it had been a while, but I just went back through her old journal to check. She says there that she's going to take him to the vet too, and yet I'm guessing that she never will.

It's people like this that make me reconsider breeding. :\

   

Comments:
From: [info]darqueangel
Date: 1/5/2003 3:16:10 PM

** moans about Current music: tv - pittsburgh steelers game **

Could this game get much worse?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/5/2003 3:26:27 PM

Not much, no.

Oh look! Pittsburgh scored! Amazing...
From: [info]darqueangel
Date: 1/5/2003 3:27:33 PM

Re:

YaY!
now we're only down by 11....

We better friggin win dammnit
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/5/2003 4:41:04 PM

WOO HOO!!!
From: [info]jacquez
Date: 1/5/2003 3:43:57 PM

Ack.

That's sucky. Abcesses aren't uncommon, they're not expensive to treat, and...jeez. [insert standard rant about people not taking proper care of their animals here].
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/5/2003 4:36:31 PM

Yeah, exactly. :(
From: [info]arkady
Date: 1/5/2003 4:42:13 PM

It's sickening when things like that happen, isn't it? As a breeder myself - and particularly in light of my experience with Hayley - you have my sympathies. Venus should be giving birth this week, and I've already got a list of people inquiring (they all want a platinum dumbo, and I suspect they'll all be disappointed!!)...and once the babies are born, I'll be practically putting each one through the Spanish Inquisition!! I have a standard list of questions now that I will send out to all interested parties, demanding to know how many rats they have already, size, style and make of cages, current diet of their rats, any health problems with their current rats, the name, address and contact number of their vet (and yes, I do phone to check up on whether they've actually registered with that vet!), and any other animals they've had!! Also many of us breeders in the UK have a sort of informal "blacklist", and we advise each other if one of us has had a problem with a potential owner.

It's nervewracking sometimes, trying to ensure the best for your babies, isn't it?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/5/2003 5:24:18 PM

Yeah, I figured you could appreciate the situation. :\

There are a few breeders in my area that keep in touch and give each other a heads up if we know of a potentially bad owner, but not on a large scale. The questions sound like a good idea, too... I need to work up a standard set, myself. How do you handle people who give the 'wrong' answer, but you can't tell if it's beginner's ignorance or if they just don't give a shit? Because I don't think this girl is malicious, just... ignorant. I don't know what to make of her. She seems to genuinely care about her pets, but is too wrapped up with her own hang-ups to do what's right for them. Feh.
From: [info]arkady
Date: 1/5/2003 5:37:02 PM

A lot of it, I go on gut instinct. If someone genuinely seems ignorant but is willing to do the best for their babies, I'll try to gently re-educate them. If I think they just don't care or can't comprehend how important it is, I have to be harsh and just say, "Sorry, no."

I'm going to modify the inquiries form on my site shortly to include all my questions, with certain fields flagged so that they have to give me full details. that way, if there's someone I'm not sure about, I can give the old standby answer - "Sorry, that rat's already been reserved." Heh...last time, one of the "blacklisted" people asked me for blue rats, and I said all the blue ones were reserved. She replied, "But they're still listed on the Rat Kittens register!" I pointed out that Estelle Sandford, the register maintainer, probably hadn't gotten around to updating it yet! Estelle found that very amusing. Then there was the agricultural college that wanted a breeding pair for their genetic studies lab. I just sent back a very terse reply stating that I do not provide livestock to scientific institutes.

At the end of the day, sometimes you just have to be blunt - and not let things like an online friendship come in the way of what's best for your babies. Something I wish i'd taken to heart before Hayley ever got her hands on Emily. :-(
From: [info]arkady
Date: 1/5/2003 5:58:40 PM

Oh, by the way; just as a guide, these are the standard questions I ask:

  • What sort of cage do you have/intend to buy (i.e. make if known, size, type of shelving, etc.)?
  • What food do you feed/intend to feed your rats on?
  • What sort of litter do you use/intend to use in the cage?
  • Have you kept rats before? Did you have any problems with them healthwise?
  • Are you registered with a nearby vet; if so, which one? Please provide full details where possible.
  • Are you a member of any rat societies, e.g. National Fancy Rat Society, London And Southern Counties Mouse And Rat Club, Rat Fan Club etc.?
  • Do you have any other animals that might take an interest in the rats - e.g. dogs, cats, free-range ferrets or parrots?
  • Are there any small children in the household, and if so what ages?


No doubt over time I will come up with a few additional questions, but at the moment they're the main biggies!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/5/2003 6:23:42 PM

Those are great! Mind if I borrow some of them for my own use?
From: [info]arkady
Date: 1/5/2003 6:27:35 PM

Not at all, go right ahead and adapt them as you see fit! That is why I posted them! :-)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/5/2003 6:47:02 PM

Thanks! I may post them on my site as a 'before you contact me, fill this out' kind of thing... might weed out some of the riffraff from the get-go! :)
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 1/5/2003 5:15:57 PM

Ugh...I think that would just make me sick.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/5/2003 5:27:20 PM

It is. :(
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/5/2003 7:37:58 PM

ARGH!

I know she's not a bad person, and I KNOW she cares about her pets, so what the fuck is the problem? If she emailed me, she could bring him right to my house, I would give her medication, drain the abscess, and fix it right away.

If you talk to her, tell her that, if you want, since I'm not on her friends list anymore.
From: [info]rattyluv
Date: 1/5/2003 7:38:39 PM

lump

If it's who I think it is you're talking about. She's an idiot anyway. Poor little rattie too. Why the hell didn't she take him to the vet way back then? Loser that she is.

[dinner] 1/6/2003 1:15:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |confused]
[Current Music |pc - breeder's assistant / tv - nick-at-night]

Salad w/honey mustard dressing. Cottage cheese. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[zoo tycoon] 1/6/2003 10:15:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |excited]
[Current Music |tv - abc stuff]

I made a really good zoo with the Zoo Tycoon demo - four exhibits, all perfectly suited to the animals - and then I just let it run... until it had racked up 10 million dollars in sales! Then I saved it, and I'm hoping that I can use that save file when I get the full game. Of course it's the small map (the only one you get with the demo), but still, 10 million dollars with all the animals available, would be very cool indeed. I want to buy elephants! And golden lion tamarins!

Speaking of which, my game made it to Hagerstown MD, and is now 'out for delivery'. Woot!

   

Comments:
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 1/6/2003 6:47:52 PM

So have you tried it yet? Did it let you use your save file with the full version?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/6/2003 7:08:10 PM

Oh yeah! Same zoo, same 10 million dollars... except now I can buy elephants and stuff. :)
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 1/6/2003 9:31:28 PM

Re:

Coool. I've been playing with it this evening. I don't know if I'll bother buying the full game, but the demo was fun.

[wtf?] 1/6/2003 11:00:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |annoyed]
[Current Music |tv - abc stuff]

* delivery attempt - HAGERSTOWN MD 01/06/2003 10:43 - incorrect address *

So I called FedEx customer service, and the very nice lady told me that I had moved. Umm, no. I think I would know if I had moved. So I explained in detail how to get to my specific apartment, and she said she would send the driver back. Jeez. I just want my game, people.

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 1/6/2003 12:57:30 PM

That's so funny... Fed Ex tells you that you moved, like you wouldn't know.

If that fed ex isn't there soon we'll go track him down and kick his ass, ok?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/6/2003 1:04:34 PM

I know! I'm pretty slow at times, but I think I would pick up on something like that! If nothing else, surely Rusty would have mentioned it... now honey, remember, when you get done at the store, don't go back to College Street, because we moved.

I'm going to call them back and tell them that a posse is forming! =D

[waiting] 1/6/2003 12:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |impatient]
[Current Music |tv - abc stuff]

There is one advantage* to living with a land surveyor... Yes, I tied a piece of hot pink flagging ribbon to our gate. Miss that, FedEx Buffoon. I wish he would hurry up and come back; I'm afraid to go pee now. And I want my freaking game!!!

* There are actually three advantages. One is the flagging ribbon. Another is the rebar caps used to mark property corners - they make great rat toys. The third advantage is, Rusty always knows when new stores and restaurants are coming to town. Of course, the disadvantages include muddy jeans and really gross socks.

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/6/2003 12:47:05 PM

What is it with those shipping dorks? I'm convinced that they don't even TRY to deliver things the first time around. They just drive past the house, snicker, and move on, waiting for you to call before they will actually deliver anything.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/6/2003 12:59:23 PM

I KNOW!!! And how stupid is this, really, if you think about it: I ordered this game with overnight delivery. Would anyone order something with overnight delivery, and then move the next day? Duh.
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/6/2003 1:00:59 PM

Re:

Well, apparently you would, you freak.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/6/2003 1:07:11 PM

Hey, *I'm* not the one who lists stapelia gigantea as an interest! :-P
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/6/2003 1:08:43 PM

At least I don't order things and then move the next day just so that I don't have to deal with seeing the delivery man. Ha!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/6/2003 1:15:37 PM

*choking*

Please don't post things like that when I really have to pee but am unable to leave the living room. =-D

[hooray] 1/6/2003 1:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |bouncy]
[Current Music |tv - abc stuff]

It's here! It's here! Zoo Tycoon is here!

   

[zoo tycoons] 1/6/2003 9:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |silly]
[Current Music |tv - hardball with chris matthews]

I just found the community! =)

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/7/2003 10:49:10 AM

I read that as Zooty Coons, and I couldn't figure out WHY there was a community for Zootie Frootie the rat. Er...
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/7/2003 11:38:11 AM

It does look like Zooty Coons, that's what I saw too.

And Zootie thinks that he should have a fan club community!
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/7/2003 12:55:41 PM

Rats are such little egotists. :D

[lions in love] 1/6/2003 11:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - fox news channel - the o'reilly factor]

I have baby lions out the wazoo! Oh my...

   

[dinner] 1/7/2003 1:00:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - nick-at-nite]

Fish and chedder shells. Rye bread w/ cheese sauce. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[oekaki] 1/7/2003 12:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |caffeinated]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - abc soaps]


I made this drawring using Oekaki - thanks to Peter for the link! And now, back to the zoo...
   

[general hospital] 1/7/2003 3:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |shocked]
[Current Music |tv - general hospital]

Woah. Jamie, did you see today's episode of GH yet???

   

Comments:
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 1/7/2003 7:10:35 PM

Yes, why?? Some of the time I wasn't paying attention, or I was flipping back and forth between it and Seinfeld. What did I miss??
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/7/2003 8:14:37 PM

Did you see the very end, when Cameron (Lane Davies, yum) tells Alexis about his son(s)? Oh my.

[unique interests - a meme by me] 1/7/2003 5:05:00 PM

purple_stardust

What unlinked interests do you have that no one else on Live Journal lists?

I have five:

breeders assistant
british coins
gender determination
rat genetics
the shettles theory

How about you?

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/7/2003 5:52:04 PM

I've got 15 of them, and I'd have more except for the fact that a few of the communities I maintain share those interests on their list. So basically I share those interests with myself. =)
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 1/7/2003 7:09:03 PM

The only thing on mine is "cow photography". :)
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 1/7/2003 10:12:21 PM

For some reason, "the whore red honda" is linked, but only to myself.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/7/2003 10:32:09 PM

That is so weird, on so many levels. ;D
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 1/9/2003 3:57:49 AM

I haven't got a clue as to what you're talking about. ;)
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 1/7/2003 10:47:26 PM

Okay, well here's mine:

-'burbs (as in The 'burbs, the movie...I was thinking about changing it earlier today to that. My neighborhood reminds me of it, but not nearly as much after a bunch of my neighbors all moved out. The new ones are kind of boring; they don't do anything exciting...or at least I hope...I'd rather not learn about secret rituals.)
-laughing with my family
-meeting weird folk
-playing with my kid
-talking about my kid
-talking to my kid
From: [info]clarice
Date: 1/8/2003 1:06:22 AM

I have three:

Amaia Montero
General Mindless Merriment
Coffee House Music

and, until recently,
Velvetina.
From: [info]arkady
Date: 1/8/2003 4:28:37 AM

Hmm...I have breeder's assistant on mine actually; just never got around to adding rat genetics. The others I have that are unique are ghost stations, spiritual crises, and vags (which is short for vags.net, the online Goth clothing store run by my friend [info]needler.

[dinner - delivery from anthony's] 1/8/2003 12:55:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |not great]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - nick-at-nite]

Steak and chedder sub w/ mustard. Mozzerella sticks. Ice cream sandwich. Regular Coke.

   

[burning question] 1/8/2003 11:55:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |curious]
[Current Music |tv - nickelodeon]

The burning question of the day is: Is Barry Manilow gay?

Seriously, does anyone know? When I was a kid, I always assumed that he was straight (probably because I had a huge crush on him at the time). However, I've never heard of him being romantically linked to a woman (odd at his age), and then right before xmas, he was on Regis & Kelly, and they never asked him about his love life, which is unusual for them. So now I'm wondering if he IS gay, and I'm the only one who doesn't know.

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/8/2003 12:11:44 PM

I think a lot of people think he is, but he claims to be straight, or else doesn't talk about it.

That's the gist I'm getting from a web search, anyway.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/8/2003 12:15:38 PM

I wondered too, if he would say if he was... I think it would probably be detrimental to his female fan base. If you've ever seen the audience at one of his shows, those women *want* him.
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/8/2003 12:25:13 PM

...you know, I've always wondered about that assumption.

I mean, there are plenty of celebrities and the like that I find very attractive, but I'm pretty sure that none of them are going to be showing up at my door with an armful of flowers and a bottle of champagne, regardless of sexual orientation.

Really, why should it matter, if it's all a matter of fantasy anyway?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/8/2003 12:56:06 PM

I dunno... I tend not to have those fantasies about men that I *know* are gay. On the other hand, men who *might* be gay (Doug, on Trading Spaces is a fine example) are still fair game.

On the other other hand, I also have a crush on Lisa Bonet, and I'm pretty sure neither one of us is gay. :)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/8/2003 12:19:58 PM

I did find one article that says he started out playing piano in the gay bathhouses of New York. What the hell is a gay bathhouse?
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/8/2003 12:24:19 PM

Re:

http://www.gaytubs.com/
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/8/2003 1:01:22 PM

Oh my. That's just weird, no matter what your sexual preference.
From: [info]jacquez
Date: 1/8/2003 1:42:39 PM

It's apparently a matter of some debate. However, in the bio you linked to, there's this:
The highlight of 1999 was the Gay Men's Health Center Benefit for AIDS care at Carnegie Hall. Barry recruited 30 studio musicians to add to his core band, and they played Barry's greatest hits with an amazing live sound. The evening culminated with a standing ovation as the New York Gay Men's Chorus joined Barry for the surprise finale song, "Stars in the Night," the emotional closing song from Harmony.

*shrug* That's not conclusive or definitive or anything, but it's a touch odd.
From: [info]jacquez
Date: 1/8/2003 1:45:00 PM

i asked a friend whose girlfriend is a manilow fan, and he says

she couldn't think of a specific example of hims saying "Yes, I am Gay!"
but he does generally skirt the question when it comes up and does not
deny it. He was married for a while, but that was eventually annulled for
reasons not available to the public. He does gay benefits and works with the
gay men's chior, but has never specifically outed himself. He claims he
wants Barbara Streisand to portray him in the movie of his life

From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/8/2003 2:11:00 PM

{he wants Barbara Streisand to portray him in the movie of his life}

That sounds gay to me... or at least really, really weird. =D

Thanks for the info!
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 1/8/2003 2:29:26 PM

HA! Yeah, if that doesn't scream GAY then nothing does! I've always presumed he was gay.
From: [info]freethinkernj
Date: 1/8/2003 2:47:06 PM

To be honest, I don't think he's gay. I know this will sound weird, but Barry just strikes me as someone who is married to his music. He is just SO into his music and his own talent. He's rather conceited, though he masks it fairly well, but I've heard him make some doozy comments about himself. So it could be the case that women (or men) don't hold the same interest for him as his music does.

Just a thought :)

[rip bella] 1/8/2003 9:00:00 PM

purple_stardust

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/8/2003 9:37:49 PM

=(
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/8/2003 9:41:30 PM

Yeah. The good news, such as it is, is that I don't think it was anything genetic now.

[weird] 1/8/2003 9:50:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |puzzled]
[Current Music |tv - the west wing]

I'm playing with the 'screen comments' feature, and I don't quite get the point of it.

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/8/2003 10:09:44 PM

Is so that only the owner of the journal can view comments left in the journal. I guess if people consistently start fights in your journal, or people wanted to use LJ to communicate private things to each other, it would be useful.

<shrug>
From: [info]johno
Date: 1/8/2003 10:11:34 PM

It's a way of keeping comments, but not letting anyone see them.

Unfortunatily for the journal owner to read it, you have to unscreen it.

Strange.

Also, you end up with a [0 comments posted] on your top level page.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/8/2003 10:18:53 PM

Yeah, I noticed that... weird. Is there anyway to UN-screen a previously screened comment?
From: [info]pinkteabag
Date: 1/8/2003 10:33:56 PM

just click the unscreen button (which previously was the screen button) if that made sense :P
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/8/2003 10:51:00 PM

Cool, thanks! I didn't even see that button the first time I looked. D'oh!

[dinner - leftovers] 1/9/2003 12:45:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - nick-at-nite]

Leftover steak and chedder sub. Cottage cheese. Vanilla wafers. Regular Coke.

   

[smashing!] 1/9/2003 11:40:00 AM

purple_stardust


   

Comments:
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 1/9/2003 12:33:43 PM

heheh

Me too! Although I feel the need to point out that fish and chips is no longer the biggest selling dish in the UK anymore, no, that would be curry!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/9/2003 7:13:14 PM

Re: heheh

Well it's good to know that YOU'RE 100% British! It would be weird if you got 75%! =D
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/9/2003 1:41:43 PM

I, too, am 100% British.

Interesting.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/9/2003 7:16:44 PM

All of the really cool people are. :)

[euthanasia for the terminally annoying] 1/9/2003 6:50:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |annoyed]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]

Rusty has a friggen head cold, and if he doesn't stop snorting and moaning and whining, I swear I am going to take him to the veterinarian and have him put to sleep. Sympathy is in short supply.

   

[for my own reference] 1/9/2003 8:30:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |my feet are cold]
[Current Music |tv - nbc - must see tv]

I still need to check out the Beth Sholom synagogue in Frederick MD.

   

[dinner - delivery from anthony's] 1/10/2003 1:05:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused with my new toy]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - nick-at-nite]

Steak and chedder sub w/ mustard. Mozzerella sticks. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[dinner - leftovers] 1/10/2003 1:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |obsessed w/ the great cat scenario]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - nick-at-nite]

Leftover steak and chedder sub. Croutons. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[a couple of things] 1/11/2003 12:50:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |annoyed w/ the great cat scenario]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - trading spaces]

First of all, I would like to welcome [info]glitterrayne to my Live Journal! I would also like to assure her that I usually do post things other than what I eat for dinner, but lately I have been obsessed with the Zoo Tycoon game, and unable to tear myself away. It happens.

Speaking of Zoo Tycoon, there is a scenario feature, in which you complete various scenarios of increasing difficulty. I have made it to the Great Cat Scenario, in which the objective is to keep ten different species of great cats with an average Animal Happiness of 90 and each exhibit should have a Suitability Rating of 85. I do well with all of them except the black leopards who are nasty ingrates and never happy, and the snow leopards for whom I can't get the Suitability Rating quite high enough. What the hell do these cats want from me??? I have white bengal tigers giving birth left and right, but the stupid leopards are never happy. Feh.

   

[btw] 1/11/2003 1:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |how sen-ti-men-tal]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - while you were out]

I am not going to bother posting the "Livejournal Analasys" thingie that's going around, but I would like to point out that 1-4-2003 marked the one year anniversary of my Live Journal.

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 1/11/2003 2:01:15 PM

H~A~P~P~Y A~N~N~I~V~E~R~S~A~R~Y ! ! !
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/11/2003 2:10:35 PM

Awww, thank you! :)

[gip] 1/11/2003 3:30:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |creative]
[Current Music |tv - saturday night live]

I stopped playing Zoo Tycoon long enough to make an icon based on, well, Zoo Tycoon.

   

Comments:
From: [info]sf_rose
Date: 1/11/2003 4:34:01 PM

Cool...

It reminds me of the Lion from the "Narnia" series by C.S. Lewis...
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 1/11/2003 5:40:04 PM

Isn't he a cutie. Did you say there is a site with a demo of this game?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/11/2003 5:42:24 PM

http://www.microsoft.com/games/zootycoon/downloads.asp#trial :)

[trading spaces] 1/11/2003 9:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |appalled]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Hilde is just plain evil.

   

[gip: the sequel] 1/11/2003 10:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |creative]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - while you were out]

I redid my lion icon... I like this version better, plus it looks prettier with my journal colours.

   

[i feel like ronald reagan] 1/11/2003 11:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |apparently senile]
[Current Music |tv - nbc news]

Where were you?

01. When John F. Kennedy was shot? (11/22/1963)
I am not old enough to remember this!

02. When Mount Saint Helens blew? (5/18/1980)
I do not remember this.

03. When the space shuttle Challenger exploded? (1/28/1986)
I do not remember this.

04. When the 7.1 earthquake hit San Francisco? (10/7/1989)
I do not remember this.

05. When the Berlin Wall fell? (11/7/1989)
I do not remember this.

06. When the Gulf War began? (1/16/1991)
I do not remember this.

07. When OJ Simpson was chased in his white Bronco? (6/17/1994)
I was working at Entech, and Doug and I were in a diner for lunch break, it was on TV.

08. When the building in Oklahoma City was bombed? (4/19/1995)
I remember this happening, but not where I was at the time. We didn't have a good TV then.

09. When Princess Di was killed? (8/31/1997)
We were in bed, and the news came on that the accident had happened, and later that she didn't survive. I watched the television coverage for days; it was such a tragic loss of someone who seemed so genuinely kind. I am still saddened that she didn't get to live out her life in peace.

10. When Bush was first announced President? (11/7/2000)
In my living room, watching the news, being disgusted.

11. When the 6.8 earthquake hit Nisqually WA? (2/28/2001)
I do not remember this.

12. When terrorists knocked over the World Trade Center? (9/11/2001)
I was at my desk, watching Good Morning America. It was unbelievable, and the full impact of what had happened didn't hit me for a few hours. Just the magnitude of seeing something so large and so seemingly permanent destroyed, was numbing, and to consider the human lives within those magnificant stuctures, was too horrifying to think about. We watched the cable news coverage for weeks, even after the networks returned to regular programming - we just couldn't believe it. Even now, it seems surreal to me.

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/12/2003 10:22:04 AM

You know, that looks a lot like my answers would have looked, only I would have had a few more "I don't remembers."

At least now I don't feel bad about it.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/12/2003 10:26:59 AM

Oh GOOD! Now I, too, feel better about my senility. Who are you again?
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/12/2003 10:50:06 AM

Re:

<looks around confusedly>

[dinner - delivery from anthonys] 1/12/2003 12:35:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |obsessed w/ the great cat scenario]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - saturday night live]

Steak and chedder sub w/ mustard. Mozzerella sticks. Vanilla wafers. Regular Coke.

   

[zoo tycoon] 1/12/2003 6:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sick of football]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - a stupid football game]

I finally made it through the Great Cat scenario, hooray! Next up, the Endangered Species scenario - I have to keep 12 well-rated exhibits, and three endangered species need to have babies. I have already successfully bred white bengal tigers and black leopards, but I am not familier with the third species (okapi). Still, I think it will be easier than the great cats, since I don't have to keep those dratted jaguars and snow leopards.

   

[waah] 1/12/2003 11:30:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |frustrated]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - nick-at-nite]

Not only do you have to breed those three endangered species, but there have to be babies when the 18 months is up! Which means if the animals breed early and the babies grow up, you're screwed. I guess the secret is to wait until they're are only a few months left to purchase those three species...? I think I'll play freeform for a while; the scenarios are boggling my brain.

   

Comments:
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 1/13/2003 1:01:09 PM

It's certainly keeping you busy, isn't it?! I considered getting it, but I'm holding out for the big one... Sim City 4! *drools*
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/14/2003 7:55:40 AM

Yeah. Well, it's the obsession du jour, anyway. Hard to say how long it will last.

I hadn't heard about SimCity 4! I love SimCity Classic; I haven't really played the newer ones...

[dinner - leftovers] 1/13/2003 12:04:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |pc - zoo tycoon / tv - nick-at-nite]

Leftover steak and chedder sub. Cottage cheese. Vanilla wafers. Regular Coke.

   

[stuff] 1/13/2003 5:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |lazy]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

I think my (relatively new) coffee maker is on its last legs. It is making strange and demonic gurgling noises, and this coffee tastes like shit. It did yesterday, too. I suppose I will try giving it a good cleaning later, and see if that helps. It's like all of the water isn't going through, and the coffee is much stronger than it should be. Weird.

In other news, my ex-husband is going to be selling his Bronco soon, and Rusty said I could buy it, hooray! We drove Broncos at Entech, and I've wanted one ever since. It's white, but we could paint it. Even being white, it's still way cooler than the POS car, and I wouldn't be so nervous in bad weather. Also, it has air conditioning, new tires, and a CD player - important things that the POS car lacks. I am going to drive it soon and see if I like it. Yay for Broncos!

Also, because I keep meaning to post this and keep getting caught up in Zoo Tycoon instead...

I miss my old hair. I miss the colour, and I miss the non-styledness of it. This hair is not me. This hair does not belong on my head. I want my old hair back, dammit. Unfortunately, it doesn't seem to be going back to the original colour on its own. I keep getting it trimmed, so I know it's growing, but the roots are reddish, if anything. I may have to take matters into my own hands...

   

Comments:
From: [info]gypsydance
Date: 1/14/2003 5:05:55 AM

On the coffeemaker thing... you're not using any special filters or anything, are you? Haven't switched coffee to a more finely-ground brand? 'Cause both of those make the coffee stronger because the water gets through the filter more slowly, so it has more time to brew before it drips. So check those, and yeah, clean it really well. Run some vinegar and water through it a couple of times, then just water by itself a few times to rinse it.

I know way too much about coffeemakers for someone who doesn't drink that crap. :P Though, I use mine for tea, so I had to learn about stuff like what things affect brew times and such.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/14/2003 7:52:47 AM

Wow. I bow to your coffeemaker wisdom! I did the vinegar thing and it works great, thanks! Unfortunately, there is a ton of lime in our water, so we burn through coffeemakers regularly. :(

I had no idea that you could make tea in a coffee maker!
From: [info]gypsydance
Date: 1/14/2003 3:03:03 PM

Yup. You can use teabags, but I prefer loose tea. And there's less mess with a coffeemaker than with traditional methods. And you don't get weird little teabits floating around in your tea. *shudder*

(Besides, someone gave us a Hello Kitty coffeemaker as an early wedding gift. I don't drink coffee, but damned if I wasn't gonna find SOME way to use it. ;)

As for cleaning... clean it with vinegar and water at least once a month, especially since you have a high lime content. That stuff builds up fast, and even if it doesn't end up killing the coffeemaker, it affects the taste. Blech. (As a side note, you can actually buy coffeemaker cleaning stuff at WalMart, but it's a waste of money in my opinion. Vinegar and water works just as well.)

[uh-oh] 1/13/2003 5:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |nervous]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]

I think I broke the internet. :(

   

Comments:
From: [info]arkady
Date: 1/13/2003 5:54:32 PM

Now how on earth did you manage that?? ;-)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/13/2003 6:28:50 PM

Over-use, I think! =D
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 1/13/2003 6:43:32 PM

Ah well.. I don't think anyone will really miss it!

[for my own documentation] 1/13/2003 9:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |vengeful]
[Current Music |tv - hardball with chris matthews]

A guy from child protective services showed up today; apparently someone called them and claimed that I'm always drunk, and neglect my child! They also claimed that I have cages of gerbils and there is animal shit all over the floor. Now, the place certainly is a mess, but there is NO animal shit on the floor, and I think I've gotten drunk a grand total of TWICE in the last year. The guy agreed that it WAS cluttered, but found no evidence that I drank at all, much less a lot, and of course Sarah was normal and healthy and charming and very smart for her age.

So naturally I want to know who called them... as anti-social as I am, not many people have been here. So far, ALL roads point to Kathy and/or Roscoe, and even Rusty is forced to agree with me. I am too tired and my head hurts, so I am not going to bother writing why I think it's Roscoe and Kathy, but suffice it to say that if it IS, hell will be paid.

*** this is a highly filtered post ***
   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/14/2003 12:22:50 AM

!!!

You are nothing but a wonderful parent to Sarah, and she is nothing but a wonderful child. And your, uh, gerbil cages are nice and clean and why would someone want to sic CPS on you?

What the hell?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/14/2003 1:13:45 AM

Thanks, Laurie.

What I suspect happened is this: Rusty and I had the big fight, and I went out and bought a bottle of vodka, and later told him to leave. He went to Roscoe and Kathy's house, and I assume - although he denies it - that he complained (understandably) about me drinking. He may have even bitched about the cats shitting on the floor (it has happened, though it's not like I just LEAVE it there!). Kathy, who is a busybody anyway, either took what he said in the heat of a fight literally, or just decided to cause trouble, and caused the CPS.

Of course, once Sarah appeared, and was clean and happy and healthy, it was pretty obvious that no neglect or abuse is occuring. She even told him all the numbers and letters on her blocks, and I think it would be fairly difficult to teach her all that in my constant drunken stupor.

It just pisses me off, not just the invasion of privacy (he looked in my refridgerator, for crissake), but also... every time I turn on the news, I hear about how kids are slipping through the cracks because social workers are overworked and underpaid. There are kids being kept in closets and forced to pee in cups, and meanwhile the social workers are at MY house, counting my 'gerbils'! :\

[hair today...] 1/13/2003 9:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |wishy-washy]
[Current Music |tv - hardball with chris matthews]

My mom made an emergency hair dye run, so I now have a bottle of medium blonde with which to rectify the wrong hair situation. Still debating whether to dye it now while my hair needs to be washed, or wash it now and dye it later. Opinions?

   

[dinner] 1/14/2003 1:30:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |i have a headache]
[Current Music |tv - nick-at-night]

Turkey & cheese on rye w/mustard. Cottage cheese and applesauce. Diet Pepsi.

   

[bah] 1/14/2003 7:30:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |headachey]
[Current Music |tv - abc - good morning america]

It is early. I am awake. I have a headache. Argh.

Watched Don Imus for a while, he doesn't amuse me like he used to. Also, watching radio people is weird, because most of them don't adjust properly to being seen, and have a tendancy to do gross things like chew gum or blow their noses on camera. Yuck.

What else is in the news? Pete Townsend is a perv, Joe Leiberman (cute little bugger) is running for president, and Saddam is a nut job. Okay, so none of that is really news.

They sent those formerly-conjoined-but-now-separated twins home to Guatemala. That was a nice story, though frankly, conjoined twins completely freak me out. Come to think of it, all twins kinda freak me out to some extent, but two people attached at the head are particularly disturbing. Still, I'm glad they're okay, and get to go home.

Oh dear G-d in heaven, who told that nasty-ass Tim McGraw that singing Tiny Dancer would be a good thing? I just remembered why I don't watch music awards shows...

Fuck this, I'm going to go lie down.

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 1/14/2003 9:24:11 AM

hope you get rid of that headache.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/14/2003 11:54:21 AM

It's a lot better now, thanks! :)
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 1/14/2003 11:12:49 AM

Bahh! Tim McGraw is singing Tiny Dancer? Some things just SHOULD NOT be done. You know who I think is a cute lil bugger? Tony Blair. He's sooo adorable!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/14/2003 11:52:19 AM

Tony Blair is ADORABLE, and I love his voice. If I lived in England, I would definately vote for him, just so if he won, he would have more reason to speak publically. I live fairly close to Camp David, and the last time he was there to see whats-his-face, the whole day I was like, "Tony is within driving distance!" ...I've had a mad crush on him since he spoke at Diana's funeral. /swoon

[i'm ba-a-ack] 1/14/2003 12:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sleepy]
[Current Music |tv - nickelodeon]

Took three aspirins and a nap. Dreamed that I was in a supermarket, looking for garlic bread. WTF? I rarely remember my dreams, and when I do, I get garlic bread? No naked guys, just plans to make spaghetti. Even my dreams are boring. Anyway, the headache is much better, though now I am sort of slow and out of it (more so than usual!)... why does sleep always make me sleepier than I was when I went to sleep? Am I not doing it right?

Time for coffee, I suppose, and then hair dying, and then house cleaning. Assuming, of course, that I don't just keel over from the rampant excitement that is my life. Feh.

   

[still kvetching] 1/14/2003 2:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |cranky]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

Another thing that sucks about waking up early is, I run out of coffee early, too. Now what the hell am I going to drink all day? Grrr... I think Rusty is drinking too much coffee in the morning. He should either drink less so I will have more, or - because I am not an unreasonable person - he should come home at noon and make me another pot. That is all.

   

[ooops] 1/14/2003 3:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |shocked]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

Oh hells bells. I am not yet certain, because it is still wet, but it appears that my hair is now Deborah Messing red, instead of the medium ash blonde as depicted on the hair dye box.

UPDATE: It is not Deborah Messing red, but it isn't medium ash blonde, either. Now it's like a medium reddish brown, somewhere in between the darker colour that it was, and my original hair colour. I want my old hair back, dammit! Oh well, it says I can do it again in 4-6 weeks. :\

   

Comments:
From: [info]sjcarpediem
Date: 1/14/2003 3:52:09 PM

Condition it w/one of those ultra-damage repair conditioners and you can do it again later today w/o trouble. I've been dyeing (and redyeing) my hair since I was eleven-ish, so I can speak w/authority. If you have a sensitive/dry scalp regularly, you'll want to use a good mousturizing conditioner after the second bleach.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/14/2003 8:40:07 PM

Oh cool! I will get another box this week, thanks! :)

[he kinda looked like a hippie but...] 1/14/2003 8:30:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |tv - foxnews - the o'reilley factor]



Jesus 'Healed Using Cannabis'

Duncan Campbell in Los Angeles - Monday January 6, 2003 - The Guardian

Jesus was almost certainly a cannabis user and an early proponent of the medicinal properties of the drug, according to a study of scriptural texts published this month. The study suggests that Jesus and his disciples used the drug to carry out miraculous healings.

The anointing oil used by Jesus and his disciples contained an ingredient called kaneh-bosem which has since been identified as cannabis extract, according to an article by Chris Bennett in the drugs magazine, High Times, entitled Was Jesus a Stoner? The incense used by Jesus in ceremonies also contained a cannabis extract, suggests Mr Bennett, who quotes scholars to back his claims.

"There can be little doubt about a role for cannabis in Judaic religion," Carl Ruck, professor of classical mythology at Boston University said.

Referring to the existence of cannabis in anointing oils used in ceremonies, he added: "Obviously the easy availability and long-established tradition of cannabis in early Judaism... would inevitably have included it in the [Christian] mixtures."

Mr Bennett suggests those anointed with the oils used by Jesus were "literally drenched in this potent mixture... Although most modern people choose to smoke or eat pot, when its active ingredients are transferred into an oil-based carrier, it can also be absorbed through the skin".

Quoting the New Testament, Mr Bennett argues that Jesus anointed his disciples with the oil and encouraged them to do the same with other followers. This could have been responsible for healing eye and skin diseases referred to in the Gospels.

"If cannabis was one of the main ingredients of the ancient anointing oil... and receiving this oil is what made Jesus the Christ and his followers Christians, then persecuting those who use cannabis could be considered anti-Christ," Mr Bennett concludes.

   

Comments:
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 1/14/2003 9:46:11 PM

I love it. Yay, cannabis!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/14/2003 10:51:50 PM

Can you imagine the conversations with the disciples?

"Jesus Christ, look at the size of that joint!" =D

[dinner - delivery from anthonys] 1/15/2003 12:05:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |hungry]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Steak and chedder sub w/ mustard. Mozzerella sticks. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[update] 1/15/2003 2:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |pissed off]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

I talked to the guy from CPS again. He wants to come over Friday evening and talk to Rusty. That should be interesting. I am so sick of this, already. The guy asked me if I knew my kids' birthdates, for crissakes. My house may be a mess, but that does not make me some sort of white trash scum that doesn't have a clue what's going on in my own home or with my own children. I know this jackass is just doing his job, but the "friend" who started this ridiculous ball in motion is so going to pay. I'm not a neglectful drunk as alleged, but I AM a vengeful bitch.

*** this is a highly filtered post ***
   

[argh] 1/15/2003 10:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |grrrrr]
[Current Music |tv - nbc - law & order]

I have the world's shortest attention span. That is all.

   

[dinner - leftovers] 1/16/2003 12:05:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |indescribable]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Leftover steak and chedder sub. Cottage cheese. Vanilla wafers. Regular Coke.

   

[today] 1/16/2003 12:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

Got up at way-too-early o'clock, and drove to the bank, yada yada yada.

We stopped at Target where I spent WAY too much money. Most of it was non-frivolous purchases though; cleaning supplies, toiletries, diapers, boring stuff like that. I got a Swiffer Wet Jet (this damn thing better work!) and some storage boxes. Oh, and I did pick up another box of hair colour (ash blonde), as well as the Zoo Tycoon: Marine Mania expansion pack.

And we stopped at Petsmart, where I bought, well, pet stuff.

   

Comments:
From: [info]bioclaire
Date: 1/16/2003 12:43:51 PM

Oooh, tell me what the Marine expansion pack is like. :) I think I'm actually going to go out and buy this game...
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/16/2003 12:52:45 PM

You should; the full game is SO much cooler than the demo! There are tons more animals (white bengal tigers!) and more maps and trees and stuff. Will let you know about Marine Mania, but it looks cool too; I bought it mostly for the manatees and dolphins.

BTW, I keep meaning to tell you, Lunar Legend ROCKS!!! =)
From: [info]bioclaire
Date: 1/17/2003 6:19:38 PM

Re:

Oh my god, I did it. I BOUGHT IT! :D I bought LUnar Legend and Pocky and Rocky (with becky)... I can't wait to start playing it tonight! :) You're a bad influence! *hugs* but i thank you for it.... mmmm... video games...
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/17/2003 7:19:36 PM

LOL! It wouldn't be the first time I heard that... let me know how you like LL. I have only just started it (I'm stuck in the Weird Woods), but I think they did a pretty good job! =)
From: [info]bioclaire
Date: 1/17/2003 8:03:05 PM

Re:

Yes. It was strange to meet Nash so early on, but I'm open for a new version. :) I'm in the Weird Woods too... Where are you stuck?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/17/2003 8:47:29 PM

Well, I have found one slab, and a door, but I can't find the other two slabs so that I can get OUT of the Weird Woods! :\
From: [info]bioclaire
Date: 1/18/2003 1:03:15 AM

Re:

I found two... There are 3? O_O Oh jeez... BTW, the pocky and rocky game I bought sucks. its so hard :(
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/18/2003 10:56:03 AM

That's what Rusty says; he's been playing it in the other game slot. He said there are three slabs, and then you go to the door and you have to put what the slabs said in order. Except, I can't find the third slab to activate the door! Maybe I will look for a map later...

I hate it when games are TOO hard. A challenge is good, but if it looks like I'm *never* gonna get through something, I just say the hell with it. :\
From: [info]bioclaire
Date: 1/18/2003 12:16:05 PM

Re:

I FOUND IT! :D The first slab is on the other side of the bridge - before you took the nap, do you remember? Then the other two are on the same side as the door. Whee! Off to Quark and dragon poos. ;)

[the object of my affection] 1/16/2003 3:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |in love]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]


This is the Bronco II that I may be getting. Jamie said he would take off the lift kit (I'm 4'11" for crissake). Right now I'm just waiting for him to decide if he's definately going to sell it.
   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 1/16/2003 4:26:47 PM

Nice truck. I hope you get it. :)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/16/2003 4:36:45 PM

Thanks! I hope so too... I know he'll come off of it eventually; I don't think he's ever kept the same vehicle for a whole year. I am mostly just hoping that the timing works out. :)

[dinner - papa johns] 1/16/2003 11:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sleepy]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Cheese sticks with cheese and tomato sauces. Reese's Cup. Regular Coke.

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 1/17/2003 6:41:37 AM

I love mozzarella (sp?) sticks. Yum.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/17/2003 8:34:52 AM

Me too! I love cheese anything, come to think of it... ;)

[friday five - jobs] 1/17/2003 9:50:00 AM

purple_stardust

1. Where do you currently work?

I am a professional slacker.

2. How many other jobs have you had and where?

I have worked as a waitress, a secretary, a newspaper composer, a teacher's assistant at a daycare center, and a chainman for a land survey crew. I decided that I didn't like working.

3. What do you like best about your job?

I like staying home.

4. What do you like least about your job?

The pay sucks.

5. What is your dream job?

I used to think that I would like to be a veterinarian. However, I don't like puss, blood, poop, vomit, or drool, plus sick and injured animals make me cry, and I could never put an animal to sleep, so I'm thinking I would probably suck as a vet. Also, I would have to leave my house.

::: fridayfive.org :::

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 1/17/2003 12:40:41 PM

I went through the same thing about being a vet (actually, I don't have such high aspirations; I was thinking about becoming a vet tech.). I also thought about being a nurse and how nice that would be, but like you said I'd have to deal with all the blood and spit and everything else those kinds of jobs are about. Yick.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/17/2003 12:43:04 PM

Ohh, I could never be a nurse... people are WAY more gross than animals! More whiney, too. LOL
From: [info]s8venus
Date: 1/17/2003 12:49:40 PM

Same here on the vet thing. Although with my evil rat Sam, I've delt with blood and all that on a fairly "ohmygodohmygodohmygodohmygodohmygod" emergency basis. So Iguess once you're put in the situation you could prolly deal with it, but still I'd have to many emotional things to deal with. I like animals to much.

So far Sam has nearly killed all 4 rats and his sister has done some fairly bad damage to my neighbors CAT! THE CAT! My friend Erica has his sister and she ripped her cat a new one. Poor kitty!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/17/2003 6:52:37 PM

Yeah, I've treated rattie wounds... although the couple times we've had to drain absesses, I've made my husband do it! lol

I would be too emotional, too. The first time a kitty came in with leukemia or an animal had to be put to sleep, and I would be a complete wreck. :\

[today] 1/17/2003 2:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

Jamie came over with the boys, so I got to sit in "my" Bronco. It was very exciting.

   

[ewwwww, meteor shit] 1/17/2003 7:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |irritated]
[Current Music |tv - jeopardy]

I've been cleaning all day, so of course my skin is all broken out, like it always gets when I use cleaning stuff... I look like I have mange, or something. I knew that you'd all want to know that.

Bonus points to anyone who gets the reference in my subject line.

   

Comments:
From: [info]thanny
Date: 1/18/2003 1:16:15 AM

creepshow.

(never saw it-- i cheated! thank you, yahoo)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/18/2003 9:58:06 AM

LOL! Well you SHOULD see it... Stephen King is the the one who gets to deliver that line, and it's HYSTERICAL. =)

[fab!] 1/17/2003 8:35:00 PM

purple_stardust





Strawberry Fields Forever
(Lennon/McCartney)

Let me take you down
cause I'm going to Strawberry Fields
Nothing is real
and nothing to get hung about
Strawberry fields forever

Living is easy with eyes closed
Misunderstanding all you see
It's getting hard to be someone
but it all works out
It doesn't matter much to me

Let me take you down
cause I'm going to Strawberry Fields
Nothing is real
and nothing to get hung about
Strawberry Fields forever

No one I think is in my tree
I mean it must be high or low
That is you can't, you know, tune in
but it's all right
That is I think it's not too bad

Let me take you down
cause I'm going to Strawberry Fields
Nothing is real
and nothing to get hung about
Strawberry Fields forever

Always know sometimes think it's me
But you know I know when it's a dream
I think I know I mean, ah yes
but it's all wrong
that is I think I disagree

Let me take you down
cause I'm going to Strawberry Fields
Nothing is real
and nothing to get hung about
Strawberry Fields forever
Strawberry Fields forever
Strawberry Fields forever

What Beatles' song are you?
   

[zoo tycoon: marine mania - for bioclaire] 1/17/2003 9:30:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |silly]
[Current Music |tv - msnbc - hardball with chris matthews]

Zoo Tycoon: Marine Mania seems a lot more complicated than the original ZT, but the graphics are nice, and it's fun to watch the orcas and dolphins perform. I haven't played it much yet, so I will reserve judgement until after I get the hang of the controls. For you Claire, I will keep playing this game until I can make an accurate assessment. Because I'm real helpful that way.

   

[dinner - papa johns] 1/18/2003 12:25:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |sleepy]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Cheese sticks with cheese and tomato sauces. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[feh] 1/18/2003 12:30:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |cynical]
[Current Music |tv - nick-at-nite]

It doesn't matter what religion you are; the whole world is just screwed.

   

Comments:
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 1/18/2003 4:32:18 AM

I totally agree.
From: [info]topi
Date: 1/18/2003 12:34:02 PM

wish I could argue against that....

[weight watchers for lizards] 1/18/2003 6:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |moody]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]


I got to watch Jesus shed his skin today. It was really cool; he shed and ate the body and tail part of his skin first, and then he pulled the skin off of his little hands and feet, one by one.

Laurie: see how fat he's getting? He's a tubby little gecko...
   

Comments:
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 1/18/2003 7:20:43 PM

Like taking socks and mittens off? Awww! He's very cute!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/18/2003 8:18:09 PM

Yes, it's JUST like that! He tugged on each finger to loosen it, and then pulled it off at the wrist. It was pretty interesting to watch; he sheds often, but usually he does it when I'm asleep.

[note to self] 1/19/2003 12:25:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |cold and sleepy]
[Current Music |tv - saturday night live]

I need to re-read my friends page tomorrow morning. I skimmed it tonight, and there are a few entries that I want to comment on, but am too tired right now. I need to go back as far as Laurie's disgusting dead-spider-in-the-peach post where I left off this afternoon. That is all.

   

[dinner - delivery from anthonys] 1/19/2003 1:35:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Steak and chedder sub w/ mustard. Mozzerella sticks. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[affirmative action] 1/19/2003 11:15:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |annoyed]
[Current Music |tv - nbc - meet the press]

I should be cleaning, but Joe Lieberman is on Meet The Press, discussing affirmative action. I love Lieberman, but we part ways on this issue. I do not believe in affirmative action. I do not think that students applying to the University of Michigan should get 20 points for being black, any more then they should get extra points for being tall or thin or good-looking. This is not because I happen to be white. One of these days, I will have a Jewish daughter applying for college, and I hope that she will be evaluated like any other potential student, and not given preference because she would happen to be a minority. In fact, I think if I were a black (or whatever) student, I would be offended if they gave me those 20 points - as if black people aren't smart enough to get in on intellectual merits alone. Bah.

   

Comments:
From: [info]alison_says
Date: 1/19/2003 12:33:44 PM

I halfway agree with you. I don't think that anyone should be judged based on race, gender, or religion. However, I believe in a class-based affirmative action. For instance, those in the lower 20th percentile of parental income should be given help in qualifying. So many studies have shown that children from poor backgrounds have fewer opportunities to broaden their horizons and come to school already behind the curve. America has a big problem with widening gaps in class. The rich have been getting richer and passing the benefits of their wealth is passed on to their children. Our current President is a great example of this (Not that this is the first time in American history that relations have helped elect Presidents) but he is only one of many examples. I am in business and I see this every day - connections and referrals passed on to the next generation. It is natural for parents to want to help their children get ahead in the world, but 'the system' needs to help compensate.

Now that there are a good amount of middle-class, upper-middle class, and even upper-class blacks, as well as every other group of minorities, it is time to change the parameters in which we think about affirmative action. If affirmative action is only based on race, the upper-middle class black kids will have advantages over the lower-class blacks who need the help more. And I have seen this in action, for one of my good friends from high school got a great scholarship this way when his parents could have easily afforded tuition at any college.

What do you think about class-based affirmative action?
From: [info]cellio
Date: 1/19/2003 12:54:58 PM

For instance, those in the lower 20th percentile of parental income should be given help in qualifying.

Wouldn't it be better to give this help in the form of better education, supplemental tutoring, and so on, before college, rather than in reduced admission standards? Colleges that are teaching remedial students stuff that their students should already know are not spending those resources teaching what they're really there to teach. The result is less-educated graduates, which does a disservice to the students and to the employers who will be hiring them.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/19/2003 1:00:57 PM

I think supplemental tutoring would be a great idea, and also programs to help guide poorer students in the direction of college to begin with. Let's face it, there are a lot of really poor kids who don't even consider college an option, no matter how smart they are. If you're the child of an un-educated single mom who has to work 2 or 3 jobs to put food on the table, you're probably not thinking about if you can get into college, you're wondering what job you can get now to help out.
From: [info]alison_says
Date: 1/19/2003 1:04:33 PM

Re:

When I said "given help in qualifying" I didn't necessarily mean lowering admissions standards. I agree that better help in qualifying would be better education and supplemental tutoring before college. In fact, I think that the system we have to fund public education is a joke.

The fact that it's based on income for the area and not an average for the country and not a national average makes the playingfield inherently uneven. For instance, my siblings are in high school now. They are very lucky and go to a well-funded school. They have an amphitheater, indoor batting cages, Olympic-style running track, etc. They also have a whole lot of AP classes where you get college credit. Everyone wants to send their kids there, so they also have trailers, which are not heated or air-conditioned (no air-conditioning in Florida is a very bad idea).

The schools across town don't have any of those amenities, but they do have weapons inspection and razor-wire fences. They look very much like prisions.

This could all be avoided if they were equally funded. Everyone would get a better-quality environment to learn in, and the education levels would be equal.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/19/2003 12:55:13 PM

I certainly think that it is more reasonable than race/gender/religion-based affirmative action! I'm not sure how much it would help, however, since there are means (scholarships, grants, etc) to get into college if someone really wants to. Or do you mean for schools like Harvard or Princeton, where grades aren't as important as who you know? I think it would make a lot more sense for ivy league schools than for universities like WVU where just about anyone with decent grades and a means to pay can get in.
From: [info]alison_says
Date: 1/19/2003 1:20:48 PM

Re:

Well I think the Ivy League needs help with that along with some private universities that specialize in specific things, and excel at what they do, but are extremely expensive.

And I think all states need to have the scholarship to a state school for anyone with a B-average or better kind of deals. And those scholarships need to include tuition, books and some kind of living stipend.

Teachers need to have hefty monetary incentives for teaching at schools with underprivileged kids, because it is a larger responsibility to teach kids who start out behind the curve.

If America wants to continue to be a superpower we need to pay the taxes it takes to support a quality education. The rest of the first-world countries have already far surpassed us. And democracy doesn't work with citizens who aren't interested in their communities and who are too lazy to keep up with current events.

Sorry to vent here, I've just been annoyed at the general public here in Georgia who simultaneously chant 'Lower Taxes' and 'Better Education'.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/19/2003 1:40:58 PM

I definately agree that we need to pay for ALL students to get a better elementary and high school education. I also think, however, that the schools themselves need to reorder their priorities in some cases. For example: I went to a high school with raggedy out-of-date books, falling apart desks, and no air conditioning. There was a local levy that gave a large amount of money to said high school. Did we get new books, new desks, or air conditioning? Hell no. Instead, they spent that money on a new field house for the football team. :\

From: [info]alison_says
Date: 1/19/2003 1:42:34 PM

Re:

Hehe, that's why local control is not always great. And that kind of crap is so common!
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 1/19/2003 1:23:03 PM

Here are my thoughts on Affirmative Action. I agree with you that getting points based on skin color is just as absurd as getting them based on, to use your example, height. And I wish we lived in a world where people didn't judge people based on mere physical appearance, but we don't. There is still a lot of racism and bigotry in the world. Ultimately I hope affirmative action won't be necessary, but I think right now it is. Too many racists have too much power for there not to be some form of checks and balances.
From: [info]topi
Date: 1/19/2003 2:38:06 PM

You nailed it!

I don't like AA (I've never even overtly benefited from AA to my knowledge...but you nailed it so solidly on the head!

Yosef
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/19/2003 3:13:32 PM

I also agree that there IS a lot of covert racism in this country, and that there ARE too many rich white Christians in power... but is lowering the standards or enrolling minorities for the sake of quotas the best way to fix that? Wouldn't it be more logical (and less insulting to the minorities in question) to install and enforce equality laws in colleges and universities?

And Yosef, since it applies to you... if you wanted to go to U of M, how would you feel about being "given" 20 bonus points because of your skin colour?
From: [info]topi
Date: 1/19/2003 3:40:51 PM

Ah, license to bring my skin color into this...

Nessie,

I think that I should get points for being Jewish, Souix Indian, and Colombian also! We can set around being pithy about a policy that is clearly unfair, a policy that is a response to a bigger societial scope of past unfairness, a policy that has roots originating with President Richard Nixon (but exploited by the Liberals and Political Left), but what are we going to do about it? Here is what I'm gonna do about it...

I plan to apply to U of M's History PhD program later this year. I plan to apply to many other colleges also, who have no policy of handing out points for skin color. I did not even realize that U of M had such a program, but heck, never count those academic Liberals out for "uplifting those poor minorities."

It is not fair to someone non-Black who is just as qualified as I am, that I gain such an advantage. However, I will make no apologies for recieving special favor over something as incredulous as my skin color.

Additionally, I do not think it fair that U of M gives those with higher SAT scores (assuming a similar gpa), additional points over those with lessor SATs. However, if I had those perfect SATs you can bet your butt I would take the extra 12 points for that also.

In short, I am going to do what my vision of a good Conservative would do; take advantage of the stupid Liberals.

Yosef
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/19/2003 5:12:20 PM

Re: Ah, license to bring my skin color into this...

LOL! Yeah, you ought to start out with about 80 points, eh? According to their scoring system, you should be able to get in with a low D average! =D

I do not think it fair that U of M gives those with higher SAT scores (assuming a similar gpa), additional points over those with lessor SATs.

Why IS that, exactly? I know that some people feel that the SAT scores are biased in some way, but no one has ever really explained why. Wouldn't they be as unbiased of intellectual assessment as the GPA is?

From: [info]topi
Date: 1/19/2003 5:27:28 PM

Re: Ah, license to bring my skin color into this...

I don't even remember which I took in high school...I think it was the ACTs, but no one ever told me what my score was...you think I'm dumb now, I was a big dope in high school. The ACTs, SATs, GREs, LSATs, MCATS, GMATs, etc., are basically tests to gauge if a person has even heard about the subject area that they are interested in. They do not measure real success, or brain smarts. However, these various army of tests do provide tons of $$$ for the test-makers, test-facilitators, oh, and the colleges and universities across the nation.

Yosef
From: [info]cellio
Date: 1/20/2003 12:45:32 PM

Re: Ah, license to bring my skin color into this...

Standardized tests are a better measure of academic ability than GPA, because GPA varies by local standards. Think about it up one level: all else being equal, would you hire the Harvard grad with the 3.75 or the community-college grad with the 4.0? High schools are varied like that, too.

Note that I didn't say that standardized tests are a good measure. They're just better than anything elase we've come up with so far, short of extensive personal interviews (which can work as a later-stage filter, but not initial-stage).

[random stuff] 1/19/2003 9:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |tv - golden globe awards]

I cleaned rat cages today; that was a hoot. Then this afternoon, I fixed them parmeson rice with peas, so they're very happy rats at the moment. I put Bleu and Blossom in together... I don't think he's, erm, functional in that department, but it's worth a try, and I have a lot of people wanting rats. I wish she would get pregnant; I'd really like to have a Bleu baby.

Tried to clean a bit, accomplished little. Does anyone know what housekeepers charge?

Right now we're watching the Golden Globe Awards, which is fairly stupid since we've never seen the stuff that wins. We get to mock Sarah Jessica Parker though, so it's all good.

   

[note to self] 1/19/2003 11:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |broken and yucky]
[Current Music |tv - nick-at-nite]

Call a dentist tomorrow, you idiot.

   

[dinner - leftovers] 1/20/2003 12:50:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Leftover steak and chedder sub. Leftover cheese sticks. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[today] 1/20/2003 8:50:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |grouchy and mean]
[Current Music |tv - fox news channel - the o'reilly factor]

Today I cleaned the kitchen, which was almost as fun as it sounds. Fuck it, I am throwing everything out. The less stuff I have, the less stuff I have to clean.

   

Comments:
From: [info]alison_says
Date: 1/20/2003 10:45:09 PM

I just did that this weekend. Now that my kitchen is really clean though, it gives me hope for the rest of the house. I am damn determined to keep it *really* clean.

Keep track of how much you give to Goodwill/throw out. www.flylady.com has a weigh-in contest to see who can get rid of the most junk :)

[dinner - green giant] 1/21/2003 12:45:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |really freakin' hungry]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Pasta alfredo with broccoli. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[arts and crafts] 1/21/2003 7:30:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |groggy]
[Current Music |tv - abc - good morning america]

If any of you are into craft projects, I was looking for seed beads this morning and stumbled upon a selection of Jewish charms, instead! Dreidels and grogers and seder plates, oh my!

   

[commercials] 1/21/2003 7:45:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |not offended]
[Current Music |tv - abc - good morning america]

So... has anyone else heard about the big flack concerning Miller Lite's latest beer commercial? It features two attractive women having the old tastes great / less filling argument. During the course of this, the women fall in a water fountain, rip each other's shirts open, and end up wrestling in a mud puddle. It is, the critics say, quite offensive to women. According to my gynecologist, I am a woman, and yet, I fail to be offended by this commercial. I have tried. It just isn't offensive to me. I don't care if my kids see it. I am far more offended - or at least grossed out - by Jane Krakowski's orgasmic Clairol commercial. That is all.

   

Comments:
From: [info]shann
Date: 1/21/2003 8:37:31 AM

I agree. Personally I think the cat fight commercial is hilarious!!
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 1/21/2003 9:05:41 AM

I haven't seen the Miller commercial. I'll have to keep my eye out for it.

The Clairol one should be rated x... =o)
From: [info]alison_says
Date: 1/21/2003 9:55:42 AM

I am not offended by it, but it is irritating. Last weekend I was with a large group of people watching the Eagles/Falcons and they played it around 100 times. All of the other ladies got pretty annoyed after a while. That is the kind of thing that makes me not want to buy Miller Lite. I vote for Herbal Essence.
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 1/21/2003 9:57:42 AM

I've never seen it...but I HATE that hair commercial. Can't remember hating a commercial so much (except for when I was preggo, there was a dancing-tomato jumping into bottles commercial by heinz that made me horribly sick). But I don't think the beer one would invoke any emotions one way or the other.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/21/2003 1:14:50 PM

The Clairol commercials, and particularly the Jane Krakowski one, are NASTY. They were saying about the beer commercial, what if kids see it? ... I would rather my kids see women mud-wrestling than THAT!
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 1/21/2003 12:59:41 PM

Lady mudwrestlers? Doesn't sound offensive to me...! We get those Clairol ones here too and they make me squirm, they're awful! Ugh, it's shampoo, get over it!!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/21/2003 1:09:39 PM

Aren't they nasty??? Rusty and I want to buy some of that crap, not have orgasms, and then sue Clairol for misrepresentation. But seriously, one of the things I keep hearing about the beer commercial is what if a small child sees the ad and you have to explain what the women are doing? ... I would WAY rather explain two women wrestling than what the woman in the Clairol commercial is doing!
From: [info]gypsydance
Date: 1/21/2003 1:37:45 PM

I haven't seen it, but it sounds amusing. Not only that, but it's an incredible marketing ploy. Women + wrestling + mud + ripped shirts + beer = nearly every male human's ultimate fantasy. I don't much like that piss-in-a-can, but if I were a guy? It'd at least make me glance at it. ;)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/21/2003 1:50:05 PM

Yeah... and by the end, one is on top of the other, so not only do you have half-naked chicks, but you have the ever-popular Lesbian Fantasy. I think a lot of women feel threatened by it, but I just don't see it. I don't care if Rusty sees gorgeous muddy women on TV; it's not like he's going to *get* them... if you go with the lesbian fantasy, he sure as hell isn't! It's *just* a commercial. And you know, they used to run those diet soda commercials with the half-naked GUY and all the women looking at him, and no one ever said a word.

PS - I don't like beer either, no matter how much muddy girl-on-girl action they show me! ;)
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 1/22/2003 2:32:35 AM

I love beer, but I hate Miller Lite. ANY beer connoisseur would agree that Miller Lite = urine. So who cares WHAT they put in their commercials? They are grasping for the lowest common denominator! :)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/22/2003 11:52:11 AM

LOL! I think ALL beer tastes like urine, but you're right... the ads definately aren't aimed at the MENSA set. :)

[woo hoo] 1/21/2003 12:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |productive]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

I worked on cleaning Sarah's room this morning. I packed up almost all of the boys' remaining toys and clothes to send over to their father's house, packed up or threw away her little baby toys and stuff that she (and/or I) never really liked anyway, threw away extra computer peripherals, threw away one of her dressers, and vaccuumed. After her nap, I need to hang her window blinds, tackle her bookcase, closet and the remaining dresser, as well as rearrange the furniture and hopefully hook up and reformat her computer. I'm on a roll!

   

Comments:
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 1/21/2003 12:49:41 PM

Oooh, can I fly you over here while you're on this cleaning spree, you'd come in veeeery handy!!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/21/2003 12:56:27 PM

Are you on drugs? LOL

Actually, I guess if I'm going to be house-cleaning, it would be more fun to be house-cleaning in the UK...

[my own personal cleo awards] 1/21/2003 1:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

The best commercial on TV: the credit card commercial where Charlie Sheen is in the video store, and by the time they check out his ID to pay for the videos, he's turned into Martin Sheen. That one still cracks me up every time I see it.

   

[hooray!] 1/21/2003 5:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |purpley good]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - while you were out]

Today I ordered seed beads in eight shades of purple. I can't wait to make more bracelets!

   

[for the record] 1/21/2003 6:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |thoughtful]
[Current Music |dvd - teletubbies - baby animals]

Despite the fact that we're both heterosexual, occasionally Rusty and I have hypothetical but complex discussions on who we would lust after, if we were gay. He prefers Denzel Washington and that guy who played Sisko on Star Trek: DS9. My list usually consists of Lisa Bonet and Lolita Davidovich. I hereby add Laurie Hickson-Smith to my list. And possibly Tori Amos.

   

Comments:
From: [info]blairmaru
Date: 1/21/2003 7:59:49 PM

But...Genevive's WAY hotter than Laurie!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/22/2003 10:03:53 AM

You think? Gen seems really fun, but I can't picture her as an object of lust. Laurie's hair, however, does it for me. I have a thing for redheads, apparantly. =)
From: [info]gypsydance
Date: 1/22/2003 1:05:52 AM

Straight or not, I think I'd still do Tori Amos. She's yummy.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/22/2003 10:05:38 AM

=)

Yeah, she is just about perfect. She reminds me a lot of Laurie; they both have that gorgeous red hair and perfect porcelin skin. So unfair...

[dinner - delivery from anthonys] 1/21/2003 8:30:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - fox news channel - the o'reilly factor]

Steak and chedder sub w/ mustard. Mozzerella sticks. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

Comments:
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 1/22/2003 7:38:18 AM

I wish Anthonys delivered here...
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/22/2003 9:19:43 AM

LOL! Keep watching; they're spreading fast up here (7 locations already), so maybe someday... :)
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 1/22/2003 7:34:33 PM

Re:

Well I've never heard of them but what you have always sounds good LOL

[cps - the conclusion] 1/22/2003 11:15:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |relieved but vengeful]
[Current Music |tv - pbs - teletubbies]

The guy from CPS came back today; said everything was okay and a case will not be opened. This is good, because now I can concentrate on making other peoples' lives into a living hell.

*** this is a highly filtered post ***
   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/22/2003 12:24:24 PM

What will you do to them?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/22/2003 1:25:01 PM

I plan to have them similarly investigated (there is more substance abuse in that house than I've EVER had, even if you count my mis-spent youth), audited (I doubt they're claiming the drug money on their income taxes), and ultimately arrested (just for my own entertainment value).

I do very few things really well, and being a good mother to Sarah is one of them - I don't appreciate having that questioned. I also don't like having my trust betrayed or my privacy invaded. There are a lot of things you can do to me and get away with it, but you threaten my family, and you're toast.

}:-(
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/23/2003 12:20:59 PM

Re:

I'm not entirely sure why someone who did as much drugs as you say they do and who deals would make the incredibly stupid move of calling CPS on someone who KNOWS they deal and who is capable of figuring out who called CPS. I mean, that's just plain stupid.

Happy vengeance!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/23/2003 1:33:53 PM

Well, Kathy doesn't do the drugs, only Roscoe. Still. I have a feeling that she didn't think I could figure it out. They have a weird lifestyle; people are always wandering in and out of their house (without even knocking, sometimes!), so if she didn't know that I don't have any other local friends, she could have believed that an anonymous call, really was. She had no way of knowing that they're the only people who've been in here except my mother and Jamie. I also have a feeling that Rusty said a lot of things when we had the big fight, and she isn't bright enough to distinguish things that are said in the heat of a fight, from day-to-day reality.

Still, not the brightest move.

[instant karma is gonna get you] 1/22/2003 11:35:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |vengeful]
[Current Music |tv - nickelodeon - blue's clues]

I do not take kindly to having my life tampered with. That is all. No, that's not quite all. Also, people who live in glass houses should watch for falling boulders. THAT is all.

   

[email drama] 1/22/2003 12:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |annoyed]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]

So this morning I was having problems with my email server; it would send email, but not recieve any. Now it will check, and I've even gotten a few, but I know I haven't gotten all of them, because I've gotten LJ comments, but the notifications never showed up. Is my email from this morning just floating around cyberspace, lost forever? Will it ever come back? Stay tuned...

   

Comments:
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/22/2003 12:23:00 PM

*just testing my email*

[argh] 1/22/2003 12:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |really annoyed]
[Current Music |tv - abc news]

I just posted a comment to see if I would get notification... nada. I sent myself a test email from AOL... nothing. My mom sent me stuff... zip. I want my freakin' email, dammit!!! This sucks.

   

Comments:
From: [info]gypsydance
Date: 1/22/2003 4:30:40 PM

Erm. You don't get notification for comments from youself. So we can call this one a test, too. :)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/22/2003 4:50:30 PM

Really? I didn't know that! Well, I got yours, so all is well. Thanks!

[ah-ha] 1/22/2003 1:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |relieved]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

We are extremely sorry for all of the problems you may have been experiencing with mail recently (last night and this morning). A database error caused many (approximately half) of the users on your mail server to be set up incorrectly. This caused mail for those users to bounce with an "Unknown User" error. We have corrected the cause of the problem to prevent a repeat occurance and are currently in the process of rebuilding the mail server configurations. Everything should be back in working order within the hour. Again, we cannot apologize enough for the problems, but are confident the issues are resolved and mail stability will improve.

Dreamhost Mail Ninjas

   

Comments:
From: [info]shann
Date: 1/22/2003 1:15:54 PM

Hmmm...

I use DreamHost too, but my mail has been okay today. Guess I got lucky and my server was okay!! Eek!!

[et oh] 1/22/2003 6:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |puzzled]
[Current Music |dvd - teletubbies - baby animals]

I just noticed, Dipsy isn't nearly as cute as the other Teletubbies. How very odd.

   

Comments:
From: [info]mysticpenguin
Date: 1/22/2003 7:29:51 PM

He has a ::cough:: rather symbolic antenna, too. I wonder that it was Tinky Winky's purse that got the right wing perverts all worked up instead of Po.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/22/2003 8:49:28 PM

Oh geez, I hadn't even noticed THAT, until you pointed it out.

(And I always wondered what sort of perv watched these kids shows and thought about such things... ;)
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 1/22/2003 7:37:05 PM

No, but he is the coolest. When the skirt comes out and Tinky Winky's all excited to wear it, Dipsy always runs away!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/22/2003 8:41:22 PM

He is Sarah's favourite, too. And Rusty just likes his hat. =D
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 1/22/2003 9:29:35 PM

Re:

I'm a LaaLaa girl myself.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/22/2003 9:34:02 PM

Laa Laa is cute, but little Po is MY favourite.

Sad, too, that I'm 33 years old and have a favourite Teletubby. =D
From: [info]closertofine
Date: 1/23/2003 7:16:38 AM

Re:

Tell me about it. I'm 39 and I don't have KIDS!

[yet another shining example] 1/22/2003 8:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |i hate this town]
[Current Music |tv - fox news channel - the o'reilly factor]

I absolutely hate this town; you cannot accomplish the simplest thing here. All I wanted was a bloody Teletubbies DVD for my daughter. Amazon.com pissed me off yet again - even with two day shipping, the DVD wouldnt be here until January 28! So I canceled the order and went to the mall. Went to FYE. Went to the toy store. Went to Walmart. Went to Kmart. No Teletubbies DVD. Freaking Target has it, but then, Target is a real store. We don't have those here.

Anyway, I did get the Best of Bowie DVD for me, and Quadrophenia for Rusty.

   

[dammit janet] 1/22/2003 10:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |cursed]
[Current Music |dvd - the who - quadrophenia]

I bought and used yet another bottle of ash blonde hair colour, and now my hair looks even redder than it did before. Son of a bitch. /screams violently

   

Comments:
From: [info]sjcarpediem
Date: 1/23/2003 12:13:31 AM

WoW.... Maybe HaShem wants you to be a redhead?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/23/2003 12:17:09 AM

LOL... I'm starting to wonder! It had reddish tendancies to begin with, but nothing like this.
From: [info]gypsydance
Date: 1/23/2003 3:22:05 AM

Hee. Okay, here I am again to rescue you. First, don't do this right away, unless you want your hair to pretty much fall out... give it a few weeks. In the meantime, go in like, right now, and shampoo your hair a few times. The color shouldn't have had time to set really well, so that should at least get some of it out. Next, after waiting a few weeks (while intensively conditioning the entire time), use a color stripper instead of a dye. Your hair's too dark now to use a dye without it going red. Good ones to try are L'oreal Feria. Expensive, but nice. Find one that conditions well, at any rate. You'll know it's a color stripper because it will actually say so. Either that, or "color remover" or something similar. You might have to do it twice to get it completely blonde. Once it's there, wait another week or two, THEN use a dye to get it where you want it. (Also known as double- or triple- processing.)

*squeak*
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/23/2003 9:48:34 AM

Hair goes through stages of color when you strip the color -- from brown to reddish to orangish to blonde. So it sounds like you haven't stripped enough of the color to get to blonde.

Blonde dyes are typically a lot gentler than bleach/color strippers. I've bleached my hair three times in a row within the space of a week, and it left my hair feeling a bit frizzly, but nothing that conditioning couldn't fix. You might be able to get away with bleaching it again, but then you might want to wait for a few weeks. Does your hair feel dry or damaged at all? If it does, you should wait, but if it still feels the same, you'll probably be fine.

So what you need to do is pick up a box of lighteners or bleach -- not a dye color, because that's not strong enough. Then you can probably get your hair to the color you want. If it gets lighter than you want, you can just dye it to the darker color.

[trading card] 1/22/2003 11:00:00 PM

purple_stardust

 
 
madnessie
Name: Mad Nessie
User: 429785
Created: 01-04-02
Post Count: 1,845
An elusive internet-dwelling creature, the Madnessie is known for its antisocial behaviour and occasional outbursts.
Strengths: sharp tongue, sense of humour
Weakness: short attention span, foul temper
Special Skills: loafing and procrastination
Weapons: weilds magic happy plastic card
Allies: hordes of rats, alternate personalities
 
   

[dinner - leftovers] 1/23/2003 12:35:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |madly in love with mister bowie]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / dvd - the best of bowie]

Leftover steak and chedder sub. Goldfish Crackers. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[and so it goes] 1/23/2003 1:15:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |cynical]
[Current Music |dvd - the best of bowie]

It's a god-awful small affair
To the girl with the mousy hair
But her mummy is yelling "no"
And her daddy has told her to go
But her friend is nowhere to be seen
Now she walks through her sunken dream
To the seat with the clearest view
And she's hooked to the silver screen
But the film is a saddening bore
For she's lived it ten times or more
She could spit in the eyes of fools
As they ask her to focus on

Sailors fighting in the dance hall
Oh man! Look at those cavemen go
It's the freakiest show
Take a look at the Lawman
Beating up the wrong guy
Oh man! Wonder if he'll ever know
He's in the best selling show
Is there life on Mars?

---David Bowie, Life on Mars?

   

[bowie bowie bowie] 1/23/2003 10:50:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |babbling]
[Current Music |dvd - the best of bowie]

Everyone who reads this should immediately run out and buy the Best of Bowie DVD. I had forgotten how much I love this guy. Even the older footage looks great, and Bowie himself is always incredible, and it's great fun to watch the chronological transformation of the ever-changing Bowie. He looks so sweet and innocent as Ziggy Stardust, and so cheeky and cheesey in the 80's videos, and so freakin' damn-I'd-like-to-take-his-pants-off in the 90's.

Another thing I like about Bowie is, he actually sings with a British accent. It bugs me when Brits adopt that G-d awful American accent to sing, like - and I do love him but - Mick Jagger gets that freaking twang. I could hear that at the local Walmart, I don't want my pretty UK-ers doing it. And speaking of his voice, it's such a good voice for a pop singer. It makes me swoon.

And his teethhis teeth. I love . There are only three people that I can honestly say have cute canines - David Bowie, Artie Garfunkel, and Sean Evans. In fact, I think everyone should go to their orthodontist and have their teeth UN-straightened, just like Bowie's. And his eyes, and his nose... urk! And we won't even talk about the bulge lurking under that spandex, holy crap.

The truly sad thing is, if given the opportunity, I don't think I would even want to have sex with him. Fortunately, it wouldn't be neccessary. He could just talk, and I would be a puddle of gooey mush. Although strictly as a matter of curiousity, I wouldn't mind if he freed the bulge.

What was my point, again? Oh yes... go buy the
Best of Bowie DVD!

   

Comments:
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 1/23/2003 11:17:11 AM

:oD I probably will...I know it's bound to happen sooner or later...
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/23/2003 1:47:03 PM

If you like Bowie at all, you will not regret it. Yummy... :)
From: [info]jacquez
Date: 1/23/2003 12:07:30 PM

The DVD is *great*. I love the old television appearances! I had the old Bowie video collection (I gave it to [info]basingstoke when I got the DVDs) and it didn't have the TV appearances or any videos past Fame '90.

I *love* the video for I'm Afraid of Americans, which is an interesting commentary on American gun culture from an outsider's perspective, and the creepy puppets in the Outside-era videos are...well, creepy.

And you're so right about Bowie's teeth. Rowr.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/23/2003 12:45:04 PM

They ARE creepy! I'm still getting used to the post-Fame '90 tracks... they were made after I stopped watching video channels, so I hadn't seen any of them. I don't even have any of his CDs past Black Tie White Noise; I need to rectify that.

Hey! Have you found the "Easter eggs" mentioned in the Amazon reviews?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/23/2003 12:50:42 PM

PS - I also have The Video Collection on VHS, so I can ditch that, and also Labyrinth. I need to replace Ziggy Stardust: The Motion Picture, still, it's on DVD now. That only leaves Serious Moonlight and The Glass Spider on VHS, and I'm pretty sure they're not out on DVD. :(

I have to keep Glass Spider, too, even in the annoying VHS format... that was the first concert that I saw him at. It has the nostalgic value, plus he looked DAMN fine during that period.

[my blonde roots are showing] 1/23/2003 1:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |flakey]
[Current Music |dvd - the best of bowie]

Good grief. It all started because I wanted to buy the Teletubbies: Silly Songs and Funny Dances DVD for Sarah. If you'll recall, I ordered it from Amazon, canceled the order, looked all over town, came home and ordered it from Barnes & Noble. I was just looking at the DVD collection, checking to make sure that I did have Labyrinth on DVD before I got rid of the VHS copy, and found that we already have Teletubbies: Silly Songs and Funny Dances on DVD. Oops.

Hey, now I have an extra twenty bucks to spend on Ziggy Stardust: The Motion Picture! =)

   

[just so you know] 1/23/2003 1:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |silly]
[Current Music |dvd - the best of bowie]

White people really can't, as a general rule, dance. Bowie is an exception to this rule. I am the cliche. Not that I am deterred by this fact, however, when I am alone in my living room with the David Bowie videos. Of course, the dogs are staring at me like I'm retarded, but they eat out of the cats' litter box, so I am not taking their opinions too seriously.

   

[for future reference] 1/23/2003 8:30:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |drooling]
[Current Music |tv - fox news channel - the o'reilly factor]

There IS a G-d... David Bowie's Glass Spider Tour on DVD!

   

[it figures] 1/24/2003 12:25:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |befuddled]
[Current Music |tv - nick-at-night]



I took a test to find out what color line I was. Instead, I come up with a circle.
Yeah, something is wrong with this picture.

This test taken @ TheAeroZone.com, where you can take more tests than any human should.

   

[dinner - delivery from anthonys] 1/24/2003 12:45:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Steak and chedder sub w/ mustard. Mozzerella sticks. Vanilla wafers. Regular Coke.

   

Comments:
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 1/24/2003 1:33:11 AM

These posts always give me the munchies! hehe

[aerial photography - where i live] 1/24/2003 12:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |tv - nickelodeon]

I love aerial photography. I had a friend tell me once that I should BE an aerial photographer because I'm small enough to fit in the little photographer's space in the plane. I never looked into it, although when I worked on the survey crew, I got to lay fly points with Rusty.






This is the town of Martinsburg. It sucks.


This is the downtown area of Martinsburg. It also sucks. The red X marks my house. On the corner to the north-west of my house, is Anthony's, and to the far west you can see the old Round House (it's a train station). I don't know what the rest of that crap is.


This is a close-up of my house. See my big yard? At the end of the block you can see our synagogue (Beth Jacob)... it is pretty much defunct and has no rabbi, but it IS a synagogue. It looks like it would be really pretty inside.


This is the neighbourhood where I grew up; the red X marks my father's house. The large circular area in the top left is a massive cemetary, built on a huge hill. When I was a kid, we used to go up there to watch fireworks.


Here is a close-up of Dwight's house... I will get this house if he ever dies. He has a big yard too, and I plan to yank out his precious garden and put in a goldfish pond. The trapezoid-shaped area to the left is a small park.

Aerial photographs provided by TerraServer.
   

[general hospital] 1/24/2003 3:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |annoyed]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

Will the who-killed-Alcazar storyline EVER end? He's dead. Who cares. Get over it. Bah.

   

[like a crow with a credit card] 1/24/2003 4:10:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |happy]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Found on Ebay: a Jewish traveler's prayer pendant/amulet. Ooohh, shiny...

   

[just out of curiousity...] 1/24/2003 7:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |curious]
[Current Music |dvd - teletubbies - baby animals]

Is it illegal to send urine through the US postal service? More specifically, would it be illegal to urinate on a piece of mail and then return it to the original sender?

[Edit] From the USPS website:

The following items are NOT acceptable for transport UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES:
* Medical samples (e.g. diagnostic specimens, blood, urine, bodily fluids, tissue samples)


So is peeing on something for non-medical purposes okay?

Of course, the site also lists jewelry, cash, and most money orders as being prohibited, and I know people send those things on a regular basis.

   

Comments:
From: [info]astralweeks
Date: 1/24/2003 6:24:10 PM

I don't even want to know the conversation (or train of thought) that led up to this...
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 1/24/2003 7:41:40 PM

I wouldn't do it. Innocent postal people will be handling the mail.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/24/2003 8:07:28 PM

Ewww, no... it would be dry and well-wrapped. You would have to open it to touch anything gross. *gak*
From: [info]catmoran
Date: 1/24/2003 8:55:55 PM

Re:

Oh, well then... go for it. Although I'd just go the dead flower route, myself.

[gip] 1/24/2003 10:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |now with more purpley goodness in every bite]
[Current Music |pc - photoshop / tv - pbs - steeley dan concert]

I updated my LJ userpics. Some are new. Some are just improved. All contain purple.

   

Comments:
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 1/25/2003 9:59:12 AM

My dad laughed at me the other day because I'd been explaining the new DSL connection to him, all techie-like, then the modem came in the post and I screamed, "Yaaaay, it's PURPLE!" From one extreme to the other...

The rattie icons are so sweet, especially the Zootie one, because he looks like he's sitting listening in to a conversation!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/25/2003 11:57:42 AM

LOL! A purple modem would be WAY cool. When I had the Gateway, I had a purple CD-burner...

(that poor dog, I crack up every time I see that picture)
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 1/27/2003 4:48:22 PM

Re:

I got some purple CD-Rs a few weeks ago, they were expensive but very pretty!

Poor Jessie-dog, she loves the attention reall, and I've stolen her special idiot-crown now, to wear while I'm using my webcam!

[for my own reference] 1/24/2003 11:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |tv - pbs - steeley dan concert]

Cat Age Calculator: http://www.hhforcats.org/calculator/calculator.asp!

   

[dinner - green giant] 1/25/2003 12:25:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |narfy]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Pasta alfredo with broccoli. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[egad] 1/25/2003 11:05:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |appalled]
[Current Music |tv - vh1 - video countdaown]

What the hell happened to Rob Thomas??? He used to be pretty cute and now... yuck. He looks like a really ugly woman, or something. Too thin, too much makeup... something. It's not good.

   

[monkey love] 1/25/2003 3:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |green with envy]
[Current Music |tv - vh1 - celebrity pets unleashed]

I will probably sound like a pervert when I say: I want Jacob Underwood's monkey.

   

[so bored] 1/25/2003 4:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |boredboredboredboredbored]
[Current Music |tv - vh1 - celebrity breakups]

I spent the day working on graphics for the not-yet-live new version of the rattery website. I should really go through and make all the photos uniform (same width, same font, etcetera), but I don't know if I will ever feel that industrious. It works for now, but it would look a lot nicer (and satisfy my anal tendancies) if all of the photographs were more uniform.

   

[stay tuned] 1/25/2003 11:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |accomplished]
[Current Music |pc - photoshop / tv - tlc - trading spaces]

I did it! I made all the rat photos the same size. A few of the older rats' text is still in Cricket, but most of the newer ones are done in a better font. I *think* I have all the graphics in order for the new version of the website; now all I have to do is lay out the pages and upload them. I was a bit brighter this time, and made a template, so it should go quickly, and appear a lot more uniform in the end. It won't be a tremendous change, but I think it will look a lot nicer.

   

[note to self] 1/25/2003 11:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |fuzzy-brained]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

I need to read back over my friends page in the morning. I skimmed it this evening, and some of the posts looked interesting, but my brain is still fried from Photoshop overload, and now I just want to sit here and vegitate with my yummy dinner and mindless television. Wheeeee.

   

[dinner - delivery from anthonys] 1/26/2003 12:35:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |friggen starving]
[Current Music |tv - nick-at-nite]

Steak and chedder sub w/ mustard. Mozzerella sticks. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[whooo wah] 1/26/2003 1:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |dvd - the best of bowie]

Judging from the red spandex bulge in the Rebel Rebel video, David Bowie appears to be circumsised! Not that I am staring at Bowie's bulge, or something.

   

Comments:
From: [info]wampithesilver
Date: 1/26/2003 2:13:43 PM

lol!
From: [info]instantclarity
Date: 1/26/2003 2:49:56 PM

LOL! You are a sick woman! [And he is a sick man for wearing something SO tight as to reveal the answer to "cut or uncut!"]
From: [info]jacquez
Date: 1/26/2003 7:46:25 PM

you? stare at bowie's bulge?

never.

not you.

[i am webmaster, hear me roar] 1/26/2003 7:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |damn proud of myself]
[Current Music |tv - stupid superbowl]

The new version of the Ziggabella Rattery website is now up! What I've done:

* Re-did the colour scheme... new and better shades of purple!
* Re-did the title graphics seen at the tops of the individual pages.
* Re-did page layout and re-sized the rat photos so that all are uniform.
* Updated rat, remembrance, and nursery pages; added the new rat photos.
* Added rat book reviews, a new wallpaper, and a cute little text hit counter.
* Switched from re-directing to Geocities to being fully-hosted by Dreamhost.com!

I still need to work on my prices and policies page, and make a rat care page, but this is good.

   

Comments:
From: [info]copperpoint
Date: 1/26/2003 11:04:54 PM

Yay! No more pop-ups! And cute new rats too!

[bored] 1/26/2003 8:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |bored bored bored]
[Current Music |tv - stupid superbowl]

Now that I am done working on the website, I don't know what to do... I could work on the rat care or policy pages, make bracelets with my new beads, or start on Sarah's website. I think I will play a game, instead. My brain might explode if I try to use it more than once per day.

   

[a preview] 1/26/2003 10:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |creative]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Coming soon... Sarah's Website!

*** this is a semi-filtered post ***
   

[dinner - leftovers] 1/27/2003 12:05:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired and hungry]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Leftover steak and chedder sub. Cottage cheese w/ salad toppings. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[okay, i have to ask...] 1/27/2003 11:00:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |curious]
[Current Music |tv - abc stuff]

Jonah, who are all these anonymous people that keep posting in your journal lately?

*** this is a private post ***
   

[mail call] 1/27/2003 11:50:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |easily amused]
[Current Music |tv - nickelodeon]

Today was a good mail day; I got the amethyst "power beads" bracelet that I ordered. The ad copy says that amethyst Calms the mind and dissolves anxiety. Raises your vibration to a level of peacefulness and provides clear communication with the divine. ...Somehow I doubt it will do all that, but it IS purple! Of course, if it did do those things, I wouldn't object.

   

[meowmi] 1/27/2003 7:35:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |tv - abc - jeopardy]

   

[dinner - delivery from anthonys] 1/28/2003 1:25:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused with my game]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Calzone with pepperoni (egad). Mozzerella sticks. Reese's Cups. Diet Pepsi.

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 1/28/2003 5:32:58 PM

yum. calzones. =o)

[skipping well ahead] 1/28/2003 12:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |contemplative]
[Current Music |tv - nickelodeon]

My daughter is clearly a superior baby. She is only two years old, but already she can count to 13 (before skipping ahead to 17), and she knows all the letters of the alphabet, and all the shapes and colours. I have no doubt that she will be reading well before kindergarden.

The problem is: what to do with her. Obviously, I can't send her to Catholic school, like I did with the boys. The education is superior to the public school system here, but I have *issues* with Saint Joseph's, and I want to raise her strictly Jewish anyway. There is a really good non-religious private school in this area too, but I think it's well out of our price range. The public schools here suck; I tried them briefly with my older son before I gave up and sent him to the nuns. If I send her to public school, her education will have to be heavily supplemented at home. The last option is home-schooling, which I would be willing to do, but I'm not sure I have the neccessary faculties at this point, much less the patience, to attempt such a thing. Hmmm...

   

Comments:
From: [info]angel_renewed
Date: 1/28/2003 12:31:58 PM

Thoughts

I went to Catholic school as a Jewish/non-religious kid and didn't have a problem. There were lots of Jewish/Muslim kids there, actually. Maybe where you are is different, but if the school teaches 'religion' as opposed to stricty 'Catholicism' that might not be so bad. Are there any Jewish day schools where you are? Even fairly small towns often have one. Regardless, it may be easier to supplement her religious education than to supplement her public-school education.

As for non-religious private schools, you could always try financial aid. I certainly was on it at my private school.

I'm actually against homeschooling in most cases. I think that most parents who homeschool their kids aren't prepared to do all the work necessary to be a teacher (as a former teacher I know how much that is), plus supplement the child's education with the necessary socialization. Homeschooling is the realm of the ultra-religious right and anti-government wackos and a few elitist snobs.

Just my random thoughts.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/28/2003 12:59:41 PM

Re: Thoughts

I also went to Catholic school, even though my family wasn't Catholic. Saint Joseph's teaches religion, and while it wasn't just Catholic (though they do take the kids to mass on a regular basis), but it was definately Christian. Obviously it didn't "take" with me, but I would prefer to not confuse her. The other thing is, and I know it sounds trivial, but there is a five-foot-tall crusafix hanging in the stairwell there now, and as you go up the stairs, you're eye-level with his crotch, and damn that thing creeps me out!

The synagogue that I go to has a school, but I am not sure if it's an all-the-time school, or the equivelant to Sunday school. I will have to look into that... I will also check into the financial aid for Country Day. They have such a fabu curriculum (French for kindergardeners!), I would love to send her there, if we could swing it.

I tend to agree with you as far as homeschooling, and most peopel that I know who've tried it, eventually gave up. Also, we would have to join some sort of social group for hs-ers, as we have no friends with kids. I like the *idea* of it (control freak that I am), but I'm definately not sure that it's practical for us.

Thanks for your input!
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 1/28/2003 9:16:22 PM

I know what you mean...I've mulled it over quite a bit, and I still don't know.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/28/2003 9:32:25 PM

Me either. :\

Of course, I think we *are* getting a bit ahead of ourselves... we were discussing this evening whether she should go to Princeton or USNA. We might want to wait until she's potty-trained to make the final decision.
From: [info]cellio
Date: 1/29/2003 10:57:02 AM

How large is the Jewish community where you are? If it's not tiny, I'd bet there's a Jewish day school tucked away somewhere. Your synagogue should be able to give you information. If they can't, call the nearest Orthodox shul and ask where they send their kids.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/29/2003 11:20:37 AM

It's not tiny; it's non-existant. The synagogue that I go to (Reform) is 30 miles away, and there is no Orthodox shul at all. :(

You wouldn't believe how not Jewish this place is. The only kippah that I have ever seen in this town, is the one that I bought for Rusty to wear. There is no bakery, and kosher meat is out of the question, save an occasional package of Hebrew National franks. In my 33 years here, I have talked to a grand total of TWO people who were Jewish. It sucks, I tell you.

The Reform synagogue has some sort of school; I will have to ask if it's a full-time school or not. What do you mean by "day school"? Would that be like a regular school, or like sunday school?
From: [info]cellio
Date: 1/29/2003 12:28:35 PM

"Day school" means all-day school, a replacement for public school. Many congregations have supplementary programs, usually Sunday mornings plus 1-2 days after regular school. I would guess that this is what the Reform shul has. Most congregations don't have full-day curricula, because they're too small to have the necessary student base.

Good luck.

[because dead rats are sooo sexy] 1/28/2003 7:30:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |i have a headache]
[Current Music |dvd - wallace and gromit]

I recieved this email today:

This was sent on behalf of someone you know who likes you.

Hello-
You've waited so long, your crush may be in someone else's arms by now.
Now quit slacking and find out who it is.
Best Wishes,
The SomeoneLikesYou Matchmaker


This wouldn't be particularly odd, except the email was addressed to brutus@ziggabella.com. Brutus, if you recall, was a rat. Now he's a dead rat. And I thought *I* had weird taste in guys.

Idiots.

   

Comments:
From: [info]pinkteabag
Date: 1/28/2003 7:46:09 PM

LMAO

[dinner - green giant] 1/29/2003 12:45:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Pasta alfredo with broccoli. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[hiv] 1/29/2003 11:50:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |saddened]
[Current Music |tv - abc stuff]



A friend of mine recently met the guy of her dreams - funny, smart, all of that stuff that makes a girl's heart go pitter patter. They had gone out for a few times, and then he broke the news to her that he was HIV-positive. He wasn't homosexual, and he wasn't a drug-user... he was someone who had simply trusted an ex-girlfriend. Now what probably would have been a lovely romance, will be a romance filled with waiting for the inevitable end. So sad. So stupid.

I have wondered, in the course of listening to my friend tell her story, why HIV/AIDs is such a touchy subject for me. To the best of my knowlege, I have never even known anyone who was HIV-positive, but yet it's the only human-related cause that I feel really strongly about. I think I've figured it out - because there is no reason why *I* shouldn't have it. I was sexually stupid for years; so stupid that I won't even tell you how stupid I was, but suffice it to say that it's a bloody wonder that I don't have the AIDs virus or at least 27 kids. I did stupid things with stupid people, and all because they "looked" healthy, or I thought I "knew" them.

This guy did the same thing, except now he's HIV-positive.
   

Comments:
From: [info]grimkitten_
Date: 1/29/2003 11:54:57 AM

How sad. It freaks me out too. I've definitely had my sexually stupid phase too, lucky that I didn't get anything either.
From: [info]topi
Date: 1/29/2003 1:29:12 PM

"A friend of mine recently met the guy of her dreams - funny, smart, all of that stuff that makes a girl's heart go pitter patter. They had gone out for a few times, and then he broke the news to her that he was HIV-positive."

In my eyes your friend is a victim here. It is unfortunate that her friend has HIV, but it is criminal bad taste for him to not have made this known before she "fell" for him to a degree. Now she's in a Jerry Springer romance. I would be so angry.

Yosef
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/29/2003 1:53:26 PM

I just disagree with you here. While most people who contract HIV will eventually develop AIDS and die from it, medications (for those who can afford them, anyway) are becoming better and better at controlling the disease, and people can live many many years AIDS - and symptom - free. It's not an instant death sentence, and with safety precautions people can still have a fulfilling sex life. The relationship could end YEARS before the person with HIV even gets sick.

Should people have to tell each other about every disease they have before they start dating?

AIDS is of course in a different category than many diseases, just because of its nature, but how many dates don't turn out well at all? I just don't see that someone needs to disclose that information to every potential date -- I think it only needs to be told if the relationship is starting to get a little bit past the "hello what's your name" stage.

But that's just what I think.

(Though I agree that it's pretty sad and tragic anyway. And also that someone who DIDN'T EVER tell their partner this was doing something seriously wrong.)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/29/2003 2:15:57 PM

I don't know *when* you would tell someone that. For the record, their relationship started out pretty casually (they're co-workers), and they had only gone out a few times when he told her. It would be hard to know when is the right time. Of course you'd want to tell someone before they "fell" for you, but that's a lot to assume on the first date! "I know this is our first cup of coffee, but just in case you might fall in love with me, you should know that I'm HIV-positive." I just don't know. :\
From: [info]thanny
Date: 1/29/2003 3:36:49 PM

christ that is sad. about the 'well he looks clean' kinda thinking...

that reminds me of my best friend in college-- one of the most smart, opinionated, independent women i knew at the time, but she would use that line constantly. never mind that she knew her 'boyfriends' were druggies or sleeping around. 'oh he's clean-- he looks clean. i just know'. it would turn my stomach.

personally, i thought she said it a lot to reassure herself, bury herself further in denial.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/29/2003 4:45:29 PM

Yeah. The really sad thing is, your friend isn't alone, and I'm not alone - people use that rationalisation every day. It's that old "it will never happen to ME" mentality, that I think we all have a little of. :(
From: [info]thanny
Date: 1/29/2003 6:02:52 PM

Re:

hehe yeah. luckily (??), i'm a complete paranoid hypochondriac, so i am not a part of that. I AM CONVINCED IF IT IS BAD AND CONTAGIOUS, IT WILL HAPPEN TO ME!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/29/2003 6:13:17 PM

LOL! Ya know, that's probably a really good way to be at this point!
From: [info]tues
Date: 1/29/2003 4:12:43 PM

I continue to be "sexually stupid", and yet all of a sudden I have this tremendous will to live. HIV/AIDS didn't use to phase me, but now I realize the infection that is destroying humanity. now this virus scares me more than anything else.
I am acquainted with a man whom I am afraid to befriend. he WAS a bugchaser, and has therefore condemned himself to death. I can't become attatched to someone with such a close death sentence. sometimes it's too much to think about, and I just break down.
thanks for spreading the banner.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/29/2003 4:34:27 PM

I can't even say that I have a tremendous will to live, but I definately have a tremendous desire to not get sick! I saw 'Philadelphia', and I don't know how accurate it was, but it scared the bejeezus outta me. :(

Has your friend been tested? Because that was one of the biggest moments of relief for me, when I was pregnant with my daughter they tested for HIV (as well as a billion other things), and I was clean. I would recommend that anyone who's been "stupid" to get tested, and then if you're clean, do whatever you can to STAY clean. It really is a good thing, to know that you're safe, and unless you go back to doing stupid things, you're always going to be safe from this awful thing! Yeah, condoms are a pain in the arse, but they're WAY more fun than dropping dead.

Thank *you* for posting the banner! It was amazing timing on your part, because my friend had just told me her news a few days ago, so it was already on my mind.

[cedar-smelling nostalgia] 1/29/2003 2:00:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

I was telling Laurie about a quilt I made some time ago, and felt compelled to drag it out of the shed to look at it again. It was 99" x 99" and made out of squares of fabric that had some relevance to me at the time: band tee-shirts, my own and my kids' baby blankets, a boyfriend's shirt, etcetera. The other squares were painted with band names, quotes, pictures I drew, and song lyrics. I don't use it anymore because it is so dated, but it still amuses me.





This is the front, or at least, as much as would fit on my sofa.


This was a tee-shirt that I had. I still love Pink Floyd.


This is a great example of how dated the quilt is.


States I'd been to at the time. I can't believe I drew the whole damn country!


My car at the time. I loved that car. I can't believe I drew a car!


Bands that I liked at the time, and Mozart. I'm such a dork.


This is the back of the quilt.
   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/29/2003 2:10:08 PM

I can't believe that you quilted it on both sides!!!

Pretty cool. It's like a time machine!
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/29/2003 2:22:10 PM

I can't believe I did either!!! =D
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 1/29/2003 2:34:45 PM

Wow and it's sooo huge...and looks so comfy & inviting...I just want to flop right down in the middle of it. It's cool though; I never heard of anyone making a band quilt. A friend of mine from college would have loved that thing.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/29/2003 4:50:24 PM

It IS pretty comfy, I'm glad I dragged it back out!

I think the idea was formed when I found a piece of my baby blanket and wanted to keep it. It seemed like a good way to use the boys' recieving blankets too, and old tee-shirts - and then it just grew (so to speak) from there. It's kinda like a big fabric scrapbook. :)
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 1/29/2003 5:37:25 PM

What a great quilt! I love it. I admire anyone who can do quilting. I can't even "darn my socks". :)

[for my own reference] 1/29/2003 2:25:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

http://www.worldofpets.org/

   

[zzzzz] 1/29/2003 2:40:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

I would really like to make a macrame bracelet, but I think I would like to take a nap, more.

   

[bah] 1/29/2003 4:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |blah blah blah]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Well, the nap didn't "take" and now I'm back. That quilt is really warm, I found out, as it was the closest blanket handy. I may have to put it back on the bed; it's been so cold lately.

Mazel Tov died, and I don't know why. He's been acting funny since I brought him home, but I don't know if he was sick when I got him or if he got sick here. I swear this tank is cursed. The only fish that stays alive in there is mean old Simon, and that retarded catfish. I've thought about just draining the water and starting over, but I've got nothing to do with Simon in the meantime. I don't know what to do, except just give up trying to keep goldfish altogether. :(

I'm getting a headache.

   

Comments:
From: [info]allmyvoices
Date: 1/29/2003 5:30:54 PM

I had 2 fish that lived for a few years then about 25 that kept dying within days. I think half of them are sick when we buy them.

From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 1/29/2003 7:01:37 PM

Poor Mazel Tov... My big tank is like that, Marr is the only fush who seems able to live in there, he seems very lonely but I'm scared to put another fish in there in case they both end up dead.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/29/2003 8:48:47 PM

I wonder what causes it...? I feel so bad for Simon, being all alone. :(
From: [info]paraxeni
Date: 1/30/2003 9:18:48 AM

Same here.. I play little games with Marr, but I know it isn't the same as having a live-in buddy. :(

[get off me cheese!] 1/29/2003 6:20:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |amused]
[Current Music |dvd - wallace and gromit]

My daughter loves Wallace and Gromit. I told you she was smart! :D

   

[a random thought] 1/29/2003 8:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |distressed]
[Current Music |tv - fox news channel - the o'reilly factor]

Clearly, my life would be much better if my clipboard were clear purple instead of clear red. Why IS my clipboard red, anyway? I do not like the colour red. Oh wait. This clipboard was purchased during my vampire phase. I was writing a novel called 'Bloodletting'. Red clipboards work fine for writing vampire stories. To make purple macrame bracelets, however, one really needs a purple clipboard. And now you know.

   

Comments:
From: [info]muridae
Date: 1/29/2003 10:21:00 PM

You know I love you -- but you are a deeply strange woman. :D

(I say, pretending as though I wouldn't do the exact same thing.)
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/29/2003 10:26:58 PM

It's part of my charm, remember? =)

::: already planning a trip to Target :::

[csi: renee] 1/29/2003 10:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |poopy]
[Current Music |tv - msnbc stuff]

Anyone care to speculate on what happened to Laci Peterson, and her husband's involvement?

I should point out, I have a sick fascination with murder cases. I always like to decide who I think did it and why, or at least decide whether the main suspect is guilty or innocent, and then see if I'm right. I'm usually not, according to the courts, though I like to imagine that I'm still right. For example, OJ Simpson - guilty. Patsy Ramsey - guilty. I also think that Gary Condit is still behind Chandra Levy's murder, even if he didn't do it himself. Anyway.

That being said, I don't think Scott Peterson had anything to do with it. I know the evidence is well stacked against him, but I'm saying he's innocent. I'm thinking she may still be alive, and is teaching him a lesson for having an affair. Remember, you heard it here first.

   

Comments:
From: [info]jacquez
Date: 1/30/2003 9:54:21 AM

I guess the thing is - if she is, why is she torturing her family? Or do you think that they are involved, too?
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/31/2003 8:36:46 PM

That's true... I guess my theory is based on the old 'hell hath no fury...' addage. You're right though, I would hope she wouldn't be that cruel to her parents and brother. And I guess it's possible that she's alive and being held somewhere, though it seems unlikely that they would keep her for over a month without asking for ransom.

Do you think he killed her?
From: [info]jacquez
Date: 1/31/2003 8:47:44 PM

I don't know. I thought he might have, but did you see this article?

http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2002/12/31/national/main534801.shtml
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/31/2003 9:51:28 PM

VERY interesting... the reason *I* don't think he killed her (other than gut instinct and the fact that his pupils remain dilated when he speaks about her) is because he seems a lot smarter than that. I mean, the neighbour saw him carrying something out to his truck in a tarp, there were bags of cement in his shed - surely he would have had sense not to do anything that dumb, if he had something to hide. I would hope. :\

[dinner - delivery from anthonys] 1/29/2003 11:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - msnbc]

Steak and chedder sub w/ mustard. Mozzerella sticks. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[all i wanna do is hire a decent songwriter] 1/30/2003 1:15:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |tired]
[Current Music |tv - abc soaps]

I went to the bank, yadda yadda yadda. I wasn't in the mood to go to Petsmart or Target, will have to do that that later. I still need catfood, ratfood, and a purple clipboard.

Anyway. I found a box of cassette tapes this morning, and decided to listen to one of them on the drive to and from the bank. The tape that I picked turned out to be angsty chick music, I think that I taped from my Jamie's CDs. Wow. The most annoying song on the tape was one by Heart, the song where the chick picks up a hitchhiker to impregnate her. Yeah.

It was a rainy night when he came into sight,
Standing by the road, no umbrella, no coat.


No job, probably, but that's okay because she only wants him for his seed.

He brought the woman out of me, so many times, easily.

Umm, gross. Harlequin-esque allegory, how attractive.

I told him "I am the flower, you are the seed.
We walked in the garden, we planted a tree."


I've been pregnant several times now, and I still don't know what the hell she's talking about.

Then it happened one day, we came round the same way
You can imagine his surprise when he saw his own eyes.


I can't imagine that this scruffy guy who has no car and randomly sleeps with women who pick him up along the road, remembers her, much less recognises his own genetic makeup in some kid that he had no idea even existed. And where the hell did she see him? It sounds like she and the kid were driving along the same road where she first picked him up - are we supposed to believe that this guy sees the kid, in the car, from the road, and figures this all out?

I said "please, please understand I'm in love with another man,
And what he couldn't give me was the one little thing that you can."


Let's think about this. Does this other man not know that he's infertile? The only way that I know to find that out, is through testing his sperm count, and that would be a bit difficult to do without his knowledge. If he DOES know that he's infertile, doesn't he think it's a little odd that his woman goes for a drive and comes home knocked up???

Yeah, I know, it's just a song. But it's a STUPID song.

   

Comments:
From: [info]angel_renewed
Date: 1/30/2003 2:11:10 PM

Ya know

I've always been bothered by that song. It just seems kinda sleezy. I'm sure the Rebbe would not approve. Sorry, I'm on a 'mess with the Hasidim' kind of day. They made our flight to Israel....less than comfortable.
From: [info]artmomz
Date: 1/30/2003 9:39:31 PM

I don't think I've ever heard that song...but maybe I did & just didn't know better...or maybe I did & I just *blocked* it out. It sounds disturbing; and it kind of sounds like a Springer episode.

[for my own reference] 1/30/2003 10:45:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |crafty]
[Current Music |tv - nbc - er]

A future project: kiddush cup charms!

   

[dinner - delivery from anthonys] 1/31/2003 12:25:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |i am a zombie, koo koo kachoo]
[Current Music |rom - shining force 2 / tv - nick-at-nite]

Steak and chedder sub w/ mustard. Mozzerella sticks. Reese's Cups. Regular Coke.

   

[alas, i have no mantra] 1/31/2003 11:05:00 AM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |purple]
[Current Music |tv - abc stuff]

This amethyst mala makes me wish I were a Buddhist. Oooh, pretty beads...

   

[more goodies from the beadbox] 1/31/2003 4:05:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |purple]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

I've been to the Beadbox again. This time I ordered Swarovski crystal beads in dark amethyst, light amethyst, and tanzanite colours, as well as more seed beads, a purple cloisonne star bead, and the findings and charms to make a set of kiddush cup charms. Pretty!

   

Comments:
From: [info]mysticpenguin
Date: 1/31/2003 4:49:44 PM

Guh. ::salivates:: I have to get a job. I left all of my stone chips back in Dayton, and these are just too tempting.
From: [info]purple_stardust
Date: 1/31/2003 5:15:00 PM

Aren't they pretty??? The beads that I ordered from them before were really nice too. They cast a bit more, but the selsection is WAY better than Fire Mountain Gems. Just one word of warning if you do ever order from them: go by the description of the colour, rather than their photos - a lot of them are way off, at least on my monitor. :)

[today] 1/31/2003 4:55:00 PM

purple_stardust
[Current Mood |anxious]
[Current Music |tv - tlc - trading spaces]

Egad, I just realised that I haven't checked my friends page all day!

Come to think of it, I didn't do anything today, except shop for beads. Oh, and I cleaned all the old pictures off of my camera card - there were pictures as far back as Halloween on there! I wanted it empty, as we're supposed to go to a pet expo tomorrow with Sandy. There is going to be a petting zoo, so I want to take pictures of Sarah with the animals, she'll love that.

Of course, whether we go at all depends on whether Rusty can take off work tomorrow, and if the roads are okay. It was snowing today, and I'm afraid that they might freeze. Speaking of him, I wish he would come home now; I hate having the car (and him!) out if the roads might be bad. I need to get more catfood, too, and even if I can't drive to a "real" store, I could walk over to our sorry excuse for the neighbourhood store. I could walk over now, but I'd rather wait for Rusty, so that he can watch the baby. Yes, I'm babbling.

Oh hells bells, I drank way too much coffee today. And I still need to play catch-up with my friends page. And I need to feed the fish and take care of the rats. But first I have to pee.